Generally I'm as much attracted by a personality and a lady's mind just as much physically.
However there is a lady on here who, personality wise, just does not do it for me (my superficial opinion is that she a bit of a selfish, over-opinionated pain) and I'm the opposite of attracted to her, but she is stunning and for some reason these two added together makes me want her more, in a very passionate, animalistic way.
I have had very little interaction with her (mainly reading her posts on forums), so my opinions are very close to being baseless and I mean no offence to the lady in question.
Just thought it was weird how this happens occasionally. |
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My fb and I can't stand each others opinions and views, we can't talk for any length of time without finding a way to rub each other the wrong way, our political views are at opposite ends of the spectrum and I often think she is an irrational, conspiracy-theorist nutjob. But holy shit, she's gorgeous and the things we do to each other... What's that advert that talks about "hate-liking"?
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"Generally I'm as much attracted by a personality and a lady's mind just as much physically.
However there is a lady on here who, personality wise, just does not do it for me (my superficial opinion is that she a bit of a selfish, over-opinionated pain) and I'm the opposite of attracted to her, but she is stunning and for some reason these two added together makes me want her more, in a very passionate, animalistic way.
I have had very little interaction with her (mainly reading her posts on forums), so my opinions are very close to being baseless and I mean no offence to the lady in question.
Just thought it was weird how this happens occasionally."
Is it weird if I think I know who you're talking about??  |
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"Generally I'm as much attracted by a personality and a lady's mind just as much physically.
However there is a lady on here who, personality wise, just does not do it for me (my superficial opinion is that she a bit of a selfish, over-opinionated pain) and I'm the opposite of attracted to her, but she is stunning and for some reason these two added together makes me want her more, in a very passionate, animalistic way.
I have had very little interaction with her (mainly reading her posts on forums), so my opinions are very close to being baseless and I mean no offence to the lady in question.
Just thought it was weird how this happens occasionally.
Is it weird if I think I know who you're talking about?? "
Not weird, but I hope it wasn't that obvious.
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"Its a shame when you are physically attracted but the personality lets it down.
if there is no real chemistry best not to take things further I think  "
Yeah, I'm not sure if I'd allow the time to get to know her enough to understand what chemistry there may be.
I know my personality isn't everyone's cup of tea.
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"Its a shame when you are physically attracted but the personality lets it down.
if there is no real chemistry best not to take things further I think
Yeah, I'm not sure if I'd allow the time to get to know her enough to understand what chemistry there may be.
I know my personality isn't everyone's cup of tea.
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"Generally I'm as much attracted by a personality and a lady's mind just as much physically.
However there is a lady on here who, personality wise, just does not do it for me (my superficial opinion is that she a bit of a selfish, over-opinionated pain) and I'm the opposite of attracted to her, but she is stunning and for some reason these two added together makes me want her more, in a very passionate, animalistic way.
I have had very little interaction with her (mainly reading her posts on forums), so my opinions are very close to being baseless and I mean no offence to the lady in question.
Just thought it was weird how this happens occasionally.
Is it weird if I think I know who you're talking about?? "
Hope its not me lol  |
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"Its a shame when you are physically attracted but the personality lets it down.
if there is no real chemistry best not to take things further I think "
This is very true. It's also disappointing when the "personality" that comes across on the forum or chat is not a true reflection of life. Sometimes the reality is no match for the legend! |
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"Generally I'm as much attracted by a personality and a lady's mind just as much physically.
However there is a lady on here who, personality wise, just does not do it for me (my superficial opinion is that she a bit of a selfish, over-opinionated pain) and I'm the opposite of attracted to her, but she is stunning and for some reason these two added together makes me want her more, in a very passionate, animalistic way.
I have had very little interaction with her (mainly reading her posts on forums), so my opinions are very close to being baseless and I mean no offence to the lady in question.
Just thought it was weird how this happens occasionally."
I think it is good she has an opinion on things. I am guessing they do not match yours but surely this makes things more interesting. Afterall, opposites attract. |
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"Generally I'm as much attracted by a personality and a lady's mind just as much physically.
However there is a lady on here who, personality wise, just does not do it for me (my superficial opinion is that she a bit of a selfish, over-opinionated pain) and I'm the opposite of attracted to her, but she is stunning and for some reason these two added together makes me want her more, in a very passionate, animalistic way.
I have had very little interaction with her (mainly reading her posts on forums), so my opinions are very close to being baseless and I mean no offence to the lady in question.
Just thought it was weird how this happens occasionally.
I think it is good she has an opinion on things. I am guessing they do not match yours but surely this makes things more interesting. Afterall, opposites attract."
Yes, I've no problem with opinions. I do enjoy a good discussion at times. If no-one had opinions then I think it would be quite dull. |
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"Generally I'm as much attracted by a personality and a lady's mind just as much physically.
However there is a lady on here who, personality wise, just does not do it for me (my superficial opinion is that she a bit of a selfish, over-opinionated pain) and I'm the opposite of attracted to her, but she is stunning and for some reason these two added together makes me want her more, in a very passionate, animalistic way.
I have had very little interaction with her (mainly reading her posts on forums), so my opinions are very close to being baseless and I mean no offence to the lady in question.
Just thought it was weird how this happens occasionally.
Is it weird if I think I know who you're talking about?? Hope its not me lol "
I wouldn't normally confirm or deny publicly, but for you...
It is definitely not you.  |
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"Attraction is mysterious and should never be fully explainable
You've gone seriously metaphysical on us this week.."
*fixes Outlandish with a knowing and metaphysical gaze (or maybe it’s wind  ) |
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"Generally I'm as much attracted by a personality and a lady's mind just as much physically.
However there is a lady on here who, personality wise, just does not do it for me (my superficial opinion is that she a bit of a selfish, over-opinionated pain) and I'm the opposite of attracted to her, but she is stunning and for some reason these two added together makes me want her more, in a very passionate, animalistic way.
I have had very little interaction with her (mainly reading her posts on forums), so my opinions are very close to being baseless and I mean no offence to the lady in question.
Just thought it was weird how this happens occasionally.
I think it is good she has an opinion on things. I am guessing they do not match yours but surely this makes things more interesting. Afterall, opposites attract."
Sometimes what folk think they dislike is projection of what lies within, so sometimes they are more alike than they think. |
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"Its a shame when you are physically attracted but the personality lets it down.
if there is no real chemistry best not to take things further I think "
Apparently its "No Strings Attached" why would chemistry matter ?
Just curious ??????
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"Apparently its "No Strings Attached" why would chemistry matter ?
Just curious ??????
"No Strings" does not mean "No Standards"."
Agree with that. I always need to have some kind of chemistry otherwise it's just crap sex and I've got toys that could give me the same enjoyment  |
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"Its a shame when you are physically attracted but the personality lets it down.
if there is no real chemistry best not to take things further I think
Apparently its "No Strings Attached" why would chemistry matter ?
Just curious ??????
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It might not matter to many people but for me an initial attraction and chemistry that leaves me thinking yes I want you and feeling the same from the person you are with makes me feel good .
just because there is chemistry there doesn't mean you can't have Nsa with that person too !
Chemistry does matter to me as I think it does with most people on here when meeting in a 121 situation |
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It might not matter to many people but for me an initial attraction and chemistry that leaves me thinking yes I want you and feeling the same from the person you are with makes me feel good .
just because there is chemistry there doesn't mean you can't have Nsa with that person too !
Chemistry does matter to me as I think it does with most people on here when meeting in a 121 situation "
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Loads of folk on the forum/site I find attractive but have totally opposite views with but also love some views/post from folk i wouldnt ride into battle with lol
Luckily I mostly go with instant attraction |
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I don’t think it’s weird at all, physical attraction has always outweighed emotional and intellectual attraction for forever, we are first drawn with our eyes to a person, interacting online and with people you haven’t physically been in the presence of is pretty much a new concept amongst the world, I often find men attractive till they open their mouths and even then I still get the odd fanny flutter but for me my brain ends up over thinking things and I usually end up with the guys who’s personalities do it for me. Very rarely do I ever come across men who seem too good to be true physical attraction and personality
Those guys are the ones I seem to keep going back to  13 years later and I’ve still got two guy in particular who are still in my life as a friend when I’m in a relationships but when I’m single and just need a right good seeing to they’re always ready and willing lol |
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I’ve met a guy lots of times over the past year. , I think he handsome and a brilliant kisser aswell as great in bed but that just rubs us both up the wrong way. We’re different in lots of ways , have very different views on everything , but my god the sex is good. X |
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"I’ve met a guy lots of times over the past year. , I think he handsome and a brilliant kisser aswell as great in bed but that just rubs us both up the wrong way. We’re different in lots of ways , have very different views on everything , but my god the sex is good. X"
I’ve found this too, sex wise was great but just had different interests and didn’t really click too well personally, but physically  Maybe was an age thing |
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