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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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There seems to be a very short supply of GENUINE MEN on here
Guys always moaning they can get laid !! No one answering there messages!!
WELL STOP and come and play with me and my sexy lady friends
What u waiting for
It's party time!!  |
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"I would if you were closer. Sounds like a fantastic night out.
Milton Keynes 13th May
Xx "
On shift that night. 
Sound like I'm just another guy making excuses now, doesn't it?
My profile does honestly state I'm a shift worker, lol. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I would if you were closer. Sounds like a fantastic night out.
Milton Keynes 13th May
Xx
On shift that night.
Sound like I'm just another guy making excuses now, doesn't it?
My profile does honestly state I'm a shift worker, lol."
Ok no worries |
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"I would if you were closer. Sounds like a fantastic night out.
Milton Keynes 13th May
Xx
On shift that night.
Sound like I'm just another guy making excuses now, doesn't it?
My profile does honestly state I'm a shift worker, lol.
Ok no worries "
Hotlisted you and will keep an eye outfor when you next hit the South East. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I would if you were closer. Sounds like a fantastic night out.
Milton Keynes 13th May
Xx
On shift that night.
Sound like I'm just another guy making excuses now, doesn't it?
My profile does honestly state I'm a shift worker, lol.
Ok no worries
Hotlisted you and will keep an eye outfor when you next hit the South East. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"\you got anything on 29th or 30th April when I'm over
We are in Leeds on 29th
Sadly too far north.. will keep my eye out for when I'm back in the Uk and you are further south"
Cheltenham and Milton Keynes ?? Any good |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There seems to be a very short supply of GENUINE MEN on here
Guys always moaning they can get laid !! No one answering there messages!!
WELL STOP and come and play with me and my sexy lady friends
What u waiting for
It's party time!! "
I think you've omitted one important detail.
RDP charges for their parties, and there's not a lack of genuine men at all. Genuine men can get meets without having to pay  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There seems to be a very short supply of GENUINE MEN on here
Guys always moaning they can get laid !! No one answering there messages!!
WELL STOP and come and play with me and my sexy lady friends
What u waiting for
It's party time!!
I think you've omitted one important detail.
RDP charges for their parties, and there's not a lack of genuine men at all. Genuine men can get meets without having to pay "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There seems to be a very short supply of GENUINE MEN on here
Guys always moaning they can get laid !! No one answering there messages!!
WELL STOP and come and play with me and my sexy lady friends
What u waiting for
It's party time!!
I think you've omitted one important detail.
RDP charges for their parties, and there's not a lack of genuine men at all. Genuine men can get meets without having to pay "
Yes we charge for our parties to cover costs.. ie.. apartment / venue hire.. condoms, fresh towels, wipes, soft drinks and nibbles!! All this costs.. and is still cheaper then going to a hotel room and forking out that yrself.. we offer a safe environment to play as a group!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There seems to be a very short supply of GENUINE MEN on here
Guys always moaning they can get laid !! No one answering there messages!!
WELL STOP and come and play with me and my sexy lady friends
What u waiting for
It's party time!!
I think you've omitted one important detail.
RDP charges for their parties, and there's not a lack of genuine men at all. Genuine men can get meets without having to pay
Yes we charge for our parties to cover costs.. ie.. apartment / venue hire.. condoms, fresh towels, wipes, soft drinks and nibbles!! All this costs.. and is still cheaper then going to a hotel room and forking out that yrself.. we offer a safe environment to play as a group!! "
I'll answer your abrupt PM here as it relates to the topic concerned.
Ok so, you charge lets say £50 per guy ballpark. You claim a max of 20 "guests" per party so simple mathematics
50x20 = £1000 per party.
Let's say the outgoings are roughly £300 what happens to the other £700 then? Do you donate it to a deserving charity or is it distributed between you and your "lady friends"
Now, you're entitled to do whatever with whoever, but let's be honest about what's happening here. I have no issues with RDP. I have an issue with you claiming there's a lack of genuine single guys when there's hundreds on here, they just don't need to shell out for a party to have fun.
You're claim about being cheaper than a hotel is laughable though, it might be on a par cost wise, but I wouldn't be sharing that hotel room with 19 other guys now would I? I'd be sharing it with someone who wanted to play with me and wasn't obliged because I paid a "contribution" |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just my luck, free for the MK meet but 5 years too old"
I have no problem with age.. but it's not all about me.. the other ladies maybe put off .. leave it with me xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There seems to be a very short supply of GENUINE MEN on here
Guys always moaning they can get laid !! No one answering there messages!!
WELL STOP and come and play with me and my sexy lady friends
What u waiting for
It's party time!!
I think you've omitted one important detail.
RDP charges for their parties, and there's not a lack of genuine men at all. Genuine men can get meets without having to pay
Yes we charge for our parties to cover costs.. ie.. apartment / venue hire.. condoms, fresh towels, wipes, soft drinks and nibbles!! All this costs.. and is still cheaper then going to a hotel room and forking out that yrself.. we offer a safe environment to play as a group!!
I'll answer your abrupt PM here as it relates to the topic concerned.
Ok so, you charge lets say £50 per guy ballpark. You claim a max of 20 "guests" per party so simple mathematics
50x20 = £1000 per party.
Let's say the outgoings are roughly £300 what happens to the other £700 then? Do you donate it to a deserving charity or is it distributed between you and your "lady friends"
Now, you're entitled to do whatever with whoever, but let's be honest about what's happening here. I have no issues with RDP. I have an issue with you claiming there's a lack of genuine single guys when there's hundreds on here, they just don't need to shell out for a party to have fun.
You're claim about being cheaper than a hotel is laughable though, it might be on a par cost wise, but I wouldn't be sharing that hotel room with 19 other guys now would I? I'd be sharing it with someone who wanted to play with me and wasn't obliged because I paid a "contribution" "
Really not sure where ur getting yr info from.. our parties are small affairs!!
2/3 ladies
1/2 couples
And about 8/10 guys.. (last 2 parties only 6 guys)
Must pay a deposit and balance on the door
We don't get many paying £50 as there put there name on the guest list and don't show!!
We still have to fork out for an apartment upfront and in most cases pay a deposit of anything up to £200 on top, plus once finished wash towels, and replace condoms, lubes etc.. there is no way we make the £700 u are claiming.. on a good night if everyone turns up and we all fill our boots.. I might have £50 for fuel and my expenses (tea and WKD blue) lol
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Instead of moaning about the cost of the parties.. come and try one and experience it for yrself.. I promise not to tie u to the bed and leave u there hehe |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Instead of moaning about the cost of the parties.. come and try one and experience it for yrself.. I promise not to tie u to the bed and leave u there hehe "
I've actually never moaned about the cost of a party, hell I probably spend that and more if I go to Chams. I probably spend double that on a nice hotel meet.
My issue, and only issue is with your claim that there's a lack of single genuine guys on here when there clearly isn't!
I'm going to politely decline your generous party invite solely on the basis that as a genuine single guy I can when bothered, have meets with women who want to play with me and aren't obliged to.
Oh that and you're not tying me to a bed even if you paid me! I am scarred for life after watching Basic Instinct as an impressionable teenager 
I will say that I have no issues with you or Jayne, personally. Never met either of you and I'm sure you're both lovely
It has only ever been about your opening statement. Single men get a hard time as it is on here without being bashed for not being eager to attend contribution parties |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Is this another instance where the cost for men is significantly higher again too? "
Only in line with other clubs and parties..
Without ladies present at parties u don't have a party ... SIMPLE!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is this another instance where the cost for men is significantly higher again too?
Only in line with other clubs and parties..
Without ladies present at parties u don't have a party ... SIMPLE!! "
But that in itself (IMO) is prohibitive to attracting decent, genuine blokes.
I understand (ish) the reasoning for it but it's a significant factor that puts me off and personally, i think it will be reflected in the demeanour of the majority of men who do attend.
Going back to your OP, it's a bit like saying 'why don't decent men come when we treat them like we're doing them a favour by allowing them and charging them a premium for the privilege'. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Instead of moaning about the cost of the parties.. come and try one and experience it for yrself.. I promise not to tie u to the bed and leave u there hehe
I've actually never moaned about the cost of a party, hell I probably spend that and more if I go to Chams. I probably spend double that on a nice hotel meet.
My issue, and only issue is with your claim that there's a lack of single genuine guys on here when there clearly isn't!
I'm going to politely decline your generous party invite solely on the basis that as a genuine single guy I can when bothered, have meets with women who want to play with me and aren't obliged to.
Oh that and you're not tying me to a bed even if you paid me! I am scarred for life after watching Basic Instinct as an impressionable teenager
I will say that I have no issues with you or Jayne, personally. Never met either of you and I'm sure you're both lovely
It has only ever been about your opening statement. Single men get a hard time as it is on here without being bashed for not being eager to attend contribution parties "
No one is obliged to play with anyone..there is no pressure to play ... but I'm greedy and love cock!!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If you want me to come up msg me details? what's the age range of women that go? Could do eith my face being smashed by a couple of bubble butts :p"
Cool I'll drop u a message |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There seems to be a very short supply of GENUINE MEN on here
Guys always moaning they can get laid !! No one answering there messages!!
WELL STOP and come and play with me and my sexy lady friends
What u waiting for
It's party time!! "
Not doing yourself, your parties nor anyone elseany favours by implying there's a lack of genuine single men, if you're wanting genuine men to attend. I'd say most genuine single men don't moan about not meeting, certainly we don't need to hear that paying for verifications is the answer either. I guess if I went to your party that would confirm to everyone that I'm genuine?
There's plenty of genuine guys on here, some go to parties some find parties uncomfortable. I had two very unpleasant experiences at my first two having been convinced it was the 'must' way to go on here. ...certainly turned me off the idea. |
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"There seems to be a very short supply of GENUINE MEN on here
Guys always moaning they can get laid !! No one answering there messages!!
WELL STOP and come and play with me and my sexy lady friends
What u waiting for
It's party time!!
Not doing yourself, your parties nor anyone elseany favours by implying there's a lack of genuine single men, if you're wanting genuine men to attend. I'd say most genuine single men don't moan about not meeting, certainly we don't need to hear that paying for verifications is the answer either. I guess if I went to your party that would confirm to everyone that I'm genuine?
There's plenty of genuine guys on here, some go to parties some find parties uncomfortable. I had two very unpleasant experiences at my first two having been convinced it was the 'must' way to go on here. ...certainly turned me off the idea."
Who's paying for veris??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Who's paying for veris??? "
"Guys always moaning they can get laid !! No one answering there messages!!
WELL STOP and come and play with me and my sexy lady friends
What u waiting for"
...It comes across like that when the guys have a heavy premium over ladies and couples for parties. Supply and demand doesn't cut it as it's usually a certain restriction of number of single guys as well as single ladies too. Very few places charge the same for everyone. There are a couple of organisers that do that and state as soon as the allocated mens places go that's it... its not about premium prices under the guise of supply and demand.
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By (user no longer on site)
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You are saying you don't make much money out of it ?
10 single guys @ £40 £400
10 cpls @ £20. £200
10 single ladys@ £10. £100
Total. £700
If you are after single guys why charge them the earth ???????
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"This is taxidave on my cpls profile they are lots of great guys out there but £40 ! They can go to quest for £25 ????? Just feel sorry for single guys"
Well, as I'm going to the Leeds one, don't feel too sorry for them. 
I can see why the OP is charging, as its more likely someone will turn up if they've paid a deposit. I've lost count of the amount of parties and GBs I've organised with no charge, only to be sat on my tod when the inevitable happens. It may be a total vag fest when I go due to the legendary tightness of Yorkshire folk, but at least they tried. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Think the deposit is a great idea,
Just think £40 for a single guy is taking the piss !
They're from the South. Its pricier down there. 
I'm from the midlands !! "
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"This is taxidave on my cpls profile they are lots of great guys out there but £40 ! They can go to quest for £25 ????? Just feel sorry for single guys
Well, as I'm going to the Leeds one, don't feel too sorry for them.
I can see why the OP is charging, as its more likely someone will turn up if they've paid a deposit. I've lost count of the amount of parties and GBs I've organised with no charge, only to be sat on my tod when the inevitable happens. It may be a total vag fest when I go due to the legendary tightness of Yorkshire folk, but at least they tried."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You are saying you don't make much money out of it ?
10 single guys @ £40 £400
10 cpls @ £20. £200
10 single ladys@ £10. £100
Total. £700
If you are after single guys why charge them the earth ???????
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Simple truth. Because they can. What gets me is when the very same organisers run down single men complaining that there don't seem to be enough genuine men. Well...LOL. It would seem that charging more doesn't guarantee them genuine men going by their comments so it can't be for reasons of making sure guys come either.
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"You are saying you don't make much money out of it ?
10 single guys @ £40 £400
10 cpls @ £20. £200
10 single ladys@ £10. £100
Total. £700
If you are after single guys why charge them the earth ???????
Simple truth. Because they can. What gets me is when the very same organisers run down single men complaining that there don't seem to be enough genuine men. Well...LOL. It would seem that charging more doesn't guarantee them genuine men going by their comments so it can't be for reasons of making sure guys come either.
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I have not run anyone down thanks very much!! |
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"This is taxidave on my cpls profile they are lots of great guys out there but £40 ! They can go to quest for £25 ????? Just feel sorry for single guys
Well, as I'm going to the Leeds one, don't feel too sorry for them.
I can see why the OP is charging, as its more likely someone will turn up if they've paid a deposit. I've lost count of the amount of parties and GBs I've organised with no charge, only to be sat on my tod when the inevitable happens. It may be a total vag fest when I go due to the legendary tightness of Yorkshire folk, but at least they tried."
Wish I could make it up there. Let me know all the dirty details on Monday morning and I can live vicariously through you, |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
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"This is taxidave on my cpls profile they are lots of great guys out there but £40 ! They can go to quest for £25 ????? Just feel sorry for single guys
Well, as I'm going to the Leeds one, don't feel too sorry for them.
I can see why the OP is charging, as its more likely someone will turn up if they've paid a deposit. I've lost count of the amount of parties and GBs I've organised with no charge, only to be sat on my tod when the inevitable happens. It may be a total vag fest when I go due to the legendary tightness of Yorkshire folk, but at least they tried.
Wish I could make it up there. Let me know all the dirty details on Monday morning and I can live vicariously through you, "
Then I'll come down there and give you a live demonstration.  |
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"This is taxidave on my cpls profile they are lots of great guys out there but £40 ! They can go to quest for £25 ????? Just feel sorry for single guys
Well, as I'm going to the Leeds one, don't feel too sorry for them.
I can see why the OP is charging, as its more likely someone will turn up if they've paid a deposit. I've lost count of the amount of parties and GBs I've organised with no charge, only to be sat on my tod when the inevitable happens. It may be a total vag fest when I go due to the legendary tightness of Yorkshire folk, but at least they tried.
Wish I could make it up there. Let me know all the dirty details on Monday morning and I can live vicariously through you, "
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"I would attend and happily pay £40 but I would want a guarantee ( cast iron ) that Jayne would suck my cock "
Poor Jane lol in swinging if cpl or female or male you can never guarantee what the night will be lol |
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"I would attend and happily pay £40 but I would want a guarantee ( cast iron ) that Jayne would suck my cock
Poor Jane lol in swinging if cpl or female or male you can never guarantee what the night will be lol "
Exactly xx |
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"This is taxidave on my cpls profile they are lots of great guys out there but £40 ! They can go to quest for £25 ????? Just feel sorry for single guys
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Single men have a choice. No one is forcing them to pay £40. If they want to go to Quest then go, but I'm sure alot would moan at that too.
Look these ladies are providing a party. If it's not for you then just don't go or organise your own and find out how much hard work goes into it. But be prepared to lose a few hundred for the outlay cos alot of men will bottle it at the last minute. |
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"This is taxidave on my cpls profile they are lots of great guys out there but £40 ! They can go to quest for £25 ????? Just feel sorry for single guys
Single men have a choice. No one is forcing them to pay £40. If they want to go to Quest then go, but I'm sure alot would moan at that too.
Look these ladies are providing a party. If it's not for you then just don't go or organise your own and find out how much hard work goes into it. But be prepared to lose a few hundred for the outlay cos alot of men will bottle it at the last minute."
Thanks sweetie, folks don't think about the hard work I put into these parties just the maths.. and the abusive I get online too!!
At the end of the day!! 99% of folks who attend my parties will walk out with a big smile of they faces. And that's what it's all about!! The haters will hate!! The lovers will love!!
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"This is taxidave on my cpls profile they are lots of great guys out there but £40 ! They can go to quest for £25 ????? Just feel sorry for single guys
Well, as I'm going to the Leeds one, don't feel too sorry for them.
I can see why the OP is charging, as its more likely someone will turn up if they've paid a deposit. I've lost count of the amount of parties and GBs I've organised with no charge, only to be sat on my tod when the inevitable happens. It may be a total vag fest when I go due to the legendary tightness of Yorkshire folk, but at least they tried.
Wish I could make it up there. Let me know all the dirty details on Monday morning and I can live vicariously through you,
Then I'll come down there and give you a live demonstration. "
Looking forward to that.
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It's unfortunate that everyone on here has something against younger guys, students even.
It would be amazing for a girl or woman to show some interest. I also love I'm Cheltenham so any parties within or anyone on general that's interested, I would love to talk. |
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