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Well because of working away and not being that appealing to anyone on here and being honest with girls on tinder etc what I'm looking for is a casual thing , it's now came to my attention that I'm well over a year .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Almost three years was my longest. After I split with my wife. I never had interest in anything for a long time. She took the kids and I never seen them for over four years. So sex was not that important when everything was taken away. Still the old boy is firing on all cylinders now. Talk about making up for lost time. Plus I would say am better than I was back then lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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About 4yrs. The last couple of years of my marriage and a couple of years after it had ended. I had other things going on in my life and sex definitely wasn’t a priority. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"About 4yrs. The last couple of years of my marriage and a couple of years after it had ended. I had other things going on in my life and sex definitely wasn’t a priority. "
We all have been there. Hope your enjoying life more now X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No idea how much time but definitely spent some long periods using it as a crutch, sex is something that means so many things and can help or hinder our life’s, caused by sometimes no feelings involved or a lot of feelings involved |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"About 4yrs. The last couple of years of my marriage and a couple of years after it had ended. I had other things going on in my life and sex definitely wasn’t a priority. "
Think that sums me up |
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By *ee-YinWoman
over a year ago
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I was 8 months last May till January. My relationship ended and For a wee while I wasn't that bothered.
Doing it through choice is fine, not gonna lie lockdown is hard.... Only been 7 weeks but because you know you can't meet you want it more. Staying safe tho
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About 18 months. Spent the time sailing around single handed after leaving the Army. Head was messed up so lack of sex just wasn't an issue. But the release when I finally did get round to it was unique. |
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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago
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"I was 8 months last May till January. My relationship ended and For a wee while I wasn't that bothered.
Doing it through choice is fine, not gonna lie lockdown is hard.... Only been 7 weeks but because you know you can't meet you want it more. Staying safe tho
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Couldn’t have expressed the frustration better.
Mine was nearly 2 and a half years. |
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About 5 years after marriage break up as my kids were young so I was kept busy and to be honest I didn’t enjoy my sex life during my marriage So didn’t miss it
Thankfully I have a friend who showed me how much fun sex can be and well here I am  |
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wife decided in 2012 that I kept pestering her for sex too often(1 or 2 times a month) and when she was wanting it again she would let me know … still waiting ! her friend made a comment to her one night saying if your not giving him it someone else will.
never cheated or had intentions to since we got together in the early 1990s,but met one or 2 people since 2015 (which she doesn't know about) she gets into bed faces away from me and if I try to cuddle into her and touch her breasts or anywhere below the waist she changes position to block any chance of a feel |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Both have a very good marriage and have been together 30 yrs and our sex life is fantastic but I can only think about times when we both had been in hospital so it’s prob only been about 4 weeks without sex maybe twice in all these years !!! |
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"wife decided in 2012 that I kept pestering her for sex too often(1 or 2 times a month) and when she was wanting it again she would let me know … still waiting ! her friend made a comment to her one night saying if your not giving him it someone else will.
never cheated or had intentions to since we got together in the early 1990s,but met one or 2 people since 2015 (which she doesn't know about) she gets into bed faces away from me and if I try to cuddle into her and touch her breasts or anywhere below the waist she changes position to block any chance of a feel "
I know that situation. She won't even talk about it. |
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"Why is it when people get married the sex dries up.you would think it's the other way around"
we have been sexually active all our days and played as a couple for a long time.
It’s only in the last year that things have sloe
We’d down a bit.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is it when people get married the sex dries up.you would think it's the other way around"
25yrs together...(not married mind you) and the head board still takes a doin'  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is it when people get married the sex dries up.you would think it's the other way around
25yrs together...(not married mind you) and the head board still takes a doin' "
MFI headboard packs a punch |
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I haven't counted until now, but 6 months whilst married is an unwanted record. 
Worth it though 
