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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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are there females on here that actually chat ive messaged afew im not rude im not vulgar
just trying to have a conversation abit of banter see where it goes.
so if any ladies would like to just chat some come say hello.
im from Glasgow |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yip there’s loads but when they getting upwards off 600-700 _iews and like 500-600 messages a day got to stand out
As someone who knows exactly what that feels like it can be hard |
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"Yip there’s loads but when they getting upwards off 600-700 _iews and like 500-600 messages a day got to stand out
As someone who knows exactly what that feels like it can be hard "
5 600 msgs a day unless they are uploading blurt pics and begging for a fuck you got a massive exaggeration going on.
Op if folk want to talk they will talk and no amount of gripe or begging posts will change that.
The biggest mistake guys make on here imo is placing fems on a pedestal and hankering like a lost puppy instead of knowing their own self worth |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The truth lies in a mix of the above replies OP. Men heavily outweigh women here and whilst both have their faults, men are guilty of not reading or ignoring profiles.
What I will say is that when I read “chat and see where it leads” either on a profile or a message it usually means a “conversation” quickly descends into “any other pics” “can I see tits/fanny” fancy a fuck” type messages.
Remember there’s a pandemic on which fab supports by recommending people don’t meet though as you say, chatting is still fun.
Swinging for a lot of ladies, whilst about uncomplicated sex also involves respect and mutual attraction not leaping into bed with everyone that messages, so perhaps reading some of the excellent advice forums and FAQ’s might give you some hints, you’ve only been here 4weeks after all. Good luck, happy fabbing and stay safe   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yip there’s loads but when they getting upwards off 600-700 _iews and like 500-600 messages a day got to stand out
As someone who knows exactly what that feels like it can be hard 5 600 msgs a day unless they are uploading blurt pics and begging for a fuck you got a massive exaggeration going on.
Op if folk want to talk they will talk and no amount of gripe or begging posts will change that.
The biggest mistake guys make on here imo is placing fems on a pedestal and hankering like a lost puppy instead of knowing their own self worth"
I agree with this to an extent.
You get a message and the opening line is "I'm sorry to bother you but...." I appreciate most people aren't over flowing with self confidence but statements like that reek of submissiveness to me which is extremely unattractive in a man.
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"are there females on here that actually chat ive messaged afew im not rude im not vulgar
just trying to have a conversation abit of banter see where it goes.
so if any ladies would like to just chat some come say hello.
im from Glasgow "
Banter doesn't come across in the written word the same as it does in person as you are not getting to see that persons expressions or seeing how your banter is being revieved.
If a person is interested enough in you & your profile Im sure ul soon know .
As for the profiles who are getting 500/600 emails a day these are mainly profiles with open filters as most women will use their filters to minimise the amount of emails they are getting to ensure only those who fall within their criteria can message so the ones with open filters are less likely to message you back due to the vast choice they have.
The forums are a good way to get chatting with people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"are there females on here that actually chat ive messaged afew im not rude im not vulgar
just trying to have a conversation abit of banter see where it goes.
so if any ladies would like to just chat some come say hello.
im from Glasgow "
Loads of women on here like too chat.
Have some patience.
Learn too handle rejection.
Don't expect to much to soon.
Be respectful.
Dont stand outside at the party, get yourself involved in Forum discussions and chat rooms.
Throw some of you're personality around.
Sometimes things happen when its least expected.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yip there’s loads but when they getting upwards off 600-700 _iews and like 500-600 messages a day got to stand out
As someone who knows exactly what that feels like it can be hard "
Women getting 500-600 messages a day ?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Filtering makes a huge difference to keeping messages down. So does profile content but if new pics are uploaded there’s an influx. I can imagine if the profile text and pics are “provocative” then there will be a huge amount of messages but 5-600 still seems a lot. I wouldn’t be surprised at 100 in such cases though. |
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"Depends what you class as banter?
'fancy a shag'
No, but I'm partial to a cormorant.
... I'll get my coat."
And here was me thinking you preferred a Puffin.... Drops mic and heads for the exit to the deafining noise of the crickets |
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"Are you looking to meet or chat?. Only the baddies are meeting. You are too young for me but i will say "hello" on here. The forums can be fun so i would stick to them for now."
Astonishingly, just as I was reading this comment a guy messaged me asking if "me and my mates wanted to gang fuck him tonight." When my profile clearly states I'm straight. During Covid. When there's a Midsommer Murders on that I haven't seen. |
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"Depends what you class as banter?
'fancy a shag'
No, but I'm partial to a cormorant.
... I'll get my coat.
And here was me thinking you preferred a Puffin.... Drops mic and heads for the exit to the deafining noise of the crickets "
Ain't _uffin' like a puffin. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Are you looking to meet or chat?. Only the baddies are meeting. You are too young for me but i will say "hello" on here. The forums can be fun so i would stick to them for now.
Astonishingly, just as I was reading this comment a guy messaged me asking if "me and my mates wanted to gang fuck him tonight." When my profile clearly states I'm straight. During Covid. When there's a Midsommer Murders on that I haven't seen."
Aye but your profile didn't state you're a Midsommer Murders fan.....that'll soon sort the men out from the boys! |
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"Are you looking to meet or chat?. Only the baddies are meeting. You are too young for me but i will say "hello" on here. The forums can be fun so i would stick to them for now.
Astonishingly, just as I was reading this comment a guy messaged me asking if "me and my mates wanted to gang fuck him tonight." When my profile clearly states I'm straight. During Covid. When there's a Midsommer Murders on that I haven't seen.
Aye but your profile didn't state you're a Midsommer Murders fan.....that'll soon sort the men out from the boys!"
Hammy acted posh folk can be a bit of a hard limit for some.
There was another point I forgot to make there though- I find it frustrating how many badly written ill-thought out messages I get on here, and I'm a straight man. It must be unbearable at times for women who are seeking men. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The biggest mistake guys make on here imo is placing fems on a pedestal and hankering like a lost puppy instead of knowing their own self worth"
Spot on, add to that , that some women thrive on having a full inbox of messages . Perhaps it gives them the ego boost to get through the day which is totally fine but they shouldn't then bleet and moan about the quality of the messages received. Imo  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Being honest I don’t send that many messages to female profiles, only the few that really grab my attention or that I know I’d likely be attracted to. Do I get lots of replies? No I don’t but the few I do gives me the opportunity to find out if we’ll be a good match when/if we meet up (after Covid obviously...so maybe 2022  |
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Yes but read profiles first to see what they are looking for. Me personally am not looking for men, but the number of men that still message me is still to high. Read profiles first before getting disappointed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes but read profiles first to see what they are looking for. Me personally am not looking for men, but the number of men that still message me is still to high. Read profiles first before getting disappointed."
Block them if you don't want any contact from them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes but read profiles first to see what they are looking for. Me personally am not looking for men, but the number of men that still message me is still to high. Read profiles first before getting disappointed."
I personally think what women & couples say in profiles never seem reflect what they are wanting.
And I dont wanna hear . Aw my profile does yadda yadda yadda. |
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"Yes but read profiles first to see what they are looking for. Me personally am not looking for men, but the number of men that still message me is still to high. Read profiles first before getting disappointed."
Why don't you block men then you wouldn't have the problem ! |
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By *tew008Man
over a year ago
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"Yes but read profiles first to see what they are looking for. Me personally am not looking for men, but the number of men that still message me is still to high. Read profiles first before getting disappointed.Why don't you block men then you wouldn't have the problem ! "
just nice to be asked  |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
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I generally try to reply to most messages, even if it's just a polite "no thanks". It can be frustrating when people message without reading my profile first, even more frustrating if they read it & totally disregard what it says & decide that they have a better idea of what I'm looking for than I do!
Some messages are polite & friendly but they just don't have anything about them that inspires me to chat further & often come from an almost blank profile that tells me nothing about the sender. |
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"Yes but read profiles first to see what they are looking for. Me personally am not looking for men, but the number of men that still message me is still to high. Read profiles first before getting disappointed.Why don't you block men then you wouldn't have the problem !
just nice to be asked "
Yes but most of the time you see someone moaning about the quality or quantity of emails can be easily fixed by using filters |
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By (user no longer on site)
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There are plenty of lovely ladies on here who make an effort to reply to as many messages as they possibly can. See a profile you like, send a quick message, wee but about yourself and see what happens. If I see my message has been read and not replied to, I take that as a polite 'no thanks'
People can get quite uptight on here for no real reason. |
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"There are plenty of lovely ladies on here who make an effort to reply to as many messages as they possibly can. See a profile you like, send a quick message, wee but about yourself and see what happens. If I see my message has been read and not replied to, I take that as a polite 'no thanks'
People can get quite uptight on here for no real reason. "
This ^^^ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I see my message has been read and not replied to, I take that as a polite 'no thanks'
People can get quite uptight on here for no real reason. "
Aww if only everyone was like this. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Are you looking to meet or chat?. Only the baddies are meeting. You are too young for me but i will say "hello" on here. The forums can be fun so i would stick to them for now."
never to young x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hello,
Yes, there definitely are and some who even actually meet, the devil's that they are. However, it's a woman's world on here and she who calls the shots.
Free market principles at play - single men are far too high in supply. Women can be extremely selective! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hello,
Yes, there definitely are and some who even actually meet, the devil's that they are. However, it's a woman's world on here and she who calls the shots.
Free market principles at play - single men are far too high in supply. Women can be extremely selective!"
so I've noticed lol
Good thing about making this post is im now in conversation with a nice couple and 2 females |
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"Yip there’s loads but when they getting upwards off 600-700 _iews and like 500-600 messages a day got to stand out
As someone who knows exactly what that feels like it can be hard 5 600 msgs a day unless they are uploading blurt pics and begging for a fuck you got a massive exaggeration going on.
Op if folk want to talk they will talk and no amount of gripe or begging posts will change that.
The biggest mistake guys make on here imo is placing fems on a pedestal and hankering like a lost puppy instead of knowing their own self worth"
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"Yip there’s loads but when they getting upwards off 600-700 _iews and like 500-600 messages a day got to stand out
As someone who knows exactly what that feels like it can be hard 5 600 msgs a day unless they are uploading blurt pics and begging for a fuck you got a massive exaggeration going on.
Op if folk want to talk they will talk and no amount of gripe or begging posts will change that.
The biggest mistake guys make on here imo is placing fems on a pedestal and hankering like a lost puppy instead of knowing their own self worth"
Bloody well said ! |
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By *uffinMan
over a year ago
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Not blocked by me jizzabel 
It is seriously difficult though... And personally I know my prof pic is a turn off to most but I'm after someone who wants to push boundaries.... But many want the six pack and the stereotypical which they can select from the 10 guys for every gal plethora of MSG's or listings.
I've already banked my first lottery win when I got a meet 2 years ago..(yes years!) It lead to both us being completely naked in a spa but notging more.. but it was probably equivalent to 4 numbers plus Thunderball.
Maybe one day.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I certainly dont
Although I'm filtered to the max
No kidding.... we are blocked! "
is this to me?
Not blocked just can't message as I'm not looking to meet cpls
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