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how often should a couple be having it
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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right we have a dilemma here the mrs has a massive sex drive where is mines is about average where is the middle ground here lol 4 times a weeks is where we are at xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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if i was part of a couple, as in real life total commitment type of couple. i'd be looking for sex at least once a day, otherwise, whats the point in being in a relationship? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"if i was part of a couple, as in real life total commitment type of couple. i'd be looking for sex at least once a day, otherwise, whats the point in being in a relationship? "
Couldnt disagree more. I love my wife and wouldnt leave her if she didnt want to have sex every day. If you think thats what a relationship is about I doubt you will ever find one that lasts more than the "lust" period. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"if i was part of a couple, as in real life total commitment type of couple. i'd be looking for sex at least once a day, otherwise, whats the point in being in a relationship?
Couldnt disagree more. I love my wife and wouldnt leave her if she didnt want to have sex every day. If you think thats what a relationship is about I doubt you will ever find one that lasts more than the "lust" period."
and thats why, i have and always will be single. I've been single for 4 years now, and wouldnt change it for the world |
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"When do i fit the 2 or more Times a day in with work...3 kids ...a dog....dinner..washing....ironing...baths.....kids homework....Kids baths....bedtime stories..phew!!!!
Hes lucky to get any at all lol
Auds xx     "
I'd lose the dog lol x  |
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By *andsCouple
over a year ago
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"if i was part of a couple, as in real life total commitment type of couple. i'd be looking for sex at least once a day, otherwise, whats the point in being in a relationship? "
a relationship is not all about sex! real life gets in the way ie work, kids, etc so that is totally unrealistic to expect. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"if i was part of a couple, as in real life total commitment type of couple. i'd be looking for sex at least once a day, otherwise, whats the point in being in a relationship?
a relationship is not all about sex! real life gets in the way ie work, kids, etc so that is totally unrealistic to expect."
Totally true Trac  |
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"if i was part of a couple, as in real life total commitment type of couple. i'd be looking for sex at least once a day, otherwise, whats the point in being in a relationship? "
Relationships aint all about sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"if i was part of a couple, as in real life total commitment type of couple. i'd be looking for sex at least once a day, otherwise, whats the point in being in a relationship?
Relationships aint all about sex "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sex is always much more fun if its spontanious rather than being planned if i dont have sex for a few days or weeks it not the end of my relationship "
Well said. Life just gets in the way at times. Sex is fabulous but not the be all and end all in a relationship. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When do i fit the 2 or more Times a day in with work...3 kids ...a dog....dinner..washing....ironing...baths.....kids homework....Kids baths....bedtime stories..phew!!!!
Hes lucky to get any at all lol
Auds xx "
Amen to that! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sex is always much more fun if its spontanious rather than being planned if i dont have sex for a few days or weeks it not the end of my relationship
Well said. Life just gets in the way at times. Sex is fabulous but not the be all and end all in a relationship. "
That might be correct for some people. But there are others, like myself, where sex is more important to them than anything else. so to me, if i was in a relationship and wasnt getting enough sex, the relationship would not last. That might sound cold and hard to some, but at least i'm honest about it. |
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"Sex is always much more fun if its spontanious rather than being planned if i dont have sex for a few days or weeks it not the end of my relationship
Well said. Life just gets in the way at times. Sex is fabulous but not the be all and end all in a relationship.
That might be correct for some people. But there are others, like myself, where sex is more important to them than anything else. so to me, if i was in a relationship and wasnt getting enough sex, the relationship would not last. That might sound cold and hard to some, but at least i'm honest about it."
So if your were in a very loving relatioship and say your partner had an illness that stopped him from having sex you would end the relationship because you wernt getting it ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sex is always much more fun if its spontanious rather than being planned if i dont have sex for a few days or weeks it not the end of my relationship
Well said. Life just gets in the way at times. Sex is fabulous but not the be all and end all in a relationship.
That might be correct for some people. But there are others, like myself, where sex is more important to them than anything else. so to me, if i was in a relationship and wasnt getting enough sex, the relationship would not last. That might sound cold and hard to some, but at least i'm honest about it.
So if your were in a very loving relatioship and say your partner had an illness that stopped him from having sex you would end the relationship because you wernt getting it ?"
Very simply, if it was a monogamous relationship and i couldnt get it elsewhere, yes. |
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