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By *ylan123Cool OP   Man  over a year ago

cumbernauld

Who’s into dogging? Central Scotland

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It's on my to do list

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By *ylan123Cool OP   Man  over a year ago

cumbernauld

Yeah it’s a must

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Me!!!! Although not sure much of it happens these days.

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By *uckOfTheBayMan  over a year ago

Mold

Just don't go posting locations on an open forum

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Wouldn’t say no to being involved

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By *othiandoggersCouple  over a year ago

edinburgh

Us

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By *eestar38Couple  over a year ago

Ayrshire

On my list of things to do. Love outdoor sex the thought of being caught or watched. And idea if person watching started to play and if attractions were there them joining and helping my hubby fuck me

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By *lasgowfunXXXMan  over a year ago

westend

Defo got to try it

Is there any places to go these days ??

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Keeping this thread in my notes

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By *vcarolTV/TS  over a year ago

kilmarnockish

Not that I’ve ever done this sort of thing.

But a friend told me that it’s largely died off. No-where like what it was. It still goes on, but it’s for the more patient, and not for the meek...

I’ve been told it’s a laugh tho, and you can see some very silly and interesting things.

My friend did this for 10 years, and in all that time only met one guy who was a mad axe murderer type. The rest were very nice people.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Not that I’ve ever done this sort of thing.

But a friend told me that it’s largely died off. No-where like what it was. It still goes on, but it’s for the more patient, and not for the meek...

I’ve been told it’s a laugh tho, and you can see some very silly and interesting things.

My friend did this for 10 years, and in all that time only met one guy who was a mad axe murderer type. The rest were very nice people."

I love the friend quote

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

This is something we are interested in doing sometime.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Love it go down langbank sometimes and always get action

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By *ylan123Cool OP   Man  over a year ago

cumbernauld

Off randomers?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Not done it for a while as it seemed to be dying out last time I was out

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yup it’s so hot

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By *mcmMan  over a year ago

L

Wouldn’t know where to go lol

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By *arpdiemCouple  over a year ago

dunfermline

With current climate we'd also like to find cpls/fem that wants to be 'happened' across, no interaction between the two cars just watching and being watched.

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By *ixen13Woman  over a year ago

Cowdenbeath

It's on my 'to do' list as well. No idea where to go though

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We fancy giving it a go sometime. If anyone would like to message us some good dogging spots that would be great. Thanks

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By *oggingnfloggingCouple  over a year ago

fife

We are into dogging

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Waves and shouts, if anyone is going dogging, give me a shout please lol

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By *ixen13Woman  over a year ago

Cowdenbeath


"Waves and shouts, if anyone is going dogging, give me a shout please lol "

Me too x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We are interested in this with the right people

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Well I’m up for it if interested

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Would love to try it at some point.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Am thinking maybe we should just hire a bus, i don't mind driving

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By *iimonMan  over a year ago

glasgow

Went up to the find farm a few time but with no luck

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By *inkysallyjackCouple  over a year ago

Glasgow

Always wanted to try it just not sure on locations.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Nope. Can't see the appeal of this at all.

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By *exy gentMan  over a year ago

Midlothian

Keep me in the loop guys

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By *alkdirty2meCouple  over a year ago

20 miles south of Edinburgh


"Nope. Can't see the appeal of this at all.

"

Our thoughts exactly, outdoor sex = absolutely but outdoor sex with a bunch of really ugly fat men wanking off or trying it on

Nope, just nope

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By *ylan123Cool OP   Man  over a year ago

cumbernauld

That’s boring lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Anyone any good locations pm me

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By *elsbells2011Couple  over a year ago

fife

We are in fife. Used to be out regularly having a flash and play but seemed to be drying up unfortunately but definitely our thing

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We are in fife. Used to be out regularly having a flash and play but seemed to be drying up unfortunately but definitely our thing"

Great profile, exactly what dogging is all about.

Used to be good up here 10 years ago but like folk have said it kinda dried up a bit. Still get the occasional pre arranged outdoor meet but that’s not dogging

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By *igbhoy76Man  over a year ago

kilwinning

I would be interested please let me know aswell

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

There is still zome action but not as much as a few years ago. The internet killed the scene, folk advertising meets and sites. The police and papers got wind of it and made it near impossible.

Like I say there is still folk out but nowhere near as popular as before which is a shame as my god it was fun.

If any female or couple seek a genuine respectful guy then shout I still know a good few areas.

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By *ussymufferMan  over a year ago

Lanarkshire

The last few times I was out with a female friend weeks before lockdown the police were out and about the dogging spots so if you go out be careful

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By *ayandjimCouple  over a year ago

scotland

we still do it but not for 2 months now

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By *astEndGuyGLAMan  over a year ago

Glasgow

If anyone can pm me some locations... I’d owe them a favour lol

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By *mcmMan  over a year ago

L

Same question for the details of locations! Especially in the central Scotland region lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Nope. Can't see the appeal of this at all.

Our thoughts exactly, outdoor sex = absolutely but outdoor sex with a bunch of really ugly fat men wanking off or trying it on

Nope, just nope "

If you arrange something with an attractive male to watch it may be fun though

Still not worth the register for though...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Should start another thread, Dogging, fat blokes need not apply

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"There is still zome action but not as much as a few years ago. The internet killed the scene, folk advertising meets and sites. The police and papers got wind of it and made it near impossible.

Like I say there is still folk out but nowhere near as popular as before which is a shame as my god it was fun.

If any female or couple seek a genuine respectful guy then shout I still know a good few areas."

Exactly right, boy racers, police and camera phones ruined it for me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Good to hear there is still dogger out there.

I'm missing it alot...

Any hoo.. happy dogging and fabbing

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Love dogging but since moving to Aviemore it's like unheard of

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Loved going out dogging but not been for a couple of years be great to get back to dogging fun.

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By *ylan123Cool OP   Man  over a year ago

cumbernauld

So anyone interested in going dogging anytime soon? Big cock here? Can bend you over my bonnet

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By *hav02Man  over a year ago

Glasgow/London

Sturgeon says we can meet outdoors in groups so, ulterior motives??

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Have not tried it but would like to.

Is there anywhere you can find out where the dogging sites are?

Some sites we looked at we so old they were dogging on the back of a horse and cart and many other sites referred to sending a collie out to gather up the sheep!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Can a group of people (once its safe to do so) not just organise to go somewhere outside that's off the beaten track, does it have to be a official site, i can't see it being sign posted Doggers take the next left at the old inn, i mean i don't really know, im just asked and interested

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By *aughty_nymphWoman  over a year ago

Cheltenham


"There is still zome action but not as much as a few years ago. The internet killed the scene, folk advertising meets and sites. The police and papers got wind of it and made it near impossible.

Like I say there is still folk out but nowhere near as popular as before which is a shame as my god it was fun.

If any female or couple seek a genuine respectful guy then shout I still know a good few areas.

Exactly right, boy racers, police and camera phones ruined it for me"

I can spot the old school doggers a mile off! They actually get that dogging isn’t a quick fuck in a car park that’s been pre arranged!

Expectation vs reality needs to be made very clear on this I think as I know all it takes is one newbie who doesn’t understand it to fuck it up for people and potentially stop a new couple coming back!

So reality for single men is:-

You’ll be sat around waiting. A LOT. Patience is a virtue.

If you get lucky and a couple does turn up, don’t assume they want to have you join in... dogging is WATCHING. If you do get asked if you want to touch don’t push boundaries (yes it sounds obvious but a lot of men break this basic rule in the heat of the moment).

If a couple drive off without asking you to follow them, don’t for god sake follow them! It’s creepy and desperate.

Be conscious of other cars coming in and out, they may not be doggers!

Don’t under any circumstances try open a car door uninvited or lunge a hand through an open window.

Finally, dogging is about spontaneous fun. Pre arranged stuff is shit. It’s not at all “like fab but in a car park”.

I have had a lot of fun in the past doing it but I am worried the influx of newbies (mainly single men) will spoil it even more after lockdown is relaxed enough. Remember, all it takes is one pushy single man to scare a couple off.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"There is still zome action but not as much as a few years ago. The internet killed the scene, folk advertising meets and sites. The police and papers got wind of it and made it near impossible.

Like I say there is still folk out but nowhere near as popular as before which is a shame as my god it was fun.

If any female or couple seek a genuine respectful guy then shout I still know a good few areas.

Exactly right, boy racers, police and camera phones ruined it for me

I can spot the old school doggers a mile off! They actually get that dogging isn’t a quick fuck in a car park that’s been pre arranged!

Expectation vs reality needs to be made very clear on this I think as I know all it takes is one newbie who doesn’t understand it to fuck it up for people and potentially stop a new couple coming back!

So reality for single men is:-

You’ll be sat around waiting. A LOT. Patience is a virtue.

If you get lucky and a couple does turn up, don’t assume they want to have you join in... dogging is WATCHING. If you do get asked if you want to touch don’t push boundaries (yes it sounds obvious but a lot of men break this basic rule in the heat of the moment).

If a couple drive off without asking you to follow them, don’t for god sake follow them! It’s creepy and desperate.

Be conscious of other cars coming in and out, they may not be doggers!

Don’t under any circumstances try open a car door uninvited or lunge a hand through an open window.

Finally, dogging is about spontaneous fun. Pre arranged stuff is shit. It’s not at all “like fab but in a car park”.

I have had a lot of fun in the past doing it but I am worried the influx of newbies (mainly single men) will spoil it even more after lockdown is relaxed enough. Remember, all it takes is one pushy single man to scare a couple off. "

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Thats good sound advise.. my first dogging adventure involved a couple chatting & having naughty banter with people with the windows ajar. I was invited to join then at another carpark. Met a few time after that. The days of magic fun.

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By *aughty_nymphWoman  over a year ago

Cheltenham

Exactly! People I think just expect there to be couples around. Then the newbie pipes up and asks “so what are the best days or times”...

Jeeez dogging isn’t scheduled like a bus timetable lmao

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By *arpark deviantMan  over a year ago

midlothian..

Meeee....

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By *ayandjimCouple  over a year ago

scotland

we going out soon as weather is great and daytime too

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Exactly! People I think just expect there to be couples around. Then the newbie pipes up and asks “so what are the best days or times”...

Jeeez dogging isn’t scheduled like a bus timetable lmao "

Lmao sooo true

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By *ylan123Cool OP   Man  over a year ago

cumbernauld

Message me and I’ll join or watch from a distance or can even film it for use

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By *ubtom100Man  over a year ago

Dublin


"There is still zome action but not as much as a few years ago. The internet killed the scene, folk advertising meets and sites. The police and papers got wind of it and made it near impossible.

Like I say there is still folk out but nowhere near as popular as before which is a shame as my god it was fun.

If any female or couple seek a genuine respectful guy then shout I still know a good few areas.

Exactly right, boy racers, police and camera phones ruined it for me

I can spot the old school doggers a mile off! They actually get that dogging isn’t a quick fuck in a car park that’s been pre arranged!

Expectation vs reality needs to be made very clear on this I think as I know all it takes is one newbie who doesn’t understand it to fuck it up for people and potentially stop a new couple coming back!

So reality for single men is:-

You’ll be sat around waiting. A LOT. Patience is a virtue.

If you get lucky and a couple does turn up, don’t assume they want to have you join in... dogging is WATCHING. If you do get asked if you want to touch don’t push boundaries (yes it sounds obvious but a lot of men break this basic rule in the heat of the moment).

If a couple drive off without asking you to follow them, don’t for god sake follow them! It’s creepy and desperate.

Be conscious of other cars coming in and out, they may not be doggers!

Don’t under any circumstances try open a car door uninvited or lunge a hand through an open window.

Finally, dogging is about spontaneous fun. Pre arranged stuff is shit. It’s not at all “like fab but in a car park”.

I have had a lot of fun in the past doing it but I am worried the influx of newbies (mainly single men) will spoil it even more after lockdown is relaxed enough. Remember, all it takes is one pushy single man to scare a couple off. "

Very well said.. x

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By *andsomecockMan  over a year ago

scotland

Love dogging xx

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By *ert730Man  over a year ago

abington

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By *e libertineMan  over a year ago

Glasgow


"There is still zome action but not as much as a few years ago. The internet killed the scene, folk advertising meets and sites. The police and papers got wind of it and made it near impossible.

Like I say there is still folk out but nowhere near as popular as before which is a shame as my god it was fun.

If any female or couple seek a genuine respectful guy then shout I still know a good few areas.

Exactly right, boy racers, police and camera phones ruined it for me

I can spot the old school doggers a mile off! They actually get that dogging isn’t a quick fuck in a car park that’s been pre arranged!

Expectation vs reality needs to be made very clear on this I think as I know all it takes is one newbie who doesn’t understand it to fuck it up for people and potentially stop a new couple coming back!

So reality for single men is:-

You’ll be sat around waiting. A LOT. Patience is a virtue.

If you get lucky and a couple does turn up, don’t assume they want to have you join in... dogging is WATCHING. If you do get asked if you want to touch don’t push boundaries (yes it sounds obvious but a lot of men break this basic rule in the heat of the moment).

If a couple drive off without asking you to follow them, don’t for god sake follow them! It’s creepy and desperate.

Be conscious of other cars coming in and out, they may not be doggers!

Don’t under any circumstances try open a car door uninvited or lunge a hand through an open window.

Finally, dogging is about spontaneous fun. Pre arranged stuff is shit. It’s not at all “like fab but in a car park”.

I have had a lot of fun in the past doing it but I am worried the influx of newbies (mainly single men) will spoil it even more after lockdown is relaxed enough. Remember, all it takes is one pushy single man to scare a couple off. "

Absolute top notch advice

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By *lackvanilla41Couple  over a year ago

Glasgow

I personally really would love to give it a go, not sure of all the protocols on flashing lights. Or how to do it x

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By *andsomecockMan  over a year ago

scotland

Plenty dogging& or outdoor sex done in the past but all ways willing to do more nice location and discrete xxx

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By *enuine Couple jsCouple  over a year ago

Coatbridge

We're up for it message with details

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By *uffymayfairCouple  over a year ago

vera playa, Almeria

We had our first experience in this lifestyle by accident at a dogging spot, we parked up for some car sex and became aware of a group of people all round the car. We shit ourselves and took off but it put the idea in our heads so decided we would do it again and it just snowballed from there. It's still a massive turn on

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By *aughty_nymphWoman  over a year ago

Cheltenham


"I personally really would love to give it a go, not sure of all the protocols on flashing lights. Or how to do it x"

Flashing lights it a myth lol we never did it and still got plenty of attention

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By *otrock-cplCouple  over a year ago

Glenrothes

We love our dogging lifestyle.

Holly loves the attention from other girls and guys.

We frequent Dundee quite a bit so any couples in or around Dundee or fife you know what to do.

Get in touch and let's see if we can find eachother x

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By *cotsboyMan  over a year ago

Aberdeen


"We love our dogging lifestyle.

Holly loves the attention from other girls and guys.

We frequent Dundee quite a bit so any couples in or around Dundee or fife you know what to do.

Get in touch and let's see if we can find eachother x"

I’m down that way quite often so would love to know some more details please

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By *azza12Man  over a year ago

Ayrshire

I would love to go dogging for the first time. If any couples would like to be watched just send a msg

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By *ave123456789500Man  over a year ago

eastkilbride

I’ve only done it once, but I loved it and I’m keen to try again

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By *ot_shots21Man  over a year ago

a village


"Waves and shouts, if anyone is going dogging, give me a shout please lol

Me too x"

Oh me too x

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By *igbhoy76Man  over a year ago

kilwinning


"we going out soon as weather is great and daytime too "
. Love to watch you guys would be so good

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By *estlo-mMan  over a year ago

west lothian


"we going out soon as weather is great and daytime too "
I'd love to arrange something with yous sometime, your meets and photos look absolutely brilliant, unfortunately I'm outwith your preferred age range. If yous would like to arrange something then please send me a message.

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By *arpdiemCouple  over a year ago

dunfermline


"We love our dogging lifestyle.

Holly loves the attention from other girls and guys.

We frequent Dundee quite a bit so any couples in or around Dundee or fife you know what to do.

Get in touch and let's see if we can find eachother x"

Why not start a verified group for couples then they can let other couples know when and where they intend to go? Easier to 'find' others then.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Me and female friend do a bit of dogging. A group would be a great idea to get organised

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple  over a year ago

Falkirk

It was popular in Central Scotland but word spread quickly and that included the attention of the police.

The four main areas that were infamous with doggers have now gone.

There are others however first rule of dogging club lol

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By *askedmagician87Man  over a year ago

BONNYRIGG

Would love to do some dogging. If anyone can advise on locations it would be very much appreciated.

X

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By *ald EagleMan  over a year ago

Alloa

That’s probably because the new cops are taken for a tour of the local dogging spots by the older cops when they start their area patrols, so that they know where to check on late/night shifts.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'd love to try this the appeal of watching is a huge draw for me, nothing in my area though I think it's dying out

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Looking for good locations for fun. Message us to let us know

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Wouldn’t mind finding out any spots in SW Scotland.

PM me obvs

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By *ouplefor funCouple  over a year ago

near kilmarnock

We have only encountered males so far hoping to meet a couple or female any help accepted

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I know it's been done to death but stumbled across the C4 documentary Dogging Tales again last night. Possibly the least erotic 45mins of television ever made. More likely to get a semi watching Songs Of Praise.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We have only encountered males so far hoping to meet a couple or female any help accepted "

What spots have you guys tried?Message us x

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By *ocalfunMan  over a year ago

Edinburgh/Borders

Know a few good spots too - hopefully it sees an increase in people venturing out again

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By *ayandjimCouple  over a year ago

scotland

we still are

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By *aturegent321Man  over a year ago

Fife

Love to sample the excitement of dogging, any couples out there looking for a mature reliable respectful guy to join them please do get in touch with me x

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By *igs72Man  over a year ago

motherwell

Happy to be involved in an dogging that’s going on.

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By *HSSGMan  over a year ago

Edinburgh/East Lothian

I think it’s better than it was looking pre CV19

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By *lasguy1972Man  over a year ago

Glasgow


"There is still zome action but not as much as a few years ago. The internet killed the scene, folk advertising meets and sites. The police and papers got wind of it and made it near impossible.

Like I say there is still folk out but nowhere near as popular as before which is a shame as my god it was fun.

If any female or couple seek a genuine respectful guy then shout I still know a good few areas.

Exactly right, boy racers, police and camera phones ruined it for me

I can spot the old school doggers a mile off! They actually get that dogging isn’t a quick fuck in a car park that’s been pre arranged!

Expectation vs reality needs to be made very clear on this I think as I know all it takes is one newbie who doesn’t understand it to fuck it up for people and potentially stop a new couple coming back!

So reality for single men is:-

You’ll be sat around waiting. A LOT. Patience is a virtue.

If you get lucky and a couple does turn up, don’t assume they want to have you join in... dogging is WATCHING. If you do get asked if you want to touch don’t push boundaries (yes it sounds obvious but a lot of men break this basic rule in the heat of the moment).

If a couple drive off without asking you to follow them, don’t for god sake follow them! It’s creepy and desperate.

Be conscious of other cars coming in and out, they may not be doggers!

Don’t under any circumstances try open a car door uninvited or lunge a hand through an open window.

Finally, dogging is about spontaneous fun. Pre arranged stuff is shit. It’s not at all “like fab but in a car park”.

I have had a lot of fun in the past doing it but I am worried the influx of newbies (mainly single men) will spoil it even more after lockdown is relaxed enough. Remember, all it takes is one pushy single man to scare a couple off. "

A perfect discription and every thing that folk do not adhere too is reason that

1) it seems not as popular (the balance has went from wild open invite to a place to a wild invite to a group of trusted possibles or pot luck Lucky folk who have somehow staggered onto scene)

2) Police and Boy Racers find out about places mainly due to Complaints from passers by and big mouths

3) it's not rocket science it's respect

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By *ocalfunMan  over a year ago

Edinburgh/Borders


"we still are "

Been on my hotlist for a while - love seeing your pics!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Is there any spots near Aberdeen? PM me please if anyone knows

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Who’s into dogging? Central Scotland "

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