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over a year ago
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I’ve been on this site for a while now but not everyday or week. Maybe it’s corona virus or different people being in here but it’s difficult to get a chat. Anyone else agree? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I totally agree, there's so much judgement about. Its even harder for single men as there's so much choice. Unfortunately good men will always be overlooked |
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"I totally agree, there's so much judgement about. Its even harder for single men as there's so much choice. Unfortunately good men will always be overlooked "
Nonsense! The good guys always stand out in my opinion.
I think most have been putting this time to good use in getting to know people so that when this is over a few friendships have been formed   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I totally agree, there's so much judgement about. Its even harder for single men as there's so much choice. Unfortunately good men will always be overlooked Nonsense! The good guys always stand out in my opinion.
I think most have been putting this time to good use in getting to know people so that when this is over a few friendships have been formed "
Couldn’t agree more |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I totally agree, there's so much judgement about. Its even harder for single men as there's so much choice. Unfortunately good men will always be overlooked Nonsense! The good guys always stand out in my opinion.
I think most have been putting this time to good use in getting to know people so that when this is over a few friendships have been formed "
I was just wondering why I don’t even chat with people on here now. Nothing to do with judgement or people’s opinion on good guys. At least we are chatting  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be honest I totally understand that men find it difficult to understand why nobody chats or seems interested. Like I said theres so much choice for women and couples etc that its impossible for them to chat too everybody. Theres a diamond in the rough for everyone, just gotta find it |
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"To be honest I totally understand that men find it difficult to understand why nobody chats or seems interested. Like I said theres so much choice for women and couples etc that its impossible for them to chat too everybody. Theres a diamond in the rough for everyone, just gotta find it "
Exactly !! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’m not asking the question in an insecure manner because I’m not. When I joined this site you could have some banter with people recently I’m finding you can’t. That’s all |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m not asking the question in an insecure manner because I’m not. When I joined this site you could have some banter with people recently I’m finding you can’t. That’s all "
Maybe some like banter to go somewhere and obviously with the pandemic it shouldn’t. Sometimes chatting for too long things fizzle out, just a thought. |
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"I’m not asking the question in an insecure manner because I’m not. When I joined this site you could have some banter with people recently I’m finding you can’t. That’s all "
I think it just depends who you are chatting with what responses you get.
What might be banter to you might not be to someone else also without facial expressions banter doesnt always come across in the way they were intended |
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"I’m not asking the question in an insecure manner because I’m not. When I joined this site you could have some banter with people recently I’m finding you can’t. That’s all
Maybe some like banter to go somewhere and obviously with the pandemic it shouldn’t. Sometimes chatting for too long things fizzle out, just a thought. "
Unless a conversation happens then we don’t know if things will fizzle out. Chicken and egg situation |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All about the chat for me just now.
The amount of folk who ask to meet is disgraceful. As if I’m going to put my loved ones at risk for a coffee or shag.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"All about the chat for me just now.
The amount of folk who ask to meet is disgraceful. As if I’m going to put my loved ones at risk for a coffee or shag.
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Hence why a lot don’t wish to chat??? Again just a thought and only for some, not saying that’s everyone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve been on this site for a while now but not everyday or week. Maybe it’s corona virus or different people being in here but it’s difficult to get a chat. Anyone else agree?"
The first thing any of us do before we chat to someone is look at their profile.
That may well be your problem. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m not asking the question in an insecure manner because I’m not. When I joined this site you could have some banter with people recently I’m finding you can’t. That’s all
Maybe some like banter to go somewhere and obviously with the pandemic it shouldn’t. Sometimes chatting for too long things fizzle out, just a thought.
Unless a conversation happens then we don’t know if things will fizzle out. Chicken and egg situation "
Well I’m not saying that’s everyone’s thought but might be some, you were seeking speculation on the subject?? That and as was said there are a lot more men than women/couples. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I’ve been on this site for a while now but not everyday or week. Maybe it’s corona virus or different people being in here but it’s difficult to get a chat. Anyone else agree?
The first thing any of us do before we chat to someone is look at their profile.
That may well be your problem. "
Lol so when did I say there was a problem? I only asked a question. If someone doesn’t like my profile then all good such is life. I’m old enough to know that I get on well with people. Just recently it’s changed a bit on here |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I’m not asking the question in an insecure manner because I’m not. When I joined this site you could have some banter with people recently I’m finding you can’t. That’s all
Maybe some like banter to go somewhere and obviously with the pandemic it shouldn’t. Sometimes chatting for too long things fizzle out, just a thought.
Unless a conversation happens then we don’t know if things will fizzle out. Chicken and egg situation
Well I’m not saying that’s everyone’s thought but might be some, you were seeking speculation on the subject?? That and as was said there are a lot more men than women/couples. "
Very true I created a post for opinions and I’m enjoying these opinions |
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"I’ve been on this site for a while now but not everyday or week. Maybe it’s corona virus or different people being in here but it’s difficult to get a chat. Anyone else agree?"
Its a tough time for everyone.
I've noticed the regular's i chat with are only on now and again.
It hasn't died a death, but people have put swinging to the bottom of the to do list.
In saying that I've made contact with an amazing woman who i met years ago at CJ's.
All down to the fact that everything has slowed down, and she actually had a chance to read her messages without bulk deleting.
Chin up guy's. Tomorrow's a different day |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I’ve been on this site for a while now but not everyday or week. Maybe it’s corona virus or different people being in here but it’s difficult to get a chat. Anyone else agree?
Its a tough time for everyone.
I've noticed the regular's i chat with are only on now and again.
It hasn't died a death, but people have put swinging to the bottom of the to do list.
In saying that I've made contact with an amazing woman who i met years ago at CJ's.
All down to the fact that everything has slowed down, and she actually had a chance to read her messages without bulk deleting.
Chin up guy's. Tomorrow's a different day "
Well played my friend. No one should come on this site if they struggle in real life. On here you will struggle more. That’s not why I’m here I enjoy the unique aspects of the site. I just feel that you can’t even have a chat now without creating a post wondering why |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve been on this site for a while now but not everyday or week. Maybe it’s corona virus or different people being in here but it’s difficult to get a chat. Anyone else agree?
The first thing any of us do before we chat to someone is look at their profile.
That may well be your problem.
Lol so when did I say there was a problem? I only asked a question. If someone doesn’t like my profile then all good such is life. I’m old enough to know that I get on well with people. Just recently it’s changed a bit on here"
Let us rephrase that.
This might be the reason that you find it difficult to get a chat. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’ve been on this site for a while now but not everyday or week. Maybe it’s corona virus or different people being in here but it’s difficult to get a chat. Anyone else agree?
The first thing any of us do before we chat to someone is look at their profile.
That may well be your problem.
Lol so when did I say there was a problem? I only asked a question. If someone doesn’t like my profile then all good such is life. I’m old enough to know that I get on well with people. Just recently it’s changed a bit on here
Let us rephrase that.
This might be the reason that you find it difficult to get a chat. "
Possibly, or maybe it’s because I come on every few weeks whereas other people are building relationships |
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I think many people are spending less time on the site and/or less time chatting, and when they do its mostly with people they already know.
Once we are seeing an end to covid restrictions this will probably change.
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"I think many people are spending less time on the site and/or less time chatting, and when they do its mostly with people they already know.
Once we are seeing an end to covid restrictions this will probably change.
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This. I just come on for the forums. Not chatting very much at the minute |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think many people are spending less time on the site and/or less time chatting, and when they do its mostly with people they already know.
Once we are seeing an end to covid restrictions this will probably change.
This. I just come on for the forums. Not chatting very much at the minute"
The forums is chatting maybe I should just stick to this. Thanks all |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"For me it's been the virus, not long out of a 16 yr relationship. I am finding a whole new me! Just such a difficult time at the moment x"
It’s the hardest time collectively we have gone through since the war. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can't argue that it's the strangest time we've ever went through, all the more important to be more human. I'll never dismiss anybody and will chat to anyone who wants to |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Can't argue that it's the strangest time we've ever went through, all the more important to be more human. I'll never dismiss anybody and will chat to anyone who wants to "
we need to show support for everyone, no one now's how people are coping. Just sometimes nice to ask , how are you x
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If your finding it hard to chat with folk bad news the issue is you most folk will chat if you interest them and then only until you don't same as life accept it and it will be a whole lot easier for you |
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