Well yeah it's obvious that you can either send it or not, but that doesn't really address the issue, does it?
I've no issue sending a face pic, but I can't understand why people feel it's OK to demand something from other people, that they aren't willing to do themselves. |
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"Well yeah it's obvious that you can either send it or not, but that doesn't really address the issue, does it?
I've no issue sending a face pic, but I can't understand why people feel it's OK to demand something from other people, that they aren't willing to do themselves. "
How do you know they won't return one or if they send one if making first contact? |
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"Well yeah it's obvious that you can either send it or not, but that doesn't really address the issue, does it?
I've no issue sending a face pic, but I can't understand why people feel it's OK to demand something from other people, that they aren't willing to do themselves.
How do you know they won't return one or if they send one if making first contact?"
Mostly cos they are after "discretion" or "value privacy" or they have outright said they won't provide one |
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"Well yeah it's obvious that you can either send it or not, but that doesn't really address the issue, does it?
I've no issue sending a face pic, but I can't understand why people feel it's OK to demand something from other people, that they aren't willing to do themselves. "
People have all sorts of misconceptions and ideas. They also have a different view and that’s their right OP, not saying they are correct incidentally just that they obviously do think it’s ok. I’d consider it a lesson learned, not everyone is as open or nice as yourself.  |
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Not two faced. People will have their own reasons for asking or demanding certain things. Ball is still in your court though as you can play along or not. |
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"To not have any face pics on your profile, but to expect anyone who contacts you to have one themselves?
I don't understand that logic, but maybe I'm missing something  "
I think you mean double standards not 2 faced OP.
Your never gonna get yer end away if you don't bow to the demands of the few. Actually maybe you will. Send a picture of bugs bunny and tell them to send a picture back or they can do one. |
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"To not have any face pics on your profile, but to expect anyone who contacts you to have one themselves?
I don't understand that logic, but maybe I'm missing something
I think you mean double standards not 2 faced OP.
Your never gonna get yer end away if you don't bow to the demands of the few. Actually maybe you will. Send a picture of bugs bunny and tell them to send a picture back or they can do one. "
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"To not have any face pics on your profile, but to expect anyone who contacts you to have one themselves?
I don't understand that logic, but maybe I'm missing something "
Id say it screams entitlement |
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Never seen anyone demanding a face pic to be on a profile for the whole world to see. Have seen some profiles asking for one if they want to message and don't see what the issue is with that.
I prefer to not waste my time chatting with someone who is possibly not my type and like to get face pics out the way quite quickly x |
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"Never seen anyone demanding a face pic to be on a profile for the whole world to see. Have seen some profiles asking for one if they want to message and don't see what the issue is with that.
I prefer to not waste my time chatting with someone who is possibly not my type and like to get face pics out the way quite quickly x"
Id say the issue is to my mind anyway you should never ask unless you do it yourself first.
Don't bother me in the slightest though I simply wouldn't enter into a conversation with them to many see angst instead of woo hoo dodged a bullet |
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"To not have any face pics on your profile, but to expect anyone who contacts you to have one themselves?
I don't understand that logic, but maybe I'm missing something "
I understand where your coming from, I wouldn't necessary call it two faced as that is a different meaning altogether. However it is a bit cheeky to insist in a face picture, when they haven't offered their face picture first or in return. I usually say it's a two way thing don't as if your not prepared to do so as well. It is a ll subject to the situation and how long you have chatted for. |
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