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By *coupleoforanges OP Couple
over a year ago
Edinburgh / Stirlingshire / Glasgow-ish |
This has been something that's been on my mind a fair bit.
How many of you folk are "out" to your friends about your swinging endeavours?
I know a lot of people keep this side of themselves private. Just curious, if some have accepting friends that they share experiences with.
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"This has been something that's been on my mind a fair bit.
How many of you folk are "out" to your friends about your swinging endeavours?
I know a lot of people keep this side of themselves private. Just curious, if some have accepting friends that they share experiences with.
Vixen"
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By *coupleoforanges OP Couple
over a year ago
Edinburgh / Stirlingshire / Glasgow-ish |
Not necessarily meaning sharing the details. Been on my mind because when one of friends was meeting she would check in with me and others. More of a safety check in rather than a kiss and tell. I know there is always a risk meeting people more so when flying solo. |
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"Not necessarily meaning sharing the details. Been on my mind because when one of friends was meeting she would check in with me and others. More of a safety check in rather than a kiss and tell. I know there is always a risk meeting people more so when flying solo."
Aye that makes sense. When I was meeting before I had a couple of friends on here that I would check in with so I didn’t really have to worry about telling other friends. The only reason other friends knew was they wondered why I’d been secret squirrel and then I got d*unk and told them hahaha |
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By *coupleoforanges OP Couple
over a year ago
Edinburgh / Stirlingshire / Glasgow-ish |
"Not necessarily meaning sharing the details. Been on my mind because when one of friends was meeting she would check in with me and others. More of a safety check in rather than a kiss and tell. I know there is always a risk meeting people more so when flying solo.
Aye that makes sense. When I was meeting before I had a couple of friends on here that I would check in with so I didn’t really have to worry about telling other friends. The only reason other friends knew was they wondered why I’d been secret squirrel and then I got d*unk and told them hahaha"
Oh gosh that must of been an interesting night.
We are out to some of our closest friends. Wolf has a solo profile so just incase he got spotted on a social on his own and it's obvious that it's going "well".??
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"Not necessarily meaning sharing the details. Been on my mind because when one of friends was meeting she would check in with me and others. More of a safety check in rather than a kiss and tell. I know there is always a risk meeting people more so when flying solo.
Aye that makes sense. When I was meeting before I had a couple of friends on here that I would check in with so I didn’t really have to worry about telling other friends. The only reason other friends knew was they wondered why I’d been secret squirrel and then I got d*unk and told them hahaha
Oh gosh that must of been an interesting night.
We are out to some of our closest friends. Wolf has a solo profile so just incase he got spotted on a social on his own and it's obvious that it's going "well".??
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They thought it was hilarious and always asked for updates on the sexscapades hahaha. I’ve been living like a nun for what feels like forever though. |
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By *coupleoforanges OP Couple
over a year ago
Edinburgh / Stirlingshire / Glasgow-ish |
"I have a couple friends and colleagues that know I’m on here which means I can let someone know where I’m going as a safety net for meets. "
That's great to have I use life 360 with my friend so I can check in if I haven't heard from her in a while.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never felt the need to tell anyone about it.
Hence the reason I don’t do social media. Facebook etc is the devils work……anyone close to me knows exactly what I’m all about, hence the reason they’re close  |
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By *coupleoforanges OP Couple
over a year ago
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Hence the reason I don’t do social media. Facebook etc is the devils work……"
Facebook doesn't really come in to telling your friends unless you're a crazy person that posts screenshots online.
Technically Fab is a form of social media you can "fab" peoples pictures, message people and take part in discussions etc. |
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Some of our vanilla friends know.
But what’s best for us is the amount of friends we’ve made FROM Fab - truly liberating when you can enjoy open conversations about your naughty antics (or lack of them recently). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would love to be super open about being on here to people but it's just not socially acceptable for some reason, yet if you're on tinder getting a shag then it is. 
Planet Earth is a fickle place  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not necessarily meaning sharing the details. Been on my mind because when one of friends was meeting she would check in with me and others. More of a safety check in rather than a kiss and tell. I know there is always a risk meeting people more so when flying solo."
This is exactly one of the reasons when I first joined even on a pof date someone always knew where I was, I’m not wired to be able to lie I can’t keep other peoples secrets I’m very loyal that way often to a fault but when it comes to me personally I struggle to lie about what I’m doing or where I’m going, thanks to my ex being a total arsehole my kids now pretty much know everything and they’re actually really pretty cool with it but then I’m not a true swinger in the sense, a quick read of my profile fills in the gaps, but I’ve always been someone who encourages inclusivity, accepting people and trying not to judge anyone and I think the majority of people I choose to surround myself with are of the same mindset. At the beginning some were more worried than anything and they had preconceived ideas about the people I’d meet then some of them even got curious and have dabbled themselves  no one knows your friends better than you so it really is a personal choice in how much or how little you wish to share x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would love to be super open about being on here to people but it's just not socially acceptable for some reason, yet if you're on tinder getting a shag then it is.
Planet Earth is a fickle place "
THIS
It’s ok to go out get hammered and go home with a random but not ok to chat go for coffee get to know someone and then meet for a shag or low and behold become friends with them lol society is fucked uo on what they judge people for |
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By *mmixtapeCouple
over a year ago
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Yeah all of our friends know that we are open, not all of them know the specifics, and fewer know the extextent of what we are into. Our families also know that we are in an open relationship and that we have "other partners" and again that's all they will get to know. |
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By *ookie69Man
over a year ago
Whistle Dixie |
"This has been something that's been on my mind a fair bit.
How many of you folk are "out" to your friends about your swinging endeavours?
I know a lot of people keep this side of themselves private. Just curious, if some have accepting friends that they share experiences with.
VixenMy sex life is exactly that MY sex life "
My rhoughts too. |
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By *coupleoforanges OP Couple
over a year ago
Edinburgh / Stirlingshire / Glasgow-ish |
"A small select group of friends are aware but thats really it. I dont see the point in advertising it, its my business not theirs."
That's fair. Again not meaning kiss and tell to every person or being out and proud to anyone who crosses your path. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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None of my friends know and it's staying that way. I think one of them would be ok about it but she would worry so it's best not to say anything really. Discretion is important to me x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm quite open with my closest pals. Generally tell one or two if I'm meeting someone new for safety reasons. I've got a good, non-judgemental group of friends who I'll tell little tid bits too, keep most to myself though. But that's just me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am very open with freinds and family, I have nothing to hide.
I don't discuss when I have sex, but I don't hide from the Fact I am a swinger, I also have boundaries particularly with non swinging male freinds. |
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We we're suppose to keep it secret but Mrs told her pals at a party years back and one of them blabbed to everyone so now everyone knows.
Tbh we don't care as long as it doesn't come back on our kids then as far as were concerned its nobodys business but ours
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