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What to you is swinging ?
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what is swinging and are we all swingers??
Are couples looking for singles/couples the really only true swingers?
Is a single guy on here looking for meets a swinger ?
Is a single female on here looking for meets a swinger ?
Are married men/females meeting behind their partners back swingers or cheaters ?
I do think the days of old swinging has gone where it was dominated by couples looking for couples .
what do others think?.....Discuss !
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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us personally think its a cpl + cpl thing,,,but to be fair where would swinging be if a cpl wanted a mmf or a ffm? soooo think its a everyone for themselves sort of game lol
if that makes sense? lol
auds xx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"us personally think its a cpl + cpl thing,,,but to be fair where would swinging be if a cpl wanted a mmf or a ffm? soooo think its a everyone for themselves sort of game lol
if that makes sense? lol
auds xx "
I agree. But singles using this site to meet singles are not swingers in my opinion. They are just horny individuals lol. Not saying they are wrong but just not swingers |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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I agree. But singles using this site to meet singles are not swingers in my opinion. They are just horny individuals lol. Not saying they are wrong but just not swingers"
For me, I wouldn't disagree with that comment, I am a one on one kind of girl and therefore wouldn't class myself as a swinger  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For us swinging has moved well away from the "keys in the bowl" scenario that it was previously. But we still don't think there's a definition of what a swinger is.
Like the post above we don't think singles looking for singles are swingers necessarily, just horny feckers lol - but good luck to everyone regardless!
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We need single males and females on swinging sites to allow for 3 sums for us couples
however, I feel that swinging is just having a good time, we all enjoy sex, and are hungry for more.
so everyone can be involved - M, F, TV 
swinging is sex and fun; if looking for anything serious then this is not the appropriate place. |
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"We need single males and females on swinging sites to allow for 3 sums for us couples
however, I feel that swinging is just having a good time, we all enjoy sex, and are hungry for more.
so everyone can be involved - M, F, TV
swinging is sex and fun; if looking for anything serious then this is not the appropriate place."
I do agree to a certain degree altho many strong relationships and even some have married thro swinging ..but for the biggest majority the relationships never lasts ... i think its always best to be friends with extra benefits lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This place is just really a find a fuck site"
If that is the case why are there so many people (mainly single women) who do not meet according to profiles? Also hundreds of single men who come on here treating it as a cam wank site. However there are many good people on here who make the arseholes and attention seekers bearable |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm just looking for laughs and plenty of good ole fun. Not sure I would class myself a swinger so to speak. Maybe would do with two females at once, I'd schwing into that room with one hell of a smile on my face ready for the best 10 seconds of my life lol |
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"I'm just looking for laughs and plenty of good ole fun. Not sure I would class myself a swinger so to speak. Maybe would do with two females at once, I'd schwing into that room with one hell of a smile on my face ready for the best 10 seconds of my life lol"
sheeeshhhhhh a whole ten secs ..what to take u clothes off lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm just looking for laughs and plenty of good ole fun. Not sure I would class myself a swinger so to speak. Maybe would do with two females at once, I'd schwing into that room with one hell of a smile on my face ready for the best 10 seconds of my life lol
sheeeshhhhhh a whole ten secs ..what to take u clothes off lol "
They would be off in 0.5 sec lol mind you, if I knew that was on the cards I would do all I could to last the distance lol   |
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"I'm just looking for laughs and plenty of good ole fun. Not sure I would class myself a swinger so to speak. Maybe would do with two females at once, I'd schwing into that room with one hell of a smile on my face ready for the best 10 seconds of my life lol
sheeeshhhhhh a whole ten secs ..what to take u clothes off lol
They would be off in 0.5 sec lol mind you, if I knew that was on the cards I would do all I could to last the distance lol "
sometimes dreams do come true hang on in there lol xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm just looking for laughs and plenty of good ole fun. Not sure I would class myself a swinger so to speak. Maybe would do with two females at once, I'd schwing into that room with one hell of a smile on my face ready for the best 10 seconds of my life lol
sheeeshhhhhh a whole ten secs ..what to take u clothes off lol
They would be off in 0.5 sec lol mind you, if I knew that was on the cards I would do all I could to last the distance lol
sometimes dreams do come true hang on in there lol xxx "
I would literally be hanging in there lol   |
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"I'm just looking for laughs and plenty of good ole fun. Not sure I would class myself a swinger so to speak. Maybe would do with two females at once, I'd schwing into that room with one hell of a smile on my face ready for the best 10 seconds of my life lol
sheeeshhhhhh a whole ten secs ..what to take u clothes off lol
They would be off in 0.5 sec lol mind you, if I knew that was on the cards I would do all I could to last the distance lol
sometimes dreams do come true hang on in there lol xxx
I would literally be hanging in there lol "
Ooooooo   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm just looking for laughs and plenty of good ole fun. Not sure I would class myself a swinger so to speak. Maybe would do with two females at once, I'd schwing into that room with one hell of a smile on my face ready for the best 10 seconds of my life lol
sheeeshhhhhh a whole ten secs ..what to take u clothes off lol
They would be off in 0.5 sec lol mind you, if I knew that was on the cards I would do all I could to last the distance lol
sometimes dreams do come true hang on in there lol xxx
I would literally be hanging in there lol
Ooooooo "
That's my dreams sorted for the night lol right heather graham and miss theron where are you? |
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"I'm just looking for laughs and plenty of good ole fun. Not sure I would class myself a swinger so to speak. Maybe would do with two females at once, I'd schwing into that room with one hell of a smile on my face ready for the best 10 seconds of my life lol
sheeeshhhhhh a whole ten secs ..what to take u clothes off lol
They would be off in 0.5 sec lol mind you, if I knew that was on the cards I would do all I could to last the distance lol
sometimes dreams do come true hang on in there lol xxx
I would literally be hanging in there lol
Ooooooo
That's my dreams sorted for the night lol right heather graham and miss theron where are you? "
oh should be very wet n horny then lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would say that yes, you can be a single guy as well as a swinger. The best thing about the site is meeting like-minded interesting people who are relaxed about sex and like to have fun.
The social side is great too.
As for 'wank-cam'...I am aware that quite a lot of single guys do it. I dunno why, but that kind of thing is not for me.
I prefer to meet a woman and chat face to face. The real thing which is so much better than cyberspace. |
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By *7JayMan
over a year ago
Methil/edinburgh |
Not sure if a single person looking for another single is a swinger, a single looking for a couple or vice versa, i would say yes they could be.
Lol those guys that sit there on cam with it out hoping someone would look, nope not a good thing.
For me, I prefer to meet in person with the lady/couple and on occasion the male half of the couple(which some couples prefer to do) to confirm im genuine and chat and see if there is an attraction/spark or not. At least this way you the ones who are all talk about swinging from the genuine |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Swinging to me is about sexual heighting with people on my wave length , I just want sex sex sex ......but hey I know a lot look down on chicks being so forward tbh I don't care I love to experience the lot. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Swinging......yes the old keys in a bowl thing has long gone......shame I loved it.
Saying that everything evolves and definitions tend to get swallowed up along the way.
Fab has many pros and cons....single guys wanking off on cam hoping to attract attention is like window shopping in Amsterdam a nasty turn off for most.
Where I like the "interests" columns on here where you can go look for like minded people, unfortunately seems to be mis-used too.
Many single people on here of both sexes are here for the same purpose as couples, some of us are actually looking for couples to aid them indulge in fantasies they would not normally find down the local flea market (sorry night club).
Problem we have now is this, in the old days you went along to a social and the keys were put in a bowl and who you got was a lotto, nowadays majority of people are too fussy and want movie stars or super models.....sorry we don't exist in reality. This leads to ill feelings and tension within Forums etc. also leads to blocking and bad behaviour when messaging.
Sometimes I prefer the simple old days.......
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Simple swinging is recreational sex.
Where we are free to admit we enjoy it and happy to explore and deviate from the convention of sex only in pair bond.
Enjoying what we can give to each other without having to be 'a couple' with the other party(s) |
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Problem we have now is this, in the old days you went along to a social and the keys were put in a bowl and who you got was a lotto, nowadays majority of people are too fussy and want movie stars or super models.....sorry we don't exist in reality. This leads to ill feelings and tension within Forums etc. also leads to blocking and bad behaviour when messaging.
Sometimes I prefer the simple old days.......
have to agree kaisho |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm still trying to find out 
I look at it as meeting new ppl and making new friends who all have the same outlook, ie if it feels right and everyone is up for it then fuck it (literally)
As long as its fun and no one is getting hurt |
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"I'm still trying to find out
I look at it as meeting new ppl and making new friends who all have the same outlook, ie if it feels right and everyone is up for it then fuck it (literally)
As long as its fun and no one is getting hurt "
ok minx in up for it so can i fuck it ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This place is just really a find a fuck site"
I agree there a lots of people, male and female on here that treat it like that. But I genuinely believe that swingers have more respect for their sexual partners than people looking for traditional NSA sex with someone (not necessarily) of the opposite sex.
As a single female, swinging gives you more sexual options than other 1to1 sex sites too |
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By *andsCouple
over a year ago
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Swinging to us is having horny sexual fun with other couples or single blokes when we choose to .... I dont think swinging is for couples only or else what would we do when looking for a 3-sum? x |
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