Looking for help x I'm considering going full swap with my wife but I'm scared encase I change my mind half way through, I didn't really want it but my mind has been playing tricks on me and now I think I want to see it and swap.
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I've not said to her, I've always said I dont want to swap but then my kind wanders and a do want to swap but don't know if I can handle seeing her being with another man even though I'll be with a woman x |
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over a year ago
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"Could be doing with some help around the house, so I’ll give you a flat screen tv for her.... if she’s a looker I’ll throw in a case of beer !"
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
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"I've not said to her, I've always said I dont want to swap but then my kind wanders and a do want to swap but don't know if I can handle seeing her being with another man even though I'll be with a woman x"
I'd suggest she is the one you ought to be talking to about it to be honest. Effective communication is absolutely vital for swinging (and relationships in general)
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Tbh it sounds like you are not 100% sure of your reaction to seeing her with another man.
You both need to talk thus through, maybe wait until clubs/socials are up and running again and take it in stages to see how you both respond to situations.
Hope you find the right options for you both. |
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"Looking for help x I'm considering going full swap with my wife but I'm scared encase I change my mind half way through, I didn't really want it but my mind has been playing tricks on me and now I think I want to see it and swap.
Helpful advice would be amazing. "
Only if you’re both totally fully committed and up for it !! Don’t think about it on half measures, don’t commit to anything and just go with the flow you will know if and when you ever want to do full swap xxx not worth the fallout if it turns out you’re not ready, I don’t swing at all, simples !! I know I couldn’t handle it so I just refuse to go there and totally monogamous in relationships   |
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"Looking for help x I'm considering going full swap with my wife but I'm scared encase I change my mind half way through, I didn't really want it but my mind has been playing tricks on me and now I think I want to see it and swap.
Helpful advice would be amazing.
Only if you’re both totally fully committed and up for it !! Don’t think about it on half measures, don’t commit to anything and just go with the flow you will know if and when you ever want to do full swap xxx not worth the fallout if it turns out you’re not ready, I don’t swing at all, simples !! I know I couldn’t handle it so I just refuse to go there and totally monogamous in relationships "
When Mr is ball deep he has suggested all sorts of crazy scenarios for us to try including me being with another man. Funnily enough, the thought becomes utterly ridiculous shortly after he's came
Speak to your Mrs. You both need to be 100% or it's a recipe for disaster. |
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"Looking for help x I'm considering going full swap with my wife but I'm scared encase I change my mind half way through, I didn't really want it but my mind has been playing tricks on me and now I think I want to see it and swap.
Helpful advice would be amazing.
Only if you’re both totally fully committed and up for it !! Don’t think about it on half measures, don’t commit to anything and just go with the flow you will know if and when you ever want to do full swap xxx not worth the fallout if it turns out you’re not ready, I don’t swing at all, simples !! I know I couldn’t handle it so I just refuse to go there and totally monogamous in relationships
When Mr is ball deep he has suggested all sorts of crazy scenarios for us to try including me being with another man. Funnily enough, the thought becomes utterly ridiculous shortly after he's came
Speak to your Mrs. You both need to be 100% or it's a recipe for disaster."
This, you can’t even think about it till you both discuss what you BOTH want, you both need to be very secure and confident to experiment or as Mrs D said it’s a recipe for disaster.
Good luck OP X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Looking for help x I'm considering going full swap with my wife but I'm scared encase I change my mind half way through, I didn't really want it but my mind has been playing tricks on me and now I think I want to see it and swap.
Helpful advice would be amazing.
Only if you’re both totally fully committed and up for it !! Don’t think about it on half measures, don’t commit to anything and just go with the flow you will know if and when you ever want to do full swap xxx not worth the fallout if it turns out you’re not ready, I don’t swing at all, simples !! I know I couldn’t handle it so I just refuse to go there and totally monogamous in relationships
When Mr is ball deep he has suggested all sorts of crazy scenarios for us to try including me being with another man. Funnily enough, the thought becomes utterly ridiculous shortly after he's came
Speak to your Mrs. You both need to be 100% or it's a recipe for disaster."
Ha ha... All bets are off once the guy has come. Previous convos are null and void. |
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By *alkdirty2meCouple
over a year ago
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"Looking for help x I'm considering going full swap with my wife but I'm scared encase I change my mind half way through, I didn't really want it but my mind has been playing tricks on me and now I think I want to see it and swap.
Helpful advice would be amazing. "
Wow
You’re on a single male and you’re suddenly worried about your wife
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