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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah if you don't like delete the message or block the whole don't read / read the mark unread or left read open is a bit confusing lol "
or you can take a no reply as a not interested.  |
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By *mmixtapeCouple
over a year ago
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People shouldn't have to try and manage unsolicited pics and messages. People shouldn't send them. People are entitled to complain that they get groped in bars and receive unwanted attention, it's the perpetrators fault for doing it.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"People shouldn't have to try and manage unsolicited pics and messages. People shouldn't send them. People are entitled to complain that they get groped in bars and receive unwanted attention, it's the perpetrators fault for doing it. I'm taking about fabswingers on here . Not perpetrators . Feeew
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People shouldn't have to try and manage unsolicited pics and messages. People shouldn't send them. People are entitled to complain that they get groped in bars and receive unwanted attention, it's the perpetrators fault for doing it.
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Tbf, if we leave our filters so that people can message us, then we do have to find a way to manage messages that are sent to us |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yeah if you don't like delete the message or block the whole don't read / read the mark unread or left read open is a bit confusing lol or you can take a no reply as a not interested. "
I'm taking about ladies complaints . Not messages I receive . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So ur moaning that ladies receive cock pics without asking tbh fair enough if they don't want it they don't want it and quite right to say don't be sending it guys think all they have is there cock so send that thinking that's auto permission to fuck whoever they sent it to pathetic cunts |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So ur moaning that ladies receive cock pics without asking tbh fair enough if they don't want it they don't want it and quite right to say don't be sending it guys think all they have is there cock so send that thinking that's auto permission to fuck whoever they sent it to pathetic cunts "
no need for the foul language . Your getting yourself into a lather
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So ur moaning that ladies receive cock pics without asking tbh fair enough if they don't want it they don't want it and quite right to say don't be sending it guys think all they have is there cock so send that thinking that's auto permission to fuck whoever they sent it to pathetic cunts no need for the foul language . Your getting yourself into a lather "
Problem is it these guys like the above that make my life a whole lot harder on this site and tbf it's pathetic and I'll stand by that statement no matter |
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"Ladies please use these options . Reading complaints about unsolicited messages and photos is becoming more prevent and tiresome . "
Are you complaining about statements on women's profile that nobody is forcing you to read
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So ur moaning that ladies receive cock pics without asking tbh fair enough if they don't want it they don't want it and quite right to say don't be sending it guys think all they have is there cock so send that thinking that's auto permission to fuck whoever they sent it to pathetic cunts no need for the foul language . Your getting yourself into a lather
Problem is it these guys like the above that make my life a whole lot harder on this site and tbf it's pathetic and I'll stand by that statement no matter "
I don't think they do make it harder to be honest. There are still other means of demonstrating that your personality doesn't begin and end with your boabie...decent chat on the forum, interacting on cam/chat rooms and half decent pics. They all speak volumes. |
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"Yeah if you don't like delete the message or block the whole don't read / read the mark unread or left read open is a bit confusing lol "
If i leave a message as "read", it is my full intention to reply (will delete it otherwise).
But then stuff comes up, I'll get to it later, i forget, come across it again a few weeks later, decide it's too late to reply and delete. Don't mean to confuse anyone  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah if you don't like delete the message or block the whole don't read / read the mark unread or left read open is a bit confusing lol
If i leave a message as "read", it is my full intention to reply (will delete it otherwise).
But then stuff comes up, I'll get to it later, i forget, come across it again a few weeks later, decide it's too late to reply and delete. Don't mean to confuse anyone "
Fully appreciate that as women are so busy with messages compared to guys hence why it's confusing for us there such little interaction xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd love guys being blocked from messaging and women being the first to message cause them at least if they message first perhaps they like and go from there xx |
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"Yeah if you don't like delete the message or block the whole don't read / read the mark unread or left read open is a bit confusing lol
If i leave a message as "read", it is my full intention to reply (will delete it otherwise).
But then stuff comes up, I'll get to it later, i forget, come across it again a few weeks later, decide it's too late to reply and delete. Don't mean to confuse anyone
Fully appreciate that as women are so busy with messages compared to guys hence why it's confusing for us there such little interaction xx"
Not really busy with messages. Possibly busy chatting to captain morgans or watching crap on tv just now. I am easily distracted  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah if you don't like delete the message or block the whole don't read / read the mark unread or left read open is a bit confusing lol
If i leave a message as "read", it is my full intention to reply (will delete it otherwise).
But then stuff comes up, I'll get to it later, i forget, come across it again a few weeks later, decide it's too late to reply and delete. Don't mean to confuse anyone
Fully appreciate that as women are so busy with messages compared to guys hence why it's confusing for us there such little interaction xx
Not really busy with messages. Possibly busy chatting to captain morgans or watching crap on tv just now. I am easily distracted "
You should be busy with messages lol but tv is a devil xx |
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"Yeah if you don't like delete the message or block the whole don't read / read the mark unread or left read open is a bit confusing lol
If i leave a message as "read", it is my full intention to reply (will delete it otherwise).
But then stuff comes up, I'll get to it later, i forget, come across it again a few weeks later, decide it's too late to reply and delete. Don't mean to confuse anyone
Fully appreciate that as women are so busy with messages compared to guys hence why it's confusing for us there such little interaction xx
Not really busy with messages. Possibly busy chatting to captain morgans or watching crap on tv just now. I am easily distracted "
Oh, and sometimes real life gets in the way as well  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah if you don't like delete the message or block the whole don't read / read the mark unread or left read open is a bit confusing lol
If i leave a message as "read", it is my full intention to reply (will delete it otherwise).
But then stuff comes up, I'll get to it later, i forget, come across it again a few weeks later, decide it's too late to reply and delete. Don't mean to confuse anyone
Fully appreciate that as women are so busy with messages compared to guys hence why it's confusing for us there such little interaction xx
Not really busy with messages. Possibly busy chatting to captain morgans or watching crap on tv just now. I am easily distracted
Oh, and sometimes real life gets in the way as well "
Can I be real life to you xx |
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"Yeah if you don't like delete the message or block the whole don't read / read the mark unread or left read open is a bit confusing lol
If i leave a message as "read", it is my full intention to reply (will delete it otherwise).
But then stuff comes up, I'll get to it later, i forget, come across it again a few weeks later, decide it's too late to reply and delete. Don't mean to confuse anyone
Fully appreciate that as women are so busy with messages compared to guys hence why it's confusing for us there such little interaction xx
Not really busy with messages. Possibly busy chatting to captain morgans or watching crap on tv just now. I am easily distracted
Oh, and sometimes real life gets in the way as well
Can I be real life to you xx"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So IF I have this right... a man is saying women should block and delete if we aren’t interested???
Yet there an inordinate amount of threads saying the opposite???
Thing is it’s really simple, if someone (female or male) doesn’t answer a message, deletes, blocks or any other non response... guess what? They ARE NOT INTERESTED, there’s nothing to be confused about. It even says it in the site rules.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We think this is what op meant all I will say is a unread mail is con fusing let alone the read then unreadd ones lol "
If it’s unread then there’s no interest either, not in a lot of cases anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We think this is what op meant all I will say is a unread mail is con fusing let alone the read then unreadd ones lol
If it’s unread then there’s no interest either, not in a lot of cases anyway. "
If it's unread then there not seen how about read N mark unread or ignore etc |
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Alternatively, men could actually take the time to read profiles, & carefully consider whether they truly match what the woman/couple are looking for, BEFORE sending a well thought out, courteous & interesting message. That might actually result in them getting some replies & also reduce the number of forum posts complaining about the standard of messages.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope take an unread message as a not interest either as prob saw the profile looked and thought nope not interested."
Yep this, plus you can often see the gist of the message, especially if it’s one like “hi” “how are you” (fancy a... )”
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"Alternatively, men could actually take the time to read profiles, & carefully consider whether they truly match what the woman/couple are looking for, BEFORE sending a well thought out, courteous & interesting message. That might actually result in them getting some replies & also reduce the number of forum posts complaining about the standard of messages.
K "
This ^^
And don't be a pest will help as well x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I see someone I want to get to know better I send them a message, if I don't get a reply, I make a note on the profile that they aren't interested and just move on.
Why is that difficult? |
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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago
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"I’m going to make some dinner. Forums are doing my head in. I’ll see if I can rustle up some common sense and distribute freely.
That would be nice "
It was a marina carbonara white wine mix up with spaghetti. Made sense to my tummy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m going to make some dinner. Forums are doing my head in. I’ll see if I can rustle up some common sense and distribute freely.
That would be nice
It was a marina carbonara white wine mix up with spaghetti. Made sense to my tummy. "
ooofty sounds lush  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I see someone I want to get to know better I send them a message, if I don't get a reply, I make a note on the profile that they aren't interested and just move on.
Why is that difficult?"
It's not - but you are rare  |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
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"I’m going to make some dinner. Forums are doing my head in. I’ll see if I can rustle up some common sense and distribute freely.
That would be nice
It was a marina carbonara white wine mix up with spaghetti. Made sense to my tummy. "
Garlic bread with that? |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
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This post is like Boris’s ‘Stay aware’ slogan. Meaningless and pointless.
I have unread messages because Fab isn’t always a priority. As others have said guys complain if we don’t respond, block or delete their messages or leave messages read but unanswered.
I’m sure everyone has books they’ve bought but haven’t read or they’ve started them but not finished them. DIY projects in the planning or in progress. Fab is no different. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This post is like Boris’s ‘Stay aware’ slogan. Meaningless and pointless.
I have unread messages because Fab isn’t always a priority. As others have said guys complain if we don’t respond, block or delete their messages or leave messages read but unanswered.
I’m sure everyone has books they’ve bought but haven’t read or they’ve started them but not finished them. DIY projects in the planning or in progress. Fab is no different. "
This
If fab is anyone's top priority you're needing to reprioritise your priorities.
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"This post is like Boris’s ‘Stay aware’ slogan. Meaningless and pointless.
I have unread messages because Fab isn’t always a priority. As others have said guys complain if we don’t respond, block or delete their messages or leave messages read but unanswered.
I’m sure everyone has books they’ve bought but haven’t read or they’ve started them but not finished them. DIY projects in the planning or in progress. Fab is no different. "
Completely agree with this |
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"Alternatively, men could actually take the time to read profiles, & carefully consider whether they truly match what the woman/couple are looking for, BEFORE sending a well thought out, courteous & interesting message. That might actually result in them getting some replies & also reduce the number of forum posts complaining about the standard of messages.
K "
*high five* |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If I see someone I want to get to know better I send them a message, if I don't get a reply, I make a note on the profile that they aren't interested and just move on.
Why is that difficult?
It's not - but you are rare "
Well that's the first time I've been called that |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If I see someone I want to get to know better I send them a message, if I don't get a reply, I make a note on the profile that they aren't interested and just move on.
Why is that difficult?
It's not - but you are rare
Well that's the first time I've been called that "
There had to be one out there |
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What I'm reading here is alot of answers to a question that was never asked.
fems outnumber men especially in scotland forums or maybe they are just more "vocal".
Had this been a post about grrrrr cock pics slay the men it would have stayed on the original topic and slated any guy with a dick pic it seems daring to point out a obnoxious trait some fems have will not be tolerated |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What I'm reading here is alot of answers to a question that was never asked.
fems outnumber men especially in scotland forums or maybe they are just more "vocal".
Had this been a post about grrrrr cock pics slay the men it would have stayed on the original topic and slated any guy with a dick pic it seems daring to point out a obnoxious trait some fems have will not be tolerated "
But it wasn’t about that but there’s lots out there |
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