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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I just want to ask people’s honest opinions because maybe I’ve been a bit of a snowflake and took offence...
This is fab after all...
Is it normal to regularly meet more than one person on here at the one time, people have lives other than fab so meeting can be pretty difficult, so it might be like even once a month...
so how many is too many, or is this the new form of relationship game where you can only meet 1 person and then game over or your tarred as a slut!
Oh and does this apply to guys and girls or is it just girls  |
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"I just want to ask people’s honest opinions because maybe I’ve been a bit of a snowflake and took offence...
This is fab after all...
Is it normal to regularly meet more than one person on here at the one time, people have lives other than fab so meeting can be pretty difficult, so it might be like even once a month...
so how many is too many, or is this the new form of relationship game where you can only meet 1 person and then game over or your tarred as a slut!
Oh and does this apply to guys and girls or is it just girls "
Yes its normal it why most joined the site to meet and have fun with other members .
some like something regular some like meeting several people just do what suits you & dont let others tell you otherwise  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What's normal is what works for you....and that won't be someone else's normal.
And yeah, women are judged more harshly on here I think..most often by other women! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I just want to ask people’s honest opinions because maybe I’ve been a bit of a snowflake and took offence...
This is fab after all...
Is it normal to regularly meet more than one person on here at the one time, people have lives other than fab so meeting can be pretty difficult, so it might be like even once a month...
so how many is too many, or is this the new form of relationship game where you can only meet 1 person and then game over or your tarred as a slut!
Oh and does this apply to guys and girls or is it just girls Yes its normal it why most joined the site to meet and have fun with other members .
some like something regular some like meeting several people just do what suits you & dont let others tell you otherwise "
Well because I’ve met 3 diff people ‘regularly’ this year this guy went totally in on me, him and his fwb (because he’s married) went right in and made out I was the worst person on the planet, so I just wanted to ask what the appropriate number of people are we allowed to meet ffs without being judged |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So a guy who's fucking about gets to take the moral high ground?
Tell him to ram it."
Exactly but it still makes me feel like shit, like am I actually in the wrong, mean I say regular I’ve met one of them twice, one 3 times and one maybe 5 or 6 times... this year! |
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"I just want to ask people’s honest opinions because maybe I’ve been a bit of a snowflake and took offence...
This is fab after all...
Is it normal to regularly meet more than one person on here at the one time, people have lives other than fab so meeting can be pretty difficult, so it might be like even once a month...
so how many is too many, or is this the new form of relationship game where you can only meet 1 person and then game over or your tarred as a slut!
Oh and does this apply to guys and girls or is it just girls Yes its normal it why most joined the site to meet and have fun with other members .
some like something regular some like meeting several people just do what suits you & dont let others tell you otherwise
Well because I’ve met 3 diff people ‘regularly’ this year this guy went totally in on me, him and his fwb (because he’s married) went right in and made out I was the worst person on the planet, so I just wanted to ask what the appropriate number of people are we allowed to meet ffs without being judged "
Hes married and hes judging you !
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"So a guy who's fucking about gets to take the moral high ground?
Tell him to ram it.
Exactly but it still makes me feel like shit, like am I actually in the wrong, mean I say regular I’ve met one of them twice, one 3 times and one maybe 5 or 6 times... this year! "
Tell him to F off then block him. Anyone who makes you feel shit should not be in your life. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So a guy who's fucking about gets to take the moral high ground?
Tell him to ram it.
Exactly but it still makes me feel like shit, like am I actually in the wrong, mean I say regular I’ve met one of them twice, one 3 times and one maybe 5 or 6 times... this year!
Tell him to F off then block him. Anyone who makes you feel shit should not be in your life."
Both of them blocked me anyway, saved me the hassle, but I still took offence x |
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"So a guy who's fucking about gets to take the moral high ground?
Tell him to ram it.
Exactly but it still makes me feel like shit, like am I actually in the wrong, mean I say regular I’ve met one of them twice, one 3 times and one maybe 5 or 6 times... this year!
Tell him to F off then block him. Anyone who makes you feel shit should not be in your life.
Both of them blocked me anyway, saved me the hassle, but I still took offence x"
Of course but try not let it. Fab should be fun and relaxed and nobody should spoil it for you.x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So a guy who's fucking about gets to take the moral high ground?
Tell him to ram it.
Exactly but it still makes me feel like shit, like am I actually in the wrong, mean I say regular I’ve met one of them twice, one 3 times and one maybe 5 or 6 times... this year!
Tell him to F off then block him. Anyone who makes you feel shit should not be in your life.
Both of them blocked me anyway, saved me the hassle, but I still took offence x
Of course but try not let it. Fab should be fun and relaxed and nobody should spoil it for you.x"
Need to try learn then lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just want to ask people’s honest opinions because maybe I’ve been a bit of a snowflake and took offence...
This is fab after all...
Is it normal to regularly meet more than one person on here at the one time, people have lives other than fab so meeting can be pretty difficult, so it might be like even once a month...
so how many is too many, or is this the new form of relationship game where you can only meet 1 person and then game over or your tarred as a slut!
Oh and does this apply to guys and girls or is it just girls "
Your being a bit of a snowflake yes,
Fab is no place for anyone that can't stand up to a bit of abuse from people. Obviously it's not acceptable but it happens on a daily basis on Fab so you need to toughen up or ship out. As already been said, tell him to fuck off , cut him out your circle of friends and use Fab any way that suits you and that includes who you meet and how often you want to meet them.
Hoping you take this advice and stay on Fab but mostly just do what makes you happiest.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In the past I'd had at most 4 guys at the one time that I would see fairly regualry but jealousy did become an issue, the whole reason I didn't just meet one person is the risk of getting too attached and I defo wasn't looking for a relationship, other folk don't really want regular some prefer never meeting the same person twice |
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over a year ago
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"In the past I'd had at most 4 guys at the one time that I would see fairly regualry but jealousy did become an issue, the whole reason I didn't just meet one person is the risk of getting too attached and I defo wasn't looking for a relationship, other folk don't really want regular some prefer never meeting the same person twice "
Glad it’s not just me then, I prefer to meet the same people because I’m so nervous and shy xx |
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By *ctoboyMan
over a year ago
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Just meet who you are comfortable meeting and have yourself some fun. Remember its your choice who you decide to meet and no one else's.
Always remember NO means No hunni !!!!
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By *un44Man
over a year ago
GLASGOW |
"So a guy who's fucking about gets to take the moral high ground?
Tell him to ram it.
Exactly but it still makes me feel like shit, like am I actually in the wrong, mean I say regular I’ve met one of them twice, one 3 times and one maybe 5 or 6 times... this year!
Tell him to F off then block him. Anyone who makes you feel shit should not be in your life."
Exactly this ....actually going to take this advice and applying it to a few people I know.....but not for long now. |
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"I just want to ask people’s honest opinions because maybe I’ve been a bit of a snowflake and took offence...
This is fab after all...
Is it normal to regularly meet more than one person on here at the one time, people have lives other than fab so meeting can be pretty difficult, so it might be like even once a month...
so how many is too many, or is this the new form of relationship game where you can only meet 1 person and then game over or your tarred as a slut!
Oh and does this apply to guys and girls or is it just girls Yes its normal it why most joined the site to meet and have fun with other members .
some like something regular some like meeting several people just do what suits you & dont let others tell you otherwise
Well because I’ve met 3 diff people ‘regularly’ this year this guy went totally in on me, him and his fwb (because he’s married) went right in and made out I was the worst person on the planet, so I just wanted to ask what the appropriate number of people are we allowed to meet ffs without being judged "
Whatever number you choose to meet jess  |
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"Your being a bit of a snowflake yes,
Fab is no place for anyone that can't stand up to a bit of abuse from people. Obviously it's not acceptable but it happens on a daily basis on Fab so you need to toughen up or ship out"
No one should should put up with abuse nor be told to ship out.
Passive aggressive pish |
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Both of them blocked me anyway, saved me the hassle, but I still took offence x"
Sounds like they deserve each other.
Obviously their issue; not yours. Forget about it and move on.
It's not like his opinion of you matters or influences what others think of you. |
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By *hav02Man
over a year ago
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It's whatever works for you. We're all here to have fun... If the other person doesn't like it, then it's their loss. Cut them out and move on. Don't over think things ....
There's plenty decent people on here, look around and you'll find another... |
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This is not a dress rehearsal. You get one shot at life. So live your life free of worry and enjoy yourself.
People are quick to judge but hey they are only human...
Move on and ((((Call me sometime))))
C xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As already been said, tell him to fuck off , cut him out your circle of friends and use Fab any way that suits you and that includes who you meet and how often you want to meet them.
Hoping you take this advice and stay on Fab but mostly just do what makes you happiest.
passive aggressive pish "
Sorry what's passive aggressive about my post. ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just want to ask people’s honest opinions because maybe I’ve been a bit of a snowflake and took offence...
This is fab after all...
Is it normal to regularly meet more than one person on here at the one time, people have lives other than fab so meeting can be pretty difficult, so it might be like even once a month...
so how many is too many, or is this the new form of relationship game where you can only meet 1 person and then game over or your tarred as a slut!
Oh and does this apply to guys and girls or is it just girls Yes its normal it why most joined the site to meet and have fun with other members .
some like something regular some like meeting several people just do what suits you & dont let others tell you otherwise
Well because I’ve met 3 diff people ‘regularly’ this year this guy went totally in on me, him and his fwb (because he’s married) went right in and made out I was the worst person on the planet, so I just wanted to ask what the appropriate number of people are we allowed to meet ffs without being judged Hes married and hes judging you !
sounds like jealousy because he cant meet freely like you "
meet as many as you like it your life and don't let people get you down.. And the old saying sticks and stones will break my bones But names will neva hurt me... Keep safe and happy fabbing |
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It's fab if you want to meet everyone or no one it's up to you.
The slut thing is a matter in your own head, I personally think that I am a slut. Meaning to me that I love sex with lots of different people. I'm happy with that and have no problem with it.
PS I am the male have of this couple, I also think that my partner is a slut and I love her all the more for it |
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"I just want to ask people’s honest opinions because maybe I’ve been a bit of a snowflake and took offence...
This is fab after all...
Is it normal to regularly meet more than one person on here at the one time, people have lives other than fab so meeting can be pretty difficult, so it might be like even once a month...
so how many is too many, or is this the new form of relationship game where you can only meet 1 person and then game over or your tarred as a slut!
Oh and does this apply to guys and girls or is it just girls Yes its normal it why most joined the site to meet and have fun with other members .
some like something regular some like meeting several people just do what suits you & dont let others tell you otherwise
Well because I’ve met 3 diff people ‘regularly’ this year this guy went totally in on me, him and his fwb (because he’s married) went right in and made out I was the worst person on the planet, so I just wanted to ask what the appropriate number of people are we allowed to meet ffs without being judged "
He's the one with the problem not you xx |
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"Sorry what's passive aggressive about my post. ?"
Your being a bit of a snowflake yes,
Fab is no place for anyone that can't stand up to a bit of abuse from people. Obviously it's not acceptable but it happens on a daily basis on Fab so you need to toughen up or ship out.
This is the part of your post you selectively failed to quote and address.
Why is that ? |
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Your life
Your body
Your rules
Your choices
Nobody has the right to judge you on something that ultimately has literally no effect on their life. We’ve all had it, I just brush it off and move along but understand that it’s more difficult for some to do that. Was it someone you’d brushed off? Cos it sounds like someone being arsey cos it’s not the Insta shag site they think their entitled to.
Smile, and move on Jess x |
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Who you do or do not have sex with is nobody's business other that yours. It's pretty much all been covered by the posts above but I'd add some people come on here (Most males) thinking all they have to do is say "Hi" or drop a PM with a photo of their dick and you women will be gagging to have sex with them.
That is not the case as it is and always should be free choice. For ex ample if I email a lady on here and that email is deleted or not answered I don't get butt hurt I accept its choice. Like wise, As a straight guy, I don't get pissed off if a Gay or TS man looks at my profile. It's just not for me but I don't go blocking or abusing anyone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Your being a bit of a snowflake yes,
Fab is no place for anyone that can't stand up to a bit of abuse from people. Obviously it's not acceptable but it happens on a daily basis on Fab so you need to toughen up or ship out.
This is the part of your post you selectively failed to quote and address.
Why is that ? "
This is not being passively aggressive mate, this us being honest. If your not mentally strong enough to be abe to deal with a few nasty comments that might be thrown your way because of how you choose to live your life then whatever platform you use whether it's Fab , Facebook , tinder Pof or whatever then maybe you need to think about not using those platforms. So I stand by what I said , toughen up or leave / ship out. If it makes you unhappy.
You are also quoting just half of that post too so not to confuse people here is the rest of what I said on the ladys OP
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As already been said, tell him to fuck off , cut him out your circle of friends and use Fab any way that suits you and that includes who you meet and how often you want to meet them.
Hoping you take this advice and stay on Fab but mostly just do what makes you happiest.
Nothing passive aggressive when you put my whole post together in its original state.
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Your being a bit of a snowflake yes,
Fab is no place for anyone that can't stand up to a bit of abuse from people. Obviously it's not acceptable but it happens on a daily basis on Fab so you need to toughen up or ship out.
This is the part of your post you selectively failed to quote and address.
Why is that ?
This is not being passively aggressive mate, this us being honest. If your not mentally strong enough to be abe to deal with a few nasty comments that might be thrown your way because of how you choose to live your life then whatever platform you use whether it's Fab , Facebook , tinder Pof or whatever then maybe you need to think about not using those platforms. So I stand by what I said , toughen up or leave / ship out. If it makes you unhappy.
You are also quoting just half of that post too so not to confuse people here is the rest of what I said on the ladys OP
To quote
As already been said, tell him to fuck off , cut him out your circle of friends and use Fab any way that suits you and that includes who you meet and how often you want to meet them.
Hoping you take this advice and stay on Fab but mostly just do what makes you happiest.
Nothing passive aggressive when you put my whole post together in its original state.
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Na, not buying that excuse. You can’t just pick and choose what part of your post you think is the awesome part and not be expected to be in the aul pocket again for the parts your pulled up on |
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"I just want to ask people’s honest opinions because maybe I’ve been a bit of a snowflake and took offence...
This is fab after all...
Is it normal to regularly meet more than one person on here at the one time, people have lives other than fab so meeting can be pretty difficult, so it might be like even once a month...
so how many is too many, or is this the new form of relationship game where you can only meet 1 person and then game over or your tarred as a slut!
Oh and does this apply to guys and girls or is it just girls Yes its normal it why most joined the site to meet and have fun with other members .
some like something regular some like meeting several people just do what suits you & dont let others tell you otherwise
Well because I’ve met 3 diff people ‘regularly’ this year this guy went totally in on me, him and his fwb (because he’s married) went right in and made out I was the worst person on the planet, so I just wanted to ask what the appropriate number of people are we allowed to meet ffs without being judged "
As folk have said tell him to ram it. Do what makes you feel good. You're not here for him. |
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Traditionally, guys can meet and fuck as many women as they want. The more women they fuck, the better they are thought of. However if a woman tries that, she's seen as a slut and "easy meat". These attitudes are TOTALLY WRONG and inappropriate. Why shouldn't a woman enjoy herself just as much as a guy does?? There is no reason why they can't. Therefore, go and enjoy yourself as much as you wish and feel comfortable in doing so. Be proud and confident in yourself. Look after No.1. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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A good way off killing two birds with one stone ( sorry about the cliché ) your shyness and having a bigger group off friends, all in the same boat is just to pop along to one off the well organised Socials or even go along to Falcons quiz night .
Plus as people have said earlier in post block , and move on as here is not for the faunt hearted |
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"Traditionally, guys can meet and fuck as many women as they want. The more women they fuck, the better they are thought of. "
Not everyone takes that view |
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By *tew008Man
over a year ago
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"I just want to ask people’s honest opinions because maybe I’ve been a bit of a snowflake and took offence...
This is fab after all...
Is it normal to regularly meet more than one person on here at the one time, people have lives other than fab so meeting can be pretty difficult, so it might be like even once a month...
so how many is too many, or is this the new form of relationship game where you can only meet 1 person and then game over or your tarred as a slut!
Oh and does this apply to guys and girls or is it just girls "
As long as I’m one it’s fine |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sounds to me the fwb was having a pop at him meeting you and you meeting others was his excuse to not meet anymore.
I would say most guys on here couldnt give a flying feck how many guys women meet.
Women on the other hand...   |
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Just catching up with this thread. Jess, you already know my thoughts on this. As someone who has met you, and consider a friend now I can wholeheartedly say that you are not a slut! Meet as many or as little as you like. This is fab, like you said and it's up to you how you choose to live it. Don't allow a couple of idiots ruin your experiences xx |
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"So a guy who's fucking about gets to take the moral high ground?
Tell him to ram it.
Exactly but it still makes me feel like shit, like am I actually in the wrong, mean I say regular I’ve met one of them twice, one 3 times and one maybe 5 or 6 times... this year! "
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Seems reasonable. |
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