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"What are the fab ladies and couples looking for in a first message?"
Photograph backgrounds normally. 
They are also partial to baw deep into other women, type pics.
They love that kind a thing.
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Engagement - someone who’s actually read your profile and tailored a first message around it.
What we personally don’t like is ...
1) “Hi, how’s you?”
2) “Free to meet now?” (particularly during a pandemic)
3) Friend request along with a first message. |
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As a couple, we go on the profile text and pics as well as the msg, we don't reply to one liners it just bugs the shit out of us, if the person is msging us then they have usually looked at our pics where there are face pics, so we expect a face pic with the first msg and generally being confident and able to hold a conversation. |
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pics of dics with lynx cans
Pics of dicks over a toilet we pee in it
Pics of a room that looks like.its not seen a hoover from.before lockdown..
And the all important the can we meet for a shag now ..right this minute .and deffo start a conversation with baby. Babe. doll.sexy |
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We will read the profile, verifications then look at pics before we even open the message if when we do its obvious the sender hasn't read the profile or is disrespectful the message gets deleted. We try to respond politely even if just a "not for us" message.
Read profiles, engage with the person/persons as best you can  |
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I don’t mind what the first message says as I look at the profile to see if I am going to respond unless of course the first message is rude or offensive or looking to meet straight away.
It’s the follow up messages that need to keep my attention 
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It’s a combination of msg and how the guys profile/bio is. But nothing too direct and disrespectful.
I don’t think there is a perfect first msg, everyone is different and looking for different things.  |
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Pay attention to the profile, if you are the total opposite of what they are asking for why waste the time?
Be polite and don’t be offended if you are ignored because we all have 50 other msgs and the majority of them are nonsense x  |
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"Pay attention to the profile, if you are the total opposite of what they are asking for why waste the time?
Be polite and don’t be offended if you are ignored because we all have 50 other msgs and the majority of them are nonsense x "
That's exactly it! First messages should be personalised to who you are talking to. This could be something you spotted in their bio or pics. Don't waste your time sending a message to someone who is not going to think you are a good match for them.
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For a first message a simple "Hey how are you" is fine as its an invite to have a conversation. We'll then look at the profile.
But if there is no conversation flow by the 2nd or 3rd message then I prob wont message back. Ive had plenty of messages that started out that way and when I message back asking how they are I get a one word answer like "Fine" or "Ok".
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"What are the fab ladies and couples looking for in a first message?"
The message is not it for me. Although if I get a 'I want to smash your door in' type of message then I can guarantee I will not be responding.
The message is the hook for me to look at their profile. I look and if I see 20 different angles of a hairy cock then I am not messaging  Pubic hair makes me sick in my mouth and cocks are ugly as fuck man. Seeing 20 different angles of it really does nothing for mojo. Also girls all over a single guys profile. I'm like mate? I get it. You can bang a lass. Bring out the banners. But I am looking to find out about the guy. How does that let me know about the guy? So, the message isn't really it. It is the profile. The profile sells the man. Or couple. Or lass. So many guys do not get this and then moan their tits off when they don't get any attention That's just my input |
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