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over a year ago
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Is it wrong or right i love my hubby and meet other guys sometimes on my own with hubby knowing and with hubby there but was looking for reg f. Bud as think it would be fun to have a reg f. B as well as hubby but not to sure about itor maybe just a fantasy |
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"Is it wrong or right i love my hubby and meet other guys sometimes on my own with hubby knowing and with hubby there but was looking for reg f. Bud as think it would be fun to have a reg f. B as well as hubby but not to sure about itor maybe just a fantasy "
Depends if hubby is okay with it or not!.. if he's not then dont go there if he's quite happy about then shouldn't be a problem  |
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"Hubby ok with it he easy going"
There's a line with a person that is easy going and it can be easily crossed. The line where easy going meets being taken the piss out of. No offence intended.
I'm curious OP , can I ask why you want to know if its right or wrong. ? Are you just curious about opinions or is there another reason you ask. |
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It could be OK playing and your hubby seeing you play with others. A long term thing can involve emotional attachments and it could be his line in the sand. Communication and honesty is everything.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hubby ok with it he easy going
There's a line with a person that is easy going and it can be easily crossed. The line where easy going meets being taken the piss out of. No offence intended.
I'm curious OP , can I ask why you want to know if its right or wrong. ? Are you just curious about opinions or is there another reason you ask. "
My thoughts too. |
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Hi op.. many couples for one reason or another can’t or don’t have a satisfying sex life. If hubby is ok with you having a special friend , I’d say , it’s better than meeting others to satisfy your needs . You go for it . But include him too as he might feel left out .. regards hot |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Hi op.. many couples for one reason or another can’t or don’t have a satisfying sex life. If hubby is ok with you having a special friend , I’d say , it’s better than meeting others to satisfy your needs . You go for it . But include him too as he might feel left out .. regards hot "
i do have good sex lit fe with hubby
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hubby ok with it he easy going
There's a line with a person that is easy going and it can be easily crossed. The line where easy going meets being taken the piss out of. No offence intended.
I'm curious OP , can I ask why you want to know if its right or wrong. ? Are you just curious about opinions or is there another reason you ask. "
Guess the OP is not talking to me . |
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I guess a regular f buddy makes sense if it suits you and your hubby’s needs. If you both enjoy the excitement of finding and meeting new people on here (it’s the thrill of the chase) then you should keep going. If the regular f buddy brings security and that extra dimension to your sex life you both enjoy without the hassle of constantly searching for someone then it seems like a good fit. Ultimately you guys know what works for you now so it’s not a question of wrong or right, perhaps the question you need to be asking is “would this work even better “ |
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The situation you have is probably more normal than you realise, and with everything we are going through, it might be the way ahead for many more.
Lock downs have put pressure on so many people and they might now want to live their lives in the open instead of fantasy or sneaking around.
I’d happily chat more if you message me.?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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No one elses opinion matters, mine neither. But in saying that, an easy going personality is vastly different from someone who wants you to enjoy playing with someone else. Cucks, voyeurs or maybe just wants you to be free. A real FB relationship can easy create a jealous streak in a relationship where as mutual fun or occasionally spicing thing up are a safer bet. If he is genuinely happy for you to play then its your decision. Good luck with whatever happens. |
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"Just courious "
Then on that case , you continue doing what makes you happy. Some will find it right , others wrong .
Don't take notice of others judgements, your life , your rules. |
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"Is it wrong or right i love my hubby and meet other guys sometimes on my own with hubby knowing and with hubby there but was looking for reg f. Bud as think it would be fun to have a reg f. B as well as hubby but not to sure about itor maybe just a fantasy "
Right, if set the ground rules that it is just fucking and nothing more. Wish I was 2 years older! |
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