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"Is it worth you working ?" this is exactly what's wrong with this country | |||
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"you have them ,you pay for them !! dont expectthe state to fund you the sooner child benefit is done away with the better ,money could be pt to better use " . Maybe if help was not given then some parents might decide not to work & get other benifits costing the tax payer more than helping out hard working familys.if people didnt have children where would the next tax payer come from & pension contributions to pay your old age pension | |||
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" I find the attitudes of folks with no kids remarkable. " why? are we not allowed one if they are different This is going to be an interesting thread, we will have plenty galore speaking up for it, much lesser speaking against it.... reason for less, will not be that there is no one against it, just worried they get blocked and no shag. I think people jump in and have kids far too early and do not financially prepare to be able to cope for the next 20 years, sadly for some their circumstances change due to bereavement, separation or redundancy. | |||
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"we ARE financially stable, and were when we had our kids. we own our house, however, can any of you afford council tax, mortage, food and bills aswell as pay out £200 a week for atleast one childs nursery place? Thats an outgoing of £800 a month all because you want to work no would be the answer hence why child tax credits are there in the first place. jesus, as i said, you just cannot win when it comes to those who dont have kids..or those who have done a runner from them" yeah I own my home, pay council tax, utilities and food from one salary and pay £300 per month to board my dogs at a day kennel, so probably similar to your expenditure from 2 salaries.. I just gave my opinion and resect yours. | |||
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"Working Family Tax credit and Child Care tax credit were bought in to get people back into work. Its different to child benefit. It was bought in to help those with kids, off all ages to get back to work. Previously, people with kids were finding that the cost of child care was too expensive… Its approx £3 to £4 an hour per kid. Family of 2 kids would mean at least £6 an hour. Thats possibly what a lot of people earn as its around minimum wage. Its cheaper for the government to help with childcare than it is to pay for them to be on the dole. It gets people into work, in the system and feel they are contributing to the system rather than been sat at home with the rest of the Jezza kyle fodder. Those on minimum wage can get a substantial amount a month to help, those earning more, get considerably less. So, even those with no kids, or dont want kids…. you are paying for people to get WTC and CTC but if you werent, you would probably be paying their council tax,housing rent, dole etc etc…. Steve" I agree, I didn't say I was against it | |||
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"yeah I own my home, pay council tax, utilities and food from one salary and pay £300 per month to board my dogs at a day kennel, so probably similar to your expenditure from 2 salaries.. I just gave my opinion and respect yours." sorry but £300 per month is a heck of a lot less than £800 per month... | |||
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"yeah I own my home, pay council tax, utilities and food from one salary and pay £300 per month to board my dogs at a day kennel, so probably similar to your expenditure from 2 salaries.. I just gave my opinion and respect yours. sorry but £300 per month is a heck of a lot less than £800 per month... " apologies, I assumed you had 2 salaries | |||
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"apologies, I assumed you had 2 salaries" and two children....so its still more, not to mention dog food is cheaper, dogs dont require clothing and nappies (well i know some people do put clothes on dogs lol) without sounding a complete bitch, i dont think you can really compare the price of keeping dogs to the price of children x | |||
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"apologies, I assumed you had 2 salaries and two children....so its still more, not to mention dog food is cheaper, dogs dont require clothing and nappies (well i know some people do put clothes on dogs lol) without sounding a complete bitch, i dont think you can really compare the price of keeping dogs to the price of children x" I dont think you are sounding like a complete bitch but you posted asking for opinions, people gave them. You then lambasted them for it... I didn't say I was against it, I think people could financially prepare more. | |||
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"For a full time place at a private nursery for 1 child....obviously depending on the nursery as each chanrges a different fee depending on the area..... our local nursery for a full time place is £ 870 per month.....thats for 1 child .... This is exactly why tax credits are needed to allow parents to work rather than be on the dole etc.... Not everyone has family prepared to muck in and help with looking after kids... " it is a lot of money Jo.. | |||
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"A couple on the dole with 2 kids in a private let could average £600 a month rent £120 council tax dole and tax credits £200 per week? = £920 paid out and no income tax NI contributed by them so why is it then so wrong to give some money back to the couples who do have jobs and are struggling to survive?" tottaly agree | |||
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"I am the same with the childcare issue although we are lucky enough that my parents watch them for us to work otherwise we would be over 1000 to have the 3 of them watched between nursery and after school care. If that was the case it wouldn't be viable for us both to work so I thank god for my parents......The major issue isn't the tax credits which are a great thing its the prices private nurseries charge they are an absolute disgrace!! " Agree'd...private nurserys esp and astronomical..... many are a buisness to the people running them also.... | |||
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"you have them ,you pay for them !! dont expectthe state to fund you the sooner child benefit is done away with the better ,money could be pt to better use " Kind of agree. Why should I help pay for other peoples kids | |||
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"you have them ,you pay for them !! dont expectthe state to fund you the sooner child benefit is done away with the better ,money could be pt to better use " It will be the kids of today who will pay your pensions, put you to bed, feed you, dress you and ultimately care for you.... In your dotage? Do you expect the state to fund your care home when you're brain has rotted and body failing? Have you 'prepared' for your care home costs? | |||
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" The council nurseries do run a scheme for kids when they are 3, you get 15 hours free at the nurseries but these are only a select few nurseries and the places are limited. Whilst next year we would be eligeble for that, we probably wont get it. " Can I just say that it's not just council nurseries .... ALL nurseries or pre-school establishments must offer the same. The 15 hours is paid for by the government. | |||
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"Cheers mate if you work it should be stopped and to previous posters who said I didn't have kids? Fact is can't support them the don't work and take " Are you saying that if people are struggling to afford child care while they work that they should give up work and claim benefits??? | |||
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"Cheers mate if you work it should be stopped and to previous posters who said I didn't have kids? Fact is can't support them the don't work and take Are you saying that if people are struggling to afford child care while they work that they should give up work and claim benefits??? " Benefits should be stopped aswell for jobless people so that wouldn't be an option if I had my way | |||
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"Cheers mate if you work it should be stopped and to previous posters who said I didn't have kids? Fact is can't support them the don't work and take Are you saying that if people are struggling to afford child care while they work that they should give up work and claim benefits??? Benefits should be stopped aswell for jobless people so that wouldn't be an option if I had my way" How do you expect people to live if they are actively searching for work where there are very few positions for 100's of applicants? | |||
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"Cheers mate if you work it should be stopped and to previous posters who said I didn't have kids? Fact is can't support them the don't work and take Are you saying that if people are struggling to afford child care while they work that they should give up work and claim benefits??? Benefits should be stopped aswell for jobless people so that wouldn't be an option if I had my way" so you propose no childcare help...no benefits....so how do people do people have kids...how do people live....???? | |||
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"Cheers mate if you work it should be stopped and to previous posters who said I didn't have kids? Fact is can't support them the don't work and take Are you saying that if people are struggling to afford child care while they work that they should give up work and claim benefits??? Benefits should be stopped aswell for jobless people so that wouldn't be an option if I had my way How do you expect people to live if they are actively searching for work where there are very few positions for 100's of applicants?" awaiting the answer to this with great interest. Although funny feeling it'll be dissapointing | |||
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"Cheers mate if you work it should be stopped and to previous posters who said I didn't have kids? Fact is can't support them the don't work and take Are you saying that if people are struggling to afford child care while they work that they should give up work and claim benefits??? Benefits should be stopped aswell for jobless people so that wouldn't be an option if I had my way How do you expect people to live if they are actively searching for work where there are very few positions for 100's of applicants? awaiting the answer to this with great interest. Although funny feeling it'll be dissapointing" | |||
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"Cheers mate if you work it should be stopped and to previous posters who said I didn't have kids? Fact is can't support them the don't work and take Are you saying that if people are struggling to afford child care while they work that they should give up work and claim benefits??? Benefits should be stopped aswell for jobless people so that wouldn't be an option if I had my way How do you expect people to live if they are actively searching for work where there are very few positions for 100's of applicants?" I know someone who hasn't had a job in 2 years. Won't work for minimum wage and has no interest in a job. Anyone on benefits should get a one strike rule. Even if working a 40 hour week only makes you a fiver better off if they reject that they should be stopped. People just dot want to work. Te piles seem to find work no bother over here. | |||
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"Cheers mate if you work it should be stopped and to previous posters who said I didn't have kids? Fact is can't support them the don't work and take Are you saying that if people are struggling to afford child care while they work that they should give up work and claim benefits??? Benefits should be stopped aswell for jobless people so that wouldn't be an option if I had my way How do you expect people to live if they are actively searching for work where there are very few positions for 100's of applicants? I know someone who hasn't had a job in 2 years. Won't work for minimum wage and has no interest in a job. Anyone on benefits should get a one strike rule. Even if working a 40 hour week only makes you a fiver better off if they reject that they should be stopped. People just dot want to work. Te piles seem to find work no bother over here." Ok...what about the people that want to work that need childcare....yer you want that removed as you dont want to pay for it.....makes no sence...... | |||
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"Cheers mate if you work it should be stopped and to previous posters who said I didn't have kids? Fact is can't support them the don't work and take Are you saying that if people are struggling to afford child care while they work that they should give up work and claim benefits??? Benefits should be stopped aswell for jobless people so that wouldn't be an option if I had my way How do you expect people to live if they are actively searching for work where there are very few positions for 100's of applicants? I know someone who hasn't had a job in 2 years. Won't work for minimum wage and has no interest in a job. Anyone on benefits should get a one strike rule. Even if working a 40 hour week only makes you a fiver better off if they reject that they should be stopped. People just dot want to work. Te piles seem to find work no bother over here." I'm sorry, that doesn't answer my question. How do you propose that jobseekers support themselves while actively looking for employment that they have little chance of gaining due to the high number of applicants? | |||
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"Cheers mate if you work it should be stopped and to previous posters who said I didn't have kids? Fact is can't support them the don't work and take Are you saying that if people are struggling to afford child care while they work that they should give up work and claim benefits??? Benefits should be stopped aswell for jobless people so that wouldn't be an option if I had my way How do you expect people to live if they are actively searching for work where there are very few positions for 100's of applicants? I know someone who hasn't had a job in 2 years. Won't work for minimum wage and has no interest in a job. Anyone on benefits should get a one strike rule. Even if working a 40 hour week only makes you a fiver better off if they reject that they should be stopped. People just dot want to work. Te piles seem to find work no bother over here." and would also like to add nowt like stereotyping.......... | |||
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"Cheers mate if you work it should be stopped and to previous posters who said I didn't have kids? Fact is can't support them the don't work and take Are you saying that if people are struggling to afford child care while they work that they should give up work and claim benefits??? Benefits should be stopped aswell for jobless people so that wouldn't be an option if I had my way How do you expect people to live if they are actively searching for work where there are very few positions for 100's of applicants? I know someone who hasn't had a job in 2 years. Won't work for minimum wage and has no interest in a job. Anyone on benefits should get a one strike rule. Even if working a 40 hour week only makes you a fiver better off if they reject that they should be stopped. People just dot want to work. Te piles seem to find work no bother over here. I'm sorry, that doesn't answer my question. How do you propose that jobseekers support themselves while actively looking for employment that they have little chance of gaining due to the high number of applicants?" Looking ? Most aren't. They just blame they big bad poles for stealing there jobs as an excuse for them not getting any. I don't see much unemployed polish people over here. They are willing to do anything to make money doesn't matter which job. The Brits won't do anything they just keep waiting till a good job. Anyone on job seekers allowance for any longer than a month isn't trying hard enough for a job Or they would have found one | |||
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"Cheers mate if you work it should be stopped and to previous posters who said I didn't have kids? Fact is can't support them the don't work and take Are you saying that if people are struggling to afford child care while they work that they should give up work and claim benefits??? Benefits should be stopped aswell for jobless people so that wouldn't be an option if I had my way How do you expect people to live if they are actively searching for work where there are very few positions for 100's of applicants? I know someone who hasn't had a job in 2 years. Won't work for minimum wage and has no interest in a job. Anyone on benefits should get a one strike rule. Even if working a 40 hour week only makes you a fiver better off if they reject that they should be stopped. People just dot want to work. Te piles seem to find work no bother over here." just knew you wouldn't let me down | |||
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"Cheers mate if you work it should be stopped and to previous posters who said I didn't have kids? Fact is can't support them the don't work and take Are you saying that if people are struggling to afford child care while they work that they should give up work and claim benefits??? Benefits should be stopped aswell for jobless people so that wouldn't be an option if I had my way How do you expect people to live if they are actively searching for work where there are very few positions for 100's of applicants? I know someone who hasn't had a job in 2 years. Won't work for minimum wage and has no interest in a job. Anyone on benefits should get a one strike rule. Even if working a 40 hour week only makes you a fiver better off if they reject that they should be stopped. People just dot want to work. Te piles seem to find work no bother over here. just knew you wouldn't let me down " I also know someone when out of work Tried to sign on but was knocked Back as had to much savings in his bank. So since he didn't go and blow His money and be sensible with it he was penilised. 2 weeks later he was cleaning toilets. He's a joiner but done that for 2 months until a better one came up. Most ppl just aren't willing to do that | |||
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"Cheers mate if you work it should be stopped and to previous posters who said I didn't have kids? Fact is can't support them the don't work and take Are you saying that if people are struggling to afford child care while they work that they should give up work and claim benefits??? Benefits should be stopped aswell for jobless people so that wouldn't be an option if I had my way How do you expect people to live if they are actively searching for work where there are very few positions for 100's of applicants? I know someone who hasn't had a job in 2 years. Won't work for minimum wage and has no interest in a job. Anyone on benefits should get a one strike rule. Even if working a 40 hour week only makes you a fiver better off if they reject that they should be stopped. People just dot want to work. Te piles seem to find work no bother over here. I'm sorry, that doesn't answer my question. How do you propose that jobseekers support themselves while actively looking for employment that they have little chance of gaining due to the high number of applicants? Looking ? Most aren't. They just blame they big bad poles for stealing there jobs as an excuse for them not getting any. I don't see much unemployed polish people over here. They are willing to do anything to make money doesn't matter which job. The Brits won't do anything they just keep waiting till a good job. Anyone on job seekers allowance for any longer than a month isn't trying hard enough for a job Or they would have found one " I was on jobseekers for 6 months before I managed to get a job, and believe me I was looking. Unfortunately, I had to consider my children in the equation with regards to shift work, plus what jobs I was actually qualified to do. Never mind the fact that at the time, my husband was in another country serving his country. Your proposal would mean that I would have been left without any money even though I was actively looking for a job. Now, the shoe is on the other foot. I am the one working, my husband is no longer in the forces and has been looking for a job since December. His JSA has been stopped, shall I tell you why? Because I work 2 hours over what the deem suitable to allow him to collect any benefits. I don't even work full time, not even 30 hours a week. Benefits are granted on how much you earn anymore, it's all about how many hours you work so you are damned either way. Have you ever tried to feed a family of 4, clothe them, pay a mortgage, bills etc on less than £10k a year? Cos I can tell you, it's soul destroying. If I was to give up work, the social would pay half of my mortgage, the council tax would be paid, my kids would get free school meals, plus countless other "benefits". So don't sit there and make out to me that the government helping working parents with a few ££ a week towards childcare (which incidentally creates more jobs for people) is draining the system the same way that arse lazy junkies and alcoholics do. | |||
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"Cheers mate if you work it should be stopped and to previous posters who said I didn't have kids? Fact is can't support them the don't work and take Are you saying that if people are struggling to afford child care while they work that they should give up work and claim benefits??? Benefits should be stopped aswell for jobless people so that wouldn't be an option if I had my way" Oh yeah so only the rich should have kids then? what an attitude. I agree in some way about the dole as there are a lot of folk round here and able bodied that I have never known to work and never will so why should we pay for them. Society would collapse in a few yrs if hardworking cpls were punished for having kids. I for one dont mind my taxes going to this as its better spent there than bailing out big intsitutions whose greed fucked us all and still is. | |||
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"Cheers mate if you work it should be stopped and to previous posters who said I didn't have kids? Fact is can't support them the don't work and take Are you saying that if people are struggling to afford child care while they work that they should give up work and claim benefits??? Benefits should be stopped aswell for jobless people so that wouldn't be an option if I had my way How do you expect people to live if they are actively searching for work where there are very few positions for 100's of applicants? I know someone who hasn't had a job in 2 years. Won't work for minimum wage and has no interest in a job. Anyone on benefits should get a one strike rule. Even if working a 40 hour week only makes you a fiver better off if they reject that they should be stopped. People just dot want to work. Te piles seem to find work no bother over here. I'm sorry, that doesn't answer my question. How do you propose that jobseekers support themselves while actively looking for employment that they have little chance of gaining due to the high number of applicants? Looking ? Most aren't. They just blame they big bad poles for stealing there jobs as an excuse for them not getting any. I don't see much unemployed polish people over here. They are willing to do anything to make money doesn't matter which job. The Brits won't do anything they just keep waiting till a good job. Anyone on job seekers allowance for any longer than a month isn't trying hard enough for a job Or they would have found one I was on jobseekers for 6 months before I managed to get a job, and believe me I was looking. Unfortunately, I had to consider my children in the equation with regards to shift work, plus what jobs I was actually qualified to do. Never mind the fact that at the time, my husband was in another country serving his country. Your proposal would mean that I would have been left without any money even though I was actively looking for a job. Now, the shoe is on the other foot. I am the one working, my husband is no longer in the forces and has been looking for a job since December. His JSA has been stopped, shall I tell you why? Because I work 2 hours over what the deem suitable to allow him to collect any benefits. I don't even work full time, not even 30 hours a week. Benefits are granted on how much you earn anymore, it's all about how many hours you work so you are damned either way. Have you ever tried to feed a family of 4, clothe them, pay a mortgage, bills etc on less than £10k a year? Cos I can tell you, it's soul destroying. If I was to give up work, the social would pay half of my mortgage, the council tax would be paid, my kids would get free school meals, plus countless other "benefits". So don't sit there and make out to me that the government helping working parents with a few ££ a week towards childcare (which incidentally creates more jobs for people) is draining the system the same way that arse lazy junkies and alcoholics do. " I couldn't afford to feed a family of 4 so I wouldn't put myself in that situation. However I pay a mortgage bills etc all on my own wage with no help from anyone. | |||
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"Cheers mate if you work it should be stopped and to previous posters who said I didn't have kids? Fact is can't support them the don't work and take Are you saying that if people are struggling to afford child care while they work that they should give up work and claim benefits??? Benefits should be stopped aswell for jobless people so that wouldn't be an option if I had my way" Would you like to watch the kids starve? | |||
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" I couldn't afford to feed a family of 4 so I wouldn't put myself in that situation. However I pay a mortgage bills etc all on my own wage with no help from anyone. " My family was 4 before my husband left the forces, he was earning adequate wages to cover our necessities and then some. Circumstances change, sometimes outwith our control. Are we to be punished for that as well? | |||
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" I couldn't afford to feed a family of 4 so I wouldn't put myself in that situation. However I pay a mortgage bills etc all on my own wage with no help from anyone. My family was 4 before my husband left the forces, he was earning adequate wages to cover our necessities and then some. Circumstances change, sometimes outwith our control. Are we to be punished for that as well?" Put money aside like most do. Was he forced out the forces ? You don't leave a job unless you have one to walk into. Common sense really. If my Situation changes should I get Help to pay my mortgage my car etc ? No and I wouldn't expect it either. That's what savings accounts are for | |||
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" I couldn't afford to feed a family of 4 so I wouldn't put myself in that situation. However I pay a mortgage bills etc all on my own wage with no help from anyone. My family was 4 before my husband left the forces, he was earning adequate wages to cover our necessities and then some. Circumstances change, sometimes outwith our control. Are we to be punished for that as well? Put money aside like most do. Was he forced out the forces ? You don't leave a job unless you have one to walk into. Common sense really. If my Situation changes should I get Help to pay my mortgage my car etc ? No and I wouldn't expect it either. That's what savings accounts are for " You'll you'll Be going 'private health's then Or are you going to leech off the nhs? | |||
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" I couldn't afford to feed a family of 4 so I wouldn't put myself in that situation. However I pay a mortgage bills etc all on my own wage with no help from anyone. My family was 4 before my husband left the forces, he was earning adequate wages to cover our necessities and then some. Circumstances change, sometimes outwith our control. Are we to be punished for that as well? Put money aside like most do. Was he forced out the forces ? You don't leave a job unless you have one to walk into. Common sense really. If my Situation changes should I get Help to pay my mortgage my car etc ? No and I wouldn't expect it either. That's what savings accounts are for " savings all used up .... what do you propose now? | |||
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" I couldn't afford to feed a family of 4 so I wouldn't put myself in that situation. However I pay a mortgage bills etc all on my own wage with no help from anyone. My family was 4 before my husband left the forces, he was earning adequate wages to cover our necessities and then some. Circumstances change, sometimes outwith our control. Are we to be punished for that as well? Put money aside like most do. Was he forced out the forces ? You don't leave a job unless you have one to walk into. Common sense really. If my Situation changes should I get Help to pay my mortgage my car etc ? No and I wouldn't expect it either. That's what savings accounts are for You'll you'll Be going 'private health's then Or are you going to leech off the nhs? " I'm private. Private pension aswell before you say that. Started 2 years ago through my work. And leech of the nhs ? Even if I wasn't private I wouldn't be leaching as I pay national insurance every month. It's a service I pay for that I choose not to use. | |||
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" I couldn't afford to feed a family of 4 so I wouldn't put myself in that situation. However I pay a mortgage bills etc all on my own wage with no help from anyone. My family was 4 before my husband left the forces, he was earning adequate wages to cover our necessities and then some. Circumstances change, sometimes outwith our control. Are we to be punished for that as well? Put money aside like most do. Was he forced out the forces ? You don't leave a job unless you have one to walk into. Common sense really. If my Situation changes should I get Help to pay my mortgage my car etc ? No and I wouldn't expect it either. That's what savings accounts are for You'll you'll Be going 'private health's then Or are you going to leech off the nhs? I'm private. Private pension aswell before you say that. Started 2 years ago through my work. And leech of the nhs ? Even if I wasn't private I wouldn't be leaching as I pay national insurance every month. It's a service I pay for that I choose not to use. " Are you a banker by any chance? as you seem to have the same F**k you Jack Im alright attitude that that shower of greedy Bastards that fucked the world economy | |||
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" I couldn't afford to feed a family of 4 so I wouldn't put myself in that situation. However I pay a mortgage bills etc all on my own wage with no help from anyone. My family was 4 before my husband left the forces, he was earning adequate wages to cover our necessities and then some. Circumstances change, sometimes outwith our control. Are we to be punished for that as well? Put money aside like most do. Was he forced out the forces ? You don't leave a job unless you have one to walk into. Common sense really. If my Situation changes should I get Help to pay my mortgage my car etc ? No and I wouldn't expect it either. That's what savings accounts are for You'll you'll Be going 'private health's then Or are you going to leech off the nhs? I'm private. Private pension aswell before you say that. Started 2 years ago through my work. And leech of the nhs ? Even if I wasn't private I wouldn't be leaching as I pay national insurance every month. It's a service I pay for that I choose not to use. " Your civic service is noted. However the NHS is the provider of last resort when the private system screws up... | |||
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" I couldn't afford to feed a family of 4 so I wouldn't put myself in that situation. However I pay a mortgage bills etc all on my own wage with no help from anyone. My family was 4 before my husband left the forces, he was earning adequate wages to cover our necessities and then some. Circumstances change, sometimes outwith our control. Are we to be punished for that as well? Put money aside like most do. Was he forced out the forces ? You don't leave a job unless you have one to walk into. Common sense really. If my Situation changes should I get Help to pay my mortgage my car etc ? No and I wouldn't expect it either. That's what savings accounts are for You'll you'll Be going 'private health's then Or are you going to leech off the nhs? I'm private. Private pension aswell before you say that. Started 2 years ago through my work. And leech of the nhs ? Even if I wasn't private I wouldn't be leaching as I pay national insurance every month. It's a service I pay for that I choose not to use. Are you a banker by any chance? as you seem to have the same F**k you Jack Im alright attitude that that shower of greedy Bastards that fucked the world economy " Nope I'm in the engineering trade. Month on month off. And the only reason I'm private as my company pay for it. When at work Im not working anywhere near Britain bus as I stay here x amount of the year I still have to pay taxes here. | |||
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" I couldn't afford to feed a family of 4 so I wouldn't put myself in that situation. However I pay a mortgage bills etc all on my own wage with no help from anyone. My family was 4 before my husband left the forces, he was earning adequate wages to cover our necessities and then some. Circumstances change, sometimes outwith our control. Are we to be punished for that as well? Put money aside like most do. Was he forced out the forces ? You don't leave a job unless you have one to walk into. Common sense really. If my Situation changes should I get Help to pay my mortgage my car etc ? No and I wouldn't expect it either. That's what savings accounts are for You'll you'll Be going 'private health's then Or are you going to leech off the nhs? I'm private. Private pension aswell before you say that. Started 2 years ago through my work. And leech of the nhs ? Even if I wasn't private I wouldn't be leaching as I pay national insurance every month. It's a service I pay for that I choose not to use. Your civic service is noted. However the NHS is the provider of last resort when the private system screws up... " Only reason I'm private is because my work pays it. I contribute national insurance every month so it's not like I'd be getting something for free | |||
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" I couldn't afford to feed a family of 4 so I wouldn't put myself in that situation. However I pay a mortgage bills etc all on my own wage with no help from anyone. My family was 4 before my husband left the forces, he was earning adequate wages to cover our necessities and then some. Circumstances change, sometimes outwith our control. Are we to be punished for that as well? Put money aside like most do. Was he forced out the forces ? You don't leave a job unless you have one to walk into. Common sense really. If my Situation changes should I get Help to pay my mortgage my car etc ? No and I wouldn't expect it either. That's what savings accounts are for You'll you'll Be going 'private health's then Or are you going to leech off the nhs? I'm private. Private pension aswell before you say that. Started 2 years ago through my work. And leech of the nhs ? Even if I wasn't private I wouldn't be leaching as I pay national insurance every month. It's a service I pay for that I choose not to use. Are you a banker by any chance? as you seem to have the same F**k you Jack Im alright attitude that that shower of greedy Bastards that fucked the world economy Nope I'm in the engineering trade. Month on month off. And the only reason I'm private as my company pay for it. When at work Im not working anywhere near Britain bus as I stay here x amount of the year I still have to pay taxes here. " Then as you are out of the UK for 6 months a year surely you pay little or no tax | |||
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" I couldn't afford to feed a family of 4 so I wouldn't put myself in that situation. However I pay a mortgage bills etc all on my own wage with no help from anyone. My family was 4 before my husband left the forces, he was earning adequate wages to cover our necessities and then some. Circumstances change, sometimes outwith our control. Are we to be punished for that as well? Put money aside like most do. Was he forced out the forces ? You don't leave a job unless you have one to walk into. Common sense really. If my Situation changes should I get Help to pay my mortgage my car etc ? No and I wouldn't expect it either. That's what savings accounts are for You'll you'll Be going 'private health's then Or are you going to leech off the nhs? I'm private. Private pension aswell before you say that. Started 2 years ago through my work. And leech of the nhs ? Even if I wasn't private I wouldn't be leaching as I pay national insurance every month. It's a service I pay for that I choose not to use. Are you a banker by any chance? as you seem to have the same F**k you Jack Im alright attitude that that shower of greedy Bastards that fucked the world economy Nope I'm in the engineering trade. Month on month off. And the only reason I'm private as my company pay for it. When at work Im not working anywhere near Britain bus as I stay here x amount of the year I still have to pay taxes here. Then as you are out of the UK for 6 months a year surely you pay little or no tax" No as I am still a resident here I still get taxed full. It works out I'm here around 3 weeks more than I'm away so I'm still fully taxed on all earnings. | |||
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"Peoples circumstances change.If yours change, I hope you get more compassion than your giving out now. Doesnt matter how much money someone has now, or how much savings they have…. sometimes things happen that turn everything upside down and you have fuck all. You will soon be looking for the tax payer to support you then eh? " | |||
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"Peoples circumstances change.If yours change, I hope you get more compassion than your giving out now. Doesnt matter how much money someone has now, or how much savings they have…. sometimes things happen that turn everything upside down and you have fuck all. You will soon be looking for the tax payer to support you then eh? " Would the tax payer pay my mortgage ? My car ? The answer is no. So no I wouldn't be looking for them to support me. | |||
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"Peoples circumstances change.If yours change, I hope you get more compassion than your giving out now. Doesnt matter how much money someone has now, or how much savings they have…. sometimes things happen that turn everything upside down and you have fuck all. You will soon be looking for the tax payer to support you then eh? Would the tax payer pay my mortgage ? My car ? The answer is no. So no I wouldn't be looking for them to support me. " Things can happen is life and you have no choice.....it happens....you cant ever say you wont ever need the help of tax payers cos things can happen in life... for example you have an accident and cant work.... | |||
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"Peoples circumstances change.If yours change, I hope you get more compassion than your giving out now. Doesnt matter how much money someone has now, or how much savings they have…. sometimes things happen that turn everything upside down and you have fuck all. You will soon be looking for the tax payer to support you then eh? " Exactly A friend of my brother had his own businness own home doing well then due to circumstances outwith his control he lost everything hit rock bottom and comitted suicide | |||
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"Peoples circumstances change.If yours change, I hope you get more compassion than your giving out now. Doesnt matter how much money someone has now, or how much savings they have…. sometimes things happen that turn everything upside down and you have fuck all. You will soon be looking for the tax payer to support you then eh? Would the tax payer pay my mortgage ? My car ? The answer is no. So no I wouldn't be looking for them to support me. " Actually, yes! If you claim JSA then you are entitled to get the interest on your mortgage paid. | |||
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"Peoples circumstances change.If yours change, I hope you get more compassion than your giving out now. Doesnt matter how much money someone has now, or how much savings they have…. sometimes things happen that turn everything upside down and you have fuck all. You will soon be looking for the tax payer to support you then eh? Would the tax payer pay my mortgage ? My car ? The answer is no. So no I wouldn't be looking for them to support me. Actually, yes! If you claim JSA then you are entitled to get the interest on your mortgage paid." I wouldn't be entitled to jsa. What about my car would I get help with that ? | |||
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"Peoples circumstances change.If yours change, I hope you get more compassion than your giving out now. Doesnt matter how much money someone has now, or how much savings they have…. sometimes things happen that turn everything upside down and you have fuck all. You will soon be looking for the tax payer to support you then eh? Would the tax payer pay my mortgage ? My car ? The answer is no. So no I wouldn't be looking for them to support me. Actually, yes! If you claim JSA then you are entitled to get the interest on your mortgage paid. I wouldn't be entitled to jsa. What about my car would I get help with that ? " a car is a luxury so i'm gonna guess no on that one. | |||
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"Would the tax payer pay my mortgage ? My car ? The answer is no. So no I wouldn't be looking for them to support me. " They do if you bank with RBS or any bank that has accepted bail out money. . Never heard of The Mortgage Rescue scheme?? | |||
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"Would the tax payer pay my mortgage ? My car ? The answer is no. So no I wouldn't be looking for them to support me. They do if you bank with RBS or any bank that has accepted bail out money. . Never heard of The Mortgage Rescue scheme??" Did Lloyds accept bail out money ? Not sure if they did tbh | |||
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"Peoples circumstances change.If yours change, I hope you get more compassion than your giving out now. Doesnt matter how much money someone has now, or how much savings they have…. sometimes things happen that turn everything upside down and you have fuck all. You will soon be looking for the tax payer to support you then eh? Would the tax payer pay my mortgage ? My car ? The answer is no. So no I wouldn't be looking for them to support me. Actually, yes! If you claim JSA then you are entitled to get the interest on your mortgage paid. I wouldn't be entitled to jsa. What about my car would I get help with that ? a car is a luxury so i'm gonna guess no on that one." So basicly a car was my choice for extra out going. Just like kids | |||
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"Would the tax payer pay my mortgage ? My car ? The answer is no. So no I wouldn't be looking for them to support me. They do if you bank with RBS or any bank that has accepted bail out money. . Never heard of The Mortgage Rescue scheme?? Did Lloyds accept bail out money ? Not sure if they did tbh " stop putting words in peoples mouths! That wasn't what was said .... you mentioned Lloyds, no one else. Stop making out you are holier than thou! Kids are not a luxury, believe me. But I'm damn sure they are a necessity .... for the future of this country, for the world! What would happen if people didn't have more children? | |||
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"Would the tax payer pay my mortgage ? My car ? The answer is no. So no I wouldn't be looking for them to support me. They do if you bank with RBS or any bank that has accepted bail out money. . Never heard of The Mortgage Rescue scheme?? Did Lloyds accept bail out money ? Not sure if they did tbh stop putting words in peoples mouths! That wasn't what was said .... you mentioned Lloyds, no one else. Stop making out you are holier than thou! Kids are not a luxury, believe me. But I'm damn sure they are a necessity .... for the future of this country, for the world! What would happen if people didn't have more children? " . The planet is over populated enough. If every couple just had one the world would still develop fine in numbers. Everyone over the age of 25 seems to have a kid. Usually single parents aswell. I'm not holier than thou. Just don't see why I should pay money for something that people choose to have. | |||
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"Would the tax payer pay my mortgage ? My car ? The answer is no. So no I wouldn't be looking for them to support me. They do if you bank with RBS or any bank that has accepted bail out money. . Never heard of The Mortgage Rescue scheme?? Did Lloyds accept bail out money ? Not sure if they did tbh stop putting words in peoples mouths! That wasn't what was said .... you mentioned Lloyds, no one else. Stop making out you are holier than thou! Kids are not a luxury, believe me. But I'm damn sure they are a necessity .... for the future of this country, for the world! What would happen if people didn't have more children? . The planet is over populated enough. If every couple just had one the world would still develop fine in numbers. Everyone over the age of 25 seems to have a kid. Usually single parents aswell. I'm not holier than thou. Just don't see why I should pay money for something that people choose to have. " bit narrow minded..... steriotypical...... | |||
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"can think of two people who shouldn't have had a kid " I certainly won't be scrounging of the state when/if I ever decide to have one | |||
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" The planet is over populated enough. If every couple just had one the world would still develop fine in numbers. Everyone over the age of 25 seems to have a kid. Usually single parents aswell. I'm not holier than thou. Just don't see why I should pay money for something that people choose to have. " so you would rather your taxes went towards keeping dole dossers in the style to which they have become accustomed? Cos that's what a previous poster said that parent's should do when they can't afford to pay for childcare ... become dole dossers! | |||
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" The planet is over populated enough. If every couple just had one the world would still develop fine in numbers. Everyone over the age of 25 seems to have a kid. Usually single parents aswell. I'm not holier than thou. Just don't see why I should pay money for something that people choose to have. so you would rather your taxes went towards keeping dole dossers in the style to which they have become accustomed? Cos that's what a previous poster said that parent's should do when they can't afford to pay for childcare ... become dole dossers!" Read up and you will find as soon as they turn down a job they shouldn't get a penny. Poles seem to find work no problem over here. There willing to do anything though to make money. After a month on the dole they should be out working for there dole money. If they don't turn up they don't get there dole money | |||
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" The planet is over populated enough. If every couple just had one the world would still develop fine in numbers. Everyone over the age of 25 seems to have a kid. Usually single parents aswell. I'm not holier than thou. Just don't see why I should pay money for something that people choose to have. so you would rather your taxes went towards keeping dole dossers in the style to which they have become accustomed? Cos that's what a previous poster said that parent's should do when they can't afford to pay for childcare ... become dole dossers! Read up and you will find as soon as they turn down a job they shouldn't get a penny. Poles seem to find work no problem over here. There willing to do anything though to make money. After a month on the dole they should be out working for there dole money. If they don't turn up they don't get there dole money " read my follow up to that one please | |||
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"oh, and if this isn't your alternative can you tell me what is? Bearing in mind that there are children's lives and well being at stake here. We aren't talking hypothetical, still to be conceived children. I mean real live, running about, growing, eating children that need food and clothes and love and support." Be responsible for your actions. People who had them need to be responsible for them. Most spend the cash on fags etc | |||
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"oh, and if this isn't your alternative can you tell me what is? Bearing in mind that there are children's lives and well being at stake here. We aren't talking hypothetical, still to be conceived children. I mean real live, running about, growing, eating children that need food and clothes and love and support. Be responsible for your actions. People who had them need to be responsible for them. Most spend the cash on fags etc " stereotypes again.... | |||
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"oh, and if this isn't your alternative can you tell me what is? Bearing in mind that there are children's lives and well being at stake here. We aren't talking hypothetical, still to be conceived children. I mean real live, running about, growing, eating children that need food and clothes and love and support. Be responsible for your actions. People who had them need to be responsible for them. Most spend the cash on fags etc " But not all .... stereotyping again? | |||
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"oh, and if this isn't your alternative can you tell me what is? Bearing in mind that there are children's lives and well being at stake here. We aren't talking hypothetical, still to be conceived children. I mean real live, running about, growing, eating children that need food and clothes and love and support. Be responsible for your actions. People who had them need to be responsible for them. Most spend the cash on fags etc But not all .... stereotyping again?" snap | |||
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"can think of two people who shouldn't have had a kid I certainly won't be scrounging of the state when/if I ever decide to have one " wouldn't that require two people?? | |||
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"Also, you said as soon as they turn down a job they should have their benefits stopped. What happens if they go for apply for jobs and don't get inter_iewed? Or get inter_iewed but don't get offered the job?" Well if they don't get offered the job they haven't turned one down have they ? | |||
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"Also, you said as soon as they turn down a job they should have their benefits stopped. What happens if they go for apply for jobs and don't get inter_iewed? Or get inter_iewed but don't get offered the job? Well if they don't get offered the job they haven't turned one down have they ? " and if this keeps happening because all the Polish folk get the job? | |||
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"can think of two people who shouldn't have had a kid I certainly won't be scrounging of the state when/if I ever decide to have one wouldn't that require two people?? " Clever one you eh ? Maybe that's why you scrounge of the state and I don't. Il add a wee face to make it better aswell | |||
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"can think of two people who shouldn't have had a kid I certainly won't be scrounging of the state when/if I ever decide to have one " Your Possible Pasts " Of their possible future, to take care. In derelict sidings the poppies entwine With cattle trucks lying in wait for the next time. " R.Waters | |||
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"And dogs are better behaved. dogs are better behaved that some on ere " kids are better behaved than some too. lol | |||
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"And dogs are better behaved. dogs are better behaved that some on ere kids are better behaved than some too. lol" | |||
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"can think of two people who shouldn't have had a kid I certainly won't be scrounging of the state when/if I ever decide to have one wouldn't that require two people?? Clever one you eh ? Maybe that's why you scrounge of the state and I don't. Il add a wee face to make it better aswell " we're state scroungers, whatever voice in your head that gave you that idea is mistaken. Maybe your tired and should tuck yourself into your single bed | |||
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"can think of two people who shouldn't have had a kid I certainly won't be scrounging of the state when/if I ever decide to have one wouldn't that require two people?? Clever one you eh ? Maybe that's why you scrounge of the state and I don't. Il add a wee face to make it better aswell we're state scroungers, whatever voice in your head that gave you that idea is mistaken. Maybe your tired and should tuck yourself into your single bed" It's a double . Might tuck myself in soon though some of us are going on our 5 holiday of the year tommorow. | |||
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"we're state scroungers, whatever voice in your head that gave you that idea is mistaken. Maybe your tired and should tuck yourself into your single bed lol, stop it. You'll get a slap on the wrist and put on the naughty step." hopefully xx | |||
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" Might tuck myself in soon though some of us are going on our 5 holiday of the year tommorow. " Sorry to say that Butlins has been downgraded to 4 | |||
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"we're state scroungers, whatever voice in your head that gave you that idea is mistaken. Maybe your tired and should tuck yourself into your single bed lol, stop it. You'll get a slap on the wrist and put on the naughty step." that actually made me LOL literally _hickencurry | |||
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" It's a double . Might tuck myself in soon though some of us are going on our 5 holiday of the year tommorow. " Spoken like a true child of Thatcher. "There is no such thing a society" (except behind the walls of my gated community) | |||
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"we're state scroungers, whatever voice in your head that gave you that idea is mistaken. Maybe your tired and should tuck yourself into your single bed lol, stop it. You'll get a slap on the wrist and put on the naughty step. that actually made me LOL literally _hickencurry " yeah think you had it right about the brick wall earlier, block, ignore,smile and carry on partying | |||
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"we're state scroungers, whatever voice in your head that gave you that idea is mistaken. Maybe your tired and should tuck yourself into your single bed lol, stop it. You'll get a slap on the wrist and put on the naughty step. that actually made me LOL literally _hickencurry yeah think you had it right about the brick wall earlier, block, ignore,smile and carry on partying" | |||
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"Swingers Tax Credits ..When did that get introduced.... So ..ye get Money for Coffee meets,Hotel Accomodation,Socials. Thats no a bad benefit Aherm Buboo " Chilla 4 chancellor! ! | |||
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" The planet is over populated enough. If every couple just had one the world would still develop fine in numbers. Everyone over the age of 25 seems to have a kid. Usually single parents aswell. I'm not holier than thou. Just don't see why I should pay money for something that people choose to have. so you would rather your taxes went towards keeping dole dossers in the style to which they have become accustomed? Cos that's what a previous poster said that parent's should do when they can't afford to pay for childcare ... become dole dossers! Read up and you will find as soon as they turn down a job they shouldn't get a penny. Poles seem to find work no problem over here. There willing to do anything though to make money. After a month on the dole they should be out working for there dole money. If they don't turn up they don't get there dole money " You will probably find that about 80% of working poles are making less than the national minimum wage btw! And, according to you, anyone not working after a month should 'work for their dole money'!! Where are THOSE jobs going to come from?? Plus, if you WERE working, but now unemployed for whatever reasn, you are ENTITLED to claim benefits, its not a charity, its a RIGHT!! | |||
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"yeah got an appointment next day i can manage it when i'm in the country, late august. Scrounging just keeps me too busy this fiscal year." All that shoe shopping... Jimmy Choo's are just so 'in' this month. | |||
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"Seriously getting angry with this guys comments,things happen in life that u have no control over and sometimes need help and to call anyone a scrounger just shows him up as not a very nice person,and after reading his comments on this and other posts hope ppl see him for what he is which I wont say as I dont want a ban." íf you read all the posts there is a lot of streotyping and name calling going on | |||
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"can think of two people who shouldn't have had a kid I certainly won't be scrounging of the state when/if I ever decide to have one wouldn't that require two people?? Clever one you eh ? Maybe that's why you scrounge of the state and I don't. Il add a wee face to make it better aswell we're state scroungers, whatever voice in your head that gave you that idea is mistaken. Maybe your tired and should tuck yourself into your single bed It's a double . Might tuck myself in soon though some of us are going on our 5 holiday of the year tommorow. " At 27 years old i am sure life holds a lot more in store for you , enjoy ur holiday , lets hope u dont have a nasty accident and become wheelchair bound and unable to work . | |||
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"The ironic thing is, I wouldn't be surprised if tax credits had helped push up childcare fees to the high levels that they're at now. Don't know what the solution is though." Totally agree really don't know what the answer is myself I just know judging ppl who are in a worse off situation than ourselves is not the answer. Until ppl know all the circumstances in each situation we really shouldn't judge!! xx | |||
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"Very cheeky here but ... your getting child care allowance, why was that brought in? Was it cos after the war we needed to produce more kids, hence the government helped pay for them? (well the tax payer) Do i get any government bonuses for not having children, who wont then buy cars and wont pollute the world? Doubtful, just intrigued when this was brought in and why? " you have no idea how hard it is for people to work with young children not everone is on big wages they are happy to work and not are scroungers | |||
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"Not all unplanned kids are poor souls.... Kinda disgusted at some people's attitudes on here.... Oh to be so perfect.... Time to leave the convo now...." Totally agree think its time I stop looking at this post I am getting more and more angry at ppls holier than thou attitudes. I was brought up with a saying I live by "I am no better than anyone else but in turn no one is better than me" I think a few ppl could take a wee look at themselves and apply that saying to them!! xx | |||
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" You may not be on good wages, but may i ask why you had children if you cant support them as a couple? " Maybe peoples wages when they had the kids were good. Under the recent financial strain that the recession has bought us, peoples wages in real terms has dropped…. people have lost their 'normal' well paid jobs and had to take lower paid work just to bring in an income. And lets not forget, if everyone who couldnt afford kids didnt have any, only the rich would have families. Is that the society we live in now? | |||
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"Not all unplanned kids are poor souls.... Kinda disgusted at some people's attitudes on here.... Oh to be so perfect.... Time to leave the convo now...." I agree too. I hope my point didn't come across wrong. All I meant is, everyone can have their opinion & debate about parents "suitability" as some might put it, to have kids, but the main concern is that those kids are provided for. If the parents can do it, that's ideal, much respect. If they need government help then that's fine in my book. I might grudge money to those work shy individuals, but not to their children. | |||
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"I've got one I dont expect the state to help me subsidise it with benefits but "oh let's have kids the state will give us cash " most are unplanned anyway poor souls" "it"? | |||
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"we ARE financially stable, and were when we had our kids. we own our house, however, can any of you afford council tax, mortage, food and bills aswell as pay out £200 a week for atleast one childs nursery place? Thats an outgoing of £800 a month all because you want to work no would be the answer hence why child tax credits are there in the first place. jesus, as i said, you just cannot win when it comes to those who dont have kids..or those who have done a runner from them" Agrees 100% I got laid of my work just before Christmas from full time work , the only job I could get was part time my hubby works full time and the tax credits we get are a good send , I don't own my home but I rent , and if it wasent for tax credits we would be homeless , the cost of child care is an all time high , it's bloody hard for parents to live above the breadline , some of the comments from people without kids on this thread of unbelievable | |||
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"changed my mind " Spit it out man !! | |||
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"changed my mind Spit it out man !! " have no energy so, maybe later | |||
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"changed my mind Spit it out man !! have no energy so, maybe later " Post and change ya mind another few times then the thread will get too big and close….. lol | |||
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" some of the comments from people without kids on this thread of unbelievable " That's it, have a pop at people who don't have, or have decided not to have kids. As far as I can see on the thread they've been very supportive of the situation with a few exceptions. And just because they have a differing opinion than yours doesn't make it any less valid. | |||
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"changed my mind Spit it out man !! have no energy so, maybe later Post and change ya mind another few times then the thread will get too big and close….. lol " I am typing with one eye, no contact lens in and glasses that need updated... I have no hope making sense... well more than normal | |||
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