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"I agree completely. I've pretty much given up trying to get a meet now so just browse the site." snap. | |||
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"I agree completely. I've pretty much given up trying to get a meet now so just browse the site." We agree to. Lots of folk just onto chat or look at pics, doesn't seem to be many who actually want to meet. | |||
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"I know someone who has knocked roughly 15y off their age but admin find it fine. ." In fairness to admin... how would they be able to prove they were a different age? Im sure Admin wont find it 'fine' but if they could see proof of this then im sure we could trust them to do something. I say, you say, he says isnt proof I guess. XX | |||
"I know someone who has knocked roughly 15y off their age but admin find it fine. . In fairness to admin... how would they be able to prove they were a different age? Im sure Admin wont find it 'fine' but if they could see proof of this then im sure we could trust them to do something. I say, you say, he says isnt proof I guess. XX " I figured the fact he has different ages on all his profiles across other fabsites would be proof to back up what I actually know but seems its not. | |||
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"I know someone who has knocked roughly 15y off their age but admin find it fine. . In fairness to admin... how would they be able to prove they were a different age? Im sure Admin wont find it 'fine' but if they could see proof of this then im sure we could trust them to do something. I say, you say, he says isnt proof I guess. XX I figured the fact he has different ages on all his profiles across other fabsites would be proof to back up what I actually know but seems its not." At the end of the day.... this is the 'internet'. People should make their own decisions on who people are, not trust a web sites admin to 'police' peoples preferences or profile statements. People can be who they want to be on here (and other adult sites)... same as people have fake female profiles. You have to use your own due diligence when contacting people. | |||
"Its hardly surprising some people dont get meets , have u sat in chat and watched the way some folks approach others , I think if ur not having meets or mails answered its about time you look at your own approach and critically look at the mail you send out , in most cases its down to the individual rather than putting the blame on folks not meeting , just my tuppenceworth . Happy swinging all "I agree with ya here Loz! 
Some of the long messages I get just look like 'copy & paste' jobs so I just delete em lol xx | |||
"Some of the long messages I get just look like 'copy & paste' jobs so I just delete em lol xx" I actually had one recently with another username attached. Started Dear XXXXXX instead of my username so it was clear they were just spamming a prepared message | |||
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"Some of the long messages I get just look like 'copy & paste' jobs so I just delete em lol xx I actually had one recently with another username attached. Started Dear XXXXXX instead of my username so it was clear they were just spamming a prepared message" I think I had the same message... was it especially long and very self indulgent?! | |||
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"In some cases it's better to leave the site rather than just stay and browse forums etc.... I mean why stay just for that??? I mean really if people think swinging and the site has had its day then sometimes it's better to leave.... Staying and breeding negativity does nowt but make people look like moaners.... Some look actually a litotle bitter lol.....as its been said time n time no-one is forcing anyone to stay.... " cause its something to Do before emerdale comes on
Think its because we have been here for yrs and Remember how Good and fun the site Used to be.
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"In some cases it's better to leave the site rather than just stay and browse forums etc.... I mean why stay just for that??? I mean really if people think swinging and the site has had its day then sometimes it's better to leave.... Staying and breeding negativity does nowt but make people look like moaners.... Some look actually a litotle bitter lol.....as its been said time n time no-one is forcing anyone to stay.... cause its something to Do before emerdale comes on
Think its because we have been here for yrs and Remember how Good and fun the site Used to be.
No dramas and no egos "Always has been and always will be dramas..... I don't think it's any worse now... I just think sometimes people stay on the site for the wrong reasons.... | |||
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"I agree completely. I've pretty much given up trying to get a meet now so just browse the site.snap. "and us | |||
"In some cases it's better to leave the site rather than just stay and browse forums etc.... I mean why stay just for that??? " it's better fun than reading Joan Burnie's problem page... | |||
"Some of the long messages I get just look like 'copy & paste' jobs so I just delete em lol xx I actually had one recently with another username attached. Started Dear XXXXXX instead of my username so it was clear they were just spamming a prepared message" I got one like that too haha, what a tool lol he got a reply from me but it wasn't the kind he was looking for haha xx | |||
"I agree completely. I've pretty much given up trying to get a meet now so just browse the site." and me, I have made some great friends though... and loads of timewasters | |||
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"In some cases it's better to leave the site rather than just stay and browse forums etc.... I mean why stay just for that??? I mean really if people think swinging and the site has had its day then sometimes it's better to leave.... Staying and breeding negativity does nowt but make people look like moaners.... Some look actually a little bitter lol.....as its been said time n time no-one is forcing anyone to stay.... " Here Here  | |||
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"Some of the long messages I get just look like 'copy & paste' jobs so I just delete em lol xx I actually had one recently with another username attached. Started Dear XXXXXX instead of my username so it was clear they were just spamming a prepared message I think I had the same message... was it especially long and very self indulgent?!" Yup sounds like the same one lol | |||
"Its Way easier to meet a singel guy yes... Try to find a cpl meet...now that is hård. "
Let's not even mention a single fem Psml
On that note, I think we will leave in a huff too
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 At least we can still keep in touch by phone and meet.
As for getting meets with any other women on here i live in hope but it seems an impossiblity most of the time. | |||
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"Its Way easier to meet a singel guy yes... Try to find a cpl meet...now that is hård.
Let's not even mention a single fem Psml
On that note, I think we will leave in a huff too
X"See this is exactly what I mean. Is there really any need for the snidey comment about leaving in a huff? | |||
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"We all need to take into account personal preference. There are genuine single guys, genuine couples & genuine females on here. But simply cos they are all genuine doesn't mean you're gonna want to fuck them. I am genuine, I send messages to genuine people, I dont get to meet them. There has to be mutual attraction on some level at least. I guess the more choice you have, he more selective you can be. So could all those guys with toned bodies leave please? Ta! "I agree. Dont get me wrong I dont expect anyone to drop their drawers just cause I message them. I realise nobody appeals to everybody but I think everybody hopes they appeal to someone. Just these days it doesnt seem to matter what approach I take the results the same. Even in this thread theres 1 person said they dont like sort messages and another says they dont like long messages so just what is the right approach to take these days? I dont think theres anything wrong with my profile and i do have pictures available though it rarely gets that far anymore. As i said earlier its not a woe is me thread, i realise it isnt gonna be easy albeit not as hard as its become, just wondered how other folk thought. | |||
"We all need to take into account personal preference. There are genuine single guys, genuine couples & genuine females on here. But simply cos they are all genuine doesn't mean you're gonna want to fuck them. I am genuine, I send messages to genuine people, I dont get to meet them. There has to be mutual attraction on some level at least. I guess the more choice you have, he more selective you can be. So could all those guys with toned bodies leave please? Ta! "Can I just say... that I don't know what you're moaning about as you have had the pleasure of the company of some of the finest ladies on Fab *cough*  | |||
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"We all need to take into account personal preference. There are genuine single guys, genuine couples & genuine females on here. But simply cos they are all genuine doesn't mean you're gonna want to fuck them. I am genuine, I send messages to genuine people, I dont get to meet them. There has to be mutual attraction on some level at least. I guess the more choice you have, he more selective you can be. So could all those guys with toned bodies leave please? Ta!
Can I just say... that I don't know what you're moaning about as you have had the pleasure of the company of some of the finest ladies on Fab *cough* "It's not a moan, cos yes I have met some awesome people. There was one called...kittehhh or something....
But it is true that more often than not messages are not replied to. it just means there isn't a mutual attraction which is fair enough. I never said all genuine people ignore me.
When are you educating me on more cartoons btw? | |||
"Yip...looking for a boyfriend. "In the few years I've been on this site I can agree with you, there have been many looking for a boyfriend, but there are also guys looking for a girlfriend. | |||
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"U get out what u put in. Everybody has good days and bad and that's when u step away and have a break. Works for me " | |||
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"And not one of the first 3 " moaners" have a profile pic. Hmmm " Here was Me thinking the forum was a Place you could moan? Or is it only chicks that are allowed to moan about their 1000 Messages a day or how crap messages single guys send? Everyone likes a Good moan lol. Just everyone moans åt diffrent things.xx | |||
"And not one of the first 3 " moaners" have a profile pic. Hmmm Here was Me thinking the forum was a Place you could moan? Or is it only chicks that are allowed to moan about their 1000 Messages a day or how crap messages single guys send? Everyone likes a Good moan lol. Just everyone moans åt diffrent things.xx" Well said. Everyone has their own reasons whether they have a public photo. I work with the public so choose not to have 1 but do have them available | |||
"I have been on the site a few years and met some great people but to me it's not the be all and end all. I have got to the point a few times where I needed a break so took a few months out and refreshed myself. I'd like to point out that you don't have any pics or verifications so that may be putting people off, have a look at refreshing your profile, it can't all be 'other'peoples fault." I did have 2 or 3 verifications but those folk have moved on with their lives and are no longer on the site so their verifications no longer show | |||
"And not one of the first 3 " moaners" have a profile pic. Hmmm Here was Me thinking the forum was a Place you could moan? Or is it only chicks that are allowed to moan about their 1000 Messages a day or how crap messages single guys send? Everyone likes a Good moan lol. Just everyone moans åt diffrent things.xx Well said. Everyone has their own reasons whether they have a public photo. I work with the public so choose not to have 1 but do have them available" Ok, likewise here, but i still created a faceless, swinging fun style pic to put up. | |||
"And not one of the first 3 " moaners" have a profile pic. Hmmm Here was Me thinking the forum was a Place you could moan? Or is it only chicks that are allowed to moan about their 1000 Messages a day or how crap messages single guys send? Everyone likes a Good moan lol. Just everyone moans åt diffrent things.xx Well said. Everyone has their own reasons whether they have a public photo. I work with the public so choose not to have 1 but do have them available" I think that most people work with the public in some way or other. Like going to a supermarket and all the tins in the aisles have no labels on them…. how would you know whats in them without opening them. The label (or in this case, a profile) gives a wee clue what could be inside the tin.
Anyhoo, as Aston says, no need to have a face pic on display. a body shot with tattoo's etc covered up would give someone at least an idea of your body type. Or do you work 'closely' with the public and they will recognise you from your torso?
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"personally i think it depends on what you expect from fab. im obviously here to meet new people because due to my extremely busy life i dont get much time to play the field in nightclubs etc. i do have friends with benefits etc so im not on here because im desperate its just something different. if i get a rejection i move on and wish the person luck. thats what i expect if i reject some1 and if i get abuse it only furthers my _iews as to why they were rejected. an awful lot of people on here though are offended by everything and embarrassed by nothing. in everyday life i get called everyname under the sun and thats just from my mates, i regularly get txts starting "awrite bawbag" etc, i dnt find it offensive just banter. i also can speak to people about different _iews and opinions and accept we cant all be the same without it causing me offence. but it seems if you say something without dressing it up on here your sniping or having a go. calm down people its just a bit of fun and theres a whole wide world outside of fab to be enjoyed " | |||
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"New profile, different approach = same result. Dont think this is the place for me anymore sadly "You get out what you put in.... If you don't have the right attitude and are negative then it won't happen for you.... Have you tried a social event? Have u tried clubs? Plenty ways to meet people and get known.... You put in the effort and have the right approach.... With a little time it will come together..... | |||
"New profile, different approach = same result. Dont think this is the place for me anymore sadly
You get out what you put in.... If you don't have the right attitude and are negative then it won't happen for you....
Have you tried a social event? Have u tried clubs? Plenty ways to meet people and get known....
You put in the effort and have the right approach.... With a little time it will come together....."The problem with the Dundee socials is they tend to be on saturdays and im normally working saturdays unfortunately | |||
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"New profile, different approach = same result. Dont think this is the place for me anymore sadly
You get out what you put in.... If you don't have the right attitude and are negative then it won't happen for you....
Have you tried a social event? Have u tried clubs? Plenty ways to meet people and get known....
You put in the effort and have the right approach.... With a little time it will come together.....
The problem with the Dundee socials is they tend to be on saturdays and im normally working saturdays unfortunately"there you go then get yourself known arrange a social /drink event, your self for a night that suits you may not work but who knows if people concentrate on the positive it blows away the negative | |||
"Yip...looking for a boyfriend. "Now that's true I've noticed a lot of men And women seem to be looking for more than just a bit of casual fun, no offence to anyone who has found a successful relationship via fab personally I wouldn't be looking for that on here but I know sometimes people meet and click but the amount of people who seem to get quite smitten on here and make things out to be more than what they are is quite scary I have met some great people on the site and like to chat in the chat rooms and enjoy the socials, when I'm single I also enjoy meeting new people and having fun Its good to take a break from fab if you're not getti g what you want from the site and start concentrating on other things after all we don't need negativity on here it's meant to be fun | |||
"And not one of the first 3 " moaners" have a profile pic. Hmmm Here was Me thinking the forum was a Place you could moan? Or is it only chicks that are allowed to moan about their 1000 Messages a day or how crap messages single guys send? Everyone likes a Good moan lol. Just everyone moans åt diffrent things.xx Well said. Everyone has their own reasons whether they have a public photo. I work with the public so choose not to have 1 but do have them available I think that most people work with the public in some way or other. Like going to a supermarket and all the tins in the aisles have no labels on them…. how would you know whats in them without opening them. The label (or in this case, a profile) gives a wee clue what could be inside the tin.
Anyhoo, as Aston says, no need to have a face pic on display. a body shot with tattoo's etc covered up would give someone at least an idea of your body type. Or do you work 'closely' with the public and they will recognise you from your torso?
S. x"Me bad I don't have face pics and my profile is hidden
But I do however cam in chat so I'm
Pretty genuine and really don't appreciate some of the mails I get from guys about my profile being hidden etc but hey funnily enough I'm an adult and have that right the options are there for a reason and when my profile is available there's also a little list of do's and dont's and yet still people don't read that either ! Do I get a rage on about it does it put me off the site ? No because for all the idiots on here there are loads more genuine people the hard part is accepting things will be the way they will be
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"I don't think this site has had its day at all. I still enjoy meeting new peeps, having the occasional meet and the general banter. What HAS happened is its become a lot more popular and to get meets now has become that bit harder. The advent of more people unfortunately brings more timewasters and pic collectors of course but in general, for me anyway, its still a lot of fun. I do a lot of consultation work on social media usage as part of brand development at work and it strikes me that getting meets and becoming part of the Fab scene works in pretty much the same way. Companies use Networking (socials), their own website (Fab site), email campaigns (DM's), Twitter (forums) and Facebook (chat), among others, to become known, trusted and one of the 'good ones' and thats how you have to approach Fab. Not saying anything guarantees results but the more visible you are and the more you join in, the more chance to have. Oh sorry, in true forums style...In my opinion "Great post n very true | |||
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For me I've done the break from these sites before after it got bad with timewasters and losing faith in it and actually had a nice time away and had a normal relationship and came back with new enthusiasm and hope.
Yes there's people on here that do ruin it for others, single people on couples profiles, timewasters, people who in chat, jump in with both feet without engaging their brain when chatting to fems and couples who don't help us more gen guys. People who must be unable to read lol since they don't take the time to read a person(s) profile which they have got down all the info you need to know like, I'm not meeting or my bust is this size but it still doesn't stop them asking if you meet or how big they are lol
You can go on and on lol but they will always be there.
As a single guy, I do the messages as well, both short and long and yes you do get a lot of deletes and some rejections but that's their choice and I'm fine with that, but you do get replies from other people out there. It just takes time and effort.
As for chat rooms, it's a good place to make friends and even meet people if you just take the time and chat and get to know the people rather than just jump in without thinking, just treat them with respect and be friendly and people will talk to you. I've made friends in the chat so I know that it's worth it.
You get ups and downs on these sites, it's all about how you handle them and how you plan to move on. Either take it on the chin and keep going or hide or delete your profile and take time out.
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"politeness & manners cost nothing, A simple not interested doesn,t do anyone any harm, least you know either way, so get replying "yeah this is true, but when u get mail from a guy, and u go to look at his profile and all it says is "I'll fill this in later" and that was four months ago, I just think.. Well if he can't even be bothered to write himself a profile...what's the point bothering! I can't be arsed wi it!!! And sometimes I come on the forums for a laugh and there's nowt but negativity on it...!!! | |||
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"Yes, it has had it's day long before i came on two years ago. Through this site ive had two meets in those two years. Six months ago i joined a simple well known social networking site. Ive had mindblowing knackering sex with four people. Still friends with and meet one and still in touch with the others. One of which wants to try a threesome with me and a bi female. Now, compare that with my two years on fab. Oh and two of those lasses contacted me first. Name should be changed from fab-swingers to flirty-swingers. "could be a particular reason why ur getting on better in the other soocial network sites not be that these women u have met are actually more interested in a relationship(I bet they dont know ur shagging others ).Personally I dont know how anyone can complain at so few meets from this site.Every tool is there on the webpage, banners,signs,buttons..all designed to help people meetup.If I was reading anything into why someones had so few meets, I'd most likely say they dont have the will to get themselves out to the socials n clubs.If ur profiles not getting u meets...sort it...by attending these events.Cant be anymore brutally honest than that. (Ive facebook shags too...they know I'm a slut tho) | |||
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"Yes, it has had it's day long before i came on two years ago. Through this site ive had two meets in those two years. Six months ago i joined a simple well known social networking site. Ive had mindblowing knackering sex with four people. Still friends with and meet one and still in touch with the others. One of which wants to try a threesome with me and a bi female. Now, compare that with my two years on fab. Oh and two of those lasses contacted me first. Name should be changed from fab-swingers to flirty-swingers.
could be a particular reason why ur getting on better in the other soocial network sites not be that these women u have met are actually more interested in a relationship(I bet they dont know ur shagging others ).Personally I dont know how anyone can complain at so few meets from this site.Every tool is there on the webpage, banners,signs,buttons..all designed to help people meetup.If I was reading anything into why someones had so few meets, I'd most likely say they dont have the will to get themselves out to the socials n clubs.If ur profiles not getting u meets...sort it...by attending these events.Cant be anymore brutally honest than that.
(Ive facebook shags too...they know I'm a slut tho)"Well said paddy.... Tottaly agree !!!! | |||
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"There's loads of socials to meet people.... There's 4 clubs that are promoted through the site... There are hundreds of profiles on the site.... There are loads of people who host parties at there homes Scotland scene on here is probably the biggest out of all the sites... The site has a meet today section The site has a club section The forums.... Meet today function I really don't see what else fabs can offer to people the site has mostly everything to facilitate the users.... " You can lead a horse to water... | |||
"There's loads of socials to meet people.... There's 4 clubs that are promoted through the site... There are hundreds of profiles on the site.... There are loads of people who host parties at there homes Scotland scene on here is probably the biggest out of all the sites... The site has a meet today section The site has a club section The forums.... Meet today function I really don't see what else fabs can offer to people the site has mostly everything to facilitate the users.... You can lead a horse to water... " | |||
"There's loads of socials to meet people.... There's 4 clubs that are promoted through the site... There are hundreds of profiles on the site.... There are loads of people who host parties at there homes Scotland scene on here is probably the biggest out of all the sites... The site has a meet today section The site has a club section The forums.... Meet today function I really don't see what else fabs can offer to people the site has mostly everything to facilitate the users.... You can lead a horse to water... "How very true | |||
"There's loads of socials to meet people.... There's 4 clubs that are promoted through the site... There are hundreds of profiles on the site.... There are loads of people who host parties at there homes Scotland scene on here is probably the biggest out of all the sites... The site has a meet today section The site has a club section The forums.... Meet today function I really don't see what else fabs can offer to people the site has mostly everything to facilitate the users.... " 4??? Cool, this is the upside of forums,lol. And my wee bet with myself came true, regarding having an event up, wee granted, but an event, asking guys interested to contact me to meet a fun couple on saturday, thats a chance for a guy to swing, to have fun, to do swinging, yes? Yet up pops a, "why cant i get a meet" thread. Awsome!! | |||
"Yes, it has had it's day long before i came on two years ago. Through this site ive had two meets in those two years. Six months ago i joined a simple well known social networking site. Ive had mindblowing knackering sex with four people. Still friends with and meet one and still in touch with the others. One of which wants to try a threesome with me and a bi female. Now, compare that with my two years on fab. Oh and two of those lasses contacted me first. Name should be changed from fab-swingers to flirty-swingers.
could be a particular reason why ur getting on better in the other soocial network sites not be that these women u have met are actually more interested in a relationship(I bet they dont know ur shagging others ).Personally I dont know how anyone can complain at so few meets from this site.Every tool is there on the webpage, banners,signs,buttons..all designed to help people meetup.If I was reading anything into why someones had so few meets, I'd most likely say they dont have the will to get themselves out to the socials n clubs.If ur profiles not getting u meets...sort it...by attending these events.Cant be anymore brutally honest than that.
(Ive facebook shags too...they know I'm a slut tho)
Well said paddy.... Tottaly agree !!!!"No. We purely met for sex. Ive been to two socials. Full of airheads who couldnt get it any other way plus nobody was attractive and at one all us single guys were more interested in the real women with another party. Been to three clubs. One had more TVs and TSs than women in attendance. The couples were all rude, the single lasses were all unbelievably arrogant and yet only one of those four was attractive until she opened her mouth. Of the single men, they were unbelievably desperate (eg; deliberately bumping into womens boobs by accident, always using the same chatup lines with every woman. I did have an ok night here though socially, if you can call about three conversations ok. Plus this was where i was to have my first meet. She did not show, and when i got home her profile was deleted. Another club was full of rudeness from the many couples that were there. Met a single lass there from Glenrothes who was really nice, she felt the same as me!! She couldnt believe the desperation from the single men and their 'tactics', and the rudeness and arrogance from the couples, some of which she had chatted to a lot on the site. The third club was disgusting. Old dried spunk everywhere you looked apart from the changing rooms, lounge, and on the beds themselves. Speaking of the lounge, the seating seemed to have been retrived from the nearest skip. I had to sit down at some point. When i did i hurt my ass on a plank of wood, the sofa was so knackered. On that night there were about thirty men there to one lass, in her late sixties. Some guys cum when she simply took her bra off - haha. One guy cum when he reached over and touched her arm for i reckon about five seconds. It was at this point when i was glad i was there as a voyeur. About an hour after i arrived another lady arrived - as a voyeur as she was newish to the site and seen it advertised on here. After about ten minutes she couldnt cope with how disgusting and depraved and smelly the whole situation was. She was going to leave but the three staff (who i thought were actually quite friendly initially) got round her like magnets, and encouraged her to stay. I was quite uncomfortable at this time. They along with a few others customers encouraged her back towards the room as a voyeur again (note she was fully clothed at all times). At this point i decided to leave. On my way out of the 'locker' (the lockers didnt lock!) room the woman came out of the room where the gangbang was happening, vomiting on the floor. Of course the desperado grotesque single men continued wanking furiously at the just about visable naked female flesh in the quite dark room, which it seemed they had never seen before. So theres my brief description of fabswingers and what really happens at socials/clubs in Scotland. Scotland itself though - beautiful in every sense of the word. I do however attend a club down south once per year which i absolutely love. It is there that i was encouraged/advised to join this site. BTW; my profile is the way it is because my standards on this site are no different to my standards in the real world. Im here to meet a female swinger that i click with. opinions of my profile were not the topic of the OP so it shouldnt be brought unless i ask for those opinions. | |||
"Yes, it has had it's day long before i came on two years ago. Through this site ive had two meets in those two years. Six months ago i joined a simple well known social networking site. Ive had mindblowing knackering sex with four people. Still friends with and meet one and still in touch with the others. One of which wants to try a threesome with me and a bi female. Now, compare that with my two years on fab. Oh and two of those lasses contacted me first. Name should be changed from fab-swingers to flirty-swingers.
could be a particular reason why ur getting on better in the other soocial network sites not be that these women u have met are actually more interested in a relationship(I bet they dont know ur shagging others ).Personally I dont know how anyone can complain at so few meets from this site.Every tool is there on the webpage, banners,signs,buttons..all designed to help people meetup.If I was reading anything into why someones had so few meets, I'd most likely say they dont have the will to get themselves out to the socials n clubs.If ur profiles not getting u meets...sort it...by attending these events.Cant be anymore brutally honest than that.
(Ive facebook shags too...they know I'm a slut tho)
Well said paddy.... Tottaly agree !!!!
No. We purely met for sex.
Ive been to two socials. Full of airheads who couldnt get it any other way plus nobody was attractive and at one all us single guys were more interested in the real women with another party.
Been to three clubs. One had more TVs and TSs than women in attendance. The couples were all rude, the single lasses were all unbelievably arrogant and yet only one of those four was attractive until she opened her mouth. Of the single men, they were unbelievably desperate (eg; deliberately bumping into womens boobs by accident, always using the same chatup lines with every woman. I did have an ok night here though socially, if you can call about three conversations ok. Plus this was where i was to have my first meet. She did not show, and when i got home her profile was deleted. Another club was full of rudeness from the many couples that were there. Met a single lass there from Glenrothes who was really nice, she felt the same as me!! She couldnt believe the desperation from the single men and their 'tactics', and the rudeness and arrogance from the couples, some of which she had chatted to a lot on the site.
The third club was disgusting. Old dried spunk everywhere you looked apart from the changing rooms, lounge, and on the beds themselves. Speaking of the lounge, the seating seemed to have been retrived from the nearest skip. I had to sit down at some point. When i did i hurt my ass on a plank of wood, the sofa was so knackered. On that night there were about thirty men there to one lass, in her late sixties. Some guys cum when she simply took her bra off - haha. One guy cum when he reached over and touched her arm for i reckon about five seconds. It was at this point when i was glad i was there as a voyeur. About an hour after i arrived another lady arrived - as a voyeur as she was newish to the site and seen it advertised on here. After about ten minutes she couldnt cope with how disgusting and depraved and smelly the whole situation was. She was going to leave but the three staff (who i thought were actually quite friendly initially) got round her like magnets, and encouraged her to stay. I was quite uncomfortable at this time. They along with a few others customers encouraged her back towards the room as a voyeur again (note she was fully clothed at all times). At this point i decided to leave. On my way out of the 'locker' (the lockers didnt lock!) room the woman came out of the room where the gangbang was happening, vomiting on the floor. Of course the desperado grotesque single men continued wanking furiously at the just about visable naked female flesh in the quite dark room, which it seemed they had never seen before.
So theres my brief description of fabswingers and what really happens at socials/clubs in Scotland. Scotland itself though - beautiful in every sense of the word.
I do however attend a club down south once per year which i absolutely love. It is there that i was encouraged/advised to join this site.
BTW; my profile is the way it is because my standards on this site are no different to my standards in the real world. Im here to meet a female swinger that i click with. opinions of my profile were not the topic of the OP so it shouldnt be brought unless i ask for those opinions.
"never heard such confabulated amounts of pish in my life than I have just read.Ur right, everyone else is wrong.The response u have given is painting a clear picture of how u _iew women and other people.Maybe its not the sites thats had its time...but u... I wont even ramble on further(as u have, extremely defensively I might add) as a sheer waste of my time.. | |||
"Yes, it has had it's day long before i came on two years ago. Through this site ive had two meets in those two years. Six months ago i joined a simple well known social networking site. Ive had mindblowing knackering sex with four people. Still friends with and meet one and still in touch with the others. One of which wants to try a threesome with me and a bi female. Now, compare that with my two years on fab. Oh and two of those lasses contacted me first. Name should be changed from fab-swingers to flirty-swingers.
could be a particular reason why ur getting on better in the other soocial network sites not be that these women u have met are actually more interested in a relationship(I bet they dont know ur shagging others ).Personally I dont know how anyone can complain at so few meets from this site.Every tool is there on the webpage, banners,signs,buttons..all designed to help people meetup.If I was reading anything into why someones had so few meets, I'd most likely say they dont have the will to get themselves out to the socials n clubs.If ur profiles not getting u meets...sort it...by attending these events.Cant be anymore brutally honest than that.
(Ive facebook shags too...they know I'm a slut tho)
Well said paddy.... Tottaly agree !!!!
No. We purely met for sex.
Ive been to two socials. Full of airheads who couldnt get it any other way plus nobody was attractive and at one all us single guys were more interested in the real women with another party.
Been to three clubs. One had more TVs and TSs than women in attendance. The couples were all rude, the single lasses were all unbelievably arrogant and yet only one of those four was attractive until she opened her mouth. Of the single men, they were unbelievably desperate (eg; deliberately bumping into womens boobs by accident, always using the same chatup lines with every woman. I did have an ok night here though socially, if you can call about three conversations ok. Plus this was where i was to have my first meet. She did not show, and when i got home her profile was deleted. Another club was full of rudeness from the many couples that were there. Met a single lass there from Glenrothes who was really nice, she felt the same as me!! She couldnt believe the desperation from the single men and their 'tactics', and the rudeness and arrogance from the couples, some of which she had chatted to a lot on the site.
The third club was disgusting. Old dried spunk everywhere you looked apart from the changing rooms, lounge, and on the beds themselves. Speaking of the lounge, the seating seemed to have been retrived from the nearest skip. I had to sit down at some point. When i did i hurt my ass on a plank of wood, the sofa was so knackered. On that night there were about thirty men there to one lass, in her late sixties. Some guys cum when she simply took her bra off - haha. One guy cum when he reached over and touched her arm for i reckon about five seconds. It was at this point when i was glad i was there as a voyeur. About an hour after i arrived another lady arrived - as a voyeur as she was newish to the site and seen it advertised on here. After about ten minutes she couldnt cope with how disgusting and depraved and smelly the whole situation was. She was going to leave but the three staff (who i thought were actually quite friendly initially) got round her like magnets, and encouraged her to stay. I was quite uncomfortable at this time. They along with a few others customers encouraged her back towards the room as a voyeur again (note she was fully clothed at all times). At this point i decided to leave. On my way out of the 'locker' (the lockers didnt lock!) room the woman came out of the room where the gangbang was happening, vomiting on the floor. Of course the desperado grotesque single men continued wanking furiously at the just about visable naked female flesh in the quite dark room, which it seemed they had never seen before.
So theres my brief description of fabswingers and what really happens at socials/clubs in Scotland. Scotland itself though - beautiful in every sense of the word.
I do however attend a club down south once per year which i absolutely love. It is there that i was encouraged/advised to join this site.
BTW; my profile is the way it is because my standards on this site are no different to my standards in the real world. Im here to meet a female swinger that i click with. opinions of my profile were not the topic of the OP so it shouldnt be brought unless i ask for those opinions.
"Your commenting in a forum thread,sorry but do expect folks to then look at your profile as a result of it, i did, "incredible" i think is the apt word ! | |||
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"Don't see anything shocking on the guys profile. Yes he sets out what he is specifically after but where's the harm in that? Plenty of woman do without a comment from the masses. " I married up the recent comments with the profile, sticking with "incredible" thanks. | |||
"Yes, it has had it's day long before i came on two years ago. Through this site ive had two meets in those two years. Six months ago i joined a simple well known social networking site. Ive had mindblowing knackering sex with four people. Still friends with and meet one and still in touch with the others. One of which wants to try a threesome with me and a bi female. Now, compare that with my two years on fab. Oh and two of those lasses contacted me first. Name should be changed from fab-swingers to flirty-swingers.
could be a particular reason why ur getting on better in the other soocial network sites not be that these women u have met are actually more interested in a relationship(I bet they dont know ur shagging others ).Personally I dont know how anyone can complain at so few meets from this site.Every tool is there on the webpage, banners,signs,buttons..all designed to help people meetup.If I was reading anything into why someones had so few meets, I'd most likely say they dont have the will to get themselves out to the socials n clubs.If ur profiles not getting u meets...sort it...by attending these events.Cant be anymore brutally honest than that.
(Ive facebook shags too...they know I'm a slut tho)
Well said paddy.... Tottaly agree !!!!
No. We purely met for sex.
Ive been to two socials. Full of airheads who couldnt get it any other way plus nobody was attractive and at one all us single guys were more interested in the real women with another party.
Been to three clubs. One had more TVs and TSs than women in attendance. The couples were all rude, the single lasses were all unbelievably arrogant and yet only one of those four was attractive until she opened her mouth. Of the single men, they were unbelievably desperate (eg; deliberately bumping into womens boobs by accident, always using the same chatup lines with every woman. I did have an ok night here though socially, if you can call about three conversations ok. Plus this was where i was to have my first meet. She did not show, and when i got home her profile was deleted. Another club was full of rudeness from the many couples that were there. Met a single lass there from Glenrothes who was really nice, she felt the same as me!! She couldnt believe the desperation from the single men and their 'tactics', and the rudeness and arrogance from the couples, some of which she had chatted to a lot on the site.
The third club was disgusting. Old dried spunk everywhere you looked apart from the changing rooms, lounge, and on the beds themselves. Speaking of the lounge, the seating seemed to have been retrived from the nearest skip. I had to sit down at some point. When i did i hurt my ass on a plank of wood, the sofa was so knackered. On that night there were about thirty men there to one lass, in her late sixties. Some guys cum when she simply took her bra off - haha. One guy cum when he reached over and touched her arm for i reckon about five seconds. It was at this point when i was glad i was there as a voyeur. About an hour after i arrived another lady arrived - as a voyeur as she was newish to the site and seen it advertised on here. After about ten minutes she couldnt cope with how disgusting and depraved and smelly the whole situation was. She was going to leave but the three staff (who i thought were actually quite friendly initially) got round her like magnets, and encouraged her to stay. I was quite uncomfortable at this time. They along with a few others customers encouraged her back towards the room as a voyeur again (note she was fully clothed at all times). At this point i decided to leave. On my way out of the 'locker' (the lockers didnt lock!) room the woman came out of the room where the gangbang was happening, vomiting on the floor. Of course the desperado grotesque single men continued wanking furiously at the just about visable naked female flesh in the quite dark room, which it seemed they had never seen before.
So theres my brief description of fabswingers and what really happens at socials/clubs in Scotland. Scotland itself though - beautiful in every sense of the word.
I do however attend a club down south once per year which i absolutely love. It is there that i was encouraged/advised to join this site.
BTW; my profile is the way it is because my standards on this site are no different to my standards in the real world. Im here to meet a female swinger that i click with. opinions of my profile were not the topic of the OP so it shouldnt be brought unless i ask for those opinions.
"God i hope i wasnt at any of the socials you were at lol.. Well said tho You said it Like you saw it. Not many in here do that.x Auds x | |||
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"Your commenting in a forum thread,sorry but do expect folks to then look at your profile as a result of it, i did, "incredible" i think is the apt word ! "Maybe check out the forum rules pasted below. http://www.fabswingers.com/content/forum-rules No nit-picking please Unless someone specifically asks for their profile to be critiqued or if it's relevant to the thread e.g. someone is wondering why they're not having success, please don't critique their profile or be mean about it. We want the forum to be open and friendly to newbies and everyone starts somewhere. | |||
"Yes, it has had it's day long before i came on two years ago. Through this site ive had two meets in those two years. Six months ago i joined a simple well known social networking site. Ive had mindblowing knackering sex with four people. Still friends with and meet one and still in touch with the others. One of which wants to try a threesome with me and a bi female. Now, compare that with my two years on fab. Oh and two of those lasses contacted me first. Name should be changed from fab-swingers to flirty-swingers.
could be a particular reason why ur getting on better in the other soocial network sites not be that these women u have met are actually more interested in a relationship(I bet they dont know ur shagging others ).Personally I dont know how anyone can complain at so few meets from this site.Every tool is there on the webpage, banners,signs,buttons..all designed to help people meetup.If I was reading anything into why someones had so few meets, I'd most likely say they dont have the will to get themselves out to the socials n clubs.If ur profiles not getting u meets...sort it...by attending these events.Cant be anymore brutally honest than that.
(Ive facebook shags too...they know I'm a slut tho)
Well said paddy.... Tottaly agree !!!!
No. We purely met for sex.
Ive been to two socials. Full of airheads who couldnt get it any other way plus nobody was attractive and at one all us single guys were more interested in the real women with another party.
Been to three clubs. One had more TVs and TSs than women in attendance. The couples were all rude, the single lasses were all unbelievably arrogant and yet only one of those four was attractive until she opened her mouth. Of the single men, they were unbelievably desperate (eg; deliberately bumping into womens boobs by accident, always using the same chatup lines with every woman. I did have an ok night here though socially, if you can call about three conversations ok. Plus this was where i was to have my first meet. She did not show, and when i got home her profile was deleted. Another club was full of rudeness from the many couples that were there. Met a single lass there from Glenrothes who was really nice, she felt the same as me!! She couldnt believe the desperation from the single men and their 'tactics', and the rudeness and arrogance from the couples, some of which she had chatted to a lot on the site.
The third club was disgusting. Old dried spunk everywhere you looked apart from the changing rooms, lounge, and on the beds themselves. Speaking of the lounge, the seating seemed to have been retrived from the nearest skip. I had to sit down at some point. When i did i hurt my ass on a plank of wood, the sofa was so knackered. On that night there were about thirty men there to one lass, in her late sixties. Some guys cum when she simply took her bra off - haha. One guy cum when he reached over and touched her arm for i reckon about five seconds. It was at this point when i was glad i was there as a voyeur. About an hour after i arrived another lady arrived - as a voyeur as she was newish to the site and seen it advertised on here. After about ten minutes she couldnt cope with how disgusting and depraved and smelly the whole situation was. She was going to leave but the three staff (who i thought were actually quite friendly initially) got round her like magnets, and encouraged her to stay. I was quite uncomfortable at this time. They along with a few others customers encouraged her back towards the room as a voyeur again (note she was fully clothed at all times). At this point i decided to leave. On my way out of the 'locker' (the lockers didnt lock!) room the woman came out of the room where the gangbang was happening, vomiting on the floor. Of course the desperado grotesque single men continued wanking furiously at the just about visable naked female flesh in the quite dark room, which it seemed they had never seen before.
So theres my brief description of fabswingers and what really happens at socials/clubs in Scotland. Scotland itself though - beautiful in every sense of the word.
I do however attend a club down south once per year which i absolutely love. It is there that i was encouraged/advised to join this site.
BTW; my profile is the way it is because my standards on this site are no different to my standards in the real world. Im here to meet a female swinger that i click with. opinions of my profile were not the topic of the OP so it shouldnt be brought unless i ask for those opinions.
God i hope i wasnt at any of the socials you were at lol..
Well said tho
You said it Like you saw it.
Not many in here do that.x
Auds x "yes auds exactly as he saw it...er...how many guys did he watch cum????????- I'd be much more interested in having fun that sneering away at what appears as almost every individual.If u havent any room for tolerance in swinging, I dont think its likely u'd have tolerance in real life. Come on seriously in 2 years, there hasnt been anything good in scotland????...I'm not a huge fan of socials these days..but I distinctly remember a fantastic social last year the masq ball...in fact take that back...it was indeed full of rude smelly people...just like every other thing I've attended...these clubs n parties...bloody jeremy kyle rejects... *there is being picky(which most will respect),but then there is being sofarupurownarsethatnobodywouldmostlikelyenjoyurcompany. | |||
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"I'd rather give a balanced _iew of the site, rather than some sweeping highly negative generalization on the scottish swinging scene.I dont think to the few, newbie cpls that the _iews expressed above are a good reflection on the clubs/socials/parties that many attend.That was my point." | |||
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"The sites fine. What i totally dont understand is the contradiction of people every so often pinging up sweeping declaratins like, "why cant i get any meets" or "why wont anyone meet me" etc. The contradiction has just been beautifully illustrated to me over the past few days. I had a fun swinging event up, asking for 2 guys to join a couple and myself, got 6 asks to come to it from various people, they gleaned all the relevant info, where, when, who with etc. Then? Then nothing, not one could decide yes or no if they were 100% confirming if joining us. I understand if in fact they are busy boys with lots of fun options to juggle for example, but as i say that kinda contradicts this, "why cant i get any meets" thing, surely. Nope, the site is fine, for those who actually want to swing." The site may well be fine for a select few but on the whole it would appear its pretty dire for the majority of single guys. I get we are greatly outnumbering ladies and couples but when you see someone advertising for a meet and for those messaging to ad a pic or be deleted then get deleted anyway when you do add a pic then you really do know youre pissing in to the wind. Im no arrogant enough to think ill appeal to everyone but IMO if a person states theyll delete without a pic yet still delete when they get 1 then theyre out of order. If someone has taken the time to oblige their request then the person should have the common decency to at least send a thanks but no thanks. | |||
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"Try lookin up meets and events." I have. Main problem seems to be the local area is pretty much dead. need to move to glasgow i reckon | |||
"Try lookin up meets and events. I have. Main problem seems to be the local area is pretty much dead. need to move to glasgow i reckon" Travel like most of us do .... | |||
"Try lookin up meets and events. I have. Main problem seems to be the local area is pretty much dead. need to move to glasgow i reckon Travel like most of us do ...." Having about as much luck searching in Fife and Perthshire as I am in Dundee. Dont really want to have to travel the length and breadth of the country for meets to be honest | |||
"Try lookin up meets and events. I have. Main problem seems to be the local area is pretty much dead. need to move to glasgow i reckon Travel like most of us do .... Having about as much luck searching in Fife and Perthshire as I am in Dundee. Dont really want to have to travel the length and breadth of the country for meets to be honest" And there lays the problem.... To get of the ground sometimes u gotta travel.... Can't expect ur doorstep to be the answer.... You get out what u put in... U ain't willing to put in.... Then u won't get far..... | |||
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"So basically the moral of the story is if you dont go to socials on the other side of the country yir wastin yir time here?" Obviously I don't know if travelling is the norm for Scotland depending on how far away things are, but we don't travel and don't expect others to travel so I can understand why you don't want to travel..... we also don't do socials after the couple we went to were not what we expected so put us off. You can't help it if some socials are when you are working, but for a single man I would say it could be your way in to finding fun. Good luck anyway, hope you find some fun. | |||
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"the moral of the story is u dont make the effort.....then success is limited....." pq you always amaze me with your common sense. if you are having problems its not everyone else its you or your approach thats at fault if socials dont coincide with your time off make your own at a place that suits you hey others may be in the same boat and be really thankful of it | |||
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"Has the original poster thought about his profile? It's not very imaginative. But then again, I don't think the vast majority treat this as a real swining site. Let's face it, its a place for no strings sex, nothing more, nothing less. " Yes i have thought about it, its been changed umpteen times lately but doesnt seem to matter how it looks the results the same. Doesnt seem to matter what approach i take in messages either the results the same. And before anyone thinks i must be a right ugly bastard, Im not, no that messaging usually gets far enough for exchanging pics anyway. | |||
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"I've become a bit disillusioned with the site as well, difference is I'm not having a forums whinge about it Just because you match what someones after doesn't guarentee you anything. I took the time to be nice and reply and got abuse back from the majority and only 1 polite reply Yeah it must be hard for single guys as we've heard over and over but the ones who post the 'no ones meeting me' threads are just shooting themselves in the foot Suck it up, get over it and make the site what you want it to be. I just look at forums and use chat atm and I've had a better time on here bar a few numpties" What are the forums for if it isnt for discussion? Should i have just posted yet another suck fuck or avoid thread instead? I know im not guaranteed anything but as has been said numerous times we should all expect a bit of manners and respect. I can handle not getting meets believe it or not, Ive been here long enough to know they are few and far between but the constant deletes that not only myself but would seem most single guys on here get can be pretty demoralising after a while. | |||
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"I've become a bit disillusioned with the site as well, difference is I'm not having a forums whinge about it Just because you match what someones after doesn't guarentee you anything. I took the time to be nice and reply and got abuse back from the majority and only 1 polite reply Yeah it must be hard for single guys as we've heard over and over but the ones who post the 'no ones meeting me' threads are just shooting themselves in the foot Suck it up, get over it and make the site what you want it to be. I just look at forums and use chat atm and I've had a better time on here bar a few numpties What are the forums for if it isnt for discussion? Should i have just posted yet another suck fuck or avoid thread instead? I know im not guaranteed anything but as has been said numerous times we should all expect a bit of manners and respect. I can handle not getting meets believe it or not, Ive been here long enough to know they are few and far between but the constant deletes that not only myself but would seem most single guys on here get can be pretty demoralising after a while." psssssst the green arrow shows posts you have posted on previously. so you could have used the advice given on previous posts of the same nature instead of churning out another the sites against me thread  | |||
"so you could have used the advice given on previous posts of the same nature instead of churning out another the sites against me thread "I call them sympathy shag threads | |||
"so you could have used the advice given on previous posts of the same nature instead of churning out another the sites against me thread
I call them sympathy shag threads " | |||
"I've become a bit disillusioned with the site as well, difference is I'm not having a forums whinge about it Just because you match what someones after doesn't guarentee you anything. I took the time to be nice and reply and got abuse back from the majority and only 1 polite reply Yeah it must be hard for single guys as we've heard over and over but the ones who post the 'no ones meeting me' threads are just shooting themselves in the foot Suck it up, get over it and make the site what you want it to be. I just look at forums and use chat atm and I've had a better time on here bar a few numpties What are the forums for if it isnt for discussion? Should i have just posted yet another suck fuck or avoid thread instead? I know im not guaranteed anything but as has been said numerous times we should all expect a bit of manners and respect. I can handle not getting meets believe it or not, Ive been here long enough to know they are few and far between but the constant deletes that not only myself but would seem most single guys on here get can be pretty demoralising after a while.psssssst the green arrow shows posts you have posted on previously. so you could have used the advice given on previous posts of the same nature instead of churning out another the sites against me thread "What? | |||
"What?" Basically stop whinging on the forums about lack of meets/replys and take advice thats been given already instead of continuing going on with this... well thats what i made of it lol | |||
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"So while defending the mans right to post you have now insulted couples
Respect for everyones _iews is what is needed on the forum "No need for insults eh | |||
"i was never saying you cant post what you want hey feel free fill your boots.but when you dont take the advice offered what is the point of the thread. " No one has to take the advice and act on it just because it is given ( although in this case it wouldn't hurt ) | |||
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"i was never saying you cant post what you want hey feel free fill your boots.but when you dont take the advice offered what is the point of the thread. No one has to take the advice and act on it just because it is given ( although in this case it wouldn't hurt )" lol lost where i insulted cpls but if thats the case i apologies wholeheartedly (well known smiley face makes it better) | |||
"i was never saying you cant post what you want hey feel free fill your boots.but when you dont take the advice offered what is the point of the thread. No one has to take the advice and act on it just because it is given ( although in this case it wouldn't hurt )lol lost where i insulted cpls but if thats the case i apologies wholeheartedly (well known smiley face makes it better)"You didn't mate, you typed too fast or I typed too slow and was answering the post above , my apologies for not quoting, and I was going to take it off and repost but someone with fast fingers had quoted me too | |||
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"i was never saying you cant post what you want hey feel free fill your boots.but when you dont take the advice offered what is the point of the thread. No one has to take the advice and act on it just because it is given ( although in this case it wouldn't hurt )lol lost where i insulted cpls but if thats the case i apologies wholeheartedly (well known smiley face makes it better)
You didn't mate, you typed too fast or I typed too slow and was answering the post above , my apologies for not quoting, and I was going to take it off and repost but someone with fast fingers had quoted me too "so i was insulting cpls?? nooo i was stating a fact | |||
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"seems to me its what you put into the site is what you get out it but posts always moaning about this or that just make folks not wanna meet the op's in question , the site along with all others will have good days and bad days some go into weeks but you always find it heats up just when your about to give up , if things are that bad an the site is not working then why not just leave and find another site be easier than all the moaning an may i add the wrong kind for a swinging site lol "A comprehensible post by sioux wtf wonders will never cease | |||
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"I agree, I very rarely send out any messages as I feel its like being a cow in a cattle market or like a peacock saying 'hey my feathers are better than the rest' lol.... I just prefer to let people find me. If they like my profile enough to reply then thats cool. Fair enough I dont get many but at least it is usually nice folk that do send me one ...... result lol " great attitude | |||
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