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By *xybum OP Woman
over a year ago
East Kilbride |
I see endless profiles saying discretion assured blah de blah... do people just say it and don’t mean it? Just found out certain people quite happy to talk about other fabbers and share pics with people! No matter how careful you are there’s always some that will take the piss! Beware who you talk to and trust! |
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"I see endless profiles saying discretion assured blah de blah... do people just say it and don’t mean it? Just found out certain people quite happy to talk about other fabbers and share pics with people! No matter how careful you are there’s always some that will take the piss! Beware who you talk to and trust!"
Discretion = confidentiality in my books  |
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Find a lot of people operate in different ways and don’t consider others. Some are very open about their lifestyle, and don’t really care about others and their circumstances. Others are just pure dicks. If I get a sniff of the fact they can’t be discrete or be respectful or even just pleasant or reasonable, I drop them like a stone. Don’t care what they look like or how good their veris are. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Discretion is a trust, as part of an honesty
No matter what circumstances we find ourselves in or how open some people are about their lifestyle it doesn't mean all people should be.
Respect, honesty, trust and whatever else falls into these categories to make you feel safe  |
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"Discretion is a trust, as part of an honesty
No matter what circumstances we find ourselves in or how open some people are about their lifestyle it doesn't mean all people should be.
Respect, honesty, trust and whatever else falls into these categories to make you feel safe "
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Most of the people I know from here and have met in real life know what discretion is.
Some of the faceless profiles however are another matter.
Had one person on here, their profile said "Discretion is a must" and steamed right in and sent me a message using my drab name, but wouldn't admit who they were.
Kinda hard to respect anyone that starts a conversation like that.
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"I see endless profiles saying discretion assured blah de blah... do people just say it and don’t mean it? Just found out certain people quite happy to talk about other fabbers and share pics with people! No matter how careful you are there’s always some that will take the piss! Beware who you talk to and trust!"
Someone on here took it upon themselves to show another member my friends only pics,When I found out as you can imagine I was livid now all my face pics are in private.
I totally agree with you on being careful with who you trust |
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By *hav02Man
over a year ago
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Some are open about mixing their personal life with fab, and vice versa- and these will be the ones with loads of face pics on public view.
Others are less open, but will brag about who they met and what they did etc.
Then there are those who are elusive  where their fab life is mutually exclusive to personal life.
Discretion to me is a mutual trust: what you do stays between you two and that's it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I see endless profiles saying discretion assured blah de blah... do people just say it and don’t mean it? Just found out certain people quite happy to talk about other fabbers and share pics with people! No matter how careful you are there’s always some that will take the piss! Beware who you talk to and trust!Someone on here took it upon themselves to show another member my friends only pics,When I found out as you can imagine I was livid now all my face pics are in private.
I totally agree with you on being careful with who you trust "
It is beyond me why someone would do that? How fucked up would you need to be?! |
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"I see endless profiles saying discretion assured blah de blah... do people just say it and don’t mean it? Just found out certain people quite happy to talk about other fabbers and share pics with people! No matter how careful you are there’s always some that will take the piss! Beware who you talk to and trust!Someone on here took it upon themselves to show another member my friends only pics,When I found out as you can imagine I was livid now all my face pics are in private.
I totally agree with you on being careful with who you trust
It is beyond me why someone would do that? How fucked up would you need to be?!"
I know but sadly not everyone thinks like us |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
Paisley |
Some people are less than discrete and it wouldn’t be the first time I’ve had to let them know I wasn’t pleased at their actions. I often socialise with Fab friends but we know how to behave in public.
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"Discretion is a trust, as part of an honesty
No matter what circumstances we find ourselves in or how open some people are about their lifestyle it doesn't mean all people should be.
Respect, honesty, trust and whatever else falls into these categories to make you feel safe "
( re-posted - got wrong emoji- large finger small phone ! ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve had several women tell me about the mutual guys we’ve met even over the years though this was long before my current profile and haven’t gave them verifications or vice versa, so it’s clear plenty folk will talk, if someone is displaying a veri from me or vice versa and someone asks me what they are like I’ll tell them at the time of the profile I wrote honestly, if it was sexual then that’s not really anyone else’s business but mine and said guy, yes it’s nice to know if someone is genuine but there’s no need to share too much information, but with fab I’ve found there’s not a lot of discretion tbh |
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