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By *DW1983Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen, Leeds, Sheffield |
Yawn...
Tips:
Try searching the forums for the word 'shemale' and see what good advice you find.
Try looking at trans women as actual people not as the porn concept of 'shemale' and something to be fetishised.
I'm sure others will be along to add more soon. |
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over a year ago
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Try searching the forums for the word 'shemale' and see what good advice you find."
Does it give tips finding them in Fife or was your post just intended to berate the OP in some strange way ?  |
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"Yawn...
Tips:
Try searching the forums for the word 'shemale' and see what good advice you find.
Try looking at trans women as actual people not as the porn concept of 'shemale' and something to be fetishised.
I'm sure others will be along to add more soon."
I can add to this
Yawn the word police have arrived.
You don't get to choose which words a person prefers using.
Maybe you should tell any person that decides to call themselves shemale how wrong they are also |
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By *DW1983Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen, Leeds, Sheffield |
"Yawn...
Tips:
Try searching the forums for the word 'shemale' and see what good advice you find.
Try looking at trans women as actual people not as the porn concept of 'shemale' and something to be fetishised.
I'm sure others will be along to add more soon.I can add to this
Yawn the word police have arrived.
You don't get to choose which words a person prefers using.
Maybe you should tell any person that decides to call themselves shemale how wrong they are also"
Thanks, I'll bear that in mind. It has nothing to do with me telling someone what word they can call themselves. It has to do with showing a bit of respect and understanding, something which has been said over and over in similar threads. It might help the OP to read those than start the discussion again, regardless of location. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yawn...
Tips:
Try searching the forums for the word 'shemale' and see what good advice you find.
Try looking at trans women as actual people not as the porn concept of 'shemale' and something to be fetishised.
I'm sure others will be along to add more soon.I can add to this
Yawn the word police have arrived.
You don't get to choose which words a person prefers using.
Maybe you should tell any person that decides to call themselves shemale how wrong they are also
Thanks, I'll bear that in mind. It has nothing to do with me telling someone what word they can call themselves. It has to do with showing a bit of respect and understanding, something which has been said over and over in similar threads. It might help the OP to read those than start the discussion again, regardless of location. "
You mean the same respect you gave the OP , especially when you try to encourage others to add to your berating.  |
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By *DW1983Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen, Leeds, Sheffield |
Thank you for your comments but please don't try and twist what I said to find an argument that's not there.
I haven't encouraged anyone to add anything. I've suggested the OP search for similar threads which might educate, and not fetishise trans women as 'shemales' which is in most cases a porn concept. And yes, yawn, because its the same over and over.
Not going to keep repeating myself though. I made a point, you disagreed, that's fine. |
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"Thank you for your comments but please don't try and twist what I said to find an argument that's not there.
I haven't encouraged anyone to add anything. I've suggested the OP search for similar threads which might educate, and not fetishise trans women as 'shemales' which is in most cases a porn concept. And yes, yawn, because its the same over and over.
Not going to keep repeating myself though. I made a point, you disagreed, that's fine. "
your problem is You don't like the ops word and decided to humiliate him who made you the word police and educator.
You suggested that others would be along to add to your bullying tactic akin to a call to arms.
There is no twisting it's your own educational comments.
Here's a tip for you if your going to attack someone be sure it's what you want to do and stand by your words you just look foolish attempting to change the dialogue by claiming its anyone else's fault for not adhering to your view |
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By *DW1983Man
over a year ago
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Ok. Lets stop now. You're reading what's not there. Its a forum. Of course people will add more. There was no call to arms but you've decided that's what it was so there's no point saying more.
Yes I definitely believe there's a need for education. Lots of posts use words commonly (though not uniquely) seen as slurs, such as shemale. I thought it might be helpful to the OP to know that that terminology is not a good way to find what he's looking for. But again you clearly know what I meant better than I did, so I'll bow to your better judgement on the matter.
And yes, no apologies for the tone of frustration of seeing the same thing again, its frustrating to keep reading the same. I don't think we need to keep going in circles though. You didn't like my post. That's fine. You don't have to like or agree. |
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"Thank you for your comments but please don't try and twist what I said to find an argument that's not there.
I haven't encouraged anyone to add anything. I've suggested the OP search for similar threads which might educate, and not fetishise trans women as 'shemales' which is in most cases a porn concept. And yes, yawn, because its the same over and over.
Not going to keep repeating myself though. I made a point, you disagreed, that's fine. "
Your problem is bud, you gave your opinion which was fine, no issues , then when myself and kola gave our opinions on YOUR post we I got accused of trying to start an argument and twisting your words. Kola also got similar, we both read your opinion and took issue with it , especially when you ended it with a call for others to join in with YOUR opinion. Ps myself and kola both read that part exactly the same way. You now want to make out were somehow in the wrong . All this was done and dusted if you had simply said , " well thats my opinion on the original post" .
We are simply replying to your subsequent posts . No intention of argument just discussing your post. If you see that as argumentative thats your issue not mine. 
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OP, what do you mean by real transgender? People who identify with a different gender than the one they were registered with at birth and now live 24/7 as the gender they identify with? If so there are definitely transgender people in Fife. |
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"OP, what do you mean by real transgender? People who identify with a different gender than the one they were registered with at birth and now live 24/7 as the gender they identify with? If so there are definitely transgender people in Fife."
He never mentioned transgender he said shemale.
Since people can identify as anything they want nowadays then the post is probably aimed at people that identify as shemales. |
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