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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We have been messaging members in the TV / TS listings and have ask the awkward question, are you a transvestite or transsexual as we are specifically seeking the latter (pre-op), most accounts do not specify in their profile text.
Could fab not separate the two categories, they are far from being the same thing. |
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"We have been messaging members in the TV / TS listings and have ask the awkward question, are you a transvestite or transsexual as we are specifically seeking the latter (pre-op), most accounts do not specify in their profile text.
Could fab not separate the two categories, they are far from being the same thing." here we go Why separate a, minority group anyway. Is, it too difficult to ask someone
This kind of post is getting beyond a joke. Maybe fab should just ban them |
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This seems to be a common theme.Ironically one trans woman recently posted that the guys were more interested in tvs with bits intact.Suits me but I do think that Stacey is right when she says just ask. |
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By *9alMan
over a year ago
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it is a complicated subject, not fully reading the profile & making assumptions does not help, perhaps post op TS should identify as their new sex. I know that upsets J K Rowling but does anyone else care? |
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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago
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"We have been messaging members in the TV / TS listings and have ask the awkward question, are you a transvestite or transsexual as we are specifically seeking the latter (pre-op), most accounts do not specify in their profile text.
Could fab not separate the two categories, they are far from being the same thing." If they are preop they tend to say on there profiles |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wasn't there a similar post earlier today?
Just make it explicit in your profile. There is enough space to write your entire history if you are do inclined. I simply don't see the problem."
Similar posts everyday on this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Think my pictures say enough.
Although why ask. I would assume Post-Op would use a female profile because I would if I was. "
Many do, however they do usually state that they are a post-op somewhere in their profile.
I had a female profile shortly after my srs, with a disclaimer, however I ditched it fairly quickly because I was getting some rather unpleasant and unsolicited mail from bigots.
I'm a woman in all aspects of my life except fab, where I find it easier and safer to have a tv/ts profile. It's a bit crap, but that's the way it is.
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"Most tv / ts profiles do not have obvious details. And tv's and ts's ARE different. what is the difference ? "
TVs cant wait to get home at the end of the day to get their bra on. TS cant wait to get home st the end of the day and take it off!
And the serious answer, TVs are those who receive some kind of gratification from dressing in the clothes of the gender they do not identify as. TS folk are the gender opposite to the one they were assigned at birth.
For those saying post op should use the identifier of their gender, I agree... however when I first set my account up and it was reviewed my account was changed to TV/TS and I had to complain to have it reverted back to the correct marker.... some folk might not question it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Why separate a, minority group anyway. Is, it too difficult to ask someone
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Without wishing to cause offence, could it possibly be that there is actually quite a distinction between the two groups?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I use female as am almost 38 yrs post-op. If i were too use TS some knobhead would not read profile and just assume i had a dick and was in to trans-admirers which am not. I find them to be so damn naive on the subject and have no clue how to treat and interact with a post-ops right.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I use female as am almost 38 yrs post-op. If i were too use TS some knobhead would not read profile and just assume i had a dick and was in to trans-admirers which am not. I find them to be so damn naive on the subject and have no clue how to treat and interact with a post-ops right.
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"I use female as am almost 38 yrs post-op. If i were too use TS some knobhead would not read profile and just assume i had a dick and was in to trans-admirers which am not. I find them to be so damn naive on the subject and have no clue how to treat and interact with a post-ops right.
" there are transexual women on this site who have the category of women but still have a cock ! |
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there are transexual women on this site who have the category of women but still have a cock ! "
Yeah, I mean it's almost like trans women are women isnt it? Who are you to judge how someone identifies? |
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there are transexual women on this site who have the category of women but still have a cock !
Yeah, I mean it's almost like trans women are women isnt it? Who are you to judge how someone identifies? " I beg your pardon , I'm not judging anyone on here , stating a fact ! Who are you to judge me ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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there are transexual women on this site who have the category of women but still have a cock !
Yeah, I mean it's almost like trans women are women isnt it? Who are you to judge how someone identifies? I beg your pardon , I'm not judging anyone on here , stating a fact ! Who are you to judge me ? "
I dont i traded it in decades ago was of no use too me. |
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