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I understand that the signal females on this site must get bombarded with messages, However Man can’t even get a reply ??
Not bitter. just wondering if there are unwritten rules.
Would be good to have a chin wag and get to know a few people
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"You've been on three weeks and your status says "this site sucks".
What were you expecting, instant fanny?
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Ha ,ha this ,not sure what people not just guys expect and there is a little case of a virus too which affects things too ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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even without covid and yer status, i wouldnt chat, your bio tells me nothing about you or what your about, but as usual, most ask for advice... then do fk all about it  then post another status/forum post about how they aint getting any  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On a more serious note OP, there are a host of rules on how to use the site. The FAQ’s, site help and advice, plus a zillion forum threads just like yours that educate and advise any newcomer (male or female) on the views of others, site etiquette and so on are there for those who care to look. Good luck in your fab journey.  |
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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago
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"I understand that the signal females on this site must get bombarded with messages, However Man can’t even get a reply ??
Not bitter. just wondering if there are unwritten rules.
Would be good to have a chin wag and get to know a few people
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Nearly all view the profile before opening messages......zero profile pretty much = zero response. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think we need to set up a course for single males on etiquette Profile pictures and behaviour?
Who would be up for this?  The same could be said for some females & couples
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"I think we need to set up a course for single males on etiquette Profile pictures and behaviour?
Who would be up for this? "
Bit unfair to just single out males. Plenty females and couple that could use a lesson or 2 as well. I agree that males are the vast and probably most irritating majority but it’s not just us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think we need to set up a course for single males on etiquette Profile pictures and behaviour?
Who would be up for this? "
Not me, one of the worst traits I’ve seen and it can be from “experienced” swingers is the inability to understand that being a swinger doesn’t equate to a “will fuck anyone” mentality. If you’re an intelligent person reading the site rules and advice should be enough to give the guidelines.
After that they should be able to engage with others... I.e. here, by personal message, chat, socials, clubs and so on, then with experience meets WILL happen. Of course some use the site as a hook up site, if that works then grand but as the amount of threads on this subject prove it’s far from that and most swingers prefer some kind of connection. Still NSA but a like minded individual. |
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"I think we need to set up a course for single males on etiquette Profile pictures and behaviour?
Who would be up for this?
Not me, one of the worst traits I’ve seen and it can be from “experienced” swingers is the inability to understand that being a swinger doesn’t equate to a “will fuck anyone” mentality. If you’re an intelligent person reading the site rules and advice should be enough to give the guidelines.
After that they should be able to engage with others... I.e. here, by personal message, chat, socials, clubs and so on, then with experience meets WILL happen. Of course some use the site as a hook up site, if that works then grand but as the amount of threads on this subject prove it’s far from that and most swingers prefer some kind of connection. Still NSA but a like minded individual. "
Well said, Totally agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think we need to set up a course for single males on etiquette Profile pictures and behaviour?
Who would be up for this?
Not me, one of the worst traits I’ve seen and it can be from “experienced” swingers is the inability to understand that being a swinger doesn’t equate to a “will fuck anyone” mentality. If you’re an intelligent person reading the site rules and advice should be enough to give the guidelines.
After that they should be able to engage with others... I.e. here, by personal message, chat, socials, clubs and so on, then with experience meets WILL happen. Of course some use the site as a hook up site, if that works then grand but as the amount of threads on this subject prove it’s far from that and most swingers prefer some kind of connection. Still NSA but a like minded individual.
Well said, Totally agree "
Thank ya young ‘un lol x  |
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"I think we need to set up a course for single males on etiquette Profile pictures and behaviour?
Who would be up for this?
Not me, one of the worst traits I’ve seen and it can be from “experienced” swingers is the inability to understand that being a swinger doesn’t equate to a “will fuck anyone” mentality. If you’re an intelligent person reading the site rules and advice should be enough to give the guidelines.
After that they should be able to engage with others... I.e. here, by personal message, chat, socials, clubs and so on, then with experience meets WILL happen. Of course some use the site as a hook up site, if that works then grand but as the amount of threads on this subject prove it’s far from that and most swingers prefer some kind of connection. Still NSA but a like minded individual.
Well said, Totally agree
Thank ya young ‘un lol x "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I understand that the signal females on this site must get bombarded with messages, However Man can’t even get a reply ??
Not bitter. just wondering if there are unwritten rules.
Would be good to have a chin wag and get to know a few people
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No unwritten rules....Fab is just like being an adult in the real word. No one is here to validate you, no one owes you anything and occasionally you get back what you put in.
Equally, no one should be unnecessarily rude to you or disrespectful. But some will....cause people can be arseholes.
With the restrictions due to covid, get posting more on here and maybe in the chat rooms if you can to give folk an insight to your personality. |
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"I think we need to set up a course for single males on etiquette Profile pictures and behaviour?
Who would be up for this? "
The problem is they'd most likely fall asleep or not pay attention during the class, or try and hit on every female |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not giving off great signals from your profile and your status sounds whining and needy. You need to sell yourself, what can you offer people?"
I offer red wine...a single malt and maybe...if you have sultry eyes and a sexy smile... A gin of your choosing...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not giving off great signals from your profile and your status sounds whining and needy. You need to sell yourself, what can you offer people?
I offer red wine...a single malt and maybe...if you have sultry eyes and a sexy smile... A gin of your choosing... "
and awfy driving  |
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Sorry mate. The reality of the site is that it is hugely biased towards single females and couples. Well it is a swingers site after all and not an NSA Sex or FWB site.
Strangely though single males make up to over 90% of the revenue for the site. A desperate, horny male is easily parted from his money after all
On average the single straight F:M ratio is 1:200 so you have a 0.5% chance of making a connection even with a perfect profile if you were a hung, dark, handsome 6+ footer.
In addition, you have to realise that a decent looking single lass on here, like my FWB, will get over 100 mails a day even without a picture and 200+ mails a day with a sexy pic.
Your chances of a single woman on here even reading your email are incredibly slim.
I wish you the best of luck if you persevere, but all the advice in the world doesn't change the numbers.
If you are a genuine swinger, like me, then I suggest you return when you are part of a couple. If you are just looking for casual sex this is the wrong site for that.
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"I think we need to set up a course for single males on etiquette Profile pictures and behaviour?
Who would be up for this? "
The same can be said for females and couples, the biggest arseholes and rank pics we've come accross belong to couples
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not giving off great signals from your profile and your status sounds whining and needy. You need to sell yourself, what can you offer people?
I offer red wine...a single malt and maybe...if you have sultry eyes and a sexy smile... A gin of your choosing... and awfy driving "
I defy anyone to keep their concentration when a sexy woman is wearing a short black dress showing amazing legs ..even if one was in a moon boot. |
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"What do you think about mine? I'd love an honest appraisal!
.....careful what you wish for
nah seriously bring it on, i new to all this. I'm a big boy so happy for any constructive criticism! "
You need more pictures not necessarily naked. In a nice fitting suit.
A bit more about you as a person.
Not what you want to do with someone. Don’t talk about sex all the time.
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"What do you think about mine? I'd love an honest appraisal!
.....careful what you wish for
nah seriously bring it on, i new to all this. I'm a big boy so happy for any constructive criticism! "
Lose the pic with the kid ffs. Mr. |
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"What do you think about mine? I'd love an honest appraisal!
.....careful what you wish for
nah seriously bring it on, i new to all this. I'm a big boy so happy for any constructive criticism! "
Nothing in your profile would make me want to message you. You need better pics. Remove the one with the child. You cant accommodate....maybe explain why. Are you married. This reduces your chances massively on here.
Your bio tells me nothing about what you are looking for. How would I know we would be compatible.
Hope this helps |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry mate. The reality of the site is that it is hugely biased towards single females and couples. Well it is a swingers site after all and not an NSA Sex or FWB site.
Strangely though single males make up to over 90% of the revenue for the site. A desperate, horny male is easily parted from his money after all
On average the single straight F:M ratio is 1:200 so you have a 0.5% chance of making a connection even with a perfect profile if you were a hung, dark, handsome 6+ footer.
In addition, you have to realise that a decent looking single lass on here, like my FWB, will get over 100 mails a day even without a picture and 200+ mails a day with a sexy pic.
Your chances of a single woman on here even reading your email are incredibly slim.
I wish you the best of luck if you persevere, but all the advice in the world doesn't change the numbers.
If you are a genuine swinger, like me, then I suggest you return when you are part of a couple. If you are just looking for casual sex this is the wrong site for that.
Best of luck "
Where exactly are you getting these figures from?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sorry mate. The reality of the site is that it is hugely biased towards single females and couples. Well it is a swingers site after all and not an NSA Sex or FWB site.
Strangely though single males make up to over 90% of the revenue for the site. A desperate, horny male is easily parted from his money after all
On average the single straight F:M ratio is 1:200 so you have a 0.5% chance of making a connection even with a perfect profile if you were a hung, dark, handsome 6+ footer.
In addition, you have to realise that a decent looking single lass on here, like my FWB, will get over 100 mails a day even without a picture and 200+ mails a day with a sexy pic.
Your chances of a single woman on here even reading your email are incredibly slim.
I wish you the best of luck if you persevere, but all the advice in the world doesn't change the numbers.
If you are a genuine swinger, like me, then I suggest you return when you are part of a couple. If you are just looking for casual sex this is the wrong site for that.
Best of luck
Where exactly are you getting these figures from? "
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