i may be wrong here and if i am feel free to shoot me down in flames
but are we not ment to be discreet on here?
we dont wear a badge with your name on it do we ?
i would be shocked if any one approached me in tescos while i was shopping !
be discreet folks ! |
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I've not seen anyone out and about, think it's because I switch off from swinger mode and turn on vanilla mode lol, I wouldn't dare approach or even attempt to say hello if I ever did recognise anyone and I would be extremely pissed off if anyone came up to me and said hello, a wee smile from afar would be suffice . Different sinario if we are friends. |
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I've not seen anyone out and about, think it's because I switch off from swinger mode and turn on vanilla mode lol, I wouldn't dare approach or even attempt to say hello if I ever did recognise anyone and I would be extremely pissed off if anyone came up to me and said hello, a wee smile from afar would be suffice . Different sinario if we are friends."
Yes, fortunately I had spoken to these people before and one was a previous social, does make me wonder how many I’ve bypassed without noticing |
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So much for discretion yes.
But to answer the question......yes
There are a number of people on here near where I live and I have bumped into one or two |
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I barely recognise myself in the mirror, so recognising someone from Fab is unlikely.
I know I've been spotted around town. The weirdo (he) even took a photo of me in my back garden from a distance when I never gave my address out. I wasn't happy about that.  |
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"I barely recognise myself in the mirror, so recognising someone from Fab is unlikely.
I know I've been spotted around town. The weirdo (he) even took a photo of me in my back garden from a distance when I never gave my address out. I wasn't happy about that. "
Yeah that’s too far like |
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Spotted a fare lot never say anything
But ones had a guy a meet stop me and try and chat to me like I was his work mate felt so sorry for his wife as she had no idear that two days before it hubby was in my bed was quite a awkward situation to say the least and wife was drop dead beautiful as well keep saying things like ooo it was good to work with you on Monday need to work with you more offten was a red neck to say the least |
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Only one. A dad at the kids' school. Never in a million years would I approach him or anyone else in normal day to day life. A wee admiring glance if I fancied them, but nothing beyond that. |
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Only met one I know was on here . He Also worked in my office.. Wife and I were part of a local swingers group Years ago. most of us still live in the same area , go to the same shops and pubs . pass each other with a nod , a wink or a quick hello. Discretion assured .. |
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Girl i used to go to school messaged me when she was on here but outwith that i dont think ive ever seen anyone in public. Dunno if anyone has ever seen me or knows me. Feel free to message if you do lol x |
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Yeah its happened, depends on who it is if we've stopped to chat or not. But only people I actually know to speak to in person. Not people I've just seen photos of. |
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"i may be wrong here and if i am feel free to shoot me down in flames
but are we not ment to be discreet on here?
we dont wear a badge with your name on it do we ?
i would be shocked if any one approached me in tescos while i was shopping !
be discreet folks !"
I think OP was just curious if people had seen anyone not if they actually spoke to them.
I’ve only really seen people on here that I know from normal life not met anyone from fab out with fab events. I don’t message people on here if I know them as they may not want me to know and that’s fine. A guy messaged me yesterday who I had been chatting to on a dating site previously So I replied with a face pic - think he wishes we had started dating last year now  |
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Lost count, I’ve bumped into people I’ve played with at CJs, everywhere from McDonalds, Curry’s to B&M
Got served in Tesco once by someone a single male had messaged me about making up a threesome with and she was very flirty, but I think that’s just her way and I didn’t share pics with her male friend.
I think if you’ve met or played with them it’s a subtle acknowledgment, but if you just recognise a face from a profile, safer to just poker face it unless they make eye contact then you can respond as you feel comfortable.
My favourite story from another fabber was from a couple I met at a social years ago. They’d joined, and the husband was by far the more keen of the two. He spent a lot of time online checking out profiles, looking for a suitable couple. For privacy they blurred their faces, and when he clicked with the female half of the couple he’d found, things progressed quickly to them two sharing pics of their bits, still before face pic exchange took place.
A meet was arranged and they had to carry an item, something like a red brolly, to be identified at the first meet.
30 minutes after the meet time they were still sitting, and the wife said they weren’t coming, and it’d be best they leave as she’d seen his cousin and her husband just arrive. Only then did they notice her red brolly! 
Wife thought this was hilarious, but I think the husband and his cousin are still in therapy |
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"I live in a small county, it's very easy to spot fab guys in the local tesco's"
There's a couple of things that would make you stand out in tescos also. X |
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