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over a year ago
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Depends on the person In with and their needs.Have been both Dom and then again handed control fully to a female to use me.
Love both very stimulating mentally and brings out each other's creative side rather than just vanilla sex. |
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I enjoy both. But I find being a sub only works well with the right person, the Domme/Dom has to have, or be able to act with the right personality.
I've had, and enjoyed, time with a Domme that got in my head barely touching me and by the end of it I was hers. Equally I've had a Dom that was primarily physical and got into my head that way.
Either way, for me it's about a journey and having trust to release control.
As a Dom, it takes a lot of imagination and thought to make sure it is a satisfying time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm switch but prefer to be submissive as it means I have instructions and so on lol
love to worship women and men to make them feel like they are the obly people in the world lol xxx  |
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By *edeWoman
over a year ago
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I'm naturally submissive but only for the right person. Unfortunately when I mention it the response is quite often based around them 'making me do whatever they want' - as in purely physical. I will only submit fully to someone who unders_ands me and can get inside my head without even touching me  |
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"I'm naturally submissive but only for the right person. Unfortunately when I mention it the response is quite often based around them 'making me do whatever they want' - as in purely physical. I will only submit fully to someone who unders_ands me and can get inside my head without even touching me "
A very rare thing to find. A good dom can adjust their approach, but there has to be a chemistry, for want of a better word, first. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Definitely identify as sub, but not in the dodgy porn way, for me a 'real' dom is as much about skill as attitude/preference. Can service top at a push."
Good way of putting it agree x  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm naturally submissive but only for the right person. Unfortunately when I mention it the response is quite often based around them 'making me do whatever they want' - as in purely physical. I will only submit fully to someone who unders_ands me and can get inside my head without even touching me "
Well said yes I agree some think it's all about them it's a 2 way system untill fully comfy with the person x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Usually I’m the dominant one and SjA is submissive. Not to say that we don’t play and flip roles sometimes but wouldn’t call myself a switch as I don’t desire being a sub |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm sub and love to hand over control in the bedroom. All other areas of my life I'm the one on control and running the show, like others have said it's the one area I like to surrender x"
well gives you a well earned break and plesure
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm naturally submissive but only for the right person. Unfortunately when I mention it the response is quite often based around them 'making me do whatever they want' - as in purely physical. I will only submit fully to someone who unders_ands me and can get inside my head without even touching me "
A stereotypical view of Dom/sub relationships makes a lot of guys (in particular) think it's all about abuse, barking orders and acting like a dick.
I believe the reverse is true - the sub truly posesses the power. It’s about experiencing a range of emotion (not just sexual gratification) and this is what a good Dom provides for their sub. |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
Paisley |
"I enjoy both. But I find being a sub only works well with the right person, the Domme/Dom has to have, or be able to act with the right personality.
I've had, and enjoyed, time with a Domme that got in my head barely touching me and by the end of it I was hers. Equally I've had a Dom that was primarily physical and got into my head that way.
Either way, for me it's about a journey and having trust to release control.
As a Dom, it takes a lot of imagination and thought to make sure it is a satisfying time. "
Very true.  |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
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I’m sub but can be bratty I’ve been told.
Finally a thread about sub/Dom/Domme that is sensible and understanding of the relationship. Too many times I’ve been messaged by guys who just want to use and abuse and call themselves Doms.
Like someone else said it can be a mental as well as physical arousal. I certainly found out more about myself being a sub and the journey of pushing boundaries that it led to.
Here’s to the next adventure once lockdown is over. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I definitely have more sub tendencies but finding a domme or a domme couple to explore that especially in Edinburgh has been difficult
I'd love to meet some one on a regular basis so the connection grows between domme and sub and things can be explored Alot more |
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