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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Surrendering how big your block lists are and I you clear it from time to time ..mines fairly small and always as I'm always looking to give folks a fair chance |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Huzzah! Yours is pretty small. That's great. Nice to give people a second chance. Three is pushing it though and is never a good philosophy.
Everyone's journey is different here so mine is appropriate to the number of encountered arseholes. No one knows why others block It's a tool of the site. Members can block for numerous reasons or indeed none at all. You are all perfectly at liberty to block me if I irritate you or you don't like the look of me.
Yes, I really am THAT crabbit today and I suspect my block list may grow accordingly.   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not sure what you mean but if I’ve blocked someone it’s for severe offences and they’ve had several chances with polite warnings in the first place so once blocked I don’t give them a second thought let alone a further chance by unblocking.
Incidentally I’m always polite and make allowances for newness etc I am also patient with those that have ignored my profile, all on the grounds that if I politely explain then it educates site users and is the correct way to deal with such behaviour. I’ve also had many lovely messages from a polite no thanks appreciating a reply. |
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My block list is exactly as I want it.
The people on it are on it for a reason some I can't remember the reason for others I can.
Most already had their 2nd chance before blocking so shall stay there while others simply don't deserve any chances at all |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I agree with the above ladies. My block list is long for a reason and it's only that way because of pests, filthy first messages and some who insist on asking "why what's wrong with me?" but nine times out of ten men appreciate a "thanks but no thanks" reply. I won't unblock anyone on there as they're there for a reason x |
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"Not sure what you mean but if I’ve blocked someone it’s for severe offences and they’ve had several chances with polite warnings in the first place so once blocked I don’t give them a second thought let alone a further chance by unblocking.
Incidentally I’m always polite and make allowances for newness etc I am also patient with those that have ignored my profile, all on the grounds that if I politely explain then it educates site users and is the correct way to deal with such behaviour. I’ve also had many lovely messages from a polite no thanks appreciating a reply. "
This is spot on |
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"Mine is not that big. I tend just to report or ignore. I know someone i blocked still sees me as she has another profile. She has blocked me but i know it is her so hope she is reading this."
I have a few like this too quite sad |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nice to see a few of you I've chatted to before ..and not been blocked wonder how I managed that lol
You must be one of them thar nice guys on here  "
I try to be nice but most of the women here seem to be looking for bad boys |
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