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By *ilandlarryCouple
over a year ago
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There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages!
It's not rude not to reply.
Some ladies and couples get hundreds of messages a day so it simply isn't possible for them to reply to everyone. If you don't get a response, you can safely assume they aren't interested. If you're getting a lot of "no-replies" then you should consider your profile and the messages you send. Are they giving the right message? Are you standing out from the thousands of other guys on here?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It doesn't bother me if i get a reply or not or if i don't send one in return,what bothers me more is people sending me friend requests when i don't even know them. |
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I'm possibly different in that I don't get hundreds of emails a day but I do think that it is rude not to reply especially if the person has spent a bit of time to put together a thoughtful message.
OK, one liners with a cock pic I can understand not getting a reply but not to someone who has make a bit of an effort. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm possibly different in that I don't get hundreds of emails a day but I do think that it is rude not to reply especially if the person has spent a bit of time to put together a thoughtful message.
OK, one liners with a cock pic I can understand not getting a reply but not to someone who has make a bit of an effort."
What about the messages from people who have simply not read my profile because if they had they'd not be messaging me, is it ok for me to ignore them? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm possibly different in that I don't get hundreds of emails a day but I do think that it is rude not to reply especially if the person has spent a bit of time to put together a thoughtful message.
OK, one liners with a cock pic I can understand not getting a reply but not to someone who has make a bit of an effort." |
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I agree that people should read profiles properly. I especially look at the age range as i seem to be above it for just about everybody on here.
I was going to message one lady but her upper limit is 54 and I'm 55!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Having been a single fem on the site I would say no it's defo not rude lol. Unless you dedicate your life to replying to messages there is no way you can reply to everyone. Plus a polite no thanks usually leads to being called a "fat slag who they wouldn't fuck anyway"....Rejection makes people mad! Take a no reply as a no thanks xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Taken from FAQ's
http://www.fabswingers.com/articles/FAQ
There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages!
It's not rude not to reply.
Some ladies and couples get hundreds of messages a day so it simply isn't possible for them to reply to everyone. If you don't get a response, you can safely assume they aren't interested. If you're getting a lot of "no-replies" then you should consider your profile and the messages you send. Are they giving the right message? Are you standing out from the thousands of other guys on here?
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Just Bumping this up a bit
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When we joined here the first time I (Mrs) thought it was rude not to reply and used to try to reply to all.
Now, however, there are so many messages (a lot of which are "Wanna Chat, or Hi u 2" type messages with cock pics attached, I realise I just can't be arsed to reply to all so just reply to those that interest us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We don't think it's rude, especially when you're a couple you often want to run things by the other half first (sending face pics etc) and sometimes you just forget!It's a website, it's not like walking off mid conversation in the street!
At least that's our view, hopefully people don't get offended but if they do, well, don't message again I guess. |
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