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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So I’m new to Scotland originally from London I’m of ethnic origin but I can’t seem to get much of a response when messaging women up here. It’s not the length or girth I must be missing something else? Anyone care to shed any light? |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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welcome and remember these are strange times, so it will be harder to get yourself known just now. Once the restrictions are eased and a club opens up again, get yourself along to it.
In the meantime, good luck  |
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Why bring ethnic origin into it? Plenty of successful profiles from all backgrounds in Scotland & on fab.
Plain Jaynes will be skipped but no public pics of yourself?
Your profile is like a shop window. It needs to entice people in.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m going to be honest, as you are in your profile. Men massively outweigh women here and your profile is completely vacuous. There is absolutely nothing to entice a conversation, the reason you’re not getting meets is absolutely nothing to do with your ethnicity or where your from. However good luck in your search OP |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Click bait im afraid Op
Since your profile has no pics and no references to your ethnicity or anything along those lines your thread title is in my opinion simply a " look at me thread"  |
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It's not your ethnicity that's an issue. It's your location and pandemic. Sit tight for things to be back to normal (you'll be sitting tight for a good while longer mind) and get out of the Borders!! That's what I'm doing 
In normal times there are on occasion social events in Edinburgh or Glasgow. They're great for meeting people. Swingers clubs are as well, although some will disagree with me there. Each to their own, but worth a shot in my opinion.
And I'm all for profile pictures. Headless torsos are my favourite, in case you're looking for ideas x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would love too have a chat with the Plain Jane's that don't interest you.
They probably have a bit more about them...if you know what I mean.
An effortless profile rewards an effortless response. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would love too have a chat with the Plain Jane's that don't interest you.
They probably have a bit more about them...if you know what I mean.
An effortless profile rewards an effortless response."
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Are you contacting ladies, and not getting a reply?
A lot of fantastically attractive people don't consider themselves anymore than a plain Jane, so probably don't think it's worth responding.
They ain't going to be forming a queue to contact your profile!
Surely, when you 'connect', you're doing so because superficial appearance is a non-issue.
Maybe they think you're profile is a bit shallow.
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I wouldn’t respond to a message from you. You’re unverified, no pics at all, not one and your profile itself, just wow!
I’m no supermodel glamour puss, but the plain Jane comment literally screams entitlement to me so I’d suspect you would be way too much like hard work to even reply to.
Add that into the pandemic that’s almost a year along, I’d suspect the majority of people aren’t meeting and adhering to the rules |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think its very abrupt and you could have phrased that better as someone said to me 'over years communication and respectfullness patience have rewarded me with luck in meeting some of Fabs finest Ladies, not all sexual.'
I don't have alot on my profile but no one has said its shit or been so rude about it need to watch how you word it as could put people off |
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