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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago
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Personally, I wouldn't go to a house party organised by a single man, unless I knew him very well, or unless I knew several of the other couples/ladies who were going, and we could all go together in a group.
Far too much risk that the 'house party' never materialises, and it's just a single man trying to put pressure on me to play with him. |
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"Personally, I wouldn't go to a house party organised by a single man, unless I knew him very well, or unless I knew several of the other couples/ladies who were going, and we could all go together in a group.
Far too much risk that the 'house party' never materialises, and it's just a single man trying to put pressure on me to play with him. "
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By *parkybunnyCouple
over a year ago
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"Personally, I wouldn't go to a house party organised by a single man, unless I knew him very well, or unless I knew several of the other couples/ladies who were going, and we could all go together in a group.
Far too much risk that the 'house party' never materialises, and it's just a single man trying to put pressure on me to play with him. "
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I would never go .... went to one with my OH as a couple and it was a total disaster ... honestly ranked up there as one of the worst nights of my life .... almost put me off swinging with the attitudes that were there. |
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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago
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"Allways seems to end up with a single guy taking a bashing. The same could be said for couples"
I'm not trying to bash the single guys. In fact, I ONLY meet single guys. I'm just saying that I will always keep control of a situation, for my own safety.
Some unscrupulous single guys (NOT ALL!) will try to find any way of giving themselves an edge. For example, one guy tried to arrange a FMF with me and another women he had never even met, by lying to each of us that he was already FWB with the other one! This is why I would treat any invite from a single guy with caution, even if he said "I've got 5 couples and 3 single ladies already coming", as it might not be true. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We hold house parties and find it hard to find genuine females for house parties. "
You say we, but you don't mention anyone else in your profile? Maybe that's part of the reason?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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If you look at the profile your see 80 verification from couples women and men from previous parties... why shouldn't single guys arrange if they have the house as a venue . many couples and females would rather not have people turning up at there house so the nose neighbours can have a good look ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you look at the profile your see 80 verification from couples women and men from previous parties... why shouldn't single guys arrange if they have the house as a venue . many couples and females would rather not have people turning up at there house so the nose neighbours can have a good look ... "
I don't understand your problem then if you have verifications from genuine single women already ... Don't they do repeat visits? |
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"If you look at the profile your see 80 verification from couples women and men from previous parties... why shouldn't single guys arrange if they have the house as a venue . many couples and females would rather not have people turning up at there house so the nose neighbours can have a good look ...
I don't understand your problem then if you have verifications from genuine single women already ... Don't they do repeat visits? "
Yes, you seem to have got a lot involved ... but then your post is about the difficulties of finding 'genuine females' ... are the ones who have already attended not genuine? What is a genuine versus non genuine female? Are they all actually males in disguise? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Blimey i start a genuine forum and i all get is abuse!!! if you read profile properly 79 verification s over the years.
no people move on and off site.
also i have moved so looking to start at a new area.
it was just a general question.
i wasn't looking to be interrogated.... |
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"Blimey i start a genuine forum and i all get is abuse!!! if you read profile properly 79 verification s over the years.
no people move on and off site.
also i have moved so looking to start at a new area.
it was just a general question.
i wasn't looking to be interrogated.... "
No-one expects the Spanish Inquisition...
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Realistically, OP, if you are looking for genuine single women, wouldn't you expect them to be careful about who and where ... and not have an issue with using this forum to 'advertise' what you have got going on? It's hardly an interrogation ... but why shouldn't it be. For people's safety |
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