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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi I'm new to this site and I'm not sure how crazy this is or if this has ever been asked before but could a sexy woman take my virginity?
I'm actually 22 years old, I made it 28 randomly. I'm tall, white and not bad looking just have anxiety.
Thanks for reading lol, I'm in Birmingham area btw x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is a swingers site and most people are here for their own pleasure so most women are gonna be looking for someone experienced who knows how to make their time together enjoyable.
I'm not saying it's a no but very very very unlikely.
Also do you really want your first time to be with a stranger from a swingers site? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"This is a swingers site and most people are here for their own pleasure so most women are gonna be looking for someone experienced who knows how to make their time together enjoyable.
I'm not saying it's a no but very very very unlikely.
Also do you really want your first time to be with a stranger from a swingers site?"
I just wanna get it out the way if I'm honest I don't think it's anything special lol |
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"This is a swingers site and most people are here for their own pleasure so most women are gonna be looking for someone experienced who knows how to make their time together enjoyable.
I'm not saying it's a no but very very very unlikely.
Also do you really want your first time to be with a stranger from a swingers site?
I just wanna get it out the way if I'm honest I don't think it's anything special lol"
That'll have 'em queuing up  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"This is a swingers site and most people are here for their own pleasure so most women are gonna be looking for someone experienced who knows how to make their time together enjoyable.
I'm not saying it's a no but very very very unlikely.
Also do you really want your first time to be with a stranger from a swingers site?
I just wanna get it out the way if I'm honest I don't think it's anything special lol
That'll have 'em queuing up "
Haha wow you're right, I'm terrible at talking. What I mean is I want a lovely lady to help me I'm not looking to build a deep connection with someone then lose my virginity to love of my life
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"This is a swingers site and most people are here for their own pleasure so most women are gonna be looking for someone experienced who knows how to make their time together enjoyable.
I'm not saying it's a no but very very very unlikely.
Also do you really want your first time to be with a stranger from a swingers site?
I just wanna get it out the way if I'm honest I don't think it's anything special lol
That'll have 'em queuing up
Haha wow you're right, I'm terrible at talking. What I mean is I want a lovely lady to help me I'm not looking to build a deep connection with someone then lose my virginity to love of my life
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That's better   |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
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"Hi I'm new to this site and I'm not sure how crazy this is or if this has ever been asked before but could a sexy woman take my virginity?
I'm actually 22 years old, I made it 28 randomly. I'm tall, white and not bad looking just have anxiety.
Thanks for reading lol, I'm in Birmingham area btw x"
My serious advice, mate.
Sort out your anxiety issues first. Everything else will naturally follow after. Trust me.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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". Not really just anxiety, depression too so can't bring myself to do anythin
Perhaps see your GP? "
I'm even too shy/embarrassed to do that, I got excited then cos a woman replied lol don't bother to try n talk me better my minds been like this for years
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
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". Not really just anxiety, depression too so can't bring myself to do anythin"
My advice is the same but then I am talking from experience.
Quick hint: I don't swing to get lots of sex. I was getting that BEFORE I got into this! Before that I had regular girlfriends. Before that I had friends. Before that I learned how to talk in front of crowds and strangers.
I hope you see where I'm going with this. You don't have to answer but I would ask how you get on with job interviews. Or when you get into a conflict or have a disagreement with someone. Self confidence is MASSIVE as it affects so many aspects of your life. Getting a shag is all well and good. Having the feeling that you are in control of your life and can do whatever you want whenever you want is PRICELESS!
Hope this helps. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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". Not really just anxiety, depression too so can't bring myself to do anythin
My advice is the same but then I am talking from experience.
Quick hint: I don't swing to get lots of sex. I was getting that BEFORE I got into this! Before that I had regular girlfriends. Before that I had friends. Before that I learned how to talk in front of crowds and strangers.
I hope you see where I'm going with this. You don't have to answer but I would ask how you get on with job interviews. Or when you get into a conflict or have a disagreement with someone. Self confidence is MASSIVE as it affects so many aspects of your life. Getting a shag is all well and good. Having the feeling that you are in control of your life and can do whatever you want whenever you want is PRICELESS!
Hope this helps. "
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
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"It's kind of you to post but I don't wanna explain my situation. "
No need to explain.
Just recommending that you equip yourself with the tools that a woman will NEED you to have...   |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
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".Timeofyourlife1 is quite sexy but her age range is 27+ 
...and you're 28?  "
I think this kinda illustrates what I'm saying. You've misread a profile where you actually fall within a lady's search criteria.
To answer your previous post, yes I do now a few women in your area who are looking for guys like YOU! Like the lady you mention, they too are older, confident, sexy women who know exactly what they want and how to get it.
The only question that remains is: What are YOU going to do to meet them halfway? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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".Timeofyourlife1 is quite sexy but her age range is 27+
...and you're 28?
I think this kinda illustrates what I'm saying. You've misread a profile where you actually fall within a lady's search criteria.
To answer your previous post, yes I do now a few women in your area who are looking for guys like YOU! Like the lady you mention, they too are older, confident, sexy women who know exactly what they want and how to get it.
The only question that remains is: What are YOU going to do to meet them halfway? "
I'm actually 22 not 28 lol I just made it that when I made the account cos I weren't sure how serious this was haha, and what do you mean what do I need to do to meet halfway? |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
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".Timeofyourlife1 is quite sexy but her age range is 27+
...and you're 28?
I think this kinda illustrates what I'm saying. You've misread a profile where you actually fall within a lady's search criteria.
To answer your previous post, yes I do now a few women in your area who are looking for guys like YOU! Like the lady you mention, they too are older, confident, sexy women who know exactly what they want and how to get it.
The only question that remains is: What are YOU going to do to meet them halfway?
I'm actually 22 not 28 lol I just made it that when I made the account cos I weren't sure how serious this was haha, and what do you mean what do I need to do to meet halfway?"
Oops, sorry! My mistake on the age assumption. 
Well YOU know what YOU want out of this lifestyle but the trick is...
...to create a situation where ALL parties are getting what they want out of the situation. Think of it like a cake. Some people like the icing, some like the marzipan and some just like the cherry on top!
But the aim is to make sure that the WHOLE cake gets eaten i.e. everybody gets what THEY want from the situation.
So how are you going to share the cake? |
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"Can not accom and can not travel. Where do you plan to do this?
Well actually I could get bus to certain places but at the woman's house"
I think you are setting yourself up to fail and your expectations of this site are well off. You have been given some good advice above but nobody can help you but yourself. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Have you considered seeing a professional? "
Can't really bring myself to do it I've been like this year's it's really hard to explain, u feel like an alien like u shouldn't be here |
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"Have you considered seeing a professional?
Can't really bring myself to do it I've been like this year's it's really hard to explain, u feel like an alien like u shouldn't be here"
I'm not sure this site is for you. I think you need to look at fixing things that are hurting you before trying your luck here. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Have you considered seeing a professional?
Can't really bring myself to do it I've been like this year's it's really hard to explain, u feel like an alien like u shouldn't be here
I'm not sure this site is for you. I think you need to look at fixing things that are hurting you before trying your luck here. "
I weren't gonna become a full time swinger just wanted a milf to swipe my virginity lol aye but before I go I wanna know what Tre meant by sharing the cake |
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"Have you considered seeing a professional?
Can't really bring myself to do it I've been like this year's it's really hard to explain, u feel like an alien like u shouldn't be here
I'm not sure this site is for you. I think you need to look at fixing things that are hurting you before trying your luck here.
I weren't gonna become a full time swinger just wanted a milf to swipe my virginity lol aye but before I go I wanna know what Tre meant by sharing the cake "
It's a metaphor, what are you bringing to the encounter, what makes fucking you an appealing prospect, you've already said it wouldn't be meaningful. That you don't want to be a 'full time swinger', you wouldnt see an escort. So what is your unique selling point? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Have you considered seeing a professional?
Can't really bring myself to do it I've been like this year's it's really hard to explain, u feel like an alien like u shouldn't be here
I'm not sure this site is for you. I think you need to look at fixing things that are hurting you before trying your luck here.
I weren't gonna become a full time swinger just wanted a milf to swipe my virginity lol aye but before I go I wanna know what Tre meant by sharing the cake
It's a metaphor, what are you bringing to the encounter, what makes fucking you an appealing prospect, you've already said it wouldn't be meaningful. That you don't want to be a 'full time swinger', you wouldnt see an escort. So what is your unique selling point? "
Damn I don't know.. I guess in my mind I just see it as someone wanting to help |
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I'm not sure there is a huge market for sympathy or altruism fucks. Maybe its someone's fetish.
'Male virgin looking for women with deflowering fantasies. Just think, you'll be in my memories forever!' |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm not sure there is a huge market for sympathy or altruism fucks. Maybe its someone's fetish.
'Male virgin looking for women with deflowering fantasies. Just think, you'll be in my memories forever!'"
Damn bruh... u ended me.. and who woulda thought it was to be |
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"I'm not sure there is a huge market for sympathy or altruism fucks. Maybe its someone's fetish.
'Male virgin looking for women with deflowering fantasies. Just think, you'll be in my memories forever!'
Damn bruh... u ended me.. and who woulda thought it was to be "
I'm not being flippant, that's a unique selling point that may match a ladies fantasy. And seriously there is no shame in paying a reputable professional. Think sex surrogate rather than prostitute |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm not sure there is a huge market for sympathy or altruism fucks. Maybe its someone's fetish.
'Male virgin looking for women with deflowering fantasies. Just think, you'll be in my memories forever!'
Damn bruh... u ended me.. and who woulda thought it was to be
I'm not being flippant, that's a unique selling point that may match a ladies fantasy. And seriously there is no shame in paying a reputable professional. Think sex surrogate rather than prostitute"
How do u find escorts then am thinkin about it ya know |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
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"Have you considered seeing a professional?
Can't really bring myself to do it I've been like this year's it's really hard to explain, u feel like an alien like u shouldn't be here
I'm not sure this site is for you. I think you need to look at fixing things that are hurting you before trying your luck here.
I weren't gonna become a full time swinger just wanted a milf to swipe my virginity lol aye but before I go I wanna know what Tre meant by sharing the cake "
I'll let you know when I finish work! |
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OP I get the impression you think the ladies on here are free prostitutes who are just waiting for a guy to come and fuck them.
I have seen many threads on the forums in my time on here posted by young guys like you who are looking to lose their virginity.
Not once have I seen any that are successful. It could happen but it is highly unlikely.
Most of us are looking for someone who knows how to please us sexually. We don't want a quick fumble with an inexperienced guy who is likely to shoot his load as soon as you unzip his trousers. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"OP I get the impression you think the ladies on here are free prostitutes who are just waiting for a guy to come and fuck them.
I have seen many threads on the forums in my time on here posted by young guys like you who are looking to lose their virginity.
Not once have I seen any that are successful. It could happen but it is highly unlikely.
Most of us are looking for someone who knows how to please us sexually. We don't want a quick fumble with an inexperienced guy who is likely to shoot his load as soon as you unzip his trousers. "
Lol nah man I don't think that at all but this is a site for people to have sex so I thought it would be way easier but I know what you mean |
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"OP I get the impression you think the ladies on here are free prostitutes who are just waiting for a guy to come and fuck them.
I have seen many threads on the forums in my time on here posted by young guys like you who are looking to lose their virginity.
Not once have I seen any that are successful. It could happen but it is highly unlikely.
Most of us are looking for someone who knows how to please us sexually. We don't want a quick fumble with an inexperienced guy who is likely to shoot his load as soon as you unzip his trousers. "
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
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"Have you considered seeing a professional?
Can't really bring myself to do it I've been like this year's it's really hard to explain, u feel like an alien like u shouldn't be here
I'm not sure this site is for you. I think you need to look at fixing things that are hurting you before trying your luck here.
I weren't gonna become a full time swinger just wanted a milf to swipe my virginity lol aye but before I go I wanna know what Tre meant by sharing the cake
I'll let you know when I finish work! "
Or not. Would you believe I've just been spending some time with a friend who I haven't seen for ages.
I'll get back to you when I have a woman free night... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I’m sure this is a fetish for some women. I have thought about it and if allowed by my husband, I’ve fantasised about fucking a virgin. Not sure I’d ever actually do it tho, but its a sexy thought...
How about a cubs and cougars club night? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My advice is get yourself in a club such as xtasia its in West Brom and a bus ride away , its members only but it should be ok to get membership BUT once in you have to understand that its not a guarentee that you will get sex
Or as a last resort if your desperate to lose your virginity in the way it comes across go to the Private Club in Aston or Retro Club in Walsall it is Guarenteed sex in those Two clubs without membership but they both involve a larger fee to get in
I also reccomend REAL DEAL PARTIES they meet in Brum ,Includes a small entry fee , No pressure to play, They'll look after you at rdp , Contact them on here |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
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What you're actually doing here is wasting posts! These forums only allow 175 replies so making an empty post is one less chance that someone can post something that will help you.
Having said that, you've already had some useful information on here so you may as well fill the thread if you're not going to take on board the other info.
Yes I was going to explain the meaning of the cake thing (I will) but I'm currently on lunch break and...it looks like I've run out of time! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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After all the advice given you put a dot to bump the thread up ?
What do you expect a woman to jump out of thin air and onto your cock ?
Actions speak louder than words
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"The problem is no1 reads this forum section lol the women on here are just bombarded with messages so why would they look here "
They do. You have been given some good advice. Up to you whether you take it or not. |
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