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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So is this a good move or not.
How many has ended up with a reg fuck buddy in work
Iv had it once and it worked well for us. We would have our fun where and when and had our own separate lives outside of work. anyone else |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have had a few fb's I worked with. Some ended well. Some didn't. One I am still very good friends with 5 years on. Depends on the individual situation I guess.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I ended up living with my boss for 25yrs. Seemed like a good idea at the time but did not work our well."
I dont think fuck buddy in work kinda fits with your situation of living with someone for 25 years. Whether you worked with him or not .  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fucked one of my lecturers when I was a student that was just awkward after it lol, I felt like a ihad to get other lecturers to mark my work so made sure and completed everything on his days off, and one former work colleague was great till the rest of the boys sussed (Mr shy and quiet became a puppy at my heelsand made it super obvious) and then it also got awkward lol especially when I was in charge of the cells   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not a reg FB but had a fumble and a finger  ....things were a bit awkward afterwards as they were not as discreet as I had first thought.
So generally not a good idea I think. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Fucked one of my lecturers when I was a student that was just awkward after it lol, I felt like a ihad to get other lecturers to mark my work so made sure and completed everything on his days off, and one former work colleague was great till the rest of the boys sussed (Mr shy and quiet became a puppy at my heelsand made it super obvious) and then it also got awkward lol especially when I was in charge of the cells "
Naughty. How did u end up fucking lecture x |
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"You don't screw the crew. "
Though I did have a great FWB relationship with the physio at the rugby club I played for. Though she was also shagging st least one other player.
She was hot and we had a good time. I (like to) think that she was more gutted about it ending than I was. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fucked one of my lecturers when I was a student that was just awkward after it lol, I felt like a ihad to get other lecturers to mark my work so made sure and completed everything on his days off, and one former work colleague was great till the rest of the boys sussed (Mr shy and quiet became a puppy at my heelsand made it super obvious) and then it also got awkward lol especially when I was in charge of the cells
Naughty. How did u end up fucking lecture x"
Well my long term bf and I had split up and I was feeling a bit miserable and sorry for myself and I got a fb notification and it was a message from my lecturer, he was like I've sent you a friends request you can have a quick nosey at my profile(the guys in class had been trying to find him on fb to find embarrassing pics) so I accepted he asked what I was doing I said not alot I've been dumped dby email so I'm going to head to my pals later and go on it cause apparently the best way to get over one guy is get under another,, his reply oh well if that's what you fancy doing why don't you just swing by my place and let me volunteer to cheer you up lol so I did lol and then got back with my bf a week later lol then when we split up a second time I'd already left college by then but repeated it didn't fancy him at all in fact he wasn't my type but it sorted me out at the time lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Waaahhhaaa yup and it was fucking great lol
But then I got older and the moral compass isn't as wavering as it once was lol "
Did he manage to keep his job? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Waaahhhaaa yup and it was fucking great lol
But then I got older and the moral compass isn't as wavering as it once was lol
Did he manage to keep his job?"
Yeah tbh they frown more upon older lecturers with younger students if they get found out but we weren't far off the same age |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Waaahhhaaa yup and it was fucking great lol
But then I got older and the moral compass isn't as wavering as it once was lol
Did he manage to keep his job?
Yeah tbh they frown more upon older lecturers with younger students if they get found out but we weren't far off the same age "
I'm pretty sure it's never really shrugged off
He sounds like he wasn't that fussed about having professional integrity |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I work in the coperate world where everyone can read upside down and would throw under the bus before they would give you a nod in the desert . I only sleep with people I trust and like . Other than that don't bite the hand that feeds you ?? |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
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I’ve never played with a colleague*. I did work with someone who did play with a colleague and it went horribly wrong. They were found out when they accidentally set off the decontamination shower in a lab. (I worked in a university at the time). His wife also worked in the uni so it was a very awkward situation all round.
* A Fab friend now works in the same organisation that I now work with so technically I have played with a colleague
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Not a fuck buddy but was very good friends with a female colleague in my part time student job and thought that's all it was. We hung out outside work just the 2 of us totally innocent.
She had a boyfriend so never thought of anything like that or seen her that way. One day she told me she liked me and things escalated.
Before I knew it I was in love with her. A few things happened and got to the point where I wanted a relationship but didn't want to push her to split up with her boyfriend as never thought I'd be that guy, so basically stopped seeing her outside of work as I didn't trust myself to just be friends or knock her back if/when she tried it on.
Not proud of it. But at the same time definitely one that got away.
Was perfectly civil in work till I moved on though never an issue. Suppose its unique in each situation. Tread carefully.. |
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"I ended up living with my boss for 25yrs. Seemed like a good idea at the time but did not work our well.
I dont think fuck buddy in work kinda fits with your situation of living with someone for 25 years. Whether you worked with him or not . "
Well i was a fuck buddy for 18months before i lived with him so guessing it does |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This has been discussed before I'm sure
However
I used to meet my gaffer for sex. She would allocate me shifts just to fuck her.
Met at our homes a few times.
The whole boss worker thing just made it hotter.
Till she was sacked :-\ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So is this a good move or not.
How many has ended up with a reg fuck buddy in work
Iv had it once and it worked well for us. We would have our fun where and when and had our own separate lives outside of work. anyone else "
I had a thing with a few punters in the bar I worked in then ended up seeing one of the staff was fun while it lasted but on the whole Fwb in work situation dont workout to well I've found out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hooked up with my boss on a night out....wild passionate affair ensued... unbelievably good sex...what turned out to be a little fun developed into something stronger which neither of us planned or really wanted...so we stopped....remained friends...still chat regular and sometimes hook up (for old times sake lol) - don't work together anymore which makes it easier I think |
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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago
outside your bedroom window ;-) |
Is this not a context thing, if your in a workplace of 500 would it be awkward as a workplace of 3. If two people fancy a knee shake or a fling, then if you are going to get into it, speak about what the potential impact will be. If both are comfortable then why not.
I've had a few flings with work colleagues and fellow students over the years, it's never been a problem and the ground rules have always been spoken about before anything happens.
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Had a great thing going on with my line manager, on and off for roughly six years, never at work though and was seeing one of the girls from the canteen for around eighteen months too, was brill having extra pudding  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Flirted with a couple inc sending naughty pics and texts but only ever had 1 fling. Definitely wouldn’t do it again she became too intense what we agreed would only be a bit of fun she began to push for more, defined made it uncomfortable at work so well and truly fingers burnt. |
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