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over a year ago
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Why do people put age limitation on there profile. Then when you contact them. They say your to old or even abuse you. Yet they never change the age range. I am to old as they want a younger man. Best one yet am to fit. My best one with my face picture. I thought you would look older no thanks lol. Can a guy ever win. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think that's outrageous. You should totally decide who other people should fancy x"
If they could be nice about it would help lol. I know am no oil painting but it's not that bad I hope lol |
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"Why do people put age limitation on there profile. Then when you contact them. They say your to old or even abuse you. Yet they never change the age range. I am to old as they want a younger man. Best one yet am to fit. My best one with my face picture. I thought you would look older no thanks lol. Can a guy ever win. "
Unfortunately mate that's how the cookie crumbles on here.
Just have to suck it up and move on  |
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By *uggy55TV/TS
over a year ago
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"Why do people put age limitation on there profile. Then when you contact them. They say your to old or even abuse you. Yet they never change the age range. I am to old as they want a younger man. Best one yet am to fit. My best one with my face picture. I thought you would look older no thanks lol. Can a guy ever win. "
I have quite an age range on my profile. However I prefer older men (not to say I totally disregard younger men) and I like women also, but my age preference for women is a little more stretched. Same goes for couples and TV/CD etc.
So I think it's tough at times to state a preferred age.....just a thought
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"Why do people put age limitation on there profile. Then when you contact them. They say your to old or even abuse you. Yet they never change the age range. I am to old as they want a younger man. Best one yet am to fit. My best one with my face picture. I thought you would look older no thanks lol. Can a guy ever win. "
How do you manage to message people who are outwith your age range ?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you've been polite in your message then I agree, there's no need for abuse back.
But if you don't float their boat then you just need to take it on the chin I'm afraid. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fabswingers is one of the rare places where normal societal rules are reversed. Unlike most places, in here, Women are the prime species and as such they make the decisions.
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Wow you’ve just made yourself very alluring by putting women down. I’m sorry but isn’t it a woman in charge of Scotland right now...? Correct me if I’m wrong because surely I am you know being a woman  |
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"Fabswingers is one of the rare places where normal societal rules are reversed. Unlike most places, in here, Women are the prime species and as such they make the decisions.
Wow you’ve just made yourself very alluring by putting women down. I’m sorry but isn’t it a woman in charge of Scotland right now...? Correct me if I’m wrong because surely I am you know being a woman "
I think you have either miss read my post or perhaps I wasn't clear enough. I am not putting women down I was trying to highlight that the normal roles are reversed in here and as such women hold the powers regards meets ETC.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fabswingers is one of the rare places where normal societal rules are reversed. Unlike most places, in here, Women are the prime species and as such they make the decisions.
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I didn't take your quote as putting women down but I'll have to disagree.
I'd argue that in most, but not all, sexual matters, it's the women who hold the cards and ultimately make the decisions. It's basic biology....men want to spread "their seed" and women have historically had to risk being left holding the baby. So it pays to be more selective.
Unfortunately a few fuds still sneak under the radar though. |
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"Fabswingers is one of the rare places where normal societal rules are reversed. Unlike most places, in here, Women are the prime species and as such they make the decisions.
I didn't take your quote as putting women down but I'll have to disagree.
I'd argue that in most, but not all, sexual matters, it's the women who hold the cards and ultimately make the decisions. It's basic biology....men want to spread "their seed" and women have historically had to risk being left holding the baby. So it pays to be more selective.
Unfortunately a few fuds still sneak under the radar though."
Cant imagine many sneaking under your radar doggy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fabswingers is one of the rare places where normal societal rules are reversed. Unlike most places, in here, Women are the prime species and as such they make the decisions.
I didn't take your quote as putting women down but I'll have to disagree.
I'd argue that in most, but not all, sexual matters, it's the women who hold the cards and ultimately make the decisions. It's basic biology....men want to spread "their seed" and women have historically had to risk being left holding the baby. So it pays to be more selective.
Unfortunately a few fuds still sneak under the radar though.
Cant imagine many sneaking under your radar doggy "
Mr is often my radar on here 
Had my fingers burned a few times....you live and learn and aw that |
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"I think that's outrageous. You should totally decide who other people should fancy x
If they could be nice about it would help lol. I know am no oil painting but it's not that bad I hope lol"
Being nice about politely declining is often a reason to get insults thrown at you or "why?"
You're right though, people don't need to be nasty about it.
The very rare oil painting I've come across often comes with a shitty personality, so wouldn't worry about not being perfect. Really nobody is x |
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"Why do people put age limitation on there profile. Then when you contact them. They say your to old or even abuse you. Yet they never change the age range. I am to old as they want a younger man. Best one yet am to fit. My best one with my face picture. I thought you would look older no thanks lol. Can a guy ever win. "
Dump the manky cock photos and try for something more classy? A face pic would work wonders!
You might find age isn't such an issue.
It's Bob here. As part of a couple, I hate opening a man's profile and seeing that. Try putting yourself in other folks shoes?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do people put age limitation on there profile. Then when you contact them. They say your to old or even abuse you. Yet they never change the age range. I am to old as they want a younger man. Best one yet am to fit. My best one with my face picture. I thought you would look older no thanks lol. Can a guy ever win. "
Why do people put age limitation on there profile
Because they don't want to young or to old mesaging them.
Then when you contact them. They say your to old or even abuse you.
Because they can , there not interested in your feelings.
Yet they never change the age range
They don't have to
Best one yet am to fit.
Your using this reply as an example of your struggle. ?
My best one with my face picture. I thought you would look older no thanks lol
See last point.
Can a guy ever win
Don't play the game, you can never lose then.
Treat em mean keep them keen.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do people put age limitation on there profile. Then when you contact them. They say your to old or even abuse you. Yet they never change the age range. I am to old as they want a younger man. Best one yet am to fit. My best one with my face picture. I thought you would look older no thanks lol. Can a guy ever win. "
Ask yourself, What would Chuck Norris do in this situation?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why do people put age limitation on there profile. Then when you contact them. They say your to old or even abuse you. Yet they never change the age range. I am to old as they want a younger man. Best one yet am to fit. My best one with my face picture. I thought you would look older no thanks lol. Can a guy ever win. How do you manage to message people who are outwith your age range ?"
I don't. That's that's what why am saying. Some folk as they say lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If you send a face pic and they dont fancy you.
Get over it.
Shit happens. "
Would be nice to even get that far. They just have their say then bang gone. Not always nice. All am saying why have a wide age range then tell done one there old. People |
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"If you've been polite in your message then I agree, there's no need for abuse back.
But if you don't float their boat then you just need to take it on the chin I'm afraid."
I do just asking why they do it. |
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"If you've been polite in your message then I agree, there's no need for abuse back.
But if you don't float their boat then you just need to take it on the chin I'm afraid.
I do just asking why they do it. "
As others have said, for some reason you haven’t ticked their requirements. It’s nothing to do with age range |
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"If you've been polite in your message then I agree, there's no need for abuse back.
But if you don't float their boat then you just need to take it on the chin I'm afraid.
I do just asking why they do it. "
Why the rotten replies you mean? There’s just an awful lot of arseholes on here being even worse when they're sitting behind their keyboards. We all get them though, it's not just you. Ignore them, don't even bother with a reply and use the block button frequently x |
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