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By *leeper OP Man
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"Yeah looking for a fuck buddy but every time they flake or disappear for weeks , don’t know if am just wasting my time You haven't picked the best of times to find one !"
That’s true but won’t mind getting to know and plan for after lockdown |
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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago
near Glasgow |
Correct me if I'm wrong, but should you actually go looking for a fuck buddy, from scratch?
Surely, it's about meeting someone, finding that's there some chemistry there, and building on that?
Looking from scratch seems to me to be a lost cause from the start.
Just my humble opinion.   |
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By *leeper OP Man
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"Correct me if I'm wrong, but should you actually go looking for a fuck buddy, from scratch?
Surely, it's about meeting someone, finding that's there some chemistry there, and building on that?
Looking from scratch seems to me to be a lost cause from the start.
You might be right
Just my humble opinion. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So if you meet for a coffee now and again, that would be fwb?"
I think it's a case if make it up as you go along, me personally swinging is both I have those who I et in my twenties that i now consider freinds with extras and there are those that I meet Purley to fuck and go.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah looking for a fuck buddy but every time they flake or disappear for weeks , don’t know if am just wasting my time "
It seems to me (this is only my opinion so feel free to disagree) ... my impression of the above statement is that that a “fuckbuddy” sounds like someone that some think they can switch on and off when required, maybe that works for some and if it does then excellent. But just maybe... MAYBE... just putting it out there... possibly, perhaps the female disappears because she’s here for her needs not his and just MAYBE... he’s pushy... I’m very open to civil debate and views from both male and female here   |
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"Lots of fakes and piss takers, or folk think they are 2 good for you, without giving folk a chance "
Totally agree!! Of course we should meet dozens of people every day who we have nothing in common and and / or don't find attractive |
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By *leeper OP Man
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"Yeah looking for a fuck buddy but every time they flake or disappear for weeks , don’t know if am just wasting my time
It seems to me (this is only my opinion so feel free to disagree) ... my impression of the above statement is that that a “fuckbuddy” sounds like someone that some think they can switch on and off when required, maybe that works for some and if it does then excellent. But just maybe... MAYBE... just putting it out there... possibly, perhaps the female disappears because she’s here for her needs not his and just MAYBE... he’s pushy... I’m very open to civil debate and views from both male and female here "
I thing you got the wrong idea sorry, fuck buddys are mutual and need respect am talking about the part before |
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By *leeper OP Man
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"Yeah looking for a fuck buddy but every time they flake or disappear for weeks , don’t know if am just wasting my time
It’s tough to find anything regular on here, even pre Covid x"
Yeah that’s true I understand everyone different and want different thing and most like it’s a waiting game, but don’t change how it can feel not being able to find something mutual |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah looking for a fuck buddy but every time they flake or disappear for weeks , don’t know if am just wasting my time
It seems to me (this is only my opinion so feel free to disagree) ... my impression of the above statement is that that a “fuckbuddy” sounds like someone that some think they can switch on and off when required, maybe that works for some and if it does then excellent. But just maybe... MAYBE... just putting it out there... possibly, perhaps the female disappears because she’s here for her needs not his and just MAYBE... he’s pushy... I’m very open to civil debate and views from both male and female here
I thing you got the wrong idea sorry, fuck buddys are mutual and need respect am talking about the part before"
I do get it’s mutual I’m wondering why they “disappear” have you an opinion or thoughts on why they do? |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
Shangri-la |
Can't really answer the question OP because every situation is different.
In my experience of FB and fwb, despite setting rules and boundaries at the start, in time they always wanted more than I was prepared to give. With both fwb situations they caught the feels & wanted it to become a proper, exclusive, relationship & the FBs got demanding & didn't like that I wasn't constantly available for them.
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By *leeper OP Man
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"Can't really answer the question OP because every situation is different.
In my experience of FB and fwb, despite setting rules and boundaries at the start, in time they always wanted more than I was prepared to give. With both fwb situations they caught the feels & wanted it to become a proper, exclusive, relationship & the FBs got demanding & didn't like that I wasn't constantly available for them.
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I understand well thanks for all your insight am still learning and how I can do better than most |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah looking for a fuck buddy but every time they flake or disappear for weeks , don’t know if am just wasting my time "
how do they "flake"?
And at what point do they disappear? |
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By *leeper OP Man
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"Yeah looking for a fuck buddy but every time they flake or disappear for weeks , don’t know if am just wasting my time how do they "flake"?
And at what point do they disappear? "
We seem to talk for a while then when it’s a day to meeting or when we Meant to meet they ghost or account is gone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah looking for a fuck buddy but every time they flake or disappear for weeks , don’t know if am just wasting my time how do they "flake"?
And at what point do they disappear?
We seem to talk for a while then when it’s a day to meeting or when we Meant to meet they ghost or account is gone "
Maybe they changed their mind. That's allowed.
Maybe something you said put them off.
Obviously we all know just vanishing without saying anything isn't great but it's also the choice people have.
Maybe they didn't know what to say or felt it wouldn't be well received.
Chalk it up to experience and move on |
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By *leeper OP Man
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"Yeah looking for a fuck buddy but every time they flake or disappear for weeks , don’t know if am just wasting my time how do they "flake"?
And at what point do they disappear?
We seem to talk for a while then when it’s a day to meeting or when we Meant to meet they ghost or account is gone
Maybe they changed their mind. That's allowed.
Maybe something you said put them off.
Obviously we all know just vanishing without saying anything isn't great but it's also the choice people have.
Maybe they didn't know what to say or felt it wouldn't be well received.
Chalk it up to experience and move on "
Yeah am fine with that I feel like many thinks I forcing others making people do thing or like me but am not I just understanding if it’s me of others just like wasting time or even if this is just part of finding someone you can vibe with. Maybe am reading it wrong |
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By *leeper OP Man
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"Yeah looking for a fuck buddy but every time they flake or disappear for weeks , don’t know if am just wasting my time how do they "flake"?
And at what point do they disappear?
We seem to talk for a while then when it’s a day to meeting or when we Meant to meet they ghost or account is gone
Maybe they changed their mind. That's allowed.
Maybe something you said put them off.
Obviously we all know just vanishing without saying anything isn't great but it's also the choice people have.
Maybe they didn't know what to say or felt it wouldn't be well received.
Chalk it up to experience and move on "
Yeah but I get what you mean anyway maybe am just too young for this site |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can't really answer the question OP because every situation is different.
In my experience of FB and fwb, despite setting rules and boundaries at the start, in time they always wanted more than I was prepared to give. With both fwb situations they caught the feels & wanted it to become a proper, exclusive, relationship & the FBs got demanding & didn't like that I wasn't constantly available for them.
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Exactly the same for me. Every time I get into that situation the ladies want something more permanent akin to a more permanent relationship, as they (and me too in some cases) get feelings /attached which is fine but usually spells the end before folks get hurt. Unless of course we are 'the one ' for each other (rocking horse shit) lol |
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