Being a bisexual man can be quite difficult on fab I have my type but I'm quite nervous when it comes to making the 1st move and in some occasions when I have all I've gotten is abuse
Anyone got any tips to get over not taken things personally or is there anything I can do to make my profile stand out a little bit more
Cheers in advance folks x |
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The only advice I can give is to grow a thick skin.
You're going to get many knock backs on here, and nothing makes it any better. And time, and experience will tell in the end.
If you do get abuse then report and block, and move on  |
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"The only advice I can give is to grow a thick skin.
You're going to get many knock backs on here, and nothing makes it any better. And time, and experience will tell in the end.
If you do get abuse then report and block, and move on "
Cheers mate I appreciate the feedback ?? |
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"Just remember that though you have your type, those people also have their own type. So same way you wouldn't want to offend anyone, I'm sure they don't want to offend you "
Very true I need to stop taken things to heart thanks the help x |
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"Handle rejection...its a major factor in swinging.
Someone knocks you back..just smile and move on. 
Cheers mate thanks for getting back to me ??"
Also, only use emoticons that are in Fab messaging, and not from your phone as you'll only get the ?? |
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"Handle rejection...its a major factor in swinging.
Someone knocks you back..just smile and move on.
Cheers mate thanks for getting back to me ??
Also, only use emoticons that are in Fab messaging, and not from
your phone as you'll only get the ?? "
Hahaha thanks |
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Personally i wouldn't put a face pic on for everyone to see. Unless you don't mind people you work with, or relatives, who might be on this site recognising you straight away.
Someone already mentioned it, thick skin is essential! Don't let rejections get you down.
If it's mainly guys you're looking for, is it worthwhile checking out fabguys.com? Might come across some of the same people, but no harm in checking it out x |
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"Personally i wouldn't put a face pic on for everyone to see. Unless you don't mind people you work with, or relatives, who might be on this site recognising you straight away.
Someone already mentioned it, thick skin is essential! Don't let rejections get you down.
If it's mainly guys you're looking for, is it worthwhile checking out fabguys.com? Might come across some of the same people, but no harm in checking it out x"
Yeah I don't mind my face being on here
I'm generally 50/50 thanks for getting back to me have a wonderful night |
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"Personally i wouldn't put a face pic on for everyone to see. Unless you don't mind people you work with, or relatives, who might be on this site recognising you straight away.
Someone already mentioned it, thick skin is essential! Don't let rejections get you down.
If it's mainly guys you're looking for, is it worthwhile checking out fabguys.com? Might come across some of the same people, but no harm in checking it out x"
Was gonna mention fabguys too, double your chances. |
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"Being a bisexual man can be quite difficult on fab I have my type but I'm quite nervous when it comes to making the 1st move and in some occasions when I have all I've gotten is abuse
Anyone got any tips to get over not taken things personally or is there anything I can do to make my profile stand out a little bit more
Cheers in advance folks x"
Try being a straight, single male, now that's difficult lol |
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"Being a bisexual man can be quite difficult on fab I have my type but I'm quite nervous when it comes to making the 1st move and in some occasions when I have all I've gotten is abuse
Anyone got any tips to get over not taken things personally or is there anything I can do to make my profile stand out a little bit more
Cheers in advance folks x
Try being a straight, single male, now that's difficult lol "
Oh man I can imagine buddy I wish you well mate |
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"Personally i wouldn't put a face pic on for everyone to see. Unless you don't mind people you work with, or relatives, who might be on this site recognising you straight away.
Someone already mentioned it, thick skin is essential! Don't let rejections get you down.
If it's mainly guys you're looking for, is it worthwhile checking out fabguys.com? Might come across some of the same people, but no harm in checking it out x
Was gonna mention fabguys too, double your chances. "
Cheers buddy might give it ago thanks |
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"Being a bisexual man can be quite difficult on fab I have my type but I'm quite nervous when it comes to making the 1st move and in some occasions when I have all I've gotten is abuse
Anyone got any tips to get over not taken things personally or is there anything I can do to make my profile stand out a little bit more
Cheers in advance folks x
Try being a straight, single male, now that's difficult lol
Oh man I can imagine buddy I wish you well mate "
Ha ha ha , you too buddy take care |
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"Being a bisexual man can be quite difficult on fab I have my type but I'm quite nervous when it comes to making the 1st move and in some occasions when I have all I've gotten is abuse
Anyone got any tips to get over not taken things personally or is there anything I can do to make my profile stand out a little bit more
Cheers in advance folks x
Try being a straight, single male, now that's difficult lol "
Pea and ham from a chicken. Now that’s clever. |
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As some have said, maybe fabguys site for you?
Also (when) local clubs resume, see if there is a night for Bi Guys or Fun for All on and get chatting. Also, there is the chat room function on Fab and they have Bi friendly rooms.
With single (straight) guys, I say the same thing; don’t get d*unk, don’t expect to have sex and generally chat to folk.
The more you do, the more ppl will enjoy your company and your verifications will improve, which can be a deciding factor for some.
Also, try and tidy up the scenes in your photos; do I need/want to see your Tv/duvet etc? Have a look at some fabbed photos and see what catches people’s attention; eg. Black and white or change of outfit.
Best of luck
Millie |
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"As some have said, maybe fabguys site for you?
Also (when) local clubs resume, see if there is a night for Bi Guys or Fun for All on and get chatting. Also, there is the chat room function on Fab and they have Bi friendly rooms.
With single (straight) guys, I say the same thing; don’t get d*unk, don’t expect to have sex and generally chat to folk.
The more you do, the more ppl will enjoy your company and your verifications will improve, which can be a deciding factor for some.
Also, try and tidy up the scenes in your photos; do I need/want to see your Tv/duvet etc? Have a look at some fabbed photos and see what catches people’s attention; eg. Black and white or change of outfit.
Best of luck
Millie "
That's is great advice thank you very much have a great day xx |
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