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Am i ok to post this in the lounge?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi I'm josh..work and live in northwest ..34 and im an engineer,need know anything else its in my profile or you can ask if you like.
Im looking to see if anyone is interested in meeting this afternoon ideally for fun, if not im happy with a social and im even happy just to meet someone of here in person just so i can get bloody verified haha..
I finish early on fridays so anytime from 12:30 onwards in lancashire is fine with me depending on distance...thanks for reading this hopefully someone will help me out...if not i could only try
Thanks
Ps...i know its short notice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am looking for the same so if anyone can help us both ? 
You're already verified, don't steal his thunder  "
He is as well, and if we can help each other maybe a want a pint and a chin wag ? I am up for it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hey there, it's an open forum and people can post what what they want so no worries there.
The reception you get tends to depend on your level of hotness - average type fellas will get a lot of sarcasm and piss taking, you seem a good looking decent chap, with a decent profile, so I'm sure you'll be fine with the ladies, some guys however may try and point score and mock in some sort of testosterone-fuelled challenge but ignore it is my advice .
Good luck and I hope you find what you're looking for  |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
I'm in Leeds it's raining, so I'd appreciate someone bringing me some sunshine, . Anytime after 12 would be great ...thanks I know it's a long shot  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm in Leeds it's raining, so I'd appreciate someone bringing me some sunshine, . Anytime after 12 would be great ...thanks I know it's a long shot "
Sorry mate your not having my sunshine, we only just got it  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for the replies. .wasn't expecting any to be honest. .cheers for the compliments as well...i know were all competing against each other but i appreciate the replys and im getting used to the sarcasm finally....patience is the key as i keep reading |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks for the replies. .wasn't expecting any to be honest. .cheers for the compliments as well...i know were all competing against each other but i appreciate the replys and im getting used to the sarcasm finally....patience is the key as i keep reading "
Haha but seriously if you want a drink and chin wag, just let me know...so I can decline |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well im the opposite i cant be arsed meeting so im going for a swim...good luck
See you at saturday my 
Im not gay pal sorry"
Haha me neither but it is so good to pul your leg |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks for the replies. .wasn't expecting any to be honest. .cheers for the compliments as well...i know were all competing against each other but i appreciate the replys and im getting used to the sarcasm finally....patience is the key as i keep reading "
It's not a competition
Don't listen to the hype |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Thanks for the replies. .wasn't expecting any to be honest. .cheers for the compliments as well...i know were all competing against each other but i appreciate the replys and im getting used to the sarcasm finally....patience is the key as i keep reading
It's not a competition
Don't listen to the hype "
Seems like a competition to me too be honest ...end of the day it does come down to looks intially and there is always someone better looking. ..just the way it is i suppose...but perseverance pays off lol... (i hope) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Good luck OP. Why not put up a meet.. "
Thanks sexyspecs...I've put one up but pretty short notice...if i don't get any joy I'll just go on cams later
Ps..wish you was closer x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks for the replies. .wasn't expecting any to be honest. .cheers for the compliments as well...i know were all competing against each other but i appreciate the replys and im getting used to the sarcasm finally....patience is the key as i keep reading
It's not a competition
Don't listen to the hype
Seems like a competition to me too be honest ...end of the day it does come down to looks intially and there is always someone better looking. ..just the way it is i suppose...but perseverance pays off lol... (i hope) "
Nonsense
I am a fat short arse in my 40's
I'm bald, I'm hairy, I wear specs
I have met both males and females from this site. I have met MF couples and MM couples too.
I only meet those I find attractive - some would argue I punch above my weight (I don't buy into that approach either btw)
I never blow smoke up other peoples arses and I certainly don't chase anyone 'to make them feel special or wanted'
Going by your thoughts, I'd never get a meet.
The thing is, I have never struggled to get meets.
I don't get to meet everyone I would like to by any means, but that said the site has thrown several meets my way from people I would have never thought were interested in me.
But meet I have.
I've never viewed it as a competition.
I have been largely respectful to all users - male and female (apart from maybe a bit of light hearted mickey taking) and I have pretty much always approached the site in a non sexual way.
All I have been is myself.
You will find that most people don't expect any more than that.
Good luck. I hope you get your meet veri soon.
In the mean time, don't turn it into a frantic chase. It shows and it is rarely attractive.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Thanks for the replies. .wasn't expecting any to be honest. .cheers for the compliments as well...i know were all competing against each other but i appreciate the replys and im getting used to the sarcasm finally....patience is the key as i keep reading
It's not a competition
Don't listen to the hype
Seems like a competition to me too be honest ...end of the day it does come down to looks intially and there is always someone better looking. ..just the way it is i suppose...but perseverance pays off lol... (i hope)
Nonsense
I am a fat short arse in my 40's
I'm bald, I'm hairy, I wear specs
I have met both males and females from this site. I have met MF couples and MM couples too.
I only meet those I find attractive - some would argue I punch above my weight (I don't buy into that approach either btw)
I never blow smoke up other peoples arses and I certainly don't chase anyone 'to make them feel special or wanted'
Going by your thoughts, I'd never get a meet.
The thing is, I have never struggled to get meets.
I don't get to meet everyone I would like to by any means, but that said the site has thrown several meets my way from people I would have never thought were interested in me.
But meet I have.
I've never viewed it as a competition.
I have been largely respectful to all users - male and female (apart from maybe a bit of light hearted mickey taking) and I have pretty much always approached the site in a non sexual way.
All I have been is myself.
You will find that most people don't expect any more than that.
Good luck. I hope you get your meet veri soon.
In the mean time, don't turn it into a frantic chase. It shows and it is rarely attractive.
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Fair enough. ...i get were your coming from and thanks for the advice... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks for the replies. .wasn't expecting any to be honest. .cheers for the compliments as well...i know were all competing against each other but i appreciate the replys and im getting used to the sarcasm finally....patience is the key as i keep reading
It's not a competition
Don't listen to the hype
Seems like a competition to me too be honest ...end of the day it does come down to looks intially and there is always someone better looking. ..just the way it is i suppose...but perseverance pays off lol... (i hope) "
Nah it's not a competition, if it is its only with yourself. As you say there are always better looking, more successful, fitter guys. All you can be is the best 'you' you can be. After that you'll get meets. I'm average joe but I do ok.
Get to socials, make some fab friends |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Thanks for the replies. .wasn't expecting any to be honest. .cheers for the compliments as well...i know were all competing against each other but i appreciate the replys and im getting used to the sarcasm finally....patience is the key as i keep reading
It's not a competition
Don't listen to the hype
Seems like a competition to me too be honest ...end of the day it does come down to looks intially and there is always someone better looking. ..just the way it is i suppose...but perseverance pays off lol... (i hope)
Nah it's not a competition, if it is its only with yourself. As you say there are always better looking, more successful, fitter guys. All you can be is the best 'you' you can be. After that you'll get meets. I'm average joe but I do ok.
Get to socials, make some fab friends"
I must admit the club scene sounds pretty intimidating haha..plus if you recognised someone there that would be pretty awkward lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks for the replies. .wasn't expecting any to be honest. .cheers for the compliments as well...i know were all competing against each other but i appreciate the replys and im getting used to the sarcasm finally....patience is the key as i keep reading
It's not a competition
Don't listen to the hype
Seems like a competition to me too be honest ...end of the day it does come down to looks intially and there is always someone better looking. ..just the way it is i suppose...but perseverance pays off lol... (i hope) "
I fuck ugly men. Some may think I'm not fussy but I really am. Not everyone needs a handsome face or body to be turned on and you may think someone is better looking than you,whereas I may think you're better looking than him. |
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I must admit the club scene sounds pretty intimidating haha..plus if you recognised someone there that would be pretty awkward lol"
It only feels intimidating the first time you go. The most difficult part of all is ringing the bell or opening the door.
After that it all drops into place. As for being awkward if you met somebody you knew... it would surely be just as awkward for them.
What are they going to do? Tell someone, "Hey, guess what? I saw Whassiname in the swingers club I go to yesterday."
I don't think that will happen.
If you want a recommendation for a club to go to I could point you in the right direction of one that's not too frightening. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Thanks for the replies. .wasn't expecting any to be honest. .cheers for the compliments as well...i know were all competing against each other but i appreciate the replys and im getting used to the sarcasm finally....patience is the key as i keep reading
It's not a competition
Don't listen to the hype
Seems like a competition to me too be honest ...end of the day it does come down to looks intially and there is always someone better looking. ..just the way it is i suppose...but perseverance pays off lol... (i hope)
I fuck ugly men. Some may think I'm not fussy but I really am. Not everyone needs a handsome face or body to be turned on and you may think someone is better looking than you,whereas I may think you're better looking than him. "
Yeah i suppose it's all about opinions..just wish someones.opinion about me would be positive and get me a meet of some kind lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Get off to a club.Its much easier to meet and chat to people.
You took the words out of my mouth "
Yes i keep seeing this 'get to a club' but everyone is different and i don't think i could do this personally |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well im the opposite i cant be arsed meeting so im going for a swim...good luck
Awww I wanna go swimming now!!   "
Just been and done a mile now im starving!!! |
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"Get off to a club.Its much easier to meet and chat to people.
You took the words out of my mouth
Yes i keep seeing this 'get to a club' but everyone is different and i don't think i could do this personally "
See my previous post.
Also, if you go to this one you could also get them to verify you.
I'd send you their details but you've blocked all singles!
If you want to talk off forum I'm prepared to listen.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Get off to a club.Its much easier to meet and chat to people.
You took the words out of my mouth
Yes i keep seeing this 'get to a club' but everyone is different and i don't think i could do this personally
See my previous post.
Also, if you go to this one you could also get them to verify you.
I'd send you their details but you've blocked all singles!
If you want to talk off forum I'm prepared to listen.
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Thanks for the offer but i just couldn't go to a club |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Let me run a scenario past you
Every time you go to the pub, are you looking to pull ?
Of course you may be, but most people go to the pub to hang out, socialise, make friends, get pissed or generally just have a good time.
Not every time are they on the prowl, looking for an opportunity to be sexual with someone.
A pub is a micro community, we know some others in passing, to say 'hi' to. Others we might have a pint with and get to know a bit better. Others you know intimately. They know you in and out. You know them in and out.
That's how I treat the site.
I don't go looking.
Some people you get to know better than others. Some are attracted to you cos you're a good guy, a laugh. Others just want to get down and dirty with you. Others might just think you're a dick.
It takes time to develop these relationships, just as it takes time to walk in a pub and everyone in there knows you to at least say 'hi' to.
Fab is no different.
Engage people. Talk to them. Make them laugh. Stagger them with your smile. Give some a cheeky wink. See what happens.
Don't walk in and say 'hey, who wants a pint with me' because most will be thinking 'who is this guy ?'
I hope all that makes sense |
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"Let me run a scenario past you
Every time you go to the pub, are you looking to pull ?
Of course you may be, but most people go to the pub to hang out, socialise, make friends, get pissed or generally just have a good time.
Not every time are they on the prowl, looking for an opportunity to be sexual with someone.
A pub is a micro community, we know some others in passing, to say 'hi' to. Others we might have a pint with and get to know a bit better. Others you know intimately. They know you in and out. You know them in and out.
That's how I treat the site.
I don't go looking.
Some people you get to know better than others. Some are attracted to you cos you're a good guy, a laugh. Others just want to get down and dirty with you. Others might just think you're a dick.
It takes time to develop these relationships, just as it takes time to walk in a pub and everyone in there knows you to at least say 'hi' to.
Fab is no different.
Engage people. Talk to them. Make them laugh. Stagger them with your smile. Give some a cheeky wink. See what happens.
Don't walk in and say 'hey, who wants a pint with me' because most will be thinking 'who is this guy ?'
I hope all that makes sense "
Absolutely just that.
I'm still here for the listening if anyone wants. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well im the opposite i cant be arsed meeting so im going for a swim...good luck
Awww I wanna go swimming now!!
Just been and done a mile now im starving!!!"
I've just been and broke 1 km for the first time! Chuffed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Let me run a scenario past you
Every time you go to the pub, are you looking to pull ?
Of course you may be, but most people go to the pub to hang out, socialise, make friends, get pissed or generally just have a good time.
Not every time are they on the prowl, looking for an opportunity to be sexual with someone.
A pub is a micro community, we know some others in passing, to say 'hi' to. Others we might have a pint with and get to know a bit better. Others you know intimately. They know you in and out. You know them in and out.
That's how I treat the site.
I don't go looking.
Some people you get to know better than others. Some are attracted to you cos you're a good guy, a laugh. Others just want to get down and dirty with you. Others might just think you're a dick.
It takes time to develop these relationships, just as it takes time to walk in a pub and everyone in there knows you to at least say 'hi' to.
Fab is no different.
Engage people. Talk to them. Make them laugh. Stagger them with your smile. Give some a cheeky wink. See what happens.
Don't walk in and say 'hey, who wants a pint with me' because most will be thinking 'who is this guy ?'
I hope all that makes sense "
This is perfect! I find that this site works best when it's used in addition to the swinging lifestyle, use it to keep in contact with those you've met or as a tool to possibly meet in the future. As a sole way of meeting people it's very difficult unless you're a single lady or a hot couple |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well im the opposite i cant be arsed meeting so im going for a swim...good luck
Awww I wanna go swimming now!!
Just been and done a mile now im starving!!!
I've just been and broke 1 km for the first time! Chuffed"
Thats 40 lengths..well done |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well im the opposite i cant be arsed meeting so im going for a swim...good luck
Awww I wanna go swimming now!!
Just been and done a mile now im starving!!!
I've just been and broke 1 km for the first time! Chuffed
Thats 40 lengths..well done"
Still wanna go swimming!! Mean boys showing off like that!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well im the opposite i cant be arsed meeting so im going for a swim...good luck
Awww I wanna go swimming now!!
Just been and done a mile now im starving!!!
I've just been and broke 1 km for the first time! Chuffed
Thats 40 lengths..well done
Still wanna go swimming!! Mean boys showing off like that!! "
Ahhh but ariel you have that gorgeous body and tattoos to show off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am looking for the same so if anyone can help us both ?
You're already verified, don't steal his thunder
He is as well, and if we can help each other maybe a want a pint and a chin wag ? I am up for it "
Mrs: swap the pint for a cider and you've got yourself a date |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I am looking for the same so if anyone can help us both ?
You're already verified, don't steal his thunder
He is as well, and if we can help each other maybe a want a pint and a chin wag ? I am up for it
Mrs: swap the pint for a cider and you've got yourself a date "
Im glad i could help you get a date lol so much for me haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am looking for the same so if anyone can help us both ?
You're already verified, don't steal his thunder
He is as well, and if we can help each other maybe a want a pint and a chin wag ? I am up for it
Mrs: swap the pint for a cider and you've got yourself a date "
Yeahh I got a date  
It worked afterall |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was sitting in a cafe at 9.15 a couple of days ago thinking it would be nice to have a chat with someone nearby over a cup of tea. I couldn't find anyone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am looking for the same so if anyone can help us both ?
You're already verified, don't steal his thunder
He is as well, and if we can help each other maybe a want a pint and a chin wag ? I am up for it
Mrs: swap the pint for a cider and you've got yourself a date
Im glad i could help you get a date lol so much for me haha"
Mrs: hahahaha I'll bring a friend |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am looking for the same so if anyone can help us both ?
You're already verified, don't steal his thunder
He is as well, and if we can help each other maybe a want a pint and a chin wag ? I am up for it
Mrs: swap the pint for a cider and you've got yourself a date
Im glad i could help you get a date lol so much for me haha
Mrs: hahahaha I'll bring a friend "
Happy ending for all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am looking for the same so if anyone can help us both ?
You're already verified, don't steal his thunder
He is as well, and if we can help each other maybe a want a pint and a chin wag ? I am up for it
Mrs: swap the pint for a cider and you've got yourself a date
Im glad i could help you get a date lol so much for me haha"
Pity you are miles away. I'd buy you a cake |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I am looking for the same so if anyone can help us both ?
You're already verified, don't steal his thunder
He is as well, and if we can help each other maybe a want a pint and a chin wag ? I am up for it
Mrs: swap the pint for a cider and you've got yourself a date
Im glad i could help you get a date lol so much for me haha
Mrs: hahahaha I'll bring a friend "
Yes please |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I am looking for the same so if anyone can help us both ?
You're already verified, don't steal his thunder
He is as well, and if we can help each other maybe a want a pint and a chin wag ? I am up for it
Mrs: swap the pint for a cider and you've got yourself a date
Im glad i could help you get a date lol so much for me haha
Pity you are miles away. I'd buy you a cake "
Oh i lol..what sort of cake? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am looking for the same so if anyone can help us both ?
You're already verified, don't steal his thunder
He is as well, and if we can help each other maybe a want a pint and a chin wag ? I am up for it
Mrs: swap the pint for a cider and you've got yourself a date
Im glad i could help you get a date lol so much for me haha
Mrs: hahahaha I'll bring a friend
Yes please "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I am looking for the same so if anyone can help us both ?
You're already verified, don't steal his thunder
He is as well, and if we can help each other maybe a want a pint and a chin wag ? I am up for it
Mrs: swap the pint for a cider and you've got yourself a date
Im glad i could help you get a date lol so much for me haha
Mrs: hahahaha I'll bring a friend
Yes please
This thread has been moved to another forum"
Why has it been moved? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well im the opposite i cant be arsed meeting so im going for a swim...good luck
Awww I wanna go swimming now!!
Just been and done a mile now im starving!!!
I've just been and broke 1 km for the first time! Chuffed
Thats 40 lengths..well done
Still wanna go swimming!! Mean boys showing off like that!!
Ahhh but ariel you have that gorgeous body and tattoos to show off"
Lol tattoos I have...and have shorts on so most are being shown off today lol...not sure about the other bit tho
Yours looks pretty good tho! |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
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"I am looking for the same so if anyone can help us both ?
You're already verified, don't steal his thunder
He is as well, and if we can help each other maybe a want a pint and a chin wag ? I am up for it
Mrs: swap the pint for a cider and you've got yourself a date
Im glad i could help you get a date lol so much for me haha
Mrs: hahahaha I'll bring a friend
Yes please
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Why has it been moved? "
It's got moved by admin to meet requests. The lounge is for chatting about random shit....not about meets |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well im the opposite i cant be arsed meeting so im going for a swim...good luck
Awww I wanna go swimming now!!
Just been and done a mile now im starving!!!
I've just been and broke 1 km for the first time! Chuffed
Thats 40 lengths..well done"
I did 1050 metres, so just over. Thanks! It's a long way from a mile though! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I am looking for the same so if anyone can help us both ?
You're already verified, don't steal his thunder
He is as well, and if we can help each other maybe a want a pint and a chin wag ? I am up for it
Mrs: swap the pint for a cider and you've got yourself a date
Im glad i could help you get a date lol so much for me haha
Mrs: hahahaha I'll bring a friend
Yes please
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Why has it been moved?
It's got moved by admin to meet requests. The lounge is for chatting about random shit....not about meets "
...and that is why i put in the subject box "am i ok to post this in the lounge?" |
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