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Making your profile better so you have better chance of a meet
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over a year ago
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"More pics
More content I dont really like my body that's why I dont put up much pics but yours look great btw.as for content I'm not sure what to say"
Body pics don't necessarily mean naked. Lots of guys have clothed pics, could be in a suit, your work gear, pic of you out on your bike if you cycle...anything really...gives a wee bit more insight into your personality if you put a bit of thought into it. |
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"More pics
More content I dont really like my body that's why I dont put up much pics but yours look great btw.as for content I'm not sure what to say
Body pics don't necessarily mean naked. Lots of guys have clothed pics, could be in a suit, your work gear, pic of you out on your bike if you cycle...anything really...gives a wee bit more insight into your personality if you put a bit of thought into it."
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"More pics
More content I dont really like my body that's why I dont put up much pics but yours look great btw.as for content I'm not sure what to say
Body pics don't necessarily mean naked. Lots of guys have clothed pics, could be in a suit, your work gear, pic of you out on your bike if you cycle...anything really...gives a wee bit more insight into your personality if you put a bit of thought into it."
I didnt think of it like that.just b nice to know women or couples would be interested on chatting and possibly more |
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"Look at other guys profiles and take some of their ideas.
Agree with the name.its offputting"
obv wasnt thinking to much to the name i just thought since it was a sex site that it would fit right in |
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"I would definitely agree your name would put ladies off especially the it part, also would you really have sex with an 18 or 99 year old?
K suppose I.wouldnt no and not sure what name.to.choose"
Have a look at other profiles to give you an idea,if I was looking to meet a guy I wouldn't even read your message seeing your name would be enough for me to decide no
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mate..I've been here a very long time..Trust me..change you're profile name to...
Rampant12incherhammeraction.
Honestly, you'll be knocking gram back in no time..
Use you're imagination bud..
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By *edeWoman
over a year ago
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"Mate..I've been here a very long time..Trust me..change you're profile name to...
Rampant12incherhammeraction.
Honestly, you'll be knocking gram back in no time..
Use you're imagination bud..
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Don't trust him - he lies!!  |
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"Mate..I've been here a very long time..Trust me..change you're profile name to...
Rampant12incherhammeraction.
Honestly, you'll be knocking gram back in no time..
Use you're imagination bud..
Not letting me change my name
Don't trust him - he lies!! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Anything in the name that could be considered demeaning will put some people off; it's something we raise an eyebrow at ourselves often enough.
A well articulated bio goes a long way and suggests you've made at least some effort to give a more personal insight into who you are and what you're about. We pretty much ignore profiles with very little to no information in them, especially the faceless ones, which we often block.
A good selection of photos without your entire laundry basket exposed in the background, or beer cans and general household mess laying around is definitely a plus.
Oh, and the annoying 'Hi, how are you?' messages put most people off. Always make the effort to formulate a good opening message! A lot can be decided on how you initiate a conversation; complimentary humour generally works well with us.
And lastly, read the profiles of those you contact. We're not all looking for the same things, and it shows you've considered their desires and interests, too.
Hope this helps.
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"Thanks for the honesty .may need to delete this profile and start again as it's not letting me change my namejust get membership then you won't lose you verifications "
might just do that when I get paid and hopefully I can make my profile.more interesting |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's no need to change your name.
Just clarify that rideithard refers to your enjoyment of riding things such as a bus, bicycle, dodgem, elephant, subway train, snow mobile, escalators and skateboard. |
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Truth is that whilst some folk will be put off by your name and want to know if you ride a bike or what you look like in a suit there are others who hate suits, couldn't care less if you ride a bike and just want to know if you can ride them hard. Problem is it's an absolute lottery out there finding the folk who will be interested in you. My advice is just be yourself rather than trying to be what you think folk want. The biggest asset you can have on here isn't the size of your cock or fancy pictures, it's patience. |
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"Thanks for the honesty .may need to delete this profile and start again as it's not letting me change my namejust get membership then you won't lose you verifications might just do that when I get paid and hopefully I can make my profile.more interesting "
Murder when you’re skint just before pay day  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You can be the juicest peach in the world but there will still be someone who hates peaches...
Think of your profile as a shop window. You've actually said very little about yourself or given any one any reason to want to find out more about you.
When you look at your profile, ask yourself : would you reply to you? |
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"Look at other guys profiles and take some of their ideas.
Agree with the name.its offputting obv wasnt thinking to much to the name i just thought since it was a sex site that it would fit right in"
Its not a sex site, it's a swingers site, maybe this is part of the issue with not getting meets.
Look also at the way you type messages, sometimes it looks like text speak, this can also be off-putting to people.
There is no one guaranteed solution. |
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