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We have always said that a swinger club would not really be for us. We are new on our adventure into the lifestyle and really want to watch and be watched by other couples, which is our thing at the moment. We watched the Ch4 documentry the other night on a club down south and both agree we may invesitgate going to a club when they open up again. If any couples on here have any information of advice on the ones in either Ediburgh or Glasgow we would be delighted to hear from you. |
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Each club has its fans and pros and cons, and you'll probably hear them all in this thread.
I'd say to read the re_iews on the Clubs section and look at the themed nights they do and see if any appeals.
Also take into consideration overall costs. Could you drive there and back, is there a membership fee, etc.
I've tried CJ's and After 8, and CJ's is my club of choice, plus I always make it a good trip away with lots of shopping and foods I can't get in Edinburgh.
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"We have always said that a swinger club would not really be for us. We are new on our adventure into the lifestyle and really want to watch and be watched by other couples, which is our thing at the moment. We watched the Ch4 documentry the other night on a club down south and both agree we may invesitgate going to a club when they open up again. If any couples on here have any information of advice on the ones in either Ediburgh or Glasgow we would be delighted to hear from you. "
An idea might be when things are more normal to spend a long weekend in the North West. Fairly easy to get to and a good amount of clubs to try. I wouldn’t choose After Eight as a first club, try a bigger one where you’ll probably feel more relaxed. No 3 club in Chorley or Cupid’s in Swindon are probably pretty good for beginners. It does depend on the people who attend on the night you are there of course, which is why it’s worth a few visits before deciding if clubs are for you.
Just a thought if travel was an option. |
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By *ctoboyMan
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"Travel is not easy now with a young family. We were looking for somewhere more local. Maybe clubs up here are not a good idea for beginners. "
...If I were you then once clubs reopen I would try CJ's in Glasgow. Caroline and all her Staff are fantastic and will take real good care of you on your first visit....and I promise you once you've been it won't be your last.
Remember also once inside CJ's you don't need to play straight away but you can meet & chat with others and take things at your leisure....Just fully enjoy the experience...  |
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"Travel is not easy now with a young family. We were looking for somewhere more local. Maybe clubs up here are not a good idea for beginners. ...If I were you then once clubs reopen I would try CJ's in Glasgow. Caroline and all her Staff are fantastic and will take real good care of you on your first visit....and I promise you once you've been it won't be your last.
Remember also once inside CJ's you don't need to play straight away but you can meet & chat with others and take things at your leisure....Just fully enjoy the experience... "
Once inside ANY swingers club you don’t need to play at all, never mind straight away.
The one thing to remember is No means No.
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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I would suggest you try them both and I guess the experience depends who is there on any particular night. I think both are popular for different reasons.
One thing I have learned over the years, is the passion that regulars have for their favourite and the need to speak the other down on occasion puts me off their choice. That's just me and no way reflects positive or negative on either. I have read positive re_iews on both and I know some of the attendees who attend both and they are lovely people.
If you go, I hope you enjoy both |
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Good advice. We are not an overly confident couple so are worried we look like a pair of lemons. We don't also want to be over run with single guys. No offence to the lovely guys who have replied to the post. I am sure they are not all as respectful as you. |
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By *indfkdWoman
over a year ago
glasgow |
"Good advice. We are not an overly confident couple so are worried we look like a pair of lemons. We don't also want to be over run with single guys. No offence to the lovely guys who have replied to the post. I am sure they are not all as respectful as you."
I have only ever been to cj's so cant comment on any others but there are limited spaces for single guys there. Hope you try it I have always enjoyed myself even if I rarely play its a good way to meet people and maybe make friends to play with at a later date |
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Seconded - CJs staff give you a great welcome when you are a newbie.
I went to After8 once and found some of the members were friendly but most of the staff weren't on the night I attended anyway. |
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CJs is definitely bigger so more room to move around. I had a negative experience of After8, but I agree that you should try both and see what works for you.
I agree with the points above regarding checking out different nights. As a new couple the couples and singles ladies night would probably be more comfortable for you, but it depends what you're looking for. |
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"CJs is definitely bigger so more room to move around. I had a negative experience of After8, but I agree that you should try both and see what works for you.
I agree with the points above regarding checking out different nights. As a new couple the couples and singles ladies night would probably be more comfortable for you, but it depends what you're looking for."
I think CJ's Fun For All night would be the best, as those are mostly like socials with a mix of people.
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"CJs is definitely bigger so more room to move around. I had a negative experience of After8, but I agree that you should try both and see what works for you.
I agree with the points above regarding checking out different nights. As a new couple the couples and singles ladies night would probably be more comfortable for you, but it depends what you're looking for.
I think CJ's Fun For All night would be the best, as those are mostly like socials with a mix of people.
Mandy"
True but they may feel intimidated by the single men, that's why I thought couples and singles ladies night might ease them in  |
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Single men at the clubs aren't intimidating and will take no for an answer. And they keep tabs on ratio, so you'll never feel outnumbered.
Plenty pushy, "fancy a fuck" type people on here (and I'm definitely not pointing fingers at guys only here), but they're mainly hiding behind their phones and keyboards. They are not the kind of people you're likeky to come across at clubs.
It's a shame guys still seem to get a bad rap, while by far the majority I've come across at the clubs are decent and genuine and won't expect anything from you.
After8 was known to be too crowded with guys and will still have that reputation, but they changed that quite a while ago and now also keep check on ratio x |
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"We have always said that a swinger club would not really be for us. We are new on our adventure into the lifestyle and really want to watch and be watched by other couples, which is our thing at the moment. We watched the Ch4 documentry the other night on a club down south and both agree we may invesitgate going to a club when they open up again. If any couples on here have any information of advice on the ones in either Ediburgh or Glasgow we would be delighted to hear from you. "
CJs in Glasgow is great, only heard negative things about After 8.....never been though as membership + entrance was extortionate x |
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"Single men at the clubs aren't intimidating and will take no for an answer. And they keep tabs on ratio, so you'll never feel outnumbered x"
I’ve generally found single men at CJs to be respectful |
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"Single men at the clubs aren't intimidating and will take no for an answer. And they keep tabs on ratio, so you'll never feel outnumbered x
I’ve generally found single men at CJs to be respectful "
Think Caroline and co are great hosts, they run a great club, only advice I’d offer is go easy on the Dutch courage |
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"Single men at the clubs aren't intimidating and will take no for an answer. And they keep tabs on ratio, so you'll never feel outnumbered x
I’ve generally found single men at CJs to be respectful
Think Caroline and co are great hosts, they run a great club, only advice I’d offer is go easy on the Dutch courage "
Never quite got the link between booze and Dutch courage. No offence, but the Scots will beat the Dutch hands down where it comes to alcohol consumption 
I think we should rephrase it!! Scots courage... |
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By *ikkevCouple
over a year ago
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Havent been to after 8 yet but we are going to try just to make our own mind up about the place
But would highly recommend cjs
Just think of it like a big house party lol and im sure you will be fine everyones really friendly
Kirsty xxx |
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"Single men at the clubs aren't intimidating and will take no for an answer. And they keep tabs on ratio, so you'll never feel outnumbered x
I’ve generally found single men at CJs to be respectful
Think Caroline and co are great hosts, they run a great club, only advice I’d offer is go easy on the Dutch courage
Never quite got the link between booze and Dutch courage. No offence, but the Scots will beat the Dutch hands down where it comes to alcohol consumption
I think we should rephrase it!! Scots courage... "
Main difference between the Dutch and Scots, the Dutch have 'A' drink to be social but the Scots drink to get pissed. Dutch hospitality is the best |
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"Single men at the clubs aren't intimidating and will take no for an answer. And they keep tabs on ratio, so you'll never feel outnumbered x
I’ve generally found single men at CJs to be respectful
Think Caroline and co are great hosts, they run a great club, only advice I’d offer is go easy on the Dutch courage "
Definitely this, nothing more off putting than d*unk people |
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