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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hello fellow fabbers, just wondering what kind of things are everyone else’s ‘dealbreakers’ when you meet for the first time ? Chat is going really well, you’re attracted to the other person but what kind of things would make the next stage a definite no no in your books ? For me it would be finding out they aren’t as single as a Pringle like their profile makes out  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Finding out they aren't single, yes. But also if they start asking straight away if I "have a female friend that could join us"... Winds me right up  "
Absolutely haha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If they just talk about sex or x partners or folk they have met from fab.
Or turn up in work clothes  "
I know right ?? ........ it maybe a sex site but conversation has to consist of more than sex |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I once met a guy who had the worst body odour.... I physically gagged. I had to ask him to leave!
So anyone who is smelly or has bad breath. "
Ewwwww, there is no need for bad hygiene is there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I once met a guy who had the worst body odour.... I physically gagged. I had to ask him to leave!
So anyone who is smelly or has bad breath.
Yep, good personal hygiene is a must. Once met someone who had washed their face! But not their nether regions. I made my excuses and left. I don't do oral with a clothes peg! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Playing away behind their partners back, stinking people, no humour about them or cant hold a conversation. Or how many people they met off fab and their opinion on them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personal hygiene is the obvious deal breaker but an absolute turn off for me is someone who acts in an overtly ostentatious manner or is pretentious."
There’s a couple of things but this pretty much  |
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"I'll let you do anything to me."
Now, I've had that said to me in jest, or with a wink. But I've also had it said in all seriousness. Apparantly not interested in discussing hard limits, safe words, protection. That's for later on in a relationship (of whatever sort), not a first meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hello fellow fabbers, just wondering what kind of things are everyone else’s ‘dealbreakers’ when you meet for the first time ? Chat is going really well, you’re attracted to the other person but what kind of things would make the next stage a definite no no in your books ? For me it would be finding out they aren’t as single as a Pringle like their profile makes out "
If your in a pub and the guy is knocking drinks back like no tomorrow.
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By *mmixtapeCouple
over a year ago
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It sounds horrible but I'm not a fan of nervous people, I find confidence and dominance attractive so if I have to sit and bring someone out of their shell the spark is gone. Some nerves are fine but if they are really shy it just won't work |
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their really is no need! 
