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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Given the choices, do you find sex more thrilling with a regular (not your partner), an arranged meet or a stranger (random pick up?"
Don't do regular Fab meets, for me it gets to boring after a few meets . Arranged meet with new person or random pickup in club or wherever I find is best.
The chase is big part of the thrill for me.  |
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By *inn OP Man
over a year ago
edinburgh |
"Given the choices, do you find sex more thrilling with a regular (not your partner), an arranged meet or a stranger (random pick up?
Don't do regular Fab meets, for me it gets to boring after a few meets . Arranged meet with new person or random pickup in club or wherever I find is best.
The chase is big part of the thrill for me. "
Ahhh the chase - the thrill of the moment |
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"Given the choices, do you find sex more thrilling with a regular (not your partner), an arranged meet or a stranger (random pick up?
Don't do regular Fab meets, for me it gets to boring after a few meets . Arranged meet with new person or random pickup in club or wherever I find is best.
The chase is big part of the thrill for me.
Ahhh the chase - the thrill of the moment "
Feck the chase and silly mind games. Rather find someone who knows what they want |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Given the choices, do you find sex more thrilling with a regular (not your partner), an arranged meet or a stranger (random pick up?
Don't do regular Fab meets, for me it gets to boring after a few meets . Arranged meet with new person or random pickup in club or wherever I find is best.
The chase is big part of the thrill for me.
Ahhh the chase - the thrill of the moment
Feck the chase and silly mind games. Rather find someone who knows what they want "
So do you snap your fingers and the women come running ? |
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"Given the choices, do you find sex more thrilling with a regular (not your partner), an arranged meet or a stranger (random pick up?
Don't do regular Fab meets, for me it gets to boring after a few meets . Arranged meet with new person or random pickup in club or wherever I find is best.
The chase is big part of the thrill for me.
Ahhh the chase - the thrill of the moment
Feck the chase and silly mind games. Rather find someone who knows what they want
So do you snap your fingers and the women come running ?"
Yes that's exactly what I meant, there wasn't any other way to interpret it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Given the choices, do you find sex more thrilling with a regular (not your partner), an arranged meet or a stranger (random pick up?
Don't do regular Fab meets, for me it gets to boring after a few meets . Arranged meet with new person or random pickup in club or wherever I find is best.
The chase is big part of the thrill for me.
Ahhh the chase - the thrill of the moment
Feck the chase and silly mind games. Rather find someone who knows what they want
So do you snap your fingers and the women come running ?
Yes that's exactly what I meant, there wasn't any other way to interpret it."
Lol
I wouldn't say getting to know someone better was silly mind games though.
Maybe it's just me that likes to know who I'm intending getting jiggy with. |
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"Given the choices, do you find sex more thrilling with a regular (not your partner), an arranged meet or a stranger (random pick up?
Don't do regular Fab meets, for me it gets to boring after a few meets . Arranged meet with new person or random pickup in club or wherever I find is best.
The chase is big part of the thrill for me.
Ahhh the chase - the thrill of the moment
Feck the chase and silly mind games. Rather find someone who knows what they want
So do you snap your fingers and the women come running ?
Yes that's exactly what I meant, there wasn't any other way to interpret it.
Lol
I wouldn't say getting to know someone better was silly mind games though.
Maybe it's just me that likes to know who I'm intending getting jiggy with. "
I could be at a certain point in my life where I can't be ersed being led up the garden path anymore, seen it and have the metaphorical t-shirt
Don't you find it refreshing when someone else does the running for a change?
Ach maybe I'm looking for a little ego boost, ignore me  |
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When I had my single profile I enjoyed regular fun. I felt sex became better when you knew what made the other person tick as well as likes/dislikes, & as the trust grew you could push boundaries a bit further.
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By *edeWoman
over a year ago
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"Given the choices, do you find sex more thrilling with a regular (not your partner), an arranged meet or a stranger (random pick up?
Don't do regular Fab meets, for me it gets to boring after a few meets . Arranged meet with new person or random pickup in club or wherever I find is best.
The chase is big part of the thrill for me.
Ahhh the chase - the thrill of the moment
Feck the chase and silly mind games. Rather find someone who knows what they want
So do you snap your fingers and the women come running ?
Yes that's exactly what I meant, there wasn't any other way to interpret it.
Lol
I wouldn't say getting to know someone better was silly mind games though.
Maybe it's just me that likes to know who I'm intending getting jiggy with. "
How can you really know a random club pick up though?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Given the choices, do you find sex more thrilling with a regular (not your partner), an arranged meet or a stranger (random pick up?
Don't do regular Fab meets, for me it gets to boring after a few meets . Arranged meet with new person or random pickup in club or wherever I find is best.
The chase is big part of the thrill for me.
Ahhh the chase - the thrill of the moment
Feck the chase and silly mind games. Rather find someone who knows what they want
So do you snap your fingers and the women come running ?
Yes that's exactly what I meant, there wasn't any other way to interpret it.
Lol
I wouldn't say getting to know someone better was silly mind games though.
Maybe it's just me that likes to know who I'm intending getting jiggy with.
How can you really know a random club pick up though?? "
In a swing club I mean , well I would chat for a while, ( the chase ) . Even after the chase ( chatting) I still have the chance to release ( no fun ) or eat  literally |
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By *edeWoman
over a year ago
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"Given the choices, do you find sex more thrilling with a regular (not your partner), an arranged meet or a stranger (random pick up?
Don't do regular Fab meets, for me it gets to boring after a few meets . Arranged meet with new person or random pickup in club or wherever I find is best.
The chase is big part of the thrill for me.
Ahhh the chase - the thrill of the moment
Feck the chase and silly mind games. Rather find someone who knows what they want
So do you snap your fingers and the women come running ?
Yes that's exactly what I meant, there wasn't any other way to interpret it.
Lol
I wouldn't say getting to know someone better was silly mind games though.
Maybe it's just me that likes to know who I'm intending getting jiggy with.
How can you really know a random club pick up though??
In a swing club I mean , well I would chat for a while, ( the chase ) . Even after the chase ( chatting) I still have the chance to release ( no fun ) or eat literally "
Mmm your 'getting to know someone' is very different to mine  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Given the choices, do you find sex more thrilling with a regular (not your partner), an arranged meet or a stranger (random pick up?
Don't do regular Fab meets, for me it gets to boring after a few meets . Arranged meet with new person or random pickup in club or wherever I find is best.
The chase is big part of the thrill for me.
Ahhh the chase - the thrill of the moment
Feck the chase and silly mind games. Rather find someone who knows what they want
So do you snap your fingers and the women come running ?
Yes that's exactly what I meant, there wasn't any other way to interpret it.
Lol
I wouldn't say getting to know someone better was silly mind games though.
Maybe it's just me that likes to know who I'm intending getting jiggy with.
How can you really know a random club pick up though??
In a swing club I mean , well I would chat for a while, ( the chase ) . Even after the chase ( chatting) I still have the chance to release ( no fun ) or eat literally
Mmm your 'getting to know someone' is very different to mine "
I know what you mean but face to face getting to know someone is obviously way quicker than say , through fab, where it mostly is messaging getting to know someone. If that makes sense. |
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By *edeWoman
over a year ago
the abyss |
"Given the choices, do you find sex more thrilling with a regular (not your partner), an arranged meet or a stranger (random pick up?
Don't do regular Fab meets, for me it gets to boring after a few meets . Arranged meet with new person or random pickup in club or wherever I find is best.
The chase is big part of the thrill for me.
Ahhh the chase - the thrill of the moment
Feck the chase and silly mind games. Rather find someone who knows what they want
So do you snap your fingers and the women come running ?
Yes that's exactly what I meant, there wasn't any other way to interpret it.
Lol
I wouldn't say getting to know someone better was silly mind games though.
Maybe it's just me that likes to know who I'm intending getting jiggy with.
How can you really know a random club pick up though??
In a swing club I mean , well I would chat for a while, ( the chase ) . Even after the chase ( chatting) I still have the chance to release ( no fun ) or eat literally
Mmm your 'getting to know someone' is very different to mine
I know what you mean but face to face getting to know someone is obviously way quicker than say , through fab, where it mostly is messaging getting to know someone. If that makes sense."
Very true - some of us prefer the long memorable game rather than quick and forgettable though |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Given the choices, do you find sex more thrilling with a regular (not your partner), an arranged meet or a stranger (random pick up?
Don't do regular Fab meets, for me it gets to boring after a few meets . Arranged meet with new person or random pickup in club or wherever I find is best.
The chase is big part of the thrill for me.
Ahhh the chase - the thrill of the moment
Feck the chase and silly mind games. Rather find someone who knows what they want "
Regular is better. Its hard enough having an open relationship but having to continually chat women is hard far better to have one or 2 friends |
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By *edeWoman
over a year ago
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"An arranged meet is a meet that didn’t work out quite right to become a regular playmate. The former has only happened once.
Don’t like one offs with ransoms at clubs. "
I don't think I'd want to be held by ransom at a club either Jim |
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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"An arranged meet is a meet that didn’t work out quite right to become a regular playmate. The former has only happened once.
Don’t like one offs with ransoms at clubs.
I don't think I'd want to be held by ransom at a club either Jim "
Effing phone. |
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By *inn OP Man
over a year ago
edinburgh |
Very interesting - the consensus is a regular.
I thought random would come last in the choices but wasn’t sure about the order of the other two.
Interesting point made about attachment issues.
Lots to think about.
Thanks for everyone’s comments.
Other feel free to continue adding your thoughts.
Has the virus made you think differently about how you find/what you look for now? |
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I'm not into random stranger meets. Experience says that a pub pick up just has so many variables...
I've had a few arranged meets from fab, they were exciting and rewarding.
The one fab meet I met a few times over a few weeks was lovely, and I'd like to do it again.
Summary: regular would be nice, but I will settle for some fab meets with like-minded ladies. |
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