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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
Social meetup on Tuesday 4 July 2017 in South West: St austell
At this meet looking for: F M MF MM FF
Social meet in public place, please read profile before messaging, no timewasters or dreamers. Meet is for today (daytime) only, not any other day or time!!
I'll be posting results later as they come, meet is unlikely to actually happen though! Giving it till lunchtime today. |
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over a year ago
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Tbh I'd be surprised if you didn't get offers simply due to the possession of a vagina.
But I'd say based on the meet and profile write up I think you are correct that an actual meet will not happen.
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"Social meetup on Tuesday 4 July 2017 in South West: St austell
At this meet looking for: F M MF MM FF
Social meet in public place, please read profile before messaging, no timewasters or dreamers. Meet is for today (daytime) only, not any other day or time!!
I'll be posting results later as they come, meet is unlikely to actually happen though! Giving it till lunchtime today."
That's very odd behaviour! |
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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
I am looking for a social meet today so far all I've had is over 50 messages deleted as not for me, distance, etc, 6 from guys that seemed ok and fairly local then they tell me they're married and "just thought it was worth a try", "it's just a fuck" etc when I've posted for a social meet! So still looking! |
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over a year ago
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"Social meetup on Tuesday 4 July 2017 in South West: St austell
At this meet looking for: F M MF MM FF
Social meet in public place, please read profile before messaging, no timewasters or dreamers. Meet is for today (daytime) only, not any other day or time!!
I'll be posting results later as they come, meet is unlikely to actually happen though! Giving it till lunchtime today."
did you only post it today ? It is short notice for daytime xx |
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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"Social meetup on Tuesday 4 July 2017 in South West: St austell
At this meet looking for: F M MF MM FF
Social meet in public place, please read profile before messaging, no timewasters or dreamers. Meet is for today (daytime) only, not any other day or time!!
I'll be posting results later as they come, meet is unlikely to actually happen though! Giving it till lunchtime today.did you only post it today ? It is short notice for daytime xx"
yes early this morning, but lots do last minute meets on here, I think I'm not getting much luck because it's social only |
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over a year ago
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"Social meetup on Tuesday 4 July 2017 in South West: St austell
At this meet looking for: F M MF MM FF
Social meet in public place, please read profile before messaging, no timewasters or dreamers. Meet is for today (daytime) only, not any other day or time!!
I'll be posting results later as they come, meet is unlikely to actually happen though! Giving it till lunchtime today.did you only post it today ? It is short notice for daytime xxyes early this morning, but lots do last minute meets on here, I think I'm not getting much luck because it's social only"
I would but already on way to beach and a bit borasic  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Social meetup on Tuesday 4 July 2017 in South West: St austell
At this meet looking for: F M MF MM FF
Social meet in public place, please read profile before messaging, no timewasters or dreamers. Meet is for today (daytime) only, not any other day or time!!
I'll be posting results later as they come, meet is unlikely to actually happen though! Giving it till lunchtime today.did you only post it today ? It is short notice for daytime xxyes early this morning, but lots do last minute meets on here, I think I'm not getting much luck because it's social only"
we dont get much luck when we post for play meets. Its always. Im free next week. Or tonight. Or ohhh thought it would just be us. When its clearly a couples profile or the meet will say looking for a couple of guys lol
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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"Social meetup on Tuesday 4 July 2017 in South West: St austell
At this meet looking for: F M MF MM FF
Social meet in public place, please read profile before messaging, no timewasters or dreamers. Meet is for today (daytime) only, not any other day or time!!
I'll be posting results later as they come, meet is unlikely to actually happen though! Giving it till lunchtime today.did you only post it today ? It is short notice for daytime xxyes early this morning, but lots do last minute meets on here, I think I'm not getting much luck because it's social only we dont get much luck when we post for play meets. Its always. Im free next week. Or tonight. Or ohhh thought it would just be us. When its clearly a couples profile or the meet will say looking for a couple of guys lol
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I've had a lot of that as well despite making it clear that the meet is daytime only today not for other times/days actually on the meet itself!! |
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"Social meetup on Tuesday 4 July 2017 in South West: St austell
At this meet looking for: F M MF MM FF
Social meet in public place, please read profile before messaging, no timewasters or dreamers. Meet is for today (daytime) only, not any other day or time!!
I'll be posting results later as they come, meet is unlikely to actually happen though! Giving it till lunchtime today.did you only post it today ? It is short notice for daytime xxyes early this morning, but lots do last minute meets on here, I think I'm not getting much luck because it's social only"
I've had on the day social meets before now - after all a social meet today can lead to all sorts of things in the future and even if there's no attraction, it never hurts to have a coffee and a chat.
However, your location doesn't strike me as ideal.....nothing against Cornwall, but living in a largely rural peninsula does rather limit the meet pool. Hey is this really a human geography experiment? |
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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"Social meetup on Tuesday 4 July 2017 in South West: St austell
At this meet looking for: F M MF MM FF
Social meet in public place, please read profile before messaging, no timewasters or dreamers. Meet is for today (daytime) only, not any other day or time!!
I'll be posting results later as they come, meet is unlikely to actually happen though! Giving it till lunchtime today.did you only post it today ? It is short notice for daytime xxyes early this morning, but lots do last minute meets on here, I think I'm not getting much luck because it's social only
I've had on the day social meets before now - after all a social meet today can lead to all sorts of things in the future and even if there's no attraction, it never hurts to have a coffee and a chat.
However, your location doesn't strike me as ideal.....nothing against Cornwall, but living in a largely rural peninsula does rather limit the meet pool. Hey is this really a human geography experiment?"
I am genuinely looking for a social meet, but you are right, Cornwall is not ideal, most just want to come to mine for sex, I need to do at least 1 social first as I'm looking for local and regular not one offs, if I wanted that I'd go dogging or drop my knickers to anyone who asks lol |
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"I have only ever put one meet up!i got a bit overwhelmed so logged out and watched tv instead  "
i had exactly the same thing! wait overwhelmed is another word for zero response right? TV is more reliable anyway lol |
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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"I have only ever put one meet up!i got a bit overwhelmed so logged out and watched tv instead
i had exactly the same thing! wait overwhelmed is another word for zero response right? TV is more reliable anyway lol"
I'm watching it now lol |
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"I have only ever put one meet up!i got a bit overwhelmed so logged out and watched tv instead
i had exactly the same thing! wait overwhelmed is another word for zero response right? TV is more reliable anyway lolI'm watching it now lol"
I dont have a TV |
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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"I have only ever put one meet up!i got a bit overwhelmed so logged out and watched tv instead
i had exactly the same thing! wait overwhelmed is another word for zero response right? TV is more reliable anyway lolI'm watching it now lolI dont have a TV "
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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"Let's hope it works for you and you find what you're looking for
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no luck as yet so given up today I'm not was anymore time on it, the meet is social in a public place lots offering car meets or at theirs or mine  |
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"I am looking for a social meet today so far all I've had is over 50 messages deleted as not for me, distance, etc, 6 from guys that seemed ok and fairly local then they tell me they're married and "just thought it was worth a try", "it's just a fuck" etc when I've posted for a social meet! So still looking!"
Are you looking then sending any messages, or just sitting back waiting for people to message you  |
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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"I am looking for a social meet today so far all I've had is over 50 messages deleted as not for me, distance, etc, 6 from guys that seemed ok and fairly local then they tell me they're married and "just thought it was worth a try", "it's just a fuck" etc when I've posted for a social meet! So still looking!
Are you looking then sending any messages, or just sitting back waiting for people to message you "
no they've messaged me first, I've deleted after reading their profiles |
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"I am looking for a social meet today so far all I've had is over 50 messages deleted as not for me, distance, etc, 6 from guys that seemed ok and fairly local then they tell me they're married and "just thought it was worth a try", "it's just a fuck" etc when I've posted for a social meet! So still looking!
Are you looking then sending any messages, or just sitting back waiting for people to message you no they've messaged me first, I've deleted
after reading their profiles"
Why don't you send the first message and stop moaning  |
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I don't get it.
Is it supposed to show people won't bother, just because it's a social meet?
It could also show that there are loads of nice people who would, but can't make a same-day, daytime meet. |
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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"I don't get it.
Is it supposed to show people won't bother, just because it's a social meet?
It could also show that there are loads of nice people who would, but can't make a same-day, daytime meet."
pretty much, I've posted as social, lots of offers for quick fuck etc |
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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"I am looking for a social meet today so far all I've had is over 50 messages deleted as not for me, distance, etc, 6 from guys that seemed ok and fairly local then they tell me they're married and "just thought it was worth a try", "it's just a fuck" etc when I've posted for a social meet! So still looking!
Are you looking then sending any messages, or just sitting back waiting for people to message you no they've messaged me first, I've deleted
after reading their profiles
Why don't you send the first message and stop moaning "
I do sometimes if they are local and have a good profile, fyi I'm not moaning, just highlights the fact that there are so many fantasists, dreamers and idiots on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't get this thread.....
If it was a guy posting this with regards to a meet there would be no commentary at all, why should this thread be any different, oh wait we are commentating too, so kills that theory 
So you fancy some company and attention lavished on you while your out, with no chance of swinging today? Most guys won't be interested in being interviewed and it won't be a particularly easy experience for them trying to make a good impression with the off chance of a play another time.....yawn!!
Here is an idea, if you want some company today why not meet a non Fab friend? Job done! No complaining, end of
Can't blame guys asking to play that's what swinging is, fabswingers the clues in the name xx |
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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"Don't get this thread.....
If it was a guy posting this with regards to a meet there would be no commentary at all, why should this thread be any different, oh wait we are commentating too, so kills that theory
So you fancy some company and attention lavished on you while your out, with no chance of swinging today? Most guys won't be interested in being interviewed and it won't be a particularly easy experience for them trying to make a good impression with the off chance of a play another time.....yawn!!
Here is an idea, if you want some company today why not meet a non Fab friend? Job done! No complaining, end of
Can't blame guys asking to play that's what swinging is, fabswingers the clues in the name xx"
It's a social meet with hopefully regular meets afterwards, I'm looking for a fwb I have enough vanilla friends |
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36 meets in 8 months and you haven't found someone for regular fun? How many available men live within your 20 mile limit, and are in Fab, and wouldn't mind becoming part of your 'experiment'?
Good luck with that one  |
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"I am looking for a social meet today so far all I've had is over 50 messages deleted as not for me, distance, etc, 6 from guys that seemed ok and fairly local then they tell me they're married and "just thought it was worth a try", "it's just a fuck" etc when I've posted for a social meet! So still looking!
Are you looking then sending any messages, or just sitting back waiting for people to message you no they've messaged me first, I've deleted
after reading their profiles
Why don't you send the first message and stop moaning
I do sometimes if they are local and have a good profile, fyi I'm not moaning, just highlights the fact that there are so many fantasists, dreamers and idiots on here"
There are dreamers and fantasists, but the experiment is flawed. Do the same meet but allow people a bit more notice and evening also. Then you'll allow the nice people who are at work today  |
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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"36 meets in 8 months and you haven't found someone for regular fun? How many available men live within your 20 mile limit, and are in Fab, and wouldn't mind becoming part of your 'experiment'?
Good luck with that one "
20 MINUTES not miles |
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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"I am looking for a social meet today so far all I've had is over 50 messages deleted as not for me, distance, etc, 6 from guys that seemed ok and fairly local then they tell me they're married and "just thought it was worth a try", "it's just a fuck" etc when I've posted for a social meet! So still looking!
Are you looking then sending any messages, or just sitting back waiting for people to message you no they've messaged me first, I've deleted
after reading their profiles
Why don't you send the first message and stop moaning
I do sometimes if they are local and have a good profile, fyi I'm not moaning, just highlights the fact that there are so many fantasists, dreamers and idiots on here
There are dreamers and fantasists, but the experiment is flawed. Do the same meet but allow people a bit more notice and evening also. Then you'll allow the nice people who are at work today "
I've put one up for Thursday daytime that should be enough notice lol |
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There are dreamers and fantasists, but the experiment is flawed. Do the same meet but allow people a bit more notice and evening also. Then you'll allow the nice people who are at work today I've put one up for Thursday daytime that should be enough notice lol"
But no evening option for the majority who work? |
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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
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There are dreamers and fantasists, but the experiment is flawed. Do the same meet but allow people a bit more notice and evening also. Then you'll allow the nice people who are at work today I've put one up for Thursday daytime that should be enough notice lol
But no evening option for the majority who work?"
I work most evenings so it's not an option for me |
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There are dreamers and fantasists, but the experiment is flawed. Do the same meet but allow people a bit more notice and evening also. Then you'll allow the nice people who are at work today I've put one up for Thursday daytime that should be enough notice lol
But no evening option for the majority who work?"
To be fair to the OP she doesn't have to provide an evening option for those working days, if she wants daytime, she wants daytime, end of.... |
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There are dreamers and fantasists, but the experiment is flawed. Do the same meet but allow people a bit more notice and evening also. Then you'll allow the nice people who are at work today I've put one up for Thursday daytime that should be enough notice lol
But no evening option for the majority who work?
To be fair to the OP she doesn't have to provide an evening option for those working days, if she wants daytime, she wants daytime, end of...."
I understand that 100%, and appreciate different people have different circumstances and wishes.
It's just the purpose of the post was partly to demonstrate that the site has lots of time-wasters and no-one will come to just a social.
I agree those types exist, I'm just saying that the meet in itself doesn't prove anything in particular, because a lot of people won't be able to come as they are at work. That was all  |
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"I am looking for a social meet today so far all I've had is over 50 messages deleted as not for me, distance, etc, 6 from guys that seemed ok and fairly local then they tell me they're married and "just thought it was worth a try", "it's just a fuck" etc when I've posted for a social meet! So still looking!
Are you looking then sending any messages, or just sitting back waiting for people to message you no they've messaged me first, I've deleted
after reading their profiles
Why don't you send the first message and stop moaning
I do sometimes if they are local and have a good profile, fyi I'm not moaning, just highlights the fact that there are so many fantasists, dreamers and idiots on here"
No shit Sherlock |
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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"I am looking for a social meet today so far all I've had is over 50 messages deleted as not for me, distance, etc, 6 from guys that seemed ok and fairly local then they tell me they're married and "just thought it was worth a try", "it's just a fuck" etc when I've posted for a social meet! So still looking!
Are you looking then sending any messages, or just sitting back waiting for people to message you no they've messaged me first, I've deleted
after reading their profiles
Why don't you send the first message and stop moaning
I do sometimes if they are local and have a good profile, fyi I'm not moaning, just highlights the fact that there are so many fantasists, dreamers and idiots on here
No shit Sherlock "
If you've got nothing constructive to say then don't say anything at all, noticed your negative posts on other threads as well, rudeness is never endearing! |
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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
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There are dreamers and fantasists, but the experiment is flawed. Do the same meet but allow people a bit more notice and evening also. Then you'll allow the nice people who are at work today I've put one up for Thursday daytime that should be enough notice lol
But no evening option for the majority who work?
To be fair to the OP she doesn't have to provide an evening option for those working days, if she wants daytime, she wants daytime, end of...."
I'm a care worker and have to work split shifts my evenings off are generally spent doing real life things, generally speaking I only get two a week, by the time I'm finished pm shift it's too late for meets |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The difference when a woman puts up a meet and a man is the woman will be inundated with offers lol.I'm coming to share your haribos, I like the fizzy rings...."
Yes, those are nice too and I got some extra for sharing, the fizzy rings ones are nice  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Incidentally, I have removed today's meet as it would appear that no one wants a social lol"
What do you reckon the response would be if the meet would be a shag? lol.
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"I am looking for a social meet today so far all I've had is over 50 messages deleted as not for me, distance, etc, 6 from guys that seemed ok and fairly local then they tell me they're married and "just thought it was worth a try", "it's just a fuck" etc when I've posted for a social meet! So still looking!
Are you looking then sending any messages, or just sitting back waiting for people to message you no they've messaged me first, I've deleted
after reading their profiles
Why don't you send the first message and stop moaning
I do sometimes if they are local and have a good profile, fyi I'm not moaning, just highlights the fact that there are so many fantasists, dreamers and idiots on here
No shit Sherlock
If you've got nothing constructive to say then don't say anything at all, noticed your negative posts on other threads as well, rudeness is never endearing! "
Neither is stating the obvious, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't get it.
Is it supposed to show people won't bother, just because it's a social meet?
It could also show that there are loads of nice people who would, but can't make a same-day, daytime meet.pretty much, I've posted as social, lots of offers for quick fuck etc"
Like I said in my first post the wording of the meet and your profile was pretty much always going to kill it for you |
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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I don't get it.
Is it supposed to show people won't bother, just because it's a social meet?
It could also show that there are loads of nice people who would, but can't make a same-day, daytime meet.pretty much, I've posted as social, lots of offers for quick fuck etc
Like I said in my first post the wording of the meet and your profile was pretty much always going to kill it for you"
I put social because I'm not prepared to meet a random guy at his house/hotel/car and have sex with him at least I was honest and not leading anyone on, if they aren't prepared to meet me in a public place and consider the safety issues for both of us then I don't want to meet them lol x |
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"I don't get it.
Is it supposed to show people won't bother, just because it's a social meet?
It could also show that there are loads of nice people who would, but can't make a same-day, daytime meet.pretty much, I've posted as social, lots of offers for quick fuck etc
Like I said in my first post the wording of the meet and your profile was pretty much always going to kill it for you
I put social because I'm not prepared to meet a random guy at his house/hotel/car and have sex with him at least I was honest and not leading anyone on, if they aren't prepared to meet me in a public place and consider the safety issues for both of us then I don't want to meet them lol x"
I can maybe make the Thursday one ,not a definite though but will try x |
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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I don't get it.
Is it supposed to show people won't bother, just because it's a social meet?
It could also show that there are loads of nice people who would, but can't make a same-day, daytime meet.pretty much, I've posted as social, lots of offers for quick fuck etc
Like I said in my first post the wording of the meet and your profile was pretty much always going to kill it for you
I put social because I'm not prepared to meet a random guy at his house/hotel/car and have sex with him at least I was honest and not leading anyone on, if they aren't prepared to meet me in a public place and consider the safety issues for both of us then I don't want to meet them lol x I can maybe make the Thursday one ,not a definite though but will try x"
you're in London I'm in Cornwall lol |
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"I don't get it.
Is it supposed to show people won't bother, just because it's a social meet?
It could also show that there are loads of nice people who would, but can't make a same-day, daytime meet.pretty much, I've posted as social, lots of offers for quick fuck etc
Like I said in my first post the wording of the meet and your profile was pretty much always going to kill it for you
I put social because I'm not prepared to meet a random guy at his house/hotel/car and have sex with him at least I was honest and not leading anyone on, if they aren't prepared to meet me in a public place and consider the safety issues for both of us then I don't want to meet them lol x I can maybe make the Thursday one ,not a definite though but will try x you're in London I'm in Cornwall lol "
no odds to me I lie on the beach at studlands every day and have a meet in Lancaster Saturday I love travelling x |
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over a year ago
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And they say men are timewasters. Am. I the only one who sees the flaws and irony in a) the op logic and b) the response of some of you...
"I put up meets then log off and watch tv"... If these were comments from guys we'd be stoned and burnt at the steak.
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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I have on a few occasions put up a meet today, for a social only, ie meet for drinks or food, but please adhere to profile requirements, never once have I had a positive response!
It seems that unless sex is on the cards, social meets are not wanted......So I have given up now. |
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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago
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"And they say men are timewasters. Am. I the only one who sees the flaws and irony in a) the op logic and b) the response of some of you...
"I put up meets then log off and watch tv"... If these were comments from guys we'd be stoned and burnt at the steak.
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Well I think I proved my point, also if I log off I still get alerts to my phone so can respond if I'm interested, and no you guys wouldn't be stoned or burnt at the stake lol |
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"I don't get it.
Is it supposed to show people won't bother, just because it's a social meet?
It could also show that there are loads of nice people who would, but can't make a same-day, daytime meet.pretty much, I've posted as social, lots of offers for quick fuck etc
Like I said in my first post the wording of the meet and your profile was pretty much always going to kill it for you
I put social because I'm not prepared to meet a random guy at his house/hotel/car and have sex with him at least I was honest and not leading anyone on, if they aren't prepared to meet me in a public place and consider the safety issues for both of us then I don't want to meet them lol x I can maybe make the Thursday one ,not a definite though but will try x you're in London I'm in Cornwall lol "
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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I have on a few occasions put up a meet today, for a social only, ie meet for drinks or food, but please adhere to profile requirements, never once have I had a positive response!
It seems that unless sex is on the cards, social meets are not wanted......So I have given up now. "
Like I said earlier, I'm looking to have regular meets with people I get on with, not random one offs, it's my preference to get to know someone better by a public meet first, surely there's nothing worse than meeting for sex to find there's no connection at all, do you walk away or have an awkward fuck because it's expected? Having a social meet first can be a big factor as to whether you want to take things further. |
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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I don't get it.
Is it supposed to show people won't bother, just because it's a social meet?
It could also show that there are loads of nice people who would, but can't make a same-day, daytime meet.pretty much, I've posted as social, lots of offers for quick fuck etc
Like I said in my first post the wording of the meet and your profile was pretty much always going to kill it for you
I put social because I'm not prepared to meet a random guy at his house/hotel/car and have sex with him at least I was honest and not leading anyone on, if they aren't prepared to meet me in a public place and consider the safety issues for both of us then I don't want to meet them lol x I can maybe make the Thursday one ,not a definite though but will try x you're in London I'm in Cornwall lol so shall I not bother ?"
to be honest I'm looking for local and regular hun x |
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"And they say men are timewasters. Am. I the only one who sees the flaws and irony in a) the op logic and b) the response of some of you...
"I put up meets then log off and watch tv"... If these were comments from guys we'd be stoned and burnt at the steak.
Well I think I proved my point, also if I log off I still get alerts to my phone so can respond if I'm interested, and no you guys wouldn't be stoned or burnt at the stake lol"
How is my comment proving your point?? |
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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago
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"And they say men are timewasters. Am. I the only one who sees the flaws and irony in a) the op logic and b) the response of some of you...
"I put up meets then log off and watch tv"... If these were comments from guys we'd be stoned and burnt at the steak.
Well I think I proved my point, also if I log off I still get alerts to my phone so can respond if I'm interested, and no you guys wouldn't be stoned or burnt at the stake lol
How is my comment proving your point?? "
The posted meet and my comments on this thread have proved my point |
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"And they say men are timewasters. Am. I the only one who sees the flaws and irony in a) the op logic and b) the response of some of you...
"I put up meets then log off and watch tv"... If these were comments from guys we'd be stoned and burnt at the steak.
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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago
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"36 meets in 8 months and you haven't found someone for regular fun? How many available men live within your 20 mile limit, and are in Fab, and wouldn't mind becoming part of your 'experiment'?
Good luck with that one "
A lot of them were social or clubs, 11 cam veris to help out single guys, and some were when this was a couple's profile |
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"I don't get it.
Is it supposed to show people won't bother, just because it's a social meet?
It could also show that there are loads of nice people who would, but can't make a same-day, daytime meet.pretty much, I've posted as social, lots of offers for quick fuck etc
Like I said in my first post the wording of the meet and your profile was pretty much always going to kill it for you
I put social because I'm not prepared to meet a random guy at his house/hotel/car and have sex with him at least I was honest and not leading anyone on, if they aren't prepared to meet me in a public place and consider the safety issues for both of us then I don't want to meet them lol x I can maybe make the Thursday one ,not a definite though but will try x you're in London I'm in Cornwall lol so shall I not bother ?to be honest I'm looking for local and regular hun x"
I thought you'd be looking for someone to turn up ha oh well |
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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I don't get it.
Is it supposed to show people won't bother, just because it's a social meet?
It could also show that there are loads of nice people who would, but can't make a same-day, daytime meet.pretty much, I've posted as social, lots of offers for quick fuck etc
Like I said in my first post the wording of the meet and your profile was pretty much always going to kill it for you
I put social because I'm not prepared to meet a random guy at his house/hotel/car and have sex with him at least I was honest and not leading anyone on, if they aren't prepared to meet me in a public place and consider the safety issues for both of us then I don't want to meet them lol x I can maybe make the Thursday one ,not a definite though but will try x you're in London I'm in Cornwall lol so shall I not bother ?to be honest I'm looking for local and regular hun xI thought you'd be looking for someone to turn up ha oh well "
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"I have only ever put one meet up!i got a bit overwhelmed so logged out and watched tv instead "
I've done this ..
Put a meet up .. flurry of messages.. trying to read them all and rher which ones you liked..can't scroll all way down to find one you liked... get fed up of reading sane messages and trying to choose ... have a bath and go to bed lol xx |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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I have to say its very difficult to get a social meet on the meets feature. I had a friend visit York and we put up a social meet to verify anyone who wanted to come along. 90% of the messages were guys after a shag, and of the rest who messaged, only one guy turned up. One!
He got the last laugh though, as he got a regular shag out of it (not with me though, unfortunately). People should really try socials sometimes. You never know what you're going to get. |
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There are dreamers and fantasists, but the experiment is flawed. Do the same meet but allow people a bit more notice and evening also. Then you'll allow the nice people who are at work today I've put one up for Thursday daytime that should be enough notice lol
But no evening option for the majority who work?
To be fair to the OP she doesn't have to provide an evening option for those working days, if she wants daytime, she wants daytime, end of....
I'm a care worker and have to work split shifts my evenings off are generally spent doing real life things, generally speaking I only get two a week, by the time I'm finished pm shift it's too late for meets"
Why explain why you want a day time meet honey, it's your choice at the end of the day and it's not for members to criticise you. It's nothing to do with them. Btw I like the experiment, I may even do it myself.. |
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"I have to say its very difficult to get a social meet on the meets feature. I had a friend visit York and we put up a social meet to verify anyone who wanted to come along. 90% of the messages were guys after a shag, and of the rest who messaged, only one guy turned up. One!
He got the last laugh though, as he got a regular shag out of it (not with me though, unfortunately). People should really try socials sometimes. You never know what you're going to get."
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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"I have to say its very difficult to get a social meet on the meets feature. I had a friend visit York and we put up a social meet to verify anyone who wanted to come along. 90% of the messages were guys after a shag, and of the rest who messaged, only one guy turned up. One!
He got the last laugh though, as he got a regular shag out of it (not with me though, unfortunately). People should really try socials sometimes. You never know what you're going to get."
I did post a thread about doing an organised social and got some good advice, don't think I'll bother now lol x |
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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago
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There are dreamers and fantasists, but the experiment is flawed. Do the same meet but allow people a bit more notice and evening also. Then you'll allow the nice people who are at work today I've put one up for Thursday daytime that should be enough notice lol
But no evening option for the majority who work?
To be fair to the OP she doesn't have to provide an evening option for those working days, if she wants daytime, she wants daytime, end of....
I'm a care worker and have to work split shifts my evenings off are generally spent doing real life things, generally speaking I only get two a week, by the time I'm finished pm shift it's too late for meets
Why explain why you want a day time meet honey, it's your choice at the end of the day and it's not for members to criticise you. It's nothing to do with them. Btw I like the experiment, I may even do it myself.. "
As I posted earlier, I'm a community carer on split shifts and only get a couple of days off each week evenings on those days are generally taken up with non fab things, so I post meets on a Friday for the next week when I get my rota. My shifts finish too late for evening meets sometimes I don't get home till 10pm and up at half 6 the next morning, hope this clarifies things x |
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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"Incidentally, I have removed today's meet as it would appear that no one wants a social lolWhat do you reckon the response would be if the meet would be a shag? lol."
no idea maybe I should try it lol
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"I don't get it.
Is it supposed to show people won't bother, just because it's a social meet?
It could also show that there are loads of nice people who would, but can't make a same-day, daytime meet.pretty much, I've posted as social, lots of offers for quick fuck etc
Like I said in my first post the wording of the meet and your profile was pretty much always going to kill it for you
I put social because I'm not prepared to meet a random guy at his house/hotel/car and have sex with him at least I was honest and not leading anyone on, if they aren't prepared to meet me in a public place and consider the safety issues for both of us then I don't want to meet them lol x"
Its nothing to do with the fact its a social.
Its that you've done it in an incredibly anti social way.
Anyone interested in a nice social is going to pass by because thats not what you're presenting.
So you're left with the dregs who message anyone for a hand job in the car park behind the Keenan house |
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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"I don't get it.
Is it supposed to show people won't bother, just because it's a social meet?
It could also show that there are loads of nice people who would, but can't make a same-day, daytime meet.pretty much, I've posted as social, lots of offers for quick fuck etc
Like I said in my first post the wording of the meet and your profile was pretty much always going to kill it for you
I put social because I'm not prepared to meet a random guy at his house/hotel/car and have sex with him at least I was honest and not leading anyone on, if they aren't prepared to meet me in a public place and consider the safety issues for both of us then I don't want to meet them lol x
Its nothing to do with the fact its a social.
Its that you've done it in an incredibly anti social way.
Anyone interested in a nice social is going to pass by because thats not what you're presenting.
So you're left with the dregs who message anyone for a hand job in the car park behind the Keenan house"
anti social? |
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"I am looking for a social meet today so far all I've had is over 50 messages deleted as not for me, distance, etc, 6 from guys that seemed ok and fairly local then they tell me they're married and "just thought it was worth a try", "it's just a fuck" etc when I've posted for a social meet! So still looking!"
Short of cash and fancy a few cheeky free drinks?? |
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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I am looking for a social meet today so far all I've had is over 50 messages deleted as not for me, distance, etc, 6 from guys that seemed ok and fairly local then they tell me they're married and "just thought it was worth a try", "it's just a fuck" etc when I've posted for a social meet! So still looking!
Short of cash and fancy a few cheeky free drinks??"
no not at all I always pay my way |
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"I don't get it.
Is it supposed to show people won't bother, just because it's a social meet?
It could also show that there are loads of nice people who would, but can't make a same-day, daytime meet.pretty much, I've posted as social, lots of offers for quick fuck etc
Like I said in my first post the wording of the meet and your profile was pretty much always going to kill it for you
I put social because I'm not prepared to meet a random guy at his house/hotel/car and have sex with him at least I was honest and not leading anyone on, if they aren't prepared to meet me in a public place and consider the safety issues for both of us then I don't want to meet them lol x
Its nothing to do with the fact its a social.
Its that you've done it in an incredibly anti social way.
Anyone interested in a nice social is going to pass by because thats not what you're presenting.
So you're left with the dregs who message anyone for a hand job in the car park behind the Keenan houseanti social?"
There's nothing really on there that shows off your personality.
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"I am looking for a social meet today so far all I've had is over 50 messages deleted as not for me, distance, etc, 6 from guys that seemed ok and fairly local then they tell me they're married and "just thought it was worth a try", "it's just a fuck" etc when I've posted for a social meet! So still looking!"
Having 50 replies is great, surely. Maybe they weren't for you, but it does show people are prepared to attend 'just' a social. Hopefully some faith is restored? |
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"On the meet or profile?"
Both really. I'm kinda skirting the nitpicking rule as it is as you haven't asked.
But i would say if socials are you're thing then your profile text becomes very important.
As a social is all about personalities, if you don't show yours then people wont engage. |
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over a year ago
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"On the meet or profile?
Both really. I'm kinda skirting the nitpicking rule as it is as you haven't asked.
But i would say if socials are you're thing then your profile text becomes very important.
As a social is all about personalities, if you don't show yours then people wont engage."
Thanks hun, feel free to bit pick via PM I'd be interested to find out what I can do to improve x |
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