"i know it happens has done to me, anyone fallen for a fb? or been fallen for by a fb? "
Nope never but have got close to people and been great friends with one or two even after they left here .
I know some relationships can work but most of the ones i know who have met thro here have faild for one reason or another . |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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it is nice to see when it works on here.. and many are truly happy.
it is not nice to see when it doesn't work on here... usually they declare their love for each other on a Monday, they are blissfully happy with the love of their lives on the Tuesday and calling each other cunts in their updates by the Wednesday....
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"it is nice to see when it works on here.. and many are truly happy.
it is not nice to see when it doesn't work on here... usually they declare their love for each other on a Monday, they are blissfully happy with the love of their lives on the Tuesday and calling each other cunts in their updates by the Wednesday....
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So true View  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i know it happens has done to me, anyone fallen for a fb? or been fallen for by a fb? "
yup! was a great time and it fizzled out last yr...still best of freinds....have a new friend now and enjoying the ride! ... |
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By *andsCouple
over a year ago
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"it is nice to see when it works on here.. and many are truly happy.
it is not nice to see when it doesn't work on here... usually they declare their love for each other on a Monday, they are blissfully happy with the love of their lives on the Tuesday and calling each other cunts in their updates by the Wednesday....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"it is nice to see when it works on here.. and many are truly happy.
it is not nice to see when it doesn't work on here... usually they declare their love for each other on a Monday, they are blissfully happy with the love of their lives on the Tuesday and calling each other cunts in their updates by the Wednesday....
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couldnt have put it better |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"it is nice to see when it works on here.. and many are truly happy.
it is not nice to see when it doesn't work on here... usually they declare their love for each other on a Monday, they are blissfully happy with the love of their lives on the Tuesday and calling each other cunts in their updates by the Wednesday....
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when that happens, the cure song always plays in my head |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sure it can and does happen. Although a sex site we aren't all robots with hearts of stone. Wherever people can meet there are sure to be connections at times x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah, we met outside of fab took us 3 months to realise we both had single profiles on here!
We've been lucky suppose, the sex has always been great and we just click personality wise 
Sex isn't something to base a relationship on tho. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Connection is good as it leads to chemistry, then you're pretty much guaranteed to have a good time. Just need to really enjoy each other and know where to draw the line and say goodbye. Falling for a FB is normally one sided in my experience and I hate always being the arsehole heartbreaker lol. |
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"it is nice to see when it works on here.. and many are truly happy.
it is not nice to see when it doesn't work on here... usually they declare their love for each other on a Monday, they are blissfully happy with the love of their lives on the Tuesday and calling each other cunts in their updates by the Wednesday....
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But sometimes its a one way street _iew where one is head over heels with feelings and the other just wants nsa fun then it can get a bit awkward to where the one who has lots of feelings gets pissy when they hear the other one been playing with others does that make sence and believe me it does happen on here |
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By *icboyMan
over a year ago
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It can happen...you see couple here made up from what was singles...good for them...xxx
You never know whae you are going to get struck down with it...
Just be ever vigilant...and you will be fine...   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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speaking for myself, I have never fallen in love with anyone on a swingers site, although i can see some folks can and do work things out, so it's a case of very much up to the individual people involved, if someone on here, has a relationship going then good luck to them, |
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By *uttyMan
over a year ago
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Happened to me once, tbh I think it was more lust than love 
Both of us never meant it to happen or hurt the other, and in the end it surfaced that we both wanted different things from life anyway.
So yeah it does happen to some, but is it lust or love 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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can speak for anyone else but if a regular meet told me they had feelings for me, i'd run a mile in the other direction and i certainly wouldnt meet them again |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"can speak for anyone else but if a regular meet told me they had feelings for me, i'd run a mile in the other direction and i certainly wouldnt meet them again"
Unless you felt the same
Yeh if you both decide you want to be more than fb's should set up a couples profile if you want to continue to swing. Or delete profiles and live happily ever after in vanilla world lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"can speak for anyone else but if a regular meet told me they had feelings for me, i'd run a mile in the other direction and i certainly wouldnt meet them again"
Horray, someone on the same wavelength! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it is easy to say 'I wouldnt do this' or 'I would do that' but if the love bug bites there's no saying what you'd do till your in it ....not the conventional place to find the love of your life but seems it has happened for some so ....each to their own, no right n no wrong, if your gonna have a close partnership with an FB then human nature will surely cause bonds to form if you are seeing each other regularly? I don't know lol ...I'd certainly not go looking for it here and slim chance of it happening to me but if it hit me over the head with a 2x4 then so be it lol |
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"i know it happens has done to me, anyone fallen for a fb? or been fallen for by a fb? yup! was a great time and it fizzled out last yr...still best of freinds....have a new friend now and enjoying the ride! ..."
Agrees totally |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I fell for my fb and told him that either it became more or we stopped seeing each other were best of friends now there has been recently a bit if fun again but I'm totally over him in that way now and that's why it's better to have one or two reg fb so you're not spending too much time with one
Last year though the fb did say I was right girl at wrong time but we've both grown into different people and any relationship no matter where you meet them some things pull you together and others pull you apart I'm a big believer in 3 life partners as I believe there are 3 adult stages of growth and to find one person who develops and grows at the same time and in the same direction as you is very unique |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"it is nice to see when it works on here.. and many are truly happy.
it is not nice to see when it doesn't work on here... usually they declare their love for each other on a Monday, they are blissfully happy with the love of their lives on the Tuesday and calling each other cunts in their updates by the Wednesday....
och thats no always true _iew lol took me 6 months to get to that stage lol
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I think unless someone is a robot or completely heartless you cannot help falling for someone regardless of where and how you met them. Nobody can say that there is no chance of them falling for anyone that they meet on here unless they are picking meets that they don't find attractive and i know that i would never meet someone that i didnt have an attraction too.
Sometimes you meet someone that fits into your 'type' and there is an extra spark between your personalities it just happens and its not wrong in some ways its better if you meet someone from here you know that they have the same sexual interests as you and you have no secrets about the lifestyle that you want to lead. Imagine being a swinger and not being able to tell your partner about it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"think if u fall for sum1 then u shouldnt b doin this kinda thing x"
mutual falling in isnt allowed???..on my 4yrs of fab I've had two 'proper' relationships..not as fuckbuddies, and actually sometimes never actually meeting any other fabbers.
I dont see the point in FB's..I just have friends ,we dont have any holds on each other..and just have those occasional meet ups,(i certainly dont 'use' my friends(the female ones) to try getting meets (although it can be fun, going to a meet with a pal lol)...no jealously, no tantrums etc etc |
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Met a girl through a dating site. We liked eachother on a casual bases with no ties. Asked her if she liked swinging as I always thought she had a high sex drive. Found out she had a little previous experience. We are now good friends with benefits enjoying swing meets. |
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