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First Social Nerves !!!
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Ive had a lot of intrest for fridays social with a lot of social newbies attending .
Ive tried to put many of the nervous ones at ease and thought id add a wee post here for the regulars attending socials to maybe give a few words of encouragement to them .
Il go first and say i know the nerves will be there but once you attened your first social im sure you will be dying to know when the next one is just relax and enjoy meeting lots of lovely like minded people  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is my 3rd social......great fun and loads of laughs.I'm a pretty shy guy.....no need to be nervous......you'll be well looked after!!!!!!......honest!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh I remember my first social as if it was yesterday! I was a nervous wreck but I met some lovely ppl who were in the same boat and some even more nervous that me (u know who u r!). Just bite the bullet and go for it, u won't look back.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh I remember my first social as if it was yesterday! I was a nervous wreck but I met some lovely ppl who were in the same boat and some even more nervous that me (u know who u r!). Just bite the bullet and go for it, u won't look back. "
We wer really nervous at our first social but wer made to very welcome by jacs and all the others who wer there ended up having a great nite and making a few good friends,only advice we can give is be urself and try and mix and chat to as many pps as u can so lets party whoohoo.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we were abit nervous at our 1st social not really knowing anyone but for the people thats going to jac's social she is very sweet and puts you at ease and honestly we are loving social's now cant wait for them you have a right good laugh and giggle just sorry we wont make friday night's but to everyone going enjoy the night and hopefully next one we can make it
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I went to my first one a few months ago, a single guy, didn't know anyone but people were very friendly. I found the other newbs chatted away to me. Jacs introduces newbs to everyone to make you comfy.
No-one need be left lonely |
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"thats why i dont go socials so nervous and scared would b sitting alone
kelly ive told you a million times that will never happen ask anyone whos ever been to any of my socials "
What! you run socials?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There will be nothing to worry about,miss d carries about a defibrillator at the socials,although that is mainly used to get regular social attendees to buy a round at the bar.The old short sharp shock treatment |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well this will be my first official social so yes I'm nervous but having met jacs and few of the others I'm sure it'll be fine  that's once I overcome the nerves to unlock the bathroom door lol ...
Looking forward to seeing some new faces and catching up with the ones that I do know ... Xx |
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the socials are a great piece of fun ............yup theres a but the fems are always grabbing your ass n being downright filthy a bit of decorum ladys.............unless its me wayyyyyyy hayyyyyy pmsl |
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We were really nervous before our first social but it really didnt take long to settle in at all. 2nd social there was no nerves at all as we knew a few people from the first one. Just go enjoy urself and try and mix in with others is best advice we can give. Get to meet some fun people at them  |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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keeping it real....
it depends a lot on the host/s and the regulars attending and I would say 'most are fantastic and put themselves out there and welcome newbies'
it is also down to the newbies being receptive to friendly approaches, not everyone will want to get into your pants and most will just be saying 'hello'.
Have a great time, you will most certainly get back what you put in, it is a fantastic way to meet people.
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