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"When I'm at the gym it's the thing that gets on my nerves the most.knowing some random is perving at me instead of minding their own. "
I absolutely agree with that. Not that I'm ever in a gym or wearing any of the mentioned items...but there's nothing worse than being made to feel uncomfortable. |
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"When I'm at the gym it's the thing that gets on my nerves the most.knowing some random is perving at me instead of minding their own.
How do you know they are ? " because I'm stood in the mirror doing squats and he's sat on a bench right behind me where I can see him.
There's a time and a place for being a perve and a gym ain't 1 of them. |
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"When I'm at the gym it's the thing that gets on my nerves the most.knowing some random is perving at me instead of minding their own.
How do you know they are ? because I'm stood in the mirror doing squats and he's sat on a bench right behind me where I can see him.
There's a time and a place for being a perve and a gym ain't 1 of them."
Unfortunately a gym is up there with being one of the biggest places for being a perve for some people . |
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"When I'm at the gym it's the thing that gets on my nerves the most.knowing some random is perving at me instead of minding their own.
How do you know they are ? because I'm stood in the mirror doing squats and he's sat on a bench right behind me where I can see him.
There's a time and a place for being a perve and a gym ain't 1 of them."
If you know the bench is there, and it's either for training on or sitting on , then you can't really complain that someone is looking at you , why not do your squats in a different area or face him so you can stare back. Just a thought. |
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"When I'm at the gym it's the thing that gets on my nerves the most.knowing some random is perving at me instead of minding their own.
I absolutely agree with that. Not that I'm ever in a gym or wearing any of the mentioned items...but there's nothing worse than being made to feel uncomfortable. " exactly..wonder how men would feel if another man was making them feel uncomfortable. |
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"When I'm at the gym it's the thing that gets on my nerves the most.knowing some random is perving at me instead of minding their own.
I absolutely agree with that. Not that I'm ever in a gym or wearing any of the mentioned items...but there's nothing worse than being made to feel uncomfortable. exactly..wonder how men would feel if another man was making them feel uncomfortable."
Whether it was a man or a woman that made the man uncomfortable then they would probably address the situation by either confronting the situation or move away from the situation perhaps even report the situation to the gym owners , but they probably wouldn't complain and keep putting themselves back into the same situation that makes them uncomfortable in the first place, in your case , looking in a mirror at the people behind you on a bench . Or maybe thats just how I would deal with it. |
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"When I'm at the gym it's the thing that gets on my nerves the most.knowing some random is perving at me instead of minding their own.
I absolutely agree with that. Not that I'm ever in a gym or wearing any of the mentioned items...but there's nothing worse than being made to feel uncomfortable. exactly..wonder how men would feel if another man was making them feel uncomfortable."
It's actually a very common thing for men to make other men feel uncomfortable in a gym , ive known plenty of men who have moved gym or just stopped going altogether because other men have intimidated them in one way or another . |
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I should probably say as well that I also know men who've left certain gyms because they don't like the way some woman have been acting and conducting themselves as well which was making them feel uncomfortable. |
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