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Will you meet someone who voted opposite to you?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hmm, it would depend on their reasons for the vote. If the topic was brought up. However, someone I'm meeting for NSA sex probably isn't someone id be discussing politics with  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If they voted the way that they genuinely believed and had the best interests of the country to heart then yes of course I would. People of principle are always welcome
So long as they're not racists... Or UKIP supporters.... Or like Boris' hair... |
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By *educedWoman
over a year ago
Birmingham |
One of my very good friends is a very vocal Brexit supporter here but I would never let that cloud my judgement of him (although he's wrong haha).
He's one the kindest and loyal person I've ever met and whilst we don't agree politically, I couldn't imagine not be his friend. My swinging life would be dull without him. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i didn't vote so i'm sorted either way. 
How come you didn't vote?"
voting just means you agree with the system and who is running it, this isn't how i feel. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i didn't vote so i'm sorted either way.
How come you didn't vote?
voting just means you agree with the system and who is running it, this isn't how i feel. "
Loads of people who I work with didn't vote
So many people wasn't sure which way to go so they didn't bother |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"God yes
I really don't care about stuff like that
So what if you fucked my future up you just need to lick twice as good to make up for it "
Haha love it nice one |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i didn't vote so i'm sorted either way.
How come you didn't vote?
voting just means you agree with the system and who is running it, this isn't how i feel.
Loads of people who I work with didn't vote
So many people wasn't sure which way to go so they didn't bother "
i knew remain was best for 'my people' if the EU laws apply. just seems this government can do what they want anyway so it didn't really matter if we stayed in or not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would, I understand some reasons for the Brexit although I disagree and would have voted remain if I was allowed to vote (I am over 18 don't be scared, just a French citizen)
If I wouldn't meet The Brexit camp, I am ruling out already 52% of The population and às someone said here, I am here to have fun, not to find a wife or discuss politics |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes I would - because I'll never ask them which they they voted so will never know.
Same with General elections and religion. Not worth the hassle of having disagreement on a casual sex site imho |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i didn't vote so i'm sorted either way.
How come you didn't vote?
voting just means you agree with the system and who is running it, this isn't how i feel.
It does not mean that. "
it does to me. it says i am fine with the options you are offering and will choose one of them. |
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"It wouldn't work. Assume I vote LibDem: I get chatting and mention it to a lovely lady and she squeals with delight "ooh! me too!" so we shag and then she sits up and says "I voted BNP, sucker".  "
If you're limiting yourself only to people who say they voted LibDem you're fishing in a very small pool. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"God yes
I really don't care about stuff like that
So what if you fucked my future up you just need to lick twice as good to make up for it "
surely your futures in your own hands,whether you think you can,or think you can't,you're probably correct? |
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"One of my very good friends is a very vocal Brexit supporter here but I would never let that cloud my judgement of him (although he's wrong haha).
He's one the kindest and loyal person I've ever met and whilst we don't agree politically, I couldn't imagine not be his friend. My swinging life would be dull without him. "
Wonder who that could be?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a long term sexual partner who works in media politics and he has never asked how I voted. Not even on general election day,when we met while he had a break before voting ended |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"God yes
I really don't care about stuff like that
So what if you fucked my future up you just need to lick twice as good to make up for it
surely your futures in your own hands,whether you think you can,or think you can't,you're probably correct?"
Step away from the serious pills  |
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"It wouldn't work. Assume I vote LibDem: I get chatting and mention it to a lovely lady and she squeals with delight "ooh! me too!" so we shag and then she sits up and says "I voted BNP, sucker".
If you're limiting yourself only to people who say they voted LibDem you're fishing in a very small pool. "
I'm not. It was (I thought) an amusing scenario which has no basis in fact or reality. |
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By *educedWoman
over a year ago
Birmingham |
"One of my very good friends is a very vocal Brexit supporter here but I would never let that cloud my judgement of him (although he's wrong haha).
He's one the kindest and loyal person I've ever met and whilst we don't agree politically, I couldn't imagine not be his friend. My swinging life would be dull without him.
Wonder who that could be? "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Absolutely.
Politics and Religion are not subjects you hear much at clubs
We did once leave a private meet when the male half of the couple decided it was the right time to air his racism, but other than that it's not something we discuss whilst naked and fucking |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I honestly couldn't give 2 hoots how someone voted and really don't think it would come up in conversation . Much more interesting things to talk about x |
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Yep. Could never knowingly fuck a hard right winger.
I kicked a chap out of my flat for being homophobic. Fabulous verifications and I probably missed out on a fabulous night but my brain just screams no. |
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"It wouldn't work. Assume I vote LibDem: I get chatting and mention it to a lovely lady and she squeals with delight "ooh! me too!" so we shag and then she sits up and says "I voted BNP, sucker".
If you're limiting yourself only to people who say they voted LibDem you're fishing in a very small pool.
I'm not. It was (I thought) an amusing scenario which has no basis in fact or reality. "
It was amusing and, just for the record, I've swum in that pool a few times in the past.  |
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"My mum voted the opposite way to me so I don't have much choice but to see her lol.
She's typical of the leave voters. In her 70's and remembers how it was before we joined. "
If she really remembered how it was before 1972 she wouldn't want to go back to it.  |
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"Yep. Could never knowingly fuck a hard right winger.
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Surly a hard right or left winger is going to better than a flaccid, soft, non-performing winger from either side.
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I kicked a chap out of my flat for being homophobic. Fabulous verifications and I probably missed out on a fabulous night but my brain just screams no."
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Going against the grain, as I seem fated to do on this site, no I probably wouldn't meet, and or shag someone who had different political _iews from my own. I'm not looking for meaningless, faceless fucks, I'd like to be friends with the people I'm intimate with, and as politics is important to me it helps to be friends with similarly minded people. I wouldn't be so rude as to ask someone how they voted though, but sometimes you don't need to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Going against the grain, as I seem fated to do on this site, no I probably wouldn't meet, and or shag someone who had different political _iews from my own. I'm not looking for meaningless, faceless fucks, I'd like to be friends with the people I'm intimate with, and as politics is important to me it helps to be friends with similarly minded people. I wouldn't be so rude as to ask someone how they voted though, but sometimes you don't need to."
Why do you friends have to think the same way as you?
I don't understand that as a concept tbh.
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"Going against the grain, as I seem fated to do on this site, no I probably wouldn't meet, and or shag someone who had different political _iews from my own. I'm not looking for meaningless, faceless fucks, I'd like to be friends with the people I'm intimate with, and as politics is important to me it helps to be friends with similarly minded people. I wouldn't be so rude as to ask someone how they voted though, but sometimes you don't need to.
Why do you friends have to think the same way as you?
I don't understand that as a concept tbh.
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My current friends do not have to think the same as I do on every subject but we have multi faceted relationships and histories built on past experiences together. Someone new has none of that with me so I look for people who share similar beliefs and values when starting a relationship, that is surely the norm. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Going against the grain, as I seem fated to do on this site, no I probably wouldn't meet, and or shag someone who had different political _iews from my own. I'm not looking for meaningless, faceless fucks, I'd like to be friends with the people I'm intimate with, and as politics is important to me it helps to be friends with similarly minded people. I wouldn't be so rude as to ask someone how they voted though, but sometimes you don't need to.
Why do you friends have to think the same way as you?
I don't understand that as a concept tbh.
My current friends do not have to think the same as I do on every subject but we have multi faceted relationships and histories built on past experiences together. Someone new has none of that with me so I look for people who share similar beliefs and values when starting a relationship, that is surely the norm."
Politics is rarely an initial conversation subject though.
Many of my close friends i have no idea what thier political leanings are now i think about it.
You say politics is important to you but then don't want ro know somone who doesnt share your political _iews.
That kinda says to me that politics isnt important to you, ideology is important to you.
As politics is about differnce, if everyone agreed there would be no politics |
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"Yep. Could never knowingly fuck a hard right winger.
Surly a hard right or left winger is going to better than a flaccid, soft, non-performing winger from either side.
I kicked a chap out of my flat for being homophobic. Fabulous verifications and I probably missed out on a fabulous night but my brain just screams no. "
I'm a sapiosexual. My mind needs stimulating and if it's negatively, I just can't bonk.
You don't need a major political debate with a meet to sus out their leanings. No place for bigots in my bed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep. Could never knowingly fuck a hard right winger.
Surly a hard right or left winger is going to better than a flaccid, soft, non-performing winger from either side.
I kicked a chap out of my flat for being homophobic. Fabulous verifications and I probably missed out on a fabulous night but my brain just screams no.
I'm a sapiosexual. My mind needs stimulating and if it's negatively, I just can't bonk.
You don't need a major political debate with a meet to sus out their leanings. No place for bigots in my bed."
"Sapiosexual" ....confuses purely economic term for homophobia and bigotry.
Yup sounds about right. |
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"Yep. Could never knowingly fuck a hard right winger.
Surly a hard right or left winger is going to better than a flaccid, soft, non-performing winger from either side.
I kicked a chap out of my flat for being homophobic. Fabulous verifications and I probably missed out on a fabulous night but my brain just screams no.
I'm a sapiosexual. My mind needs stimulating and if it's negatively, I just can't bonk.
You don't need a major political debate with a meet to sus out their leanings. No place for bigots in my bed.
"Sapiosexual" ....confuses purely economic term for homophobia and bigotry.
Yup sounds about right."
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"If they voted differently from me that's cool. If they acted a bit of a twat about it, No"
I appreciate divergent opinion but not anyone whose going to use it to be trouble or have a meet that's uncomfortable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some of the most interesting people in bed have turned out to be boring out of bed.
Sex meetings are just that. It's about the sex. After all when 3 or more of you have done the most intimate things that humans can do together everything else is irrelevant. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yep. Could never knowingly fuck a hard right winger.
Surly a hard right or left winger is going to better than a flaccid, soft, non-performing winger from either side.
I kicked a chap out of my flat for being homophobic. Fabulous verifications and I probably missed out on a fabulous night but my brain just screams no.
I'm a sapiosexual. My mind needs stimulating and if it's negatively, I just can't bonk.
You don't need a major political debate with a meet to sus out their leanings. No place for bigots in my bed.
"Sapiosexual" ....confuses purely economic term for homophobia and bigotry.
Yup sounds about right.
Bitchy "
You just besmirched an entire school of economic thought with your bigoted posts.
It earned some bitchyness |
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By *ivinefox OP Woman
over a year ago
Coventry |
I need a certain amount of intellectual stimulation to find someone attractive and as I'm educated and pretty left wing I don't find pp who don't think about the world or share similar values to me interesting or attractive.
I once had a social meet who described travellers as ' gyppos'. Told me everything I needed to know about him and it never went any further...
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By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago
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Not sure politics would come into initial discussions as others have said and to be honest if it did crop up and was fairly mainstream opposing _iews e.g. Tory vs Labour then I don't think it would bother me.
If however the other person had fairly radical or extremist _iews (e.g. racist, homophobic etc) then it'd be a no from me.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I need a certain amount of intellectual stimulation to find someone attractive and as I'm educated and pretty left wing I don't find pp who don't think about the world or share similar values to me interesting or attractive.
I once had a social meet who described travellers as ' gyppos'. Told me everything I needed to know about him and it never went any further...
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How can you have intellectual stimulation in an echo chamber of your own beliefs?
Sadly though this is a _iew point that is sweeping our universities, if it's not the same _iew as the majority it should be banned or censored or scilenced.
Gone are the days when people embraced differnce and saught to engage with those who thought differntly so that they may learn and share different perspectives
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Happy to discuss politics or any other subject for that matter with my vanilla friends as we can have a reasoned debate without resorting to insults.....when we play at the club, the last thing on my mind is how someone voted and I wouldn't care anyway...everyone is free to choose for themselves and I respect their choice for their reasons. |
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