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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm guessing that it's a single lady you messaged rather than a single man. The single ladies are swamped with messages. I doubt it's practical to answer every one. |
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By *z ThongzWoman
over a year ago
Lanarkshire |
" no they have looked at our message but deleted without leaving a comment "
Have u thought that maybe ur not what they are looking for and rather than get into a whole debate about it (which happens) they just delete the mails.
Remember we all have the choice to answer what mails we want to , and if u send out mail that isnt asked for in the first place do we even have any right to expect a reply never mind complain about it ? |
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It's just par for the course so to speak on here, i pretty much never get a reply so have just about given up sending any and just send a wink instead (i just hope they take the time of 30 seconds to read my profile) where it says to wink back to show interest and i'll message them.
It gets so frustrating taking the time writing out messages with a bit about yourself rather than a one liner, trying to personalise it to show that you've read their profile and it's not just a copy and paste thing etc etc and it just gets deleted. Now i know i know that women and couples get hundreds of mails a day and we might not be what the person/people are looking for but for peoeple that dont get even one message for months at a time a quick 'no thanks' reply would be appreciated...not everyone will get abusive etc because they get rejected, the usual of pretty much anyplace online a few bad people making things harder for the majority of nice people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We used to reply to every message but after a whole I got really fed up of the same kind of messages from people who just isn't take ten seconds to read our page. Why should I really reply to people who haven't bothered to actually read about us first?
It's frustrating when you do send messages to people you think will like you but there's hundreds of other people sending them messages cause they think they are suitable too. Just be patient xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not everyone is a paying member and those who are not have a limit to the number of emails they can send in a day ....personally when I was like that i saved my allowance to reply to those i was interested in so dont take it personally it could be something simple like that....also I have experienced a bit of abuse if I send a no thank you so possibly this puts people off replying in the negative? At the end of the day it's not worth getting uptight about though just accept and move on ... |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Angus & Findhorn |
it reads like you are not a couple and also you are not looking to meet. maybe clarify that mistery is part of the couple and playing
maybe that gives mixed messages |
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"it reads like you are not a couple and also you are not looking to meet. maybe clarify that mistery is part of the couple and playing
maybe that gives mixed messages"
yes i have to agree this was once a couple proile now a single male so why not delete and set up an appropriate profile |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Angus & Findhorn |
"it reads like you are not a couple and also you are not looking to meet. maybe clarify that mistery is part of the couple and playing
maybe that gives mixed messages"
well that clarifies that...
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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago
Livingston |
"it reads like you are not a couple and also you are not looking to meet. maybe clarify that mistery is part of the couple and playing
maybe that gives mixed messages
well that clarifies that...
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2 spelling mistakes in as many days??? Tut tut View. I am shocked |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Angus & Findhorn |
"it reads like you are not a couple and also you are not looking to meet. maybe clarify that mistery is part of the couple and playing
maybe that gives mixed messages
well that clarifies that...
2 spelling mistakes in as many days??? Tut tut View. I am shocked "
I know, am tired... long drive
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Angus & Findhorn |
"it reads like you are not a couple and also you are not looking to meet. maybe clarify that mistery is part of the couple and playing
maybe that gives mixed messages
well that clarifies that...
2 spelling mistakes in as many days??? Tut tut View. I am shocked "
am really tired, what word is wrong |
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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago
Livingston |
"it reads like you are not a couple and also you are not looking to meet. maybe clarify that mistery is part of the couple and playing
maybe that gives mixed messages
well that clarifies that...
2 spelling mistakes in as many days??? Tut tut View. I am shocked
am really tired, what word is wrong " if I told you the the mystery would be solved xx |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Angus & Findhorn |
"it reads like you are not a couple and also you are not looking to meet. maybe clarify that mistery is part of the couple and playing
maybe that gives mixed messages
well that clarifies that...
2 spelling mistakes in as many days??? Tut tut View. I am shocked
am really tired, what word is wrong if I told you the the mystery would be solved xx "
I is innocent as I took it from the profile, it stated that mistery was no longer playing |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"it reads like you are not a couple and also you are not looking to meet. maybe clarify that mistery is part of the couple and playing
maybe that gives mixed messages
well that clarifies that...
2 spelling mistakes in as many days??? Tut tut View. I am shocked
am really tired, what word is wrong if I told you the the mystery would be solved xx
I is innocent as I took it from the profile, it stated that mistery was no longer playing "
_muma is on the case _iew...give in gracefully |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Angus & Findhorn |
"it reads like you are not a couple and also you are not looking to meet. maybe clarify that mistery is part of the couple and playing
maybe that gives mixed messages
well that clarifies that...
2 spelling mistakes in as many days??? Tut tut View. I am shocked
am really tired, what word is wrong if I told you the the mystery would be solved xx
I is innocent as I took it from the profile, it stated that mistery was no longer playing
_muma is on the case _iew...give in gracefully "
never..... |
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