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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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I think that will be determined by how you conduct yourself. I would go in, stay off the booze for nerves, smile and engage with people by speaking to both male and female. Get a connection with someone/couple and hopefully an invite to play may happen. If it doesn't nothing has been lost as hopefully you will have got to know a few people so the next time you go, it's not as daunting.
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As already stated by above posters, don't drink too much, if at all. Don't expect to play, if you do it's a bonus. Sometimes there are arranged drinks beforehand, that way you can potentially meet some people before you go so not totally on your own to start with.
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It's something I've considered in the past but never done, partly because I'm well aware there will be tons of single guys there,the ratio of guys to ladies / couples will be huge. I wouldn't drink and wouldn't want to be creepy. Cjs is the only one I'm aware of that's local-ish to me so would probably try that one first. Will maybe go to one once this lockdown is over, and hopefully make a few friends, even if nothing else happens |
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"It's something I've considered in the past but never done, partly because I'm well aware there will be tons of single guys there,the ratio of guys to ladies / couples will be huge. I wouldn't drink and wouldn't want to be creepy. Cjs is the only one I'm aware of that's local-ish to me so would probably try that one first. Will maybe go to one once this lockdown is over, and hopefully make a few friends, even if nothing else happens"
CJs limits single guys so the place isn't crawling with them, makes it much easier for single guys to engage with females and couples 
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"It's something I've considered in the past but never done, partly because I'm well aware there will be tons of single guys there,the ratio of guys to ladies / couples will be huge. I wouldn't drink and wouldn't want to be creepy. Cjs is the only one I'm aware of that's local-ish to me so would probably try that one first. Will maybe go to one once this lockdown is over, and hopefully make a few friends, even if nothing else happens
CJs limits single guys so the place isn't crawling with them, makes it much easier for single guys to engage with females and couples
John "
That sounds promising. Yeah will definitely give it a go after lockdown restrictions go away |
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over a year ago
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A follow-up question I’ve always wondered about actually - is there a situation where you’d look completely out of place in a negative way based on your age?
I more mean by someone being a bit too young. I’m no spring chicken but I’m wondering whether it’s uncommon for someone who’s 27 to be showing up. |
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"A follow-up question I’ve always wondered about actually - is there a situation where you’d look completely out of place in a negative way based on your age?
I more mean by someone being a bit too young. I’m no spring chicken but I’m wondering whether it’s uncommon for someone who’s 27 to be showing up. "
Nope. Cjs is open to everyone from 18+. There's usually a very wide & varied age range of attendees.
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"A follow-up question I’ve always wondered about actually - is there a situation where you’d look completely out of place in a negative way based on your age?
I more mean by someone being a bit too young. I’m no spring chicken but I’m wondering whether it’s uncommon for someone who’s 27 to be showing up. "
No the clubs are good for all and place for you to get to know people we talk to everyone from young to old singles or couple as social side is just as important as play side. |
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By *ullpa72Man
over a year ago
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"It's something I've considered in the past but never done, partly because I'm well aware there will be tons of single guys there,the ratio of guys to ladies / couples will be huge. I wouldn't drink and wouldn't want to be creepy. Cjs is the only one I'm aware of that's local-ish to me so would probably try that one first. Will maybe go to one once this lockdown is over, and hopefully make a few friends, even if nothing else happens"
personally I like cj's ,you need to book and they try and keep a balance so give it a go !I think you will enjoy it .
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"A follow-up question I’ve always wondered about actually - is there a situation where you’d look completely out of place in a negative way based on your age?
I more mean by someone being a bit too young. I’m no spring chicken but I’m wondering whether it’s uncommon for someone who’s 27 to be showing up.
No the clubs are good for all and place for you to get to know people we talk to everyone from young to old singles or couple as social side is just as important as play side."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Read the thread im a single guy looking to go alot of good advice is cjs the best"
Thanks for advice I'll be looking at it after all this rubbish is over |
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