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over a year ago
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As a relatively young guy, I tend to find and have done for a number of years that I find some older women incredibly attractive and more arousing than those around my own age. Some of my best meets have been with those 15-20years my senior! Who else gets this? Ladies feel free to comment. |
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By *otnew12Man
over a year ago
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I agree, I’ve always preferred even just hanging about with older people rather than people my own age, and always found older women very attractive and the best nights I have had has been with older women,
but a lot of women on here think that a younger guy is too much trouble or maybe just doing it for a notch on the bedpost kind of thing and don’t believe there could be a real attraction
At the last Edinburgh social I actually got told by an older couple that I shouldn’t be on things like fab until I’m older, which I thought was weird but it kind of proves my point |
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"I agree, I’ve always preferred even just hanging about with older people rather than people my own age, and always found older women very attractive and the best nights I have had has been with older women,
but a lot of women on here think that a younger guy is too much trouble or maybe just doing it for a notch on the bedpost kind of thing and don’t believe there could be a real attraction
At the last Edinburgh social I actually got told by an older couple that I shouldn’t be on things like fab until I’m older, which I thought was weird but it kind of proves my point"
A couple told you that you shouldn't be on fab 
Hope you told them to fuck off.
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By *otnew12Man
over a year ago
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Well there was parentheses to it, they said that “a handsome young man should be out just experiencing the world and not on fab, not yet, not for another 10 or 20 years”
I think it was an attempt to be nice and kind of imply I could get sex without being on fab, which although true, to have great sex is not the only reason I’m on fab lol.
Either way I did try to take it as a compliment but definitely noted the undertones of implying that fab isn’t for young people kind of thing. |
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We had a young guy write a few years ago asking for a meet saying he absolutely loved meeting old women!!
I was only 39 at the time. I was so affronted I blocked him andimmediately. Lol
Sensitivity is necessary to make an approach on this one |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Trying to work out when I will fit into the “older women” category 
You need a few more miles on the clock yet 
Im looking forward to it "
You can be an exception and be let in early |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Being a woman in your 30s is like no man's land..
The younger men seem too young
The older men are often a little too old or they want someone in their 20s.
The men my own age want older women.
It's why so many of us are on the shelf. a
Some of us can't even find a FWB arrangement to keep us entertained while we sit there |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Being a woman in your 30s is like no man's land..
The younger men seem too young
The older men are often a little too old or they want someone in their 20s.
The men my own age want older women.
It's why so many of us are on the shelf. a
Some of us can't even find a FWB arrangement to keep us entertained while we sit there "
....aye....and then you look back from your 40s and wonder why you gave a fuck |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Being a woman in your 30s is like no man's land..
The younger men seem too young
The older men are often a little too old or they want someone in their 20s.
The men my own age want older women.
It's why so many of us are on the shelf. a
Some of us can't even find a FWB arrangement to keep us entertained while we sit there "
This 
Or maybe we’re just fussy buggars. But yeah either too young for the young guys after cougars or too young for Chaps hitting a midlife crisis and after a 21 year old |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Think the problem is when men message with things like... I'm into older women, wanna meet?
Or the ones who say.... You look great, for your age  Lol
I'd guess I'd someone messaged me they didn't mind my age but when they make an issue of it, it turns me off cause feels like it's a box they want to tick. Maybe I'm too sensitive I dunno  |
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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago
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"I meet from 28-50 but cant really remember the last time i had anyone the same age. Its always been younger.
Have not been disappointed yet "
There is always exceptions. I’m not ageist. Am youthfulness. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Interesting thread.....it always amazes me how attraction takes all forms....for me age doesn't come into it too much....attraction comes from a number of factors. Many of those on this thread have much of it in abundance |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm just going to sit here quietly and see if any of the ladies who are having a problem finding someone to appreciate them notices me.  "
Did someone say something... |
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I have been on fab since the beginning, 2006 I think. I was 24 then. I have met girls my age and older in that time.
Perhaps I was just better looking when I was younger, but I had more success with ladies in the 45 plus category when I was in my 20’s.
I think often people come to fab to find something they believe (rightly or wrongly) they can’t find in the real world. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm just going to sit here quietly and see if any of the ladies who are having a problem finding someone to appreciate them notices me.
Did someone say something... "
Cough,cough |
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"As a relatively young guy, I tend to find and have done for a number of years that I find some older women incredibly attractive and more arousing than those around my own age. Some of my best meets have been with those 15-20years my senior! Who else gets this? Ladies feel free to comment."
I am an older women you may find hot |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Think the problem is when men message with things like... I'm into older women, wanna meet?
Or the ones who say.... You look great, for your age Lol
I'd guess I'd someone messaged me they didn't mind my age but when they make an issue of it, it turns me off cause feels like it's a box they want to tick. Maybe I'm too sensitive I dunno "
This is how I feel too.
Lots of extremely attractive younger guys with cracking bodies on here, but the chat is often terrible or the conversation feels too much like hard work. |
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If it's just the age range that appeals I wouldn't be interested. Like someone said earlier, don't want to be a tick box and personally prefer to hang out with people who i have a connection and mutual attraction with.
So any messages that come in about wanting older women are a definite no from me x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Being a woman in your 30s is like no man's land..
The younger men seem too young
The older men are often a little too old or they want someone in their 20s.
The men my own age want older women.
It's why so many of us are on the shelf. a
Some of us can't even find a FWB arrangement to keep us entertained while we sit there "
This is very true, also I look young. The amount of guys who chat me up then find out my age is same as them and then blank me.
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By *yannbWoman
over a year ago
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"As a relatively young guy, I tend to find and have done for a number of years that I find some older women incredibly attractive and more arousing than those around my own age. Some of my best meets have been with those 15-20years my senior! Who else gets this? Ladies feel free to comment."
Older? Hope am generalising!! Off putting from the start, mature or experienced at least doesn't have you thinking immature & inexperienced. For the boyfriends that are just on a quest for a mind blowing blowjob that think we should think we are lucky they have spared us some of their precious time, we would be thinking they would be luckier if we spared them some time lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I agree, I’ve always preferred even just hanging about with older people rather than people my own age, and always found older women very attractive and the best nights I have had has been with older women,
but a lot of women on here think that a younger guy is too much trouble or maybe just doing it for a notch on the bedpost kind of thing and don’t believe there could be a real attraction
At the last Edinburgh social I actually got told by an older couple that I shouldn’t be on things like fab until I’m older, which I thought was weird but it kind of proves my point"
I’ve lost count of how many people have told me I’m too young for fab 
I didn’t realise there was an age limit lol xx |
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By *ablo30Man
over a year ago
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As a 41 year old man, I don’t find I have much if anything in common with a lady in her 20’s, and very much doubt they would disagree with this!
I tend to find women with experience, intelligence, and a confidence in themselves that a younger lady may not have, much more of a turn on. That’s not to say I don’t find younger women attractive, but there has to be some mental stimulation as well, which I more commonly find with ladies around my age bracket. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I find I seem to click more sexually with younger men I dont know why
i'm exactly the same xx
I can also relate to this.x"
You’d best lower your age range then so we can get chatting |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Woman mature much better than men, ladies late 30’s upwards know exactly what they want "
Yep...my kitchen finished and an extension is top of my "I want it fucking now!" list.... |
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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago
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"Woman mature much better than men, ladies late 30’s upwards know exactly what they want "
Oi. Speak for yourself.
And I’ve met plenty ladies over 30 that haven’t a clue what they want. Until I tell them |
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I have went up and down the age scale. Been with men 18/19 years older and guys about 15 years younger.
I find the older guys are more gentle and like to please. Were younger guys its all about the stamina how well they can fuck you.
Don't get me wrong nothing wrong with either as long as am fully satisfied I dont mind.
Personally its more about attraction than age with me. If a guy catches my eye or I catch them eying me up then who cares about age
Oh and don't mind hubby watching or joining in then its all good.
I do draw a line at certain ages 24- 50 gives a wide age range |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I have went up and down the age scale. Been with men 18/19 years older and guys about 15 years younger.
I find the older guys are more gentle and like to please. Were younger guys its all about the stamina how well they can fuck you.
Don't get me wrong nothing wrong with either as long as am fully satisfied I dont mind.
Personally its more about attraction than age with me. If a guy catches my eye or I catch them eying me up then who cares about age
Oh and don't mind hubby watching or joining in then its all good.
I do draw a line at certain ages 24- 50 gives a wide age range "
The younger end of the scale aren’t experienced enough to know how to correctly pleasure a women and the signs to look for. A man approaching 30 and around is at the peak of both fitness and experience |
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"I have went up and down the age scale. Been with men 18/19 years older and guys about 15 years younger.
I find the older guys are more gentle and like to please. Were younger guys its all about the stamina how well they can fuck you.
Don't get me wrong nothing wrong with either as long as am fully satisfied I dont mind.
Personally its more about attraction than age with me. If a guy catches my eye or I catch them eying me up then who cares about age
Oh and don't mind hubby watching or joining in then its all good.
I do draw a line at certain ages 24- 50 gives a wide age range
The younger end of the scale aren’t experienced enough to know how to correctly pleasure a women and the signs to look for. A man approaching 30 and around is at the peak of both fitness and experience "
I wouldn't say that it all depends on experience.
Yeah i would say a few don't have the experience and lack in knowledge of a womans body. But then its fun shown them the ropes
Hubby was only 22 when I met him almost 8 years younger than me very young and had a lot to learn but still knew how to press the buttons to get me going and has definitely got better with age.
But before I met him I met a guy lets just say he was a non starter. Jim lasted longer in American pie Lol
Guess it all comes down to confidence and personal experiences |
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"Being a woman in your 30s is like no man's land..
The younger men seem too young
The older men are often a little too old or they want someone in their 20s.
The men my own age want older women.
It's why so many of us are on the shelf. a
Some of us can't even find a FWB arrangement to keep us entertained while we sit there
This
Or maybe we’re just fussy buggars. But yeah either too young for the young guys after cougars or too young for Chaps hitting a midlife crisis and after a 21 year old "
I'm pretty sure you won't struggle for attention |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I meet from 28-50 but cant really remember the last time i had anyone the same age. Its always been younger.
Have not been disappointed yet
There is always exceptions. I’m not ageist. Am youthfulness. "
Aww jim soz your just too old . As young as you are in your head  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love older ladies but at 50 I'm no spring chicken have had some great nights with ladies 65 and above.
As a guy I wouldn't want to meet someone say 20 yrs younger even at 30 yrs old I feel I have little connection with them conversation wise |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you ask me its subjective your attracted to what turns you on.
I've never bothered about age it's more about connection and how you interact with each other for me anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m older ..........but yes I do get on with much younger men and some of the best sex I have ever had is with younger ...........relentless definitely falls into that category
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I had a long term relationship with a wonderful lady 20 years my senior when in my early 30's. We met on a management course. It lasted a couple of years until I moved because of the course finishing and work. She was petit, thin, but with all the hallmarks of having had two children which was wonderfully erotic. She gave me the best blow jobs I have ever had. She was lithe, supple and could bend in all sorts of ways I never knew possible. |
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"I had a long term relationship with a wonderful lady 20 years my senior when in my early 30's. We met on a management course. It lasted a couple of years until I moved because of the course finishing and work. She was petit, thin, but with all the hallmarks of having had two children which was wonderfully erotic. She gave me the best blow jobs I have ever had. She was lithe, supple and could bend in all sorts of ways I never knew possible. "
That’s exactly what you want , lucky man |
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