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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi folks, first post (m anyway, think f has been putting herself any about)
Anyway, daft question probably, but why do people chat, cam, set up a meet, and then at the last min block you? Wtf is the point of that, nerves, second thoughts..or just,plain taking the piss. Could understand if it was nerves or second thoughts, but why not just say, it isn't a problem to speak your mind, I'd rather that than just being blocked.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think you hit the nail on the head. Be it nerves or second thought, doesn't mean they should just block you at the the very least you'd expect honesty..... Or at least a crappy excuse!! Lol
Just our thoughts on the whole shamolie  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nowt as queer as folk and it's them that have the problem not u, don't beat yourself up about it and u just gotta take the good with the bad, its unfortunate but thats fab for u. There is good out there, u just gotta find it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We had a cracker two weeks ago, guy lists on his profile a fantasy of his was a mmf which we do more than any other swinging fun and wanted to have pics and vids taken too but not for him to keep which is another thing we like.
So emailed him, he seemed nice enough, really up for it. Babysitter was arranged and paid for, kids away, we got some wine and kopparberg in and waited....and waited....and waited.... From the day we arranged it he didn't log back in. Thankfully we hadn't gave him the address or anything.
Two days ago we got an email from him saying hi and did we want to meet as he thought our profile was good..idiot! Apparently he got 'cold feet' but some consideration for others seemed to have went out the window!! Comes as part of the lifestyle I guess xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We had a cracker two weeks ago, guy lists on his profile a fantasy of his was a mmf which we do more than any other swinging fun and wanted to have pics and vids taken too but not for him to keep which is another thing we like.
So emailed him, he seemed nice enough, really up for it. Babysitter was arranged and paid for, kids away, we got some wine and kopparberg in and waited....and waited....and waited.... From the day we arranged it he didn't log back in. Thankfully we hadn't gave him the address or anything.
Two days ago we got an email from him saying hi and did we want to meet as he thought our profile was good..idiot! Apparently he got 'cold feet' but some consideration for others seemed to have went out the window!! Comes as part of the lifestyle I guess xx"
 spoils it for us vanillas ,they should be banned from site to give us genuine ones a chance. |
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I had exactly the same experience. Lady asked me if I would take photographs of her gangbang. I said yes and got all my gear ready then she doesn't log back in to give me the address. So sat about all night waiting to see if she logged in and also left my phone number. She logged in the following day and asked if I would go up that night to photograph her using her toys. Again I agreed and again she never logged back in!! Another night wasted.
I agreed to meet another lady who wanted some oral then she doesn't phone or log in so, once again, I'm sitting around wasting my time.
If I say I will be somewhere then I will attend. I know how frustrating it is with time wasters and would never do that to anyone. |
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By *uttyMan
over a year ago
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"We had a cracker two weeks ago, guy lists on his profile a fantasy of his was a mmf which we do more than any other swinging fun and wanted to have pics and vids taken too but not for him to keep which is another thing we like.
So emailed him, he seemed nice enough, really up for it. Babysitter was arranged and paid for, kids away, we got some wine and kopparberg in and waited....and waited....and waited.... From the day we arranged it he didn't log back in. Thankfully we hadn't gave him the address or anything.
Two days ago we got an email from him saying hi and did we want to meet as he thought our profile was good..idiot! Apparently he got 'cold feet' but some consideration for others seemed to have went out the window!! Comes as part of the lifestyle I guess xx"
Damn I need to loose a cpl of years!!
My feet are always warm lol
 
But I agree, it's one of the many hazards of the lifestyle. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I once had a meet arranged in Perth, I paid the hotel and travelled considerable distance, having taken time off work and stopped off to buy some nice provisions.. wine etc.. Everything was going swimmingly and then I get a message from the girl saying her car's broken down but she's waiting for AA and wont be delayed that long... then another saying she's by the roadside waiting for them.. then another.. so I get suspicious and ask where she's broken down... and she mentions a place geographically opposed to where she should be.. miles in wrong direction. Failed meet and more lies ensued. I was rather annoyed to say the least but it's the one and only bad experience I've had fortunately! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well I had two failed meets this week and been blocked by them. Why? As has been said before why not just say no instead of folk going to trouble getting time off and ending up being made to look a fool. I for one would never do such a thing. As its not nice being done to yourself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is one of the most annoying thing being mucked about,but as they say u have to take the good with the bad,
Just the bad are such sad fuckers and have no idea what they are missing,
Think there should set up a timewaster site, then that way they can waste each other time instead of ours,
Wow glad I got that off my chest(f half ) |
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"Aye rite u wiz wiv uz doon eh park gettin mad wae it oan buckie last nite ya bas
I'm a better class of jakie you know, only the finest port for me "
Aw sorri doll goat ye confused wiv sum uva burd. Musta bin yer doppo......dopl......dopulgang....look a lyk |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi folks, first post (m anyway, think f has been putting herself any about)
Anyway, daft question probably, but why do people chat, cam, set up a meet, and then at the last min block you? Wtf is the point of that, nerves, second thoughts..or just,plain taking the piss. Could understand if it was nerves or second thoughts, but why not just say, it isn't a problem to speak your mind, I'd rather that than just being blocked.
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I'd call it good old complete lack of MANNERS and any kind of respect for other people. As poster say's whats wrong with saying ..second thoughts , or nerves (especially if it's first meet) ..wee all had to start somewhere and can well remember what those nerves can be like , most like us would fully understand.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yikes...I was en route to a meet a couple of weeks ago. Told the guy I was on my way, having dropped my daughter off at her friends (miles in the opposite direction) and pop..I hit the kerb and got a puncture. My car make doesn’t carry spares and I waited three hours for a breakdown guy. My fab meet was clearly sceptical, maybe even pissed off at me.....but Im proof it happens. He was Ok though, he got a last minute replacement for me - so cheers mate for that lol! I almost got a meet with a hot RAC guy but thought better off it on the basis his van didn’t look that enticing…call me fussy lol!
But I think it’s an affliction of Fab, that we are all let down from time to time, and people on here are no different to real life and some would rather avoid conflict. Also too many plans are made with a horny head on! Fab should start issuing a ‘contract of meet’ documentation and those who flout it should be put in the stalks at the next social!! Amelie x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thin its part of human nature and the nature of this site or activities, seems to happen to quite a few folk getting let down. I think some are full of it when they chat because they cannot be seen, but its pretty poor if you arrange to meet and don't turn up. In some ways it may be better to have chat over a coffee, tea whatever first then see what happens for the next time, that way they can at least gauge what sort of person you are to start with. |
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