Hey there guys n girls. I have a friend who is married but has taken a really fancy for girls lately and wants to try with them but only thing is is that her husband isn't into girl on girl.any advice for her |
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A man NOT into that... just when I thought I had heard it all here 
No advice I’m afraid OP, I’m a believer in the Captain of your own soul thing but I wish her well  |
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"A man NOT into that... just when I thought I had heard it all here
No advice I’m afraid OP, I’m a believer in the Captain of your own soul thing but I wish her well "
yeah im surprised as u when she told me her husband isn't into that.he must be mad |
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"Hey there guys n girls. I have a friend who is married but has taken a really fancy for girls lately and wants to try with them but only thing is is that her husband isn't into girl on girl.any advice for her"
Yes if she values her hubby & marriage then she will keep it as a fantasy if hubby ain't into it .
If he gives her permission to pursue it then they why not ! |
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I've heard that couple swapping has been mentioned but nothing about her going with a girl.she knows her husband is a bore sexually and not got a high sex drive like she has or the willingness to try new things |
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"A man NOT into that... just when I thought I had heard it all here
No advice I’m afraid OP, I’m a believer in the Captain of your own soul thing but I wish her well yeah im surprised as u when she told me her husband isn't into that.he must be mad"
Not as uncommon as people think. I have experienced a good few guys who love the concept of it but when it comes to being in a relationship with a bi lass they just cannot handle it  |
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"A man NOT into that... just when I thought I had heard it all here
No advice I’m afraid OP, I’m a believer in the Captain of your own soul thing but I wish her well yeah im surprised as u when she told me her husband isn't into that.he must be mad
Not as uncommon as people think. I have experienced a good few guys who love the concept of it but when it comes to being in a relationship with a bi lass they just cannot handle it "
so do u think she should go through with it after talking to her husband or should she just let it be a dream |
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"I'd advise her that she probably ought to be talking to her husband about it rather than you. "
maybe its a subject she cant bring up to her husband.im just a close friend through the years and always comes to me about things
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"A man NOT into that... just when I thought I had heard it all here
No advice I’m afraid OP, I’m a believer in the Captain of your own soul thing but I wish her well yeah im surprised as u when she told me her husband isn't into that.he must be mad
Not as uncommon as people think. I have experienced a good few guys who love the concept of it but when it comes to being in a relationship with a bi lass they just cannot handle it so do u think she should go through with it after talking to her husband or should she just let it be a dream"
I don't have any suggestions on what she should do. Only she can decide what works for her. In my own experience I need to be openly honest with my partner. That is with everything. I walked away from the guys who couldn't deal with it as I would not want to put myself into that position. I was either going to compromise who I was or cheat to fulfil that need. Neither work for me. My experience with people in relationships who venture outside it sexually has changed over the years. I used to be it is very black and white and don't do it. There may be a lot more surrounding it though and it is rarely black and white. It is personal to her and only she can decide what road to take and if she can live with the decision she makes xxx |
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"I'd advise her that she probably ought to be talking to her husband about it rather than you. maybe its a subject she cant bring up to her husband.im just a close friend through the years and always comes to me about things"
Ultimately, I would say there are pretty significant issues in a relationship if you can't be totally open & honest with each other.
In my last relationship the only occasions my partner showed signs of jealousy was if I seemed to be having too much fun with another woman, sharing me with men he had no issue with. He found girl on girl hot, but it definitely made him feel threatened at times. |
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"Hawd oan a cotton pickin' minute....I'm just catching up with all these friends threads and their marital woes.
You're like Dear Deirdre!"
tell me about it.i don't see them helping me to find a woman lol |
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Sure all these friends will be delighted you’re airing their issues in a forum that can be viewed publicly.
Think they need find some else to confide in. |
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