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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We are a couple that has only had 1 social in the past unfortunately. Quick coffee and a chat, away we went.
We are looking for a couple in Scotland to chat too and hopefully arrange a night away to a hotel or log cabin etc
So we can all have drinks, some dinner and a chat with some light fun if everyone agrees. Preferably non pushy couple who can have a laugh and relax with us both.
Is this something that happens with any others?
Just a question we thought we would ask as everyone has different views and ways of working.
Thanks everyone
Jess xx
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I'd say without sounding old and hardened lol when myself and hubby meet cpls dinner is not a thing we are comfortable with.a drink in a bar then back to a hotel sounds great but a whole evening with dinner and drinks no.a cabin would defo be a no as it's a lot of pressure staying overnight and next morning what if things didnt go to plan as in playing? and light play I'd advertise as soft swap play incase any wires get crossed.
But as I said that's just us loads of cpls are happy to have a more night out meet so good luck  |
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"We are a couple that has only had 1 social in the past unfortunately. Quick coffee and a chat, away we went.
We are looking for a couple in Scotland to chat too and hopefully arrange a night away to a hotel or log cabin etc
So we can all have drinks, some dinner and a chat with some light fun if everyone agrees. Preferably non pushy couple who can have a laugh and relax with us both.
Is this something that happens with any others?
Just a question we thought we would ask as everyone has different views and ways of working.
Thanks everyone
Jess xx
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I only meet men but these are the nights i enjoy most. Always have a social meet first though just to make sure the attraction is there. |
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"I'd say without sounding old and hardened lol when myself and hubby meet cpls dinner is not a thing we are comfortable with.a drink in a bar then back to a hotel sounds great but a whole evening with dinner and drinks no.a cabin would defo be a no as it's a lot of pressure staying overnight and next morning what if things didnt go to plan as in playing? and light play I'd advertise as soft swap play incase any wires get crossed.
But as I said that's just us loads of cpls are happy to have a more night out meet so good luck "
Yeah that’s very true. As you can probably tell we are new to it and didn’t know what some people did and was hoping for other people thoughts. Yes we would probably skip the dinner and also the log cabin.
Stick with drinks and a social with “soft play”  thanks again xxx
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"We are a couple that has only had 1 social in the past unfortunately. Quick coffee and a chat, away we went.
We are looking for a couple in Scotland to chat too and hopefully arrange a night away to a hotel or log cabin etc
So we can all have drinks, some dinner and a chat with some light fun if everyone agrees. Preferably non pushy couple who can have a laugh and relax with us both.
Is this something that happens with any others?
Just a question we thought we would ask as everyone has different views and ways of working.
Thanks everyone
Jess xx
I only meet men but these are the nights i enjoy most. Always have a social meet first though just to make sure the attraction is there."
Yeah we aren’t the type of couple who enjoy a quick hook up and fun. We prefer to get to know who we are meeting socially and through chat on here 
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I think that’s something you will enjoy once you build the connection with another couple over time, sounds like you will have fun
Make sure you get one with a hot tub, we had a weekend away last year complete with the hot tub, was brill! |
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"We are a couple that has only had 1 social in the past unfortunately. Quick coffee and a chat, away we went.
We are looking for a couple in Scotland to chat too and hopefully arrange a night away to a hotel or log cabin etc
So we can all have drinks, some dinner and a chat with some light fun if everyone agrees. Preferably non pushy couple who can have a laugh and relax with us both.
Is this something that happens with any others?
Just a question we thought we would ask as everyone has different views and ways of working.
Thanks everyone
Jess xx
I only meet men but these are the nights i enjoy most. Always have a social meet first though just to make sure the attraction is there.
Yeah we aren’t the type of couple who enjoy a quick hook up and fun. We prefer to get to know who we are meeting socially and through chat on here
Jess xx"
lol we dont do anything quick lol  |
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"I think that’s something you will enjoy once you build the connection with another couple over time, sounds like you will have fun
Make sure you get one with a hot tub, we had a weekend away last year complete with the hot tub, was brill!"
Sounds great where about if you don’t mind us asking xx
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By *andsCouple
over a year ago
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Hi guys I’ve read your post and profile and not sure what exactly you are looking for? Is it more just friends to socialise with? You mentioned soft swing in a post above but you say you are not interested in “sucking” so I’m failing to see what’s in it for the male half of the couple you meet unless it’s just to pleasure you. For us as a couple we would not want to go away for the night with someone we meet on here. |
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We have managed to form a lovely circle of friends, but we are all into the same kind of thing. As others have said on this post, I am struggling to see what you both want, your profile is off putting. We wouldn't invest time in this kind of thing because it seems it's all on your say so, but good luck and I hope you find what you are looking for |
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"We have managed to form a lovely circle of friends, but we are all into the same kind of thing. As others have said on this post, I am struggling to see what you both want, your profile is off putting. We wouldn't invest time in this kind of thing because it seems it's all on your say so, but good luck and I hope you find what you are looking for "
Agree very off putting profile not inviting at all... |
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