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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

From another thread on here i was just wondering is any other guy/girl has been taking advantage of for the other persons own gain money wise...just a though ?

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

too many times but my own fault so no one else to blame but me.

all the best to them tho.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

you see it all the time on site,

my fab supporters has run out,first to pay gets a bj

cant afford to go to blah blah as im skint posts ......dont bother going then

Having a gangbang for ..... donations required to cover costs

there is always someone out to benefit from anothers fun

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"too many times but my own fault so no one else to blame but me.

all the best to them tho."

Really ? How do people get away with it ? You hear about it all the time no offence but how can people be so gullible it's a sex site, a lot of people just aren't who they say they are that's part and parcel of sites like this I think it's worse though the amount of people invest themselves emotionally on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"you see it all the time on site,

my fab supporters has run out,first to pay gets a bj

cant afford to go to blah blah as im skint posts ......dont bother going then

Having a gangbang for ..... donations required to cover costs

there is always someone out to benefit from anothers fun "

There really is alot of people out to gain , funny that ive had a few gangbangs at hotals my house and my friends house and never gained ..well apart from being fucked within an inch of my life and loads of drink to add to my cargo really nice polite guys bringing wine nice guys

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i had a person on here telling me to come round to her house. when i was on my way she said she had to pay £40 for a babysitter and she didnt have any money on her so could i cover it lol.

obviously i didnt pay her but if people are silly enough or desperate enough to pay then good luck to the ones that are profiting ( does that have 2 ts or 1 lol )

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"you see it all the time on site,

my fab supporters has run out,first to pay gets a bj

cant afford to go to blah blah as im skint posts ......dont bother going then

Having a gangbang for ..... donations required to cover costs

there is always someone out to benefit from anothers fun

totally ,loads have gang bangs and dont charge ,ive gave loads of bjs (i love sucking cock)but never had anyone pay my site support so i felt obliged to give

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes.

Have,seen it loads of Times on here.

As _iew said...only the person that Actually beleive the bullshit and give them Money is to blame.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

you've got me thinking now, which could be dangerous lol, if someone asked me to go round to their house and fix something or do a wee job and they wanted to pay for it by sexual means lol, does that make me the bad one if i accept, or the person offering sex instead of cash.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

personally i would never dream of paying gor something. I believe any costs like hotel should be split evenly i would consider paying it all for the right person under the right circumstances but not for a babysitter lol. In a way if any money changes hands its like your paying for sex. Never have and never will pay for sex

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Nope its only a fiver for site support if a chick did give out bjs for it then they are cheap !!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

p.s at the wee dig at donations dirty , you have to pay to go to Cjs and thats a house so whats the difference ???

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I guess sometimes we all benefit from the site whether it be someone footing the bill for hotel buying drinks I've had guys paying for things but what doesn't make me feel comfortable is actual money passing hands that just makes it feel so wrong I've had guys offering to give me money for fuel because I tend to play away from my own postcode but have only accepted once and that was because I'd left my wallet on the kitchen counter on my way out the door and it wasnt just anyone it was a long term fb now very good friend I'd have rather hot a pal drive all the way to meet me than accept of someone I didn't feel so comfortable with. I've been to cjs before and as a driver I don't bring any alcohol with me and do help myself to tea and munchies but single guys pay a lot more so I'm sure there is some benefit

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"p.s at the wee dig at donations dirty , you have to pay to go to Cjs and thats a house so whats the difference ???"

you put up a post i posted my reply ,i dont see any digs anywhere in it ,guess its only my posts you will ever have a pop at ,thank fook i know how to have a laugh and not take things seriously

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"p.s at the wee dig at donations dirty , you have to pay to go to Cjs and thats a house so whats the difference ???

you put up a post i posted my reply ,i dont see any digs anywhere in it ,guess its only my posts you will ever have a pop at ,thank fook i know how to have a laugh and not take things seriously

Only replying to your retort so as i asked do you think there is a difference !!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I guess sometimes we all benefit from the site whether it be someone footing the bill for hotel buying drinks I've had guys paying for things but what doesn't make me feel comfortable is actual money passing hands that just makes it feel so wrong I've had guys offering to give me money for fuel because I tend to play away from my own postcode but have only accepted once and that was because I'd left my wallet on the kitchen counter on my way out the door and it wasnt just anyone it was a long term fb now very good friend I'd have rather hot a pal drive all the way to meet me than accept of someone I didn't feel so comfortable with. I've been to cjs before and as a driver I don't bring any alcohol with me and do help myself to tea and munchies but single guys pay a lot more so I'm sure there is some benefit "

very true,i once played with a guy that loved buying me undies,it wasnt the cheapest of undies and stockings were really expensive,i then find that he loved taking pics and posting them on a well known stocking forum

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"p.s at the wee dig at donations dirty , you have to pay to go to Cjs and thats a house so whats the difference ???

you put up a post i posted my reply ,i dont see any digs anywhere in it ,guess its only my posts you will ever have a pop at ,thank fook i know how to have a laugh and not take things seriously

Only replying to your retort so as i asked do you think there is a difference !!!!!

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yeah i defo do think there is a diffrence,

i dont see cj as being a pimp i see it as a business but i do see charging guys to come fuck gals ,so be it it may only be a small fee as pimping .some will agree some wont,thats my opinion and i will stick with it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"p.s at the wee dig at donations dirty , you have to pay to go to Cjs and thats a house so whats the difference ???

you put up a post i posted my reply ,i dont see any digs anywhere in it ,guess its only my posts you will ever have a pop at ,thank fook i know how to have a laugh and not take things seriously

Only replying to your retort so as i asked do you think there is a difference !!!!!

yeah i defo do think there is a diffrence,

Really , she is providing a sex service for guys and girls and couples and exchanged money for different sex nights , she providing food clean sheets her home nibbles and drink and is making a fortune out of it , Bel wanted small donations for the same he was providing food drink and people particapating in sex he had cpls guys single girls and men for sex parties and asking for a little donation may that have been wine food etc ...kinda looks like the same to me !!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

See you mentioned that name again (i am not aloud to use it) there is more than 1 profile offering gang bangs with donations required ,what he she them do is there business not mine.

you posted an open forum asking our _iews and i posted mine the same as many others have ,i see it as making money from others fun,as for cjs i assume she pays tax adn that it is a business there is a diffrence

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By *ola cubesMan over a year ago

coatbridge

never came across it myself but i do take a long time to get to know people afraid my _iews the same if you did you can only blame yourself

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Never had it happen thankfully . Dont think i ever would pay either . I dont mind travelling costs and reasonable expenses , but in the case of i have got a babysitter and i need 40 quid ??? no chance . read the thread about the guy booking the hotel etc etc and said i would have been raging , unless she had pointed out it was just a social meet . There are a few that ruin things . CJ's i can see why , condoms towels etc etc fine i get that , its not hidden or sinister itsjust that things cost money to be put on so spreading the cost makes sense .

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Never had it happen thankfully . Dont think i ever would pay either . I dont mind travelling costs and reasonable expenses , but in the case of i have got a babysitter and i need 40 quid ??? no chance . read the thread about the guy booking the hotel etc etc and said i would have been raging , unless she had pointed out it was just a social meet . There are a few that ruin things . CJ's i can see why , condoms towels etc etc fine i get that , its not hidden or sinister itsjust that things cost money to be put on so spreading the cost makes sense .

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"See you mentioned that name again (i am not aloud to use it) there is more than 1 profile offering gang bangs with donations required ,what he she them do is there business not mine.

any legitimate business will be registered at company house,i suggest you find proof to back up your reply , regardless of the costs involved whether it be cjs or any other sex party you have to pay entrance for the cost not for sex as that would be solisiting which is illegal

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"See you mentioned that name again (i am not aloud to use it) there is more than 1 profile offering gang bangs with donations required ,what he she them do is there business not mine.

there it is then if thats what it is it is

we had a party sat night there was 10 of us ,it was a sex party ,we provided the condoms the food ,we provided soft drinks and asked that they byob ,waterproof sheets cost pennies to protect mattresses and bedding can be washed and dryed for buttons,it gets done daily anyway so another night adds no expense ,we even went out our way and dropped some back at home to save taxi fares in the morning.This was our choice we were not selling ourselves we were having a party the same as if we invite family over we would never expect them to leave a fee at the end of the night to cover food costs washing up liquid for the dishes and certainly not charge them to wash the bed sheets after they had used them .Every one has a difference in opinion on these things ,this is ours and will say no more on it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

You said cjs and bels was different what is you having a party got to do with the difference ? i hold partys all the time and expect them to bring a bottle 2 ...so am i a pimp ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

p.s Everyones opinion is different ..so ill say no more on the fact aswell !!!

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By *ola cubesMan over a year ago

coatbridge

"You said cjs and bels was different what is you having a party got to do with the difference ? i hold partys all the time and expect them to bring a bottle 2 ...so am i a pimp ??

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i think the point was they arnt charging sorry expecting "donations" swinging venues pay tax on there door returns and get relief on buying in showers condoms towels any other expenditure to make the club run smoothly if they are bringing a btl to yours to have to make the good times roll then alls well if its for you to take away and have for yourself its different i dont agree with clubs either sexist _iews on door prices yup sexism works back towards males as well as always this is just my _iew and really dosnt matter

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm actually just about to post a topic in this very room trying to organise a gangbang at a hotel. If I'm forking out £50-70 for a hotel and providing soft drinks, protection etc I don't think its unreasonable to ask for a small contribution to the cost, say up to a fiver .

I think there's a big difference between that and asking for cash in hand at the last minute.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You said cjs and bels was different what is you having a party got to do with the difference ? i hold partys all the time and expect them to bring a bottle 2 ...so am i a pimp ??

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i for one have not used anyones names so i think you should have a look before bringing others names into it when they are not here to defend themselves ,i merely said there is many profiles who post meets for gangbangs and ask for donations ,i never singled out one profile

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm actually just about to post a topic in this very room trying to organise a gangbang at a hotel. If I'm forking out £50-70 for a hotel and providing soft drinks, protection etc I don't think its unreasonable to ask for a small contribution to the cost, say up to a fiver .

I think there's a big difference between that and asking for cash in hand at the last minute.

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so you want something but cant afford it so will charge others accoringly for your fun?

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By *illow PimpMan over a year ago

Midlothian

If folk want to oragnise parties, socials, gangbangs, events or whatever they wish then its up to them to decide how they do it.

If people dont agree or wish to partake then just leave it until something you fancy comes along or organise your own your way.

I hate to see folk pissing on others because they choose to decide whats right for them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

hate to see folk pissing on others

and here i thought that was something you enjoyed

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By *illow PimpMan over a year ago

Midlothian

" hate to see folk pissing on others

and here i thought that was something you enjoyed

Tis better to give than to receive but with pissing i make an exception, might try and beat my record of 6 girls slashing on me one after the other.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" hate to see folk pissing on others

and here i thought that was something you enjoyed

Tis better to give than to receive but with pissing i make an exception, might try and beat my record of 6 girls slashing on me one after the other.

now i do like taking the piss but slashing just scares me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

so you want something but cant afford it so will charge others accoringly for your fun?"

No its not about that at all. If I could host an event at my house I would, and it would be without contribution.

But the fact of the matter is that up here the scene is very small. There are no clubs and meetings are rare. Most of the guys looking for T-girls up here are married/attached/can't accom . So if I want to meet I have to make something happen myself and not wait for it to drop into my lap.

So If I want to arrange something for MUTUAL fun why not ask for a contribution toward doing it? If I don't ask for a contribution then surely I'm paying the hotel for sex?

But on a personal comment, if I thought for a moment I could equal my current salary by fucking people a few times a week then my legs would be in the air now.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

so you want something but cant afford it so will charge others accoringly for your fun?

No its not about that at all. If I could host an event at my house I would, and it would be without contribution.

So If I want to arrange something for MUTUAL fun why not ask for a contribution toward doing it? If I don't ask for a contribution then surely I'm paying the hotel for sex?

But on a personal comment, if I thought for a moment I could equal my current salary by fucking people a few times a week then my legs would be in the air now.

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totally understand what you are saying ,but isnt it just the same as asking others to pay less than a fiver to fuck you surely you are worth more

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Now you're encouraging me to charge more for it!?

Its not about being cheap, its purely about having to pay for a venue to do this. Its not about taking anyone for a ride or financial gain.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

if people asking for a contribution upsets you then dont go surely its that simple, if i want to pay for sex i can and if i dont then i wont. i think theres a difference between house parties and houses that regularly host parties as a business though. but at the end of the day i'll never do anything im not comfortable with or i think is so morally wrong that i will get upset by it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"if people asking for a contribution upsets you then dont go surely its that simple, if i want to pay for sex i can and if i dont then i wont. i think theres a difference between house parties and houses that regularly host parties as a business though. but at the end of the day i'll never do anything im not comfortable with or i think is so morally wrong that i will get upset by it. "
i dont see anyone getting upset its all about _iews ,if no one had _iews then the forums would be dire ,its all in good spirit,well to me it is

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think part of the problem is that some people are more susceptible to these things than others.

Ive never really understood how people can be conned to the extent where they lose a decent amount of money.

If somebody is asking for things when you have never met them then the 1st thing you should be asking yourself is why.

This is different from paying a few pound towards a venue or to show you are genuine but even then money should only change hands when you are sure that its getting used for what it says it will be.

Sometimes you just need to walk away if things dont feel right.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i dont see anyone getting upset its all about _iews ,if no one had _iews then the forums would be dire ,its all in good spirit,well to me it is

i never said anyone was getting upset by it i said if anyone asks you to do anything that would upset anyone then dont do it. if you took something personal from my post i can only apologise as thats not what was intended xx

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Yes ive been taken advantage of too by being too trusting of people with regards to social payments and ended up out of pocket and only myself to blame for that too but it will never happen again thats for sure you pay up or you dont go simple as that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i dont see anyone getting upset its all about _iews ,if no one had _iews then the forums would be dire ,its all in good spirit,well to me it is

Oooooft my head was squabbling with itself reading all these posts lol

I for one have paid and will continue to do so to go to organised events cjs and the like because people put slot of time and effort into organising these things and I don't believe they should be out of pocket for doing so, at the end of the day nothing is guaranteed at these events but it beats sitting in alone at night and moaning nothing ever happens and I personally don't go to play anyway I go to meet people and socialise and don't mind paying in fact it's less than I'd pay to get into a club for a night out and if I was going to a coffee shop for a gossip I'm damn sure I'd pay more for my copious amounts of tea juice and food, do why not invite people round to mine ? Well I have kids for a start and then there's the neighbours and then there's my safety lets not forget these places are safe middle grounds for getting to meet people

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By *uboCouple over a year ago

East kilbride

"i dont see anyone getting upset its all about _iews ,if no one had _iews then the forums would be dire ,its all in good spirit,well to me it is

Oooooft my head was squabbling with itself reading all these posts lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i dont see anyone getting upset its all about _iews ,if no one had _iews then the forums would be dire ,its all in good spirit,well to me it is

Oooooft my head was squabbling with itself reading all these posts lol

What she said

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"i dont see anyone getting upset its all about _iews ,if no one had _iews then the forums would be dire ,its all in good spirit,well to me it is

Oooooft my head was squabbling with itself reading all these posts lol

Exactly !!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We set a date book an apartment and advertise the fact we are looking to meet, we do ask that the cost of the apartment is split between all who show.

We do not provide food/alcohol but do provide bottled water and condoms.

In no way do we profit from any meet we have had we feel it is only fair to split the cost of the apartment between us all as everyone who does show wants to be there and enjoy's themselves as much as we do.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

CJ's:

Organiser takes money from everyone that enters...regardless of sex. They are charged for the use of the home, food, condoms, soft drinks etc.

Organised Gangbangs where there is a 'contribution':

The men pay, ooops, sorry 'contribute'. The one or two ladies dont 'contribute'. In my mind, thats similar to prostitution.

Thats the difference inbetween CJ's (or other clubs) and gangbangs that ask for a contribution.

S. x

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By *issBehavingxxWoman over a year ago

Glasgow

"CJ's:

Organiser takes money from everyone that enters...regardless of sex. They are charged for the use of the home, food, condoms, soft drinks etc.

Organised Gangbangs where there is a 'contribution':

The men pay, ooops, sorry 'contribute'. The one or two ladies dont 'contribute'. In my mind, thats similar to prostitution. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"CJ's:

Organiser takes money from everyone that enters...regardless of sex. They are charged for the use of the home, food, condoms, soft drinks etc.

Organised Gangbangs where there is a 'contribution':

The men pay, ooops, sorry 'contribute'. The one or two ladies dont 'contribute'. In my mind, thats similar to prostitution.

Thats the difference inbetween CJ's (or other clubs) and gangbangs that ask for a contribution.

S. x"

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By *ikerbob1957Man over a year ago

Glasgow

I'm possibly the biggest mug on here and have been stung twice but I've only got myself to blame for being too keen to get my wallet out for a sob story.

So far I'm out of pocket by about £250.

Worst part is that I've not actually had any fun out of it

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"CJ's:

Organiser takes money from everyone that enters...regardless of sex. They are charged for the use of the home, food, condoms, soft drinks etc.

Organised Gangbangs where there is a 'contribution':

The men pay, ooops, sorry 'contribute'. The one or two ladies dont 'contribute'. In my mind, thats similar to prostitution.

Thats the difference inbetween CJ's (or other clubs) and gangbangs that ask for a contribution.

S. x"

I've been to a few originsed gb and contributed a girl we used to swing with took us to one in Dundee and we chipped in drinks and food for the party and a few in Glasgow my friend bought in loads put a big spread on for 20odd guys so a few of us regulars chipped so sorry if I don't think _iew of yours is valid in all cases

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By *b430Man over a year ago

Tayside

I've been to a few originsed gb and contributed a girl..... "

You contributed a girl!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Aha oops bad grammar meant to say we contributed loads the girl we swung with took us lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"CJ's:

Organiser takes money from everyone that enters...regardless of sex. They are charged for the use of the home, food, condoms, soft drinks etc.

Organised Gangbangs where there is a 'contribution':

The men pay, ooops, sorry 'contribute'. The one or two ladies dont 'contribute'. In my mind, thats similar to prostitution.

Thats the difference inbetween CJ's (or other clubs) and gangbangs that ask for a contribution.

S. x

Definatly agree, but then again I didnt say that it was… I said where the gents contribute and the ladies dont.

;-)

Seen a mix and match on here before, those Meets that ask for a contribution for a hotel ( to be split equally amongst those attending, including the host), those that ask for a contribution for erm…. just attending.

The former example im sure is what happens most the time but there are a few that are like the latter… and kinda smacks of a pimp/prostitute thing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"CJ's:

Organiser takes money from everyone that enters...regardless of sex. They are charged for the use of the home, food, condoms, soft drinks etc.

Organised Gangbangs where there is a 'contribution':

The men pay, ooops, sorry 'contribute'. The one or two ladies dont 'contribute'. In my mind, thats similar to prostitution.

Thats the difference inbetween CJ's (or other clubs) and gangbangs that ask for a contribution.

S. x

Definatly agree, but then again I didnt say that it was… I said where the gents contribute and the ladies dont.

;-)

The former example im sure is what happens most the time but there are a few that are like the latter… and kinda smacks of a pimp/prostitute thing.

Yeah not good wouldnt want it to get seedy, i always do my bit at partys take drink or chip in if the host has put on a spread and orginsed a great party and some of the guys do too, if it was just an in and out wham bam thank you mam and no party then i wouldnt but if theres a big spread drink etc then ill happly chip in

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We all do what we feel comfortable with, that includes monetary contributions - If u don't then walk away - simple!

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By *olly Gentle GiantMan over a year ago

Glenrothes

Geez peeps. This thread has more tangents than a trig exam. Lol. seriously though my penarth worth is that if anyone who is running a venue and charges admission or membership fees and permits sexual activity between consenting adults to take place within the venue, then provided the person holds all necessary legal permits to operate the venue in such fashion and is declaring earnings to HMRC for tax purposes, then does anyone have any legitimate right to complain but if the consents and/or HMRC is anything less than kosher then they leave themselves open to potential criminal investigations and/or sanctions. Equally, if someone decides to host or facilitate a private sexual event themselves at their home or a mates home or a hotel room, provided there is no admission fee, then I'd say its ok too even if they ask for a REASONABLE AND JUSTIFIED contribution toward expenses incurred. Where I have issues is where the contribution charge is excessive and includes an element of profit. Just my own _iew btw.

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By *illow PimpMan over a year ago

Midlothian

"Thats the difference inbetween CJ's (or other clubs) and gangbangs that ask for a contribution.

S. x"

Hypothetically who's to say there is no payment made to, lets call them female friends to "look" after single guys or kick start things off with couples regardless if everyone pays an entrance fee or not.

No one is aware that the "friends" are being remunerated and are "bait"

Footfall is everything in this business so it's in everyone's interest to give "customers" value for money and ensure return business.

I'm not singling out any particular place but it is common practice within the industry.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A friend of a friend who we were going to play with last year told me that when she was a little bit short on cash she set up a gangbang and charged the guys £35 each! Said she made over £300 for like two hours work!

Each to their own really but we didn't play with her after that. X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A friend of a friend who we were going to play with last year told me that when she was a little bit short on cash she set up a gangbang and charged the guys £35 each! Said she made over £300 for like two hours work!

Each to their own really but we didn't play with her after that. X"

Oooooft I'm in wrong job I need to work two days to earn that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We all do what we feel comfortable with, that includes monetary contributions - If u don't then walk away - simple!

exactly, its as simple as that

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

When im meeting either for social or for hotel fun i always offer to pay half there are a lot of gentlemen out there who insist on paying and i think thats nice but id never expect it nor demand it .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yip I'm the same always offer to pay my share...never had a gentleman take it yet! thanks guys....xXx

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By *1cebren4uWoman over a year ago

clydebank

Think cj might be a tad upset with her name being mentioned alot, seems like she been brought into this debate with out even commenting herself.

Personally ppl do what you have to do have your parties charge what you want but leave others out who aint even muttered a word.

sorry my 2ps worth xxx no offence to anyone xxxxx

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By *akedninjaMan over a year ago

edinburgh

Different strokes for different folks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Think cj might be a tad upset with her name being mentioned alot, seems like she been brought into this debate with out even commenting herself.

Personally ppl do what you have to do have your parties charge what you want but leave others out who aint even muttered a word.

sorry my 2ps worth xxx no offence to anyone xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Imagine their surprise when i turned up with the coppers....dont be silly!!!, I mean a jar of coppers!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A couple create a party, they want to have such a big party they decide the house is'nt big enough, so they get a lovely rented pad for that nite, to make it both a bit special and be able to cater for all that are coming.

The pad is £300+ for the nite.

They just fork out that money and are content with folks coming and not offering to help share costs? To avoid being accused of "pimping"?

Its hypothetical, granted.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A couple create a party, they want to have such a big party they decide the house is'nt big enough, so they get a lovely rented pad for that nite, to make it both a bit special and be able to cater for all that are coming.

The pad is £300+ for the nite.

They just fork out that money and are content with folks coming and not offering to help share costs? To avoid being accused of "pimping"?

Its hypothetical, granted."
make the party smaller then ..sorted

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Think cj might be a tad upset with her name being mentioned alot, seems like she been brought into this debate with out even commenting herself.

Personally ppl do what you have to do have your parties charge what you want but leave others out who aint even muttered a word.

sorry my 2ps worth xxx no offence to anyone xxxxx

Here here point taken guilty myself of mentioning the venue but I'm all fit it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Each to their own really but we didn't play with her after that. X"

There's a word for someone like that, Prostitute.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Each to their own really but we didn't play with her after that. X

There's a word for someone like that, Prostitute.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Each to their own really but we didn't play with her after that. X

There's a word for someone like that, Prostitute.

nice labelling...shes now a prostitute foreverrrrrrrrrrrr

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What else Do you call someone who changes for sex?

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

"What else Do you call someone who changes for sex?"

a str8 bi man on Fab

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What else Do you call someone who changes for sex?"

crossdreser?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

very true...

But i did mean ...charges lol

Silly Phone

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Each to their own really but we didn't play with her after that. X"

If she had done 16 Hours work it wouldnt have affected her tax credits

Just a thought . ....pmsfl

Buboo

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By *cottybhoyMan over a year ago

falkirk

I have been to a few events - in houses and hotels - where the organiser has asked for a slight contribution to cover the cost of food, refreshments, condoms and towels. I have paid up happily despite usually being too busy to eat or drink thanks to the lovely ladies - lol.

Have been to a couple of clubs where I have paid entrance fees and, again, did so happily. Condoms, towels, refreshments and facilities available to me and these are not free. And I have always been grateful to the ladies that let me play with them too.

I have chatted to ladies on here who have claimed to be willing to meet if I paid £40 or so for the baby-sitter or whatever.

I haven't taken them up on their offer through personal choice and am not going to be critical of them. We are adults and know when something is not quite right and should trust our instincts.

Of course, it may have been the best £40 I could ever have spent and I maybe missed the best sex ever. But I doubt it.

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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O o O oo

Each to their own really but we didn't play with her after that. X

There's a word for someone like that, Prostitute.

nice labelling...shes now a prostitute foreverrrrrrrrrrrr"

Escort then if you prefer.

Either way, the woman is selling her body because she needed dosh....the definition of prostitute is selling your body for cash....I think it fits

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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O o O oo

I personally think if someone wants to ask for a donation to a party where there are drinks snacks and condoms offered then unless it is silly money I don't see the harm in it.

If someone is asking for money to enter a club, it is something people should expect.

If someone is asking for large donations for guaranteed sex, it is prostitution.

Just my _iew.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Each to their own really but we didn't play with her after that. X

There's a word for someone like that, Prostitute.

nice labelling...shes now a prostitute foreverrrrrrrrrrrr

Escort then if you prefer.

Either way, the woman is selling her body because she needed dosh....the definition of prostitute is selling your body for cash....I think it fits

or one that makes a living from it? whether full time or part time.

"I have had sex for money"

"I have sex for money"

I dont really care how others use the site, whether its lavishing gifts etc-so I've managed to avoid anything I feel uncomfortable with.I was asked about going to amsterdam with mates for the obvious open attitude and legal aspects of whats on offer.I've declined everytime as I have no interest in having sex with anyone , other than for my/our enjoyment.

If its about an illegal activity that people have the issue with, I'd say the same thing about dogging(again...no interest in that).

I understand the site/clubs wish to keep a decent reputation of course.

anyway...I'd rather have a wank than jump out for something I know I wouldnt enjoy..each to their own I suppose.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Each to their own really but we didn't play with her after that. X

There's a word for someone like that, Prostitute.

nice labelling...shes now a prostitute foreverrrrrrrrrrrr

Escort then if you prefer.

Either way, the woman is selling her body because she needed dosh....the definition of prostitute is selling your body for cash....I think it fits

Exactly, I stick by my initial comment, anyone charging £35 a guy to fuck them is a prostitute.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Each to their own really but we didn't play with her after that. X

There's a word for someone like that, Prostitute.

nice labelling...shes now a prostitute foreverrrrrrrrrrrr

Escort then if you prefer.

Either way, the woman is selling her body because she needed dosh....the definition of prostitute is selling your body for cash....I think it fits

Exactly, I stick by my initial comment, anyone charging £35 a guy to fuck them is a prostitute. "

well as I dont know the going rates for such things I ofeten wonder..

isnt that a cheap amount?-if they did one on one sessions am sure they could almost double that amount.

whats the difference between charging that to anyone,whether it be the person having the gangbang or who's hosting such an event?

had she booked a hotel room?provided anything?

had she selected who she wanted?

I'm not condoning anyone really, but just think its a pretty grey area to be throwing in the prostitute label- or even the pimp labels.

* i just know I've paid for entry(to the premises), nothing else...once the money leaves my hands to the proprietor..everything else is consenting sex to me -and hopefully because they want to have sex with me , rather than a necessity.

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By *illow PimpMan over a year ago

Midlothian

Each to their own really but we didn't play with her after that. X

There's a word for someone like that, Prostitute.

I'd say she's a smart cookie

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The pad is £300+ for the nite.

They just fork out that money and are content with folks coming and not offering to help share costs? To avoid being accused of "pimping"?

Its hypothetical, granted.make the party smaller then ..sorted

Sorted? Then what? Cause i dunno, never had a party before see,