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over a year ago
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For the ones who are kinksters , bdsm , have you ever felt worried that things will be taking too far , I'm heavily into breath play and for me it's a must to be able to stop if the bouderies are over my limits , do you have a signal between both party's if it gets to much ??? 
Only wondering as a fellow sub who is a good friend got baldy cut from the flog , she had to go to hospital to get a couple of stitches she's not complaining tho infact the scares are well a turn on ...just thought I'd see if anyone has went past there limits .
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we don't have a code word but DD knows when I have had enough by the way my voice changes and my body language.. kinda Like we go into role play and when its too much I step back into the real world and he notices straight away |
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"we don't have a code word but DD knows when I have had enough by the way my voice changes and my body language.. kinda Like we go into role play and when its too much I step back into the real world and he notices straight away "
That's the same with mrS and I my body lanuage says it all , my friend has her master and he is a total gent I think they had a tad to much to drink and well guess the rest lol |
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"I'm heavily into breath play and for me it's a must to be able to stop if the bouderies are over my limits , do you have a signal between both party's if it gets to much ???
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Normally when she turn's blue 
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"I'm heavily into breath play and for me it's a must to be able to stop if the bouderies are over my limits , do you have a signal between both party's if it gets to much ???
Normally when she turn's blue
Only kidding i'm a lover not a fighter "
Haahaa if I go blue means he's don't it wrong |
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it depends what your into. i'm a saddist by all respects of the term. i got out of the scene when i began to want to take it to outer levels that would involve a level of harm that wouldnt be acceptable by even the bdsm community |
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My far better half and I started off really slowly with loads of communication and built it up so that we learned to read one another and knew where our boundaries were. In situations like breath play or when she's gagged, I'd get her to hold something heavy that she could drop if she wanted it to stop; a tangible safe word. |
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"it depends what your into. i'm a saddist by all respects of the term. i got out of the scene when i began to want to take it to outer levels that would involve a level of harm that wouldnt be acceptable by even the bdsm community"
Very Interesting, I've Actualy spoken with the hardest of kinksters and they got in deep, it's your endurance levels being tested , I'm more in crucifixion flogging and breath play etc as a sub would be really interested to hear what outer level you were going to , you have me wondering and intreged now . |
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"My far better half and I started off really slowly with loads of communication and built it up so that we learned to read one another and knew where our boundaries were. In situations like breath play or when she's gagged, I'd get her to hold something heavy that she could drop if she wanted it to stop; a tangible safe word."
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"it depends what your into. i'm a saddist by all respects of the term. i got out of the scene when i began to want to take it to outer levels that would involve a level of harm that wouldnt be acceptable by even the bdsm community
Very Interesting, I've Actualy spoken with the hardest of kinksters and they got in deep, it's your endurance levels being tested , I'm more in crucifixion flogging and breath play etc as a sub would be really interested to hear what outer level you were going to , you have me wondering and intreged now ."
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What is breath play vicky?
I've alway's enjoyed kink and want to explore it more! Sadly it takes alot for me to trust and my ex was not keen on pushing my boundaries further and at the moment i'am just learning myself till i find a person i can trust.
Only explored this with one other couple and they/he was really good and just observed my body language. |
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asphyxiation, strangulation etc is breath play naughty,something slave and i enjoy .but should only be done when there is a lot of trust there with the person you are with.xxxkaty |
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"asphyxiation, strangulation etc is breath play naughty,something slave and i enjoy .but should only be done when there is a lot of trust there with the person you are with.xxxkaty"
Ahh thanks Katy, was'nt sure. I joined a fetish site and finding all the termonolgy tricky. With the ex i enjoyed his hand's around my neck in a quite intense way. |
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"asphyxiation, strangulation etc is breath play naughty,something slave and i enjoy .but should only be done when there is a lot of trust there with the person you are with.xxxkaty
Ahh thanks Katy, was'nt sure. I joined a fetish site and finding all the termonolgy tricky. With the ex i enjoyed his hand's around my neck in a quite intense way. "
I use belts , leather belt , used to use choke chains but belts are more effective , breath play is my thing has been since I joined the scene 6 years ago ,I used to go to a few clubs and mingle with all sorts of kinksters , I love how you get people who just do it for role play , meet a few just doing it for there partners or taking a lashing just to get a sexy masters attention lol
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"What is breath play vicky?
I've alway's enjoyed kink and want to explore it more! Sadly it takes alot for me to trust and my ex was not keen on pushing my boundaries further and at the moment i'am just learning myself till i find a person i can trust.
Only explored this with one other couple and they/he was really good and just observed my body language. "
That's the way to go , you have to build up trust , if there's not trust you CANNOT submit yourself to them mentally and physically |
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"Playing with fire!!! Look at how many people have died from that scenario.
I must be too old fashioned as I like nothing better than kissing, cuddling and some nice foreplay."
I'm not going down the same path as Michael Hutchison lol it's very safe if done right
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"asphyxiation, strangulation etc is breath play naughty,something slave and i enjoy .but should only be done when there is a lot of trust there with the person you are with.xxxkaty
Ahh thanks Katy, was'nt sure. I joined a fetish site and finding all the termonolgy tricky. With the ex i enjoyed his hand's around my neck in a quite intense way. "
oh let me know what site your on xx
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"asphyxiation, strangulation etc is breath play naughty,something slave and i enjoy .but should only be done when there is a lot of trust there with the person you are with.xxxkaty
Ahh thanks Katy, was'nt sure. I joined a fetish site and finding all the termonolgy tricky. With the ex i enjoyed his hand's around my neck in a quite intense way.
oh let me know what site your on xx
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If you go through xmatch they have a site called ALT for bdsm and fetish |
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We used to attend club nights in Scotland, but cut back on that more than a year ago.
So now we just tend to meet people through random meets. Obviously we don't jump straight into the heavy stuff, but if we meet someone on a semi regular basis we tend to be be more than happy to share our kinks |
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"asphyxiation, strangulation etc is breath play naughty,something slave and i enjoy .but should only be done when there is a lot of trust there with the person you are with.xxxkaty
Ahh thanks Katy, was'nt sure. I joined a fetish site and finding all the termonolgy tricky. With the ex i enjoyed his hand's around my neck in a quite intense way.
oh let me know what site your on xx
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I joined FLife. |
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